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food for thought, thats why i voted for you to lead the yorubas in nairaland.

chindi: I wonder y u guyz alwayz want kisses, smooching or sex in exchange 4 what u've done 4 a gurl. This is one gud reason I stopped collecting anytin frm guyz, anyway, I wsnt even demanding type. But guyz, spending spree on a gurl doesn't mean she owe u kisses and sex o! Abi she 4ce d money frm u?

nne come to my room i want you to see something u might like

bright007: wat is sex before marriage?

knacking kpacus before marriage or morrocoing before marriage or ila otu tupu agba akwukwo

LeJeun3: Love this thread!
I'm honest to a fault. So once my honest best isn't good enough shooo of U go.

By d way what is Pre-marital sex anyway??

sex before marriage

REMMEI: . .
Like seriously,met this pweetie doll bout two weeks ago..she came ta ma house we had a good time,the next day she gave me a ring telling me she need ta move from her home ta the main campus and she needed ta buy some provisions like tea,milk,oatmeal,soaps etc..i was like wtf?. . . Some galz can be damn demanding and materialistic..

i pity your life, how much doesit cost to get it for her, if she is a pweetie doll like u claimed then u shud have no problem doing it for her.

i nominate musiwa

one thing for sure is neither the north or southwest wil produce the president in 2015 , its either GEJ continues or southeast will produce the next president ,who wants to bet.

liars, nigerian guys go for light skinned girls thats why they wont let igbo,efik ibibio and half cast girls rest, who are u all deceiving , mumus

chino11: This is the type of barbaric, visionless, clueless governor only exist in yorubaland. Imagine a state as poorer than any state in Somalia venturing into a clownish project.

This is the best Yoruba party ACN can offer its people.

o boy u pass me well well

Metalgoong: On a second thought, I think this yoruba man you described is not a DEVIL as you painted him in your post- no grown ass man would go through all the wedding process, and stress involved, and suddenly starts demanding for divorce after three weeks of marriage.I think your Ex husband's sudden change in behavior must have been influenced by some of your BAD behaviors which he didn't notice when you guys were courting. In as much as I love my Igbo sisters, there are still many arrogant, brash, stubborn, and uncultured ones amongst you all.

I'm sure,you being a stubborn Eko bred Igbo girl, you went against you parents advice and went ahead to marry a polygamous yoruba man who you might have considered more ROMANTIC that igbo dudes . . lol.

In conclusion, I think you can still find TRUE LOVE only if you turn a NEW LEAF, but it is unlikely to be with Igbo dudes you overlooked during your prime years. Peace!

i agree with you , some of our igbo girls especially the lagos brought up ones can be something else, the most disturbing thing about failed intertribal marriages is what becomes of the baby boy , will he be an igbo man or a yoruba man .if his father is igbo he can always go back to his roots but in this scenerio whats going to happen to him, i just tire for these girls they need to start using their head and listen to their parents cus i know igbo parents will always kick against intertribal marriage cus they know better than us.

alj harem: I don't understand why my Igbo brothers are just insulting the yorubas like this just because of 1 fail marriage out of millions ?

Her husband was wrong to have done that it has nothing to do with east or yoruba, It has to do with individuals and the human nature.

Please my eastern brothers, take it easy o !!

ok sorry for the insult but every body should face their front, the number of heart broken igbo single women is increasing and its not funny , there are more yoruba women than igbo women so theres is no reason why a yoruba man should marry an igbo woman except for decoration.

fresh_dude: Erm I think this justifies my opinion on your 'liberal'and barbaric family. @Afam, too far? I think not, there's no difference(in principle) between disowning and blasting off an intermarrier. Liberal my arse. Gerrout all of you, please quickly mop up your ibo sisters from the market abeg make we see front.

why are you panting , have yoruba women finished, after messing up yoruba women up you want to extend it to the few gullible igbo women especially those brought up in lagos , abeg face your ethnic group, you people have made marriage a joke in nigeria thats why nobody wants to near yorubas when it comes to marriage.

