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FreeMejoor1:
Well i just met this girl who truly loves me but i dont love her cause we have never met but it all feels like shit each time i try to force myself into loving her..it a long distance relationship..should i hold unto her or leave her..

What's the point. I don't see any reason why guys just create emotional confusion

And give ladies impression that all guys are out for the hit

I don't think this your pattern is cool
Whatsathmata

Ok

Evolve

geedee4real:
Not all relationship bro, no sensible guy will leave a supportive gf that was there for him when things were rough!

You are right.

But you see support is relative. No matter how much support you get from a person you still never forget how they gave it.

Have you seen how people with rich parents who would have nothing without their parents talk down these same parents even after all the support.

No matter how supportive you are to a person ensure you have their hearts.


Guys s***x ladies for years only to show up with another girl and call the former one a slit... Why

Ladies get sponsored by a guy through school and she come up to marry someone else.... why

It goes beyond allowing him into your pants

It goes beyond giving out support.

donbachi:
Jack ma sent us medical donations over the tune of 6.6million dollars..him no sleep any of our women...c'mon 200naira wey u give person daughter,u wan nak am..heart of charity is wat u lack.

Guy

Guy

You just wiped away all the boredom from my mind and made me lol

Contrary to general belief



Not all guys ate hit and run

And not all guys just want to take it not minding where it's from

Beautiful ladies may be proud it's normal. Once everyone admires you including your female friends you become choosy


The average looking lady is much more open to discussion and not choosy like the beauty queen with lots of attention.

She remembers to check in on him and all

He feels she has the wife qualities he requires.


But come to think of it.

The beauty queen does have the qualities too just that everyone checks on her so she doesn't see why she should check on anyone. The attention blinds her and makes he loose out.


Funny enough

The guy who choose the average looking lady is one of the numerous admirers of the beauty queen.... One of those who will ensure she remains single with sweet words that have no roots.

It's of no consequence

You'll find someone who would indulge you.

Marry the bestie instead.

Why would she be coming

Tell her to wait till she has a formal right to the house.

Don't bite what you can't chew

osec007:
I don't know what she broke because my own internet is not broken

Guy you wan finish me with laugh

Talk to him.

Many guys have varying opinion of ladies looking it acting up around them

Experience has made many weak

But for the goons who will jump at you even if you ain't into them.

Some will pay low for the sake of their.....

Very easy...
When you see him pass by say hello, as little as your voice may be... He will hear.

In a while you'll be chasing him away....

You saw it coming

We were not called at when the fun was high and the enjoyment was deep

Now we have to worry how to fix the mess misplaced joy has brought...

sexylassie2:
So every positive, it is his mother

Every negative, it is another girl

Correct

DamonSalvatore:
i am quoting the answer..

Gold digging opportunistic broke hoes...

Like Afro.knight said.. A hoe can turn you from a billionaire to a millionaire

I agree but won't sit back till they come for you.

Out

sexylassie2:
So Who is behind every unsuccessful man?

Is it his mother too.

I am waiting to hear the answer

His bae or string of chicks

AfroKnight:
97% true



Also, I read this somewhere:



Can a woman make you a millionaire? Yes... only if you’re a billionaire.

You get sense

It's just funny

Ladies may not agree

But we see it daily.... They just tend to pick the ones we feel we are better than.

Flip side

What other services, treat or goodies do the guys who treat them like trash offer that you don't have. That's what outweighs your good treatment.

Ok

What type of promotion are we looking at.

Thanks

Mercy
Marcy

Walk away

Focus on your life and make other friends.

Too many decent ladies out there lately... No need rolling on the rug to please one

Your profile says you are female and you are making the demands a man would make.


Whatever you end up doing don't forget you can't eat your cake and keep it.


In 10-20 years time other people will be in 300l and you may not be able to bear the damage.....

When you are at the receiving end.

Men with purpose must be careful not to be trapped by you

You ain't in no trap

You are the Trap

Magnoliaa:
As in, I wonder what people do in courtship/dating and the kind of values they take into a marriage.

What's in marriage if not communication? Every 'small' issue is brought online.

It's as if no one grows into adulthood anymore.

You share my tots.

Even breakups now happen online..... Couples share their pain and hurts online, as against sitting in their bedroom and resolving issues.

These relationships must have been the Bleep filled ones with zero communication, built on fantasies and lies......


But as for the OP.... He should get to work on talking to his wife, he is in it already.... Only the right way will fix things

Even entrepreneurs employ staff at some point.

Entrepreneurship isn't for all.

The call has made lots of people miss their parts in life

It's messy business I tell you

This is a pointer to how messy it can and would be later later in future.

Every smart person ought to learn now.....

I think I see just one lesson.


Being friends isn't enough

Being romantic and showing all the stuffs social media counts as love isn't enough

Know who you are dating
Study them
Try them

See how they act and relate with friends, coworkers etc.

Don't love like a blind rat.

At least remember that when hearts are broken it goes beyond emotions..... The mind is also hurt.

So why love without the mind (intellect) in the first instance

What did you guys discuss before marriage

And what effect is our opinions going to have on your marriage or your wife.

Something's are better spoken about before marriage.