₦airaland Forum

Mercychen:
Men??

I pity those who still kill themselves over a man.

You better do something with your life. They ain't worth the troubles.

My peace of mind over relationship brouhaha any time any day.

Ndi Uchu!

efficiencie:
You are likely right. If he has stopped having sex with you then he is most likely already in the process of planning to hurt you badly. First, if all you said about him is true then I wonder where you kept your brain when he was proposing to wed you. Second, if you can slap your husband then I can guess that you are the person provoking your husbands attitude towards you. You are not submissive to your husband. By your own admission, your husband cares for the kids, does his obligations to you financially and before now performs his duties as a lover. Your husband is likely in the top 10% of men globally who don't fool around but your insubordination has provoked his domineering stance towards you. If this is the case you need to swallow your mumu pride and beg him for forgiveness. Beg him to forgive your insubordination and if his behavior does not change within a week, confess all that happened to your parents/pastor/counsellor and ask them to plead on your behalf. Lastly, you will gain nothing from contending with your husband. If you wanted a sparing partner you should have remained single. A real man that believes in protecting, providing, sacrificing and leading his home is the last person you want to fight because it takes an amount of violence in men to be able to protect, provide, sacrifice and lead. You don't want to confront that part of him. Instead of contending with your husband be the woman and conquer on your knees. From my observation of good men, they are easily confused by a submissive wife. Submission makes a real man weak and vulnerable and that is why wise men are wary of those who seek to please them!

BMathew:
Don't waste time to apologise to him. Anever listen to those saying, run for your life.

If you're scared to approach him, you can drop a heartfelt message for him via SMS or possibly WhatsApp. When he's back from work just watch his reaction, if he didn't say anything as early as possible in the morning just go on your knees and beg him and make sure you also tell him how he makes you feel when he do talk you down.
I know he's an intelligent man, he will definitely have a rethink.

Analyst7:
You can help the poor in ur own capacity but ur tithe isn't meant for the poor

Steve0979:
Check DOS defending bello dey are all from ebira tribe

happiness32:
You can't stay in your place and update us with stories you know nothing about. Kogi workers get paid before 28th of every month

Jodha:
My point still remains that....if yhu think yhure a perfect catch because yhu have money then yhure a clown...

ahnie:
Have you ever heard of the word called...MIND YOUR BUSINESS?

Or11:
Who recorded if he flew solo. Something is fishy

deepwater:
lol
this is pettyness of the highest order.
Nigga so poor he needed validation to spend his own money
i would never understand how a grown ass man craves this much of attention when he is just a mere passenger on a plane!!!!


and before you quote me, while jetting out on a PJ seems expensive to some folks.....it is still very much affordable to millions out there!
the disturbing idea is why rubbing it on people faces?

Baronnaire:
I know Africa is not that big on IT BANKING like other Western countries, but some little things like dispense errors should be a thing of the past by now in Nigeria.

That of Zenith Bank has to be studied in Oxford University as is frequently occurs and most often takes ages to be resolved. If its not due to network failure, it will be due to inability to dispense leading to debits.

I am currently battling an ATM dispense with Zenith Bank and it has lasted for almost 2weeks without any resolution in sight.

This is the second time this is happening, first was an Inter-Bank dispense error transaction using my Zenith Bank Card on a Union Bank ATM because Zenith Bank ATMs were out of service. It took over 1 month of persistent complaint, emailing and calling for them to reverse my money. I had to even involve the Consumer Protection Council in the matter. (And they actually responded)

Now less than 2weeks later, another ATM dispense error had occurred. This time its an Intra-Bank transaction (Zenith Card on Zenith Machine) and yet it has been almost 2weeks of daily complaining and I keep getting excuses of the case being investigated.

So my question is, what does it actually take to resolve and reverse an ATM dispense error both Intra and Inter Bank or is it just a case of gross incompetence on the part of the Bank?

Zenith bank is really frustrating customers...

Samfloxin:
It is in his blood. His mom, Prof. Joy Eyisi taught me in Unizik , a very intelligent and meticulous lecturer. She herself was also persecuted in Unizik until she left for University of Abuja. Congratulations my brother.
IGBO NWERE MMADU !!!!
IGBO AMAKA !!!!!

Mercychen:
Imagine. You slapped someone and expects her to be calm? What a warped mentality.

You're lucky she was civil about it. Or would you have preferred she took the laws into her hands and stabbed you with a knife?

Next time you'll think before you slap.