OilSubsidy: @OP, You can. But you will have to lower your expectation like someone rightly said. The guy will probably be divorced himself or from another non-ibo tribe as it is very rare to find single ibo men marrying single mothers. Even if they want to their family will always kick against. Except you live abroad though where everything and anything goes as per marriage. Here you can find single guys married to woman with seven kids from different fathers . Of course most likely na for the papers.

definitely its hard for young single igbo men to marry divorcees even more impossible if she was married to a non igbo when they are million of young fresh beautiful and well brought up igbo women in the east. igo women stop making mockery of yourselves.

afam4eva: All the Igbo sisters i know that married Yoruba men are divorced. Does this say anything?

my brother the rate these igbo girls that marry yorubas end up as divorcees is alarming. i will prefer and ijaw man or other eastern tribes than these yporubas who just see igbo women as some form of trophy or rize that must be achieved , anway na their headache be dat we still have enough igbo women to go round.

cugresources: Tribe, Religion and Culture are important factors to consider before choosing a life partner, but probably you ignored it, and mostly its Ibo people that always do that big mistake of jumping to marry any tribe they come by just because they have liberal minds, which is not same with other tribes. next time, be watchful of tribe, religion, culture and family background, they are very vital, because such things are what shapes a man or woman in life. there are chances you may find husband again, but I must be honest with you that it is very thin in Nigeria, so be very careful of fakers. discrimination of been-tos, yes of course it exist here in Nigeria, we are Africans, thats why as a girl u have to look very well before u leap in Nigerian scenario. like a poster rightly said: if you must stand a chance of finding love again, if at all possible, then you must lower your expectations and desires in a man. The guy is scary though, what a man, abandoned his own son too, Ibos cannot do that I bet you. Ibos love their children more than any other tribe in Nigeria. So make wise choice next time, but trust more in God and do tell Him all your troubles with faith and don't take all men as same, cos there are more good men in Nigeria, if you stay wise! Goodluck!

God bless u , its mostly female delta igbos and igbos that where brought up outside the east that do that, they never listen , when shit hits the fans they come and start crying thats when their eye open .i wonder why their parents even allow them to go on such suicide mission.

Logic Mind: hahahahaha!

no wonder this country is in deep shiit. oily soup madness.

this is how they produced obasanjo as presdent and akintola and awolowo and tinubu.always moving backward.notice that each yoruba leader is always worse than the previous one.

ndi igbo moved on a long time ago hence their being the most educated and wealthiest , when will other move on especially those from the far north and far west

see wetin unemployment and underemployment dey cause

simple election yorubas cant organise, see list of candidates hehehehehhehe epic fail , ekoile , dayokanu negro nuts oh my


there are only 2 people that qualify , ekt bear and musiwa, these are the only 2 intelligent yorubas here the rest are dummies . you might as make aljharem yoruba leader

musiwa is the only real yorubaman in politics section.

Andre Uweh: The best University in Nigeria-Unibadan is western Nigeria.
Unibadan is also the first university in Nigeria.It is in western Nigeria.

its not the best neither is iit the first , the first university is the university of nigeria , as for the best university , federal govt of nigeria are yet to publish official ranking on that so stop throwing false information all over the place.

CyberG: ^^ Association of LOSERS! Ha! Don't bring this your efulefuism to America, just stay back in your village! The war finished in 1970 yet in 2012 people are still crying despite every graciousness that you received. Ha! Forget it, even at your useless death Nigeria will still be here! However, should you think you have a point to prove, the rematch is still open NOW. If you don't have the balls and liver to fight, stop wasting time on useless civil war threads.

Someone is complaining that Nigeria had alliances, did the other side not have alliances? Whose fault is it when you go and start trouble (war) you could never win, too arrogant (like your empty chest beating today) to form alliance, engage diplomacy, etc and LOST? Let Dendebula01, LoserAfam, Bashira, and the hordes of tribalists get that it into their inanimate heads!

its good nigeria chased u out of nigeria , u could not compete , thats what happens when people with low iq take over a country the country turns to shit hole.

