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NaijaRealtor:
1. Right from when she was about three years old, she would always pray for me to make it so she can come stay with me.

2. Been married for like 7 years and we have 3 kids. My wife was on my neck to bring my niece to come stay with us so she can assist with helping to look after the kids once they all return from school.

3. Because I know how many ladies treat children that aren't theirs, I refused to bring my niece over. So after much pressure from my wife, I approached my sister and her husband and pleaded to allow me train her as she'd always prayed.

4. Weeks after her arrival, my wife started complaining about her attitude and stuff. I refused to yield to my wife's suggestions that I take my niece back. It almost caused quarrel between us.

I felt it was too early to judge her. She's just 12 years old.

Her Attitudes:

A. She would fold and keep pants stained with my 1 year old poop in the laundry basket until it starts bringing out maggots, then we would search the whole house for the source of the foul smell until we find it and throw away affected clothes, disinfect the house and all.

B. She, yesterday wiped my 6 years old son with iron buckle on the belt and his head nearly burst open. He complained of severe headache and we are still treating him.

C. Final straw was, while we were in the office today, my 6 years old started to throw up. He was sick. This girl just laid on the couch and instructed a 6 years old to go fetch the broom, mopping stick and packer to clean the mess.

My son was very weak, but he went to fetch these items and cleaning the vomit. Because he was very sick, he kept on throwing up and cleaning at the same time. All these while, this girl laid there relaxing until my wife came home and washed my son up and cleaned the floor.

When I came back this evening and learnt about the stuff, I quietly asked her why she'd behaved like that and she said it was nothing.

I really don't know whether to let her stay while I try to coach her or take her back to her parents.

I seriously need advice.

Sorry for the long epistle.

Kobicove:
I am from Anambra State and I can tell you authoritatively that we do not eat dogs!

Kuginzi:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/09/why-i-have-a-fleet-of-private-jets-bishop-oyedepo-reveals/amp/

Ningishzida:
Christianity; the religion of texts copied from Sumerian Tablets, used by the Europeans to enslave the dumbest among humans.
I can't believe I used to shun worshipping the God's of my ancestors because my early child hood religious brainwashing made me afraid that a White man in some heaven will reward/punish me.
To hell with every Abrahamic religions and the division they have created for humans.
Pastors can worship the God's of their ancestors and keep scamming the mugus who believe a White man is watching over them from Heaven. Abrahamic religious people are Creatures, not conscious enough to be considered Beings, therefore, they should be treated as such.

braine:
Lol.

Many of these pastors are traditionalists and deity worshipers. Some are politicians and delve into all kinds of things.

A lot of them use "Church" to cover up.

motymop:
If i was the man.

I will come back to Nigeria, block every contact about her and be the best version of myself.

Usefulsense:
This is my story. Please advice.

I sent my wife to Australia in 2021 on student visa.

She has invited us, myself and our children aged 12 and 9 and our visa is out. I have also paid like 6 months fees for my children school which was a requirement for the visa.

Owing to her performance at her work place, the company she works for has promised to sponsor for PR. Infact, the process just began and we are sure of having the PR.

I am currently 48 and won't be able to support my family working in Nigeria. Wify has encouraged me that we will be fine that abroad is meant for 2 people.

My only constraint is my age, hence my question. If you are in my shoe, will you travel?

By the way, I work for a private firm here in Nigeria and you know what it is working for a family company.

babyboy4every1:
What did Russian athletes also did wrong when fifa banned every Russians from sport activities? I condemned this act from iran if the story is true but, the west caused most of this things.

jmoore:
This man is a pastor, his daughter got married and relocated to UK.

His wife went for omugo in the UK and have stayed up to 9 months. The daughter has told her mom to return home but she has refused. She got a cleaning job in the neighbourhood. The pastor is contemplating on taking a 2nd wife.

Kentuforchrist:
They will still qualify

Chizzy7890:
I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.

Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.

My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.

I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.

I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.

