TV/Movies › Re: How To Participate In 'Who Wants To Be A Millionaire' New Series by BarrElChapo(m): 4:23pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
Jeremy Clarkson is better  |
Career › Re: My Sister Seeks Your Advice by BarrElChapo(m): 4:16pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
Khaleepha5681: She has her own dream. But she is young and little crazy.
We don't want her to jeopardize her future. That's fine. Guidance is important but let her have a say no matter how little. |
Romance › Re: My Experience With My Jehovah Witness Lover . by BarrElChapo(m): 4:06pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
adetula148: There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness.
We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends.
You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them.
Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends . Going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself.
Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.
Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working.
So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work . We spend 2 months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together .
Like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her .
She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" .
Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .
Here is my question, why are witness like this ?
This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste?
So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast .
Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on.
I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do.
Do have a nice day . JWs dont marry non jws and obviously she wasn't ready to fight for you. Stay on your current job but Man up and move on |
Romance › Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by BarrElChapo(m): 4:01pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
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Career › Re: My Sister Seeks Your Advice by BarrElChapo(m): 3:59pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
Khaleepha5681: My sister is writing her JAMB this year.
Here is her Waec result.
English: C4 Maths:B3 Chemistry: B2 Physics: C5 Biology:C4 Islamic:B3 Yoruba:C4 Civic:B2 Animal Husbandry: C4
Which course is best for her? Doesn't she have any dreams and aspirations of hers ?  |
TV/Movies › Re: Selina Tested: What's Your Favorite Slangs From The YouTube Series? by BarrElChapo(m): 2:09pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
dewitt: Abeg who is Selina Joe Biden's baby mama |
Business › Re: Frauds In Banks And Banks In Fraud by BarrElChapo(m): 12:52pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
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Travel › Re: A Story Of How I Got Deported From Canada(pictures) by BarrElChapo(m): 12:19pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
Mafo  |
Properties › Re: Please What Is Happening With Nigeria And Rent Issues? by BarrElChapo(m): 12:00pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
edydamsel: I think necessary action should be taken by appropriate authority to save the masses. My rent expire December and my landlord gave January to pack. I can't find a place affordable for me.give me two weeks more the man is dragging me to court How did you pay your rent ? Monthly ? If no then look at the notice to quit if it isnt either 3 or 6 months then let him take you to court but if your tenancy agreement is for a FIXED TERM then theres nothing you can do really. |
Properties › Re: Please What Is Happening With Nigeria And Rent Issues? by BarrElChapo(m): 11:47am On Feb 07, 2022 |
DEBUU: In southeast, it's a bit different atleast you can get self con 65k to 70k per year. I got 3bedroom flat in Obosi 192k last year though it's an old but very neat and spacious. The sitting room is another two rooms on it's own. It Come awka with that money and you go stay for student lodge for ifite |
Sports › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Receives New Car From Georgina For His 37th Birthday by BarrElChapo(m): 11:27am On Feb 07, 2022 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Frank Edoho Returns For Who Wants To Be A Millionaire TV Show, ₦20m Up For Grabs by BarrElChapo(m): 11:07am On Feb 07, 2022 |
The organizers should have refreshed like they did by appointing Jeremy Clarkson. |
Romance › Re: What's Your Plan B If Nobody Marries You? by BarrElChapo(m): 11:37am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Keep living my best life |
Crime › Re: Cultism: Rival Lagos Schoolboys Clash In Meiran by BarrElChapo(m): 10:47am On Feb 06, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Constitution Amendment: NASS Splits Minister Of Justice From AGF by BarrElChapo(m): 10:45am On Feb 06, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: Blood Money: Nigerians Worried As Ritualists Take Over Major Cities by BarrElChapo(m): 10:34am On Feb 06, 2022 |
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Family › Re: What Kind Of Sister Is This? by BarrElChapo(m): 10:27am On Feb 06, 2022 |
9jayes: What are you guys saying, d age difference between my wife I is 31 years. I married her at dat same age nd we're still happily married till date after 20+ years. God will I will marry another one(18-22 year old) when I clock 70. Fool |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Once Turned You Down For Your Best Friend? by BarrElChapo(m): 2:45am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Viltron: It's a little long.
A girl I loved so much in our first year in uni. I was caring and all. She turned me down then in the most brutal way - with stern warnings never to try such rubbish again.
I took it like a man and even pleaded for her to forget it lets continue our friendship since we were on the same course and partners.
We were in the same city but she never visited me once. But I use to go to her place
On my birthday she didn't show up.
I went to see her along with my best friend then, who was studying in a different state, and one other friend. Gave her good money to cook. We ate.