La Parisienne: Hello Nairalanders,
I am new here and this is my first thread. I need help to understand what's going on with me, please read and advice.

I grew up in a dysfunctional home where my parents din't love themselves and they took it out on the children. They didn't show us love, didn't teach us they basic things in life. Infact, they weren't ready for parenthood. This really affected me.

Consequently, I grew up yearning for love from outside without understanding the reality of life. This led me to making bad choices in men. I have only had one real relationship in my entire life.

Long story short, I have forgiven my parents and I've let go the anger and bitterness I had towards them for ruining my childhood. I also realised that I needed to work on myself to stop attracting bad men. So I took some time off the dating scene to develop myself and be a better person while waiting for my soulmate , I was single for about 10 months.

Then came the DISASTER. I went for my friend's wedding in October. I met a nice looking guy and he followed me everywhere. After much persuasion, I gave him my  contact but we don't live in the same town. We talked on the phone consistently and I started developing feelings for him. But I delayed going to see him. After 2 months of corresponding, I thought he was in love with and I decided to visit him but I refused to get intimate on the first night with.

This when I saw his true colours. He wasn't the gentleman I thought he was. After much fighting and I still refused, he asked me leave his house by 7 am the next morning which I did. I deleted him from my memory the moment I got home.

I knw that I dodged a bullet and I'm grateful to GOD, but I'll like to knw what I did wrong that I'm attracting them jerks. Why did this imbechile waste his time and money calling me when he didn't mean it? What do men gain from tricking sincere girls into sham relationships when punny is so cheap and readily availaible from love peddles?

P.S: I'm 22, a hardworking graduate with prospects and I'm really really beatiful( nice shape and gorgeous face) . This has absolutely nothing to do with my looks.

Also, my standards aren' too high. I just need an articulate and intellectual man who has prospects, lives responsibly, whom I find attractive. Can't compromise on the intellect aspect though, else I'll be bored to death.

Am I asking for too much?

Thanks for your polite and comprehensive response

marry me

funny enough its only the igbos that have actually moved on , yorubas are running head to pillar calling for regional government infact they have actually started it the same thing that was offered to them on a platter of gold , lets not even talk about the north that have become a ridicule the poorest region in africa calling for sharia.nigeria will remain a shithole but who cares as long as igbos remain at the top of the food chain we can all keep lying to ourselves till we all drown.

alj harem: Technically baifrans had Zero money in the banks and you know that. All baifrans had either converted their money to baifran note or redrew everything before the actual war.

Also Baifra even stole money from Nigeria central bank.

There were not a lot of Igbos that had money in Nigerian banks

Those that did I am sure only a few had more than 20 pounds

The Igbos that remained in Nigeria did not have to go through all that.

20 pounds policy was not Igbo money and you know that !!!

Imgine giving 20 pounds to millions of Igbos.

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House that they built yes, was the same gesture done in the South-south ? Yes or No

Moreover were Germans give back their houses ? Yes or No

another lie, this time na satan go punish u, i bet the also converted their money in banks outside the east to biafra money and where was the conversion done? did they burn nigerian money and use the ashes to make biafran money? biafran money was printed out no nothing it did not engage in any foreign exchange olodo.

alj harem: - Provision of job

- Gowon set up SNDP (second national development plan) worth 1602 million Nigerian pounds

- Industries like Nkalagu cement, Asaba textile industry etc

Transportation spent was - 205.7 million pounds

Education - 117.3 million pounds

etc

Here is how the money was spent

http://books.google.co.uk/books?id=BL5JFkiS4hEC&pg=PA86&dq=post+war+reconstruction+biafra&hl=en&sa=X&ei=qQd_T_jkM8eY1AWFje2ABw&ved=0CDQQ6AEwAA#v=onepage&q=post%20war%20reconstruction%20biafra&f=false

God punish , even a fooish nigerian will not believe this crap, awolowo could not save the west and rest of nigeria talkless of east.

