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faste:
Oprah winfrey was sexually abused,look at what she has becomed!

BlowYourMind:
The principal was suspended the very first day the matter was raised.
The woman is evil looking for unnecessary publicity, what measure has she taken in house with the school board members before unnecessary outburst, she should have seek redress with the school management before going public, I even heard that the state superintendent in Deeper Life, an old man came kneeling down for her in the hospital. I guess that was what really made the commissioner so bitter against her, the woman is evil.


For those quoting me, read objectively and with open mindedness before coming to spew trash, the woman failed woefully in her parentage, how can she be the last to pick her child from school, a mother that her child have gone for 13 weeks, should be enthusiastic to have her child back home.

Franchise21:
4 years course go turn 6 years course and these our companies go dey find 2:1 graduates not more than 22years of age

g4gerald:
Am sure the visiting part was wat u saw nd then clicked on the story, the other room aspect was wat u saw later

Jotrade:
Merry xmas

MiracleMe7:
This is my Christmas Chicken... The Chicken is already singing "Noel" inside the pot. � �
I enjoyed this Christmas! Thank you, God.
Please can you guess how much I bought this chicken?
A correct guess will get the � of 2021

Funkyswagzz:
Hmmm that girl get mind I swear.. there must be a reason y she acted that way without being scared of you. I think she felt u are cool and u won't get angry over it. She tested u by sayin how tough her mum is to her but u waved it off. Talk to her in a respectful manner so she won't develop hatred for u

Generalwoodz:
Nlanders let's do this here

If it's Right For the Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In the House? Click LIKE
.if you think otherwise i.e it's morally wrong Click SHARE

Ulunne777:
Only Nigerian parents will want you not to have a boyfriend but later present a fiance to them .
The only thing you should be angry with is both being in the room for hrs instead of the sitting room to avoid temptation.

In my dating days, I always told my chykers to visit at home. It sieved the serious from the unserious and the former would go on to meet my mum who'd quiz them. We stayed in the living room to gist and my siblings would join the discussion too. If there's an outing, come and inform my parents.

It is better than she going to meet them at hotels or where you don't know which could result to something else.

Let's do things right. She's 22 and an adult. Talk to her like someone looking out for her

crackhaus:
Some elements of your story OP are not tying up properly for me...


1. Your niece is bold enough to invite her boyfriend over to your house without prior notice.
2. She's also bold enough to introduce him as her boyfriend to your face.
3. And then the ultimate display of boldness was to lead him to her bedroom where they spent three hours.

How? Why?

Na wah oo...
It feels as if you're the visitor in that house and she's the owner, because that's the only way any of this will make sense.

Okay let's go with it for a minute and assume this is all for real, why is your wife stopping you from talking?
You have a right to be upset, you have a right to lash out... this is not something you should be afraid to step on toes for.

As a matter of fact, it is YOUR duty to call your niece to order... NOT your wife's duty.
The girl is your niece, your own relative...
Whatever you do to reprimand her will be taken more lightly since you're her uncle by blood. Don't even let your wife be the one to chook mouth because the niece can go report her and twist it to make your wife appear like the bad person.

Just imagine, she say she want to counsel her gently... Lol
Pikin wey nor get respect for her host family.
You should drag her ears well well sef, I'm sure her parents will thank you for it.

Karleb:
Nothing wrong with her boyfriend visiting her IMO. But I'd never allow them go into the room together if I were you.

Whatever they can't do in the sitting room must remain undone.

Pearly255:
Less than 2%


Trying to lose weight on a serious note

pretydiva:
What's so special??

EXLOVER:
Frontpage and trending things on Nairaland now is Onions and Snake.

Oh i miss those days of cleavage or massive boobs

Microwhy:
The guy is very foolish and immature. His comment are just too annoying. He probably grew up without a father else he would understand principle and how home/ family operate.

RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.


You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.


YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.

I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.

There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.

Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.


7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.


Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.


Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money




Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.


You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.



There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.


It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful.

Chii59:
Well you're not God so shut up and sit down.