Months later, I discover she and my best friend had been seeing each other since our meeting. To the point she'd been traveling to see him before things turned sour between them
When I discovered, she's started apologizing and begging, crying how she'd like us to date. By this time I was no longer in the school - I had changed uni. To a different state.
More than 10 years on, she's still professes love to me and wishes I marry her, but I made a vow to myself never to have anything to do with her after she and my best friend betrayed me.
Now she and my friend are sworn enemies
If you were in my shoes, what would you do. Do you think you can trust her. Do you still love her to the point where her past indiscretion will not be an issue |
Politics › Re: President Buhari In Bilateral Meeting With State Of Palestine (Photos) by BarrElChapo(m): 2:33am On Feb 06, 2022 |
What does Palestine have to offer us bikonu  cos I didnt see any mention of business in the post |
Family › Re: Help! My Crush Is A Ritualist And His Family Are Aware by BarrElChapo(m): 9:03pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Its not really your concern so why do you need help ? |
Celebrities › Re: Photo Of Comedian Real Warri Pikin And Her Mum Who Could Pass For Her Sister by BarrElChapo(m): 7:28pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
HRMK: YES,HELL IS THE RIGHT PLACE FOR U AND MY AGE GROUP IN UR FAMILY!WHOSE FAULT IS UR BAD MANNERS!UR DAD,MUM OR YOU?HOW OLD ARE UR PARENTS THAT AV MISCREANT FOR A CHILD!UR PREGNANCY SHULD AV BN ABORTED RATHER THAN BN A NUISANCE TO THE MASSES!I WONDER WHY UR THE ONLY CHAP TO RESPOND TO MY COMMENT!ITS NOT EVERYONE ON THE PLATFORM THAT IS UR AGEMATE!SOME ARE AS OLD AS UR GRANDPARENTS IN THE VILLAGE,FAR FROM CIVILISATION!! Hello ancestor wannabe stfu and die away if your tired of living cos you're a liability. |
Celebrities › Re: Photo Of Comedian Real Warri Pikin And Her Mum Who Could Pass For Her Sister by BarrElChapo(m): 2:00pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
HRMK: am i speaking for lazy and anything goes boys?no!am speaking for matured men!u shuld know where u belong btw the two!good day!! Oga shut the hell up abeg. Foolish fvk ,,, |
Celebrities › Re: Photo Of Comedian Real Warri Pikin And Her Mum Who Could Pass For Her Sister by BarrElChapo(m): 1:52pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
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Travel › Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by BarrElChapo(m): 1:32pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Hi All,
I have two younger siblings who I'm encouraging to try the US for their masters program.
The older is a 1st class graduate, a chartered accountant and a lecturer in a federal university.
While the other is a chemical engineer with an above 4point cgpa currently on her nysc program.
Pls can I get ideas on how they should apply to schools so as to get fully funded scholarships
Thanks ,,, |
Family › Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by BarrElChapo(m): 11:44am On Feb 05, 2022 |
Goldbw122: He doesn't want you to get pregnant.. may be he has another wife and kids somewhere else and he just want to keep you as a side chick. Sorry. Arrant nonsense you typed there  |
Celebrities › Re: Rihanna Shows Off Baby Bump In New Photos by BarrElChapo(m): 7:08am On Feb 04, 2022 |
Mercychen: Baby boy on da way. My spirit just hinted me now. Yeye  |
Sports › Re: 18-Year-Old Silas Nwankwo Joins Swedish Football Club, Mjällby AIF by BarrElChapo(m): 7:04am On Feb 04, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Okorocha: Buhari Has Promised To Take Up My EFCC Case by BarrElChapo(m): 7:01am On Feb 04, 2022 |
Zombie  |
Celebrities › Re: Seyi Shay: I Knew About Rihanna's Pregnancy Since Last Year by BarrElChapo(m): 5:42pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
And so ITK  |
Family › Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by BarrElChapo(m): 11:38am On Feb 02, 2022*. Modified: 1:50pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Dear younger sis.
Even if you do want to keep the baby which I support. Pls forget about marriage for now and go get a university education. At 21 you still have the opportunity to make something out of life irrespective of the current situation as you have parents who are willing to train you. Love is not sex and sex isn't love. Sex is primarily for procreation. Can you picture you at 30 no education and probably with 3kids, would this be an ideal life for you or better still what is your plan if you drop out and move in with your bf and his family? ) |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Saw Ielts, Toefl And Immigration Apps On My Phone by BarrElChapo(m): 10:14am On Jan 31, 2022 |
CriticMaestro: So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.
She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.
It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable. Sorry oh. |
Politics › Re: Who Is Afraid Of Imaan Sulaiman-ibrahim? by BarrElChapo(m): 8:36pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
Sensie: Please who has an idea of British Council? I need urgent help What kind of help do you need |