A strange twist was infused into the current rage of kidnap crimes sweeping the country when on Friday, March 30th the Deputy Director, Public Relations of our hardworking State Security Services (SSS), Mrs Marilyn Ogar, in Abuja paraded seven young men dressed in a colourful Ankara prints uniforms popularly known as aso ebi. It is worn by people going out for parties or celebration.

Just looking at them, one is forced to wonder whether these suspected felons were apprehended on their way to a social party, or maybe they just decided to put on a show in defiance?

Those paraded included Ojo Ibrahim Ajibade, Lamidi Akinkunmi, Olasunkanmi Temitope, Nureni Lamidi, Siyanbade Olalekan, Jelili Adeleke and Saka Kassim. They were alleged to be part of a syndicate that lured one Mohammed Khamis, a United Arab Emirate (UAE) businessman with a fake business name, Finuche Investments, into Nigeria whereupon he was abducted and kept in captivity for 60 days at Aborigun in Ikoyi, a town in Osun State.

Even though they (mercifully) allowed Mr Khamis to go unharmed on March 19th 2012, the long arm of the law personified by the SSS caught up with the seven youth with the rest, the alleged masterminds, still at large.

Since the crime of kidnapping acquired wildfire strength in Nigeria following its use initially as part of the strategies of the ex-militants of the Niger Delta to draw attention of the world to their cause before it became a lucrative crime now practised nationwide, there seems no end to it. The aso ebi kidnappers invented a new angle of luring foreigners to the country and keeping them hostage, obviously for ransom.

This crime of seizing foreigners forms part of a worrying departure from our cherished culture of deep respect and protection of visitors and foreigners in our midst. There is no civilised culture in Nigeria that does not have value for strangers and foreigners. Those who attack innocent foreigners in their midst are usually society’s outlaws and barbarians. As poverty and unemployment bite harder, young people all over the country are driven to violent crimes that increasingly ignore our cherished cultural values.

The main danger in the fate that Mr Khamis suffered in the hands of the aso ebi kidnappers is that more and more foreigners are going to be less enthusiastic about exploiting business opportunities in Nigeria for fear of being similarly victimised.

Beyond the obvious need for the security agencies to root out the rest of the kidnappers and bring down the full weight of the law on them, we really have to find gainful employment for our youth.

Parents need to go closer to their children and drum into them the virtue of dignity of labour. Since most of the suspects already have means of livelihood, it is obvious that the get-rich-quick syndrome pushed them to angle for Mr Khamis and perhaps others yet to be known.

As Nigerians are very religious, it is up to the religious leaders to redirect the attention of their flock, especially the young ones, away from crass materialism.

Without moral rearmament, this country will never rediscover the path to greatness.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2012/04/osuns-aso-ebi-kidnappers/

OgoRIP - The Real Facts
Written by Barr. Mrs Nnenna Okafor (PHD)
After much investigation and findings from both Onugu and Onuchukwu families, I
decided to put together the facts and respond to the scurrilous allegations against
this young man, Kevin, his dear wife Ogochukwu and the Onuchukwu family that
resulted in the anonymous false and unfounded stories fabricated on websites /
Facebook against these persons. I knew both Ogochukwu and Kevin before and during
their marriage and was part of their support, and like a bigger sister to both of
them during their marriage.
• Late Ogochukwu Cecilia Onuchukwu never and could not have written such false and
fabricated lies against Kevin from the grave or before, dragging the names of their
little children and husband to public debacle.
• That the Facebook page was never posted by Ogochukwu nor supported by her in any
form.
• That the publications and contents there-in were all false and baseless and Ogochukwu had no input to them
• Those individuals that sponsored these false / fabricated website publications are hiding under the name of late Ogochukwu to cause damage to the families. They should therefore come out with their names and contact information / proofs.

The real facts are stated below.

1. Ogochukwu's lung problem started before her marriage to Kevin on December 12, 2000. But due to the love Kevin had for his wife, he proceeded with the wedding despite her pre-existing medical conditions. She was moved to UNTH after 2 weeks of marriage and a chest tube was used to draw off fluid from her lungs. The UNTH doctor then advised that she should be flown to Washington DC otherwise, she would die. Kevin and his family swung into action gathering money to save Ogochukwu life.

