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What one considers is a function of his values and likes.


Men don't all see ladies same way.

Why would you want to tell if she is

In most cases the men interested have lost theirs already

Most times a lot of lines have been crossed unknowingly


So even if you genuinely want to leave it becomes difficult

It's just beyond the regular reasoning

Hahahah

Sometimes I wonder

Donald3d:
Bartork

Not in all cases

I agree with you

[quote author=Donald3d post=89459771]Circle of venom ? Because he chooses to spend his life with someone he thinks is worth it ?

In this case, he actually knew her first.

If you worked for company A and they sacked you. Would you refuse to work with company B offering you a place on the board/ a lifetime opportunity, just because company A has shares in company B ?

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I get your point. If it's real then it's OK.

But why fall for a lady or guy who's been with someone you know.

In most cases even if it real and the initial was fake. It still hurts and may give room for ...stuffs

EtssehEsse:
Thanks really, but I did state what I studied up there, I keep pushing out cv to no avail. Now, I just want to get busy at least until nysc calls, staying home is killing me..
I had to state give some details, perhaps I'd get something close by and my number so I could be reached. As for "them boys", they'd only end up wasting their time..

Sorry

I get you and have seen your course of study.

PuZZyNegro:
Your advice is good but what do you take boys/men for?

Girls phone numbers are everywhere on the internet. It's only a jobless man that picks phone numbers and start calling an unknown person

Well you know what I mean. Don't misunderstand me.

You'll never change someone who doesn't want to change.

It's a self propelled act.

If it's not from within then it's temporal and may be deceitful

EtssehEsse:
Good day everyone, pls I'm in earnest need of a job. I'm a fresh graduate of mass com awaiting results and service. Been trying to secure one but nothing is coming up.
I urgently need a job at least to be able to take care of my daily needs, this whole lockdown wahala is sickening. I wouldn't even mind menial jobs, (cleaning, laundry etc) anything as long as its legit, I just need to fend for myself..
I can be reached via- 08130465044, I stay in Lagos, Ketu precisely.

You'll get a good job. Keep sending out your CV all...


I know you may be down. But you can get the best of you keep your hopes up.

All the best


Modified version

I don't know why I don't agree with this type of love.

Friends of freinds
Ex-this or that
Siblings
Etc

In most cases it starts out as lust or disrespect or jealousy.

Seriously we have too many beautiful and available ladies. Creating a circle of venom isn't cool.

I just don't get it.

I still don't get this follow follow lines.

Once it's done it's done

If people had stuffs to do and they take relationships seriously then when together they stay put, no matter the circumstances.

And when the breakup they both know it's the best and move on.

I sense deep hatred from a dead conscience...

These acts have succeeded in branding men bad.

After 2 years

What's wrong with moving on.
What happened to making new friends and growing.

A lot can happen in 2months

He is better off without you.

And if you'll walk away the both of you will get better partners and the knowledge from this FAILED FREINDSHIP will help.

Let him go

Lead us well OP

JOBgame:
i had tried yoruba,hausa,igbo,igala,idoma,ijaw,tiv,efik,tsekiri,margi girls but all are heart break&love peddler please is there any other tribe

You list is long

You need a break not another poor heart

Durentt:
Please respond

Even if you cut it off the urge will persist

It's from the mind..... Work on your mind....and get a legitimate partner.

Unions were created to ease the urge

No burn am ooooo, he no go pay you, instead train it to follow you will and teach it how to work well. So every legitimate encounter will be memorable

I don't think that's true

Men marry who they love, they marry truth, they marry submission, and in recent times they marry brilliance

So educated or not, if the lady is loveable, trustworthy, brilliant and submissive

Men will chase her

Nosocialskills:
I'm asking because I have zero personality and all the men that come to me are actually just womanizers that go after everything in skirt or street guys that I can't relate with. I'm not ugly but plain I admit. No make up or sophistication. But I can't do anything about that for now.
How do I develop a great personality, not just to meet good guys but also to be an interesting person generally ?

Read

Consciously build your inner circle of friends.

Watch great movies and take note of how great minds mingle

Most times we attract based on what we reflect.

And don't worry about the past or hang on to people just to please them or get accepted

Walk high and tall

I hope it helps

divadot:
Hello good morning,please what does it mean to dream that someone sent you to withdraw money from the bank, I had a dream that a man friend of mine asked me to go and help him to withdraw money from the bank a very huge amount of money but when I got there I entered the bank but they told me they have closed so I wasn’t able to withdraw the money, so I went back, please do you know what this means, I wasn’t thinking about the man before I slept and we never had any discussion about money before.
Thank you.

Pray

Pray

Pray

Stay awake more often

Else all eyes your day dreams will make you begin to feel the government isn't doing much. Or you may resign from your current job for reasons best understood by your dreams.


Hahahahah

Relax bro

Somethings will never change

bigpriik:
Hmmm wonderful

This your name hehnnn

Staying true to one's path irrespective of challenges.

I'll have held on much more if I could see now.

The speed and access would have been affected much more

Toyorsih:
Can't really remember which one...

Thanks I'll check out both

I don't intend to bash people with swinging moods.

But what's bad is bad.

As we grow and get into relationships we must work on ourselves and not allow our partners see and capitalize on the weakness in our attitudes or character.

A nagging,unstable guy or lady is a mess anyday, and you won't want to be on a team with them let alone build a life with them.


Most times mood swings come from troubled minds and in most cases material things trouble those minds.


If you ain't loaded yet abeg leave her. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Tenaj:
Can I like this more than once?? ����

Smiles

Keketu:
Hi guys I have noticed this even on nairaland, please why do girls lose interest when you are poor and don't reply pm ?

Being poor is a state of mind. Even if you are rich some ladies will still ignore your pm.

No one is actually poor

It's just a phase

The fact is that both sex have a sizable number of just do it over and over team. The ones who whatever we say on do here won't affect. They are goons

Ones who will give the world to get it and then off they go for another catch.

So it's not about men wanting careers, lots of ladies are career bound too and they do well.

In fact many men want careers foe the sake of hitting IT or hitting new versions of IT, the more wealthy the more options of ladies they can hit on.


You'll see lots of threads here that say to men, make money and you'll get lots of IT