So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,

Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ?

safarilove:
All this former french colonies too get liver..first Niger, now Gabon.
And their suffering levels no reach wetin we dey endure for here oo..

seedord247:
Jbl 5.1 surround sound bar 250k


08135571636

LeJeun3:


Landrover 2008 LR3....



I will suggest you went for then Toyota Camry 2010.

Onefornaija24:
My primary school mate just got convicted in the USA for 36 months.

It had to do with money laundering, aza man issues about 200k USD.

He has a green card but not a citizen.

He has been in the USA since 2017.

He has 2 kids he gave birth to there with naija wife.


He impregnated an akata, akata oyibo woman gave birth while he was in prison because he was already in detention till the court conviction last week.


WILL HE BE DEPORTED after serving his jail terms?

anonymous1759:
You’re just fabricating ideas to justify your criticism.
The entire world is leaving petro in few years so oil might be useless if Nigeria do not make alternatives for the future you’ll still be the one to complain that the government lacks foresight allow government do their thing it’s not by force to use CNG you can stick with your petro in peace without criticizing other things.

Creamypie:
Oversabi.

mainman7:
I've said it before and I'm saying it again.
Nigeria will never go to War with Niger. France better find an amicable way to settle with them as our African Brothers.

Intelligent People know that the deceitful IPOB Media have been the ones posting things to paint President Tinubu bad! Always trying to Create Enemity where there is non. Look at how so hard they have been concocting Satanic Deceiful Stories over Stories in their demonic Frantic Efforts to Push Northerners against Yorubas, look at how the shouted that Tinubu wants to Fight Niger because they are HausasFulanis only for Emir of Sokoto and Abdulsalami to Prove them wrong by showing that Tinubu urged them to use all brotherly means to settle with the Coup Plotters. Look at how they jubilated all over the Internet saying Atiku and Kwakwanso are now partnering against the Great President Tinubu, only for Kwankwaso to pay allegiance Homage Visit to the Great President Yesterday.
Then I started seeing them here saying "Smmsh.. all Politicians are the same! Kwakwansho is as Corrupt as Tinubu, etc."

Come to think of it, that Kwakwasho Guy is the next President of Nigeria. Doubters should go and write Today's date down. The guy is just so wise that he knows Tinubu is a Promise Keeper come rain come shine. He has seen that if he could get the visionary President Tinubu to Promise to hand over Power to him after his 8 Years, Tinubu shall surely do so. And from all indications, just like Tinubu unpolluted Muslim Faith that respects Sanctity of Human Life Kwakwasho is not a wicked Blooth-thirsty Man that would encourage killing of Non-Muslims like Buhari and El'Rufai did. So, Tinubu is Guaranteed to Happily Hand over Presidency to him because both of them have proven with their Governorship Era that they both Prioritize Development of all Nigerians and Nigeria without allowing themselves to be turn into Beasts that encourage wanton Slaughtering of Human Lives under myopic claim of being Muslims. They have Proves that being a Muslim doesn't make one a senseless Killer and Anti-Humanity Beasts as we witnessed from the past Administration.

Because of what I noticed about these 2 Great Men, I myself have started paying in Muslim way, bowing to our Creator because it is in the Bible.
If this Partnership between Kwakwasho and Tinubu continues, then it is 1Million % Guaranteed that Kwakwansho is the next President of Nigeria. He has outsmarted Atiku and Obi already in Recognizing the Greatest Value of Ashiwaju as a Deal-Keeper that never deceives those that Aligns with him.

If he rewarder Gadunje that he shouldn't(even Gadunje Kano People rose to prevent Gadunje's elevation to APC Chairmanship) despite the Uproar, don't you think he would do everything and anything for Kwakwansho who he loves so much? Tinubu was so impressed about the Development of Kano that Kwakwansho did as Governor, which made him to Love him so much ever since then. He knows Nigeria would experience Greater Development just like Lagos did after he handed over to Fashola. Henceforth, when you see Kwakwansho, say a Bigger "Your Excellency!" because you are seeing Nigeria's next President!

EwuuGambia:
I'm already doing that here on Nairaland.