2. Kevin, his family and friends of Kevin supported Ogochukwu throughout her medical history. The first N15M that was raised for her to travel to Washington DC for surgery came from Kevin, his eldest brother, the Onuchukwu family and Kevin's friends at ExxonMobil. It was at the Washington DC hospital, that Ogochukwu was diagnosed in 2001 as having Endometrioses – Fluid in the lungs. She had surgeries in more than 5 hospitals across the World – South Africa, Washington DC, Houston TX, London, etc. While Ogochukwu was abroad and uptil her death, her 76 year old mother
inlaw was praying for and contributing on her behalf towards her membership of church groups in Ihiala amongst other women organization levies in the village. She had bought clothes for her, which Ogochukwu showed to me at one time. So, the reports from the Author that she was not received by Kevin's mother and sister-in-law are all fabricated lies and did not emanate from Ogochukwu.

3. There was no pressure from Kevin's family for children or for Kevin to remarry (which some people would have done) as Kevin's family members are Christians and believe in the will of God. In 2002 when Ogochukwu returned from the hospital, Kevin's mother and elder brother were there to receive Ogochukwu in Lagos They advised her to know that the priority then was her health and that when her health was normalized, God will give her and Kevin their own children someday. So the Author's claim of being under pressure for children is false as well as malicious.

4. Kevin is a caring and loving husband, a very responsible young man with integrity. For his love and care to his wife, he made sure that he was with Ogochukwu wherever he went for work assignments. Also, due to Ogochukwu's health, he
ensured that Ogochukwu had Nannies doing everything for her and provided a driver for Ogochukwu. So the statement from the Author that Kevin tied his sick wife with rope and used belt on her is baseless and fabricated lies to sway the innocent readers and bloggers to believing them and tarnishing the image of Ogochukwu and
Kevin.

5. Kevin usually paid his wife Ogochukwu monthly salary in addition to paying the Nannies and driver. He spent an average of N10M / year for his wife's lungs problem.

6. Kevin usually supported Ogochukwu's sisters and her brother financially. In some instance, her sisters, Mrs. Uzoamaka Otegbulu (working in INEC) and her other sister (Mrs Ngozi Ijere in Oyibo Port Harcourt) had so much influence in their marriage. Kevin curtailed the excesses of Mrs Ngozi Ijere in the early part of their marriage
as she was interfering in the affairs of their marriage through calls and instructions to both of them on what to do. As for Uzoamaka, she was difficult to handle and she deceived Ogochukwu till death. She was the one that made her to
undergo surgery, connived and signed the consent letter when her husband, Kevin advised otherwise and Ogochukwu died in her laps.

7. Ogochukwu is the next of kin to Kevin and not Kevin's brother. There are documents to this effect. So the author's fabrications that Kevin elder brother was next of kin is false.

8. Ogochukwu was always appreciative of Kevin, his brother and her mother-in-law and their support to her throughout her ill health running from one country to the other. Her mother-in-law usually put in for mass service for Ogochukwu for 6 years. Abah! How can the author turn the story around to favor their wicked plan that has failed!.

9. Kevin is a responsible man, with integrity and has respect for women and will never call his wife barren because he believed that his wife will bear children. He stood by her all the years till God answered their prayers with the blessing of 2
beautiful children – a son and daughter. I remember in 2006 when Kevin told me that he knew the wife would one day have children and that he will never get disturbed because his family is not disturbed, rather some friends were asking if the sickness of his wife had not ended?. So I do not understand where the author got her information and data from as it was not from Ogochukwu.

10. Between years 2000 to 2006, Ogochukwu went to various specialist hospitals and other hospitals around the world to remove fluid in her lungs – Washington DC, Houston TX, South Africa, and London. So, she had 5 different surgeries in 6 years for endometriosis. In 2007 she had the 6th surgery during the birth of their son in USA. Also, in 2010, she had her daughter through the 7th surgery in USA. During the surgical procedure to bring out her daughter, Ogochukwu passed out and it was with God's intervention that her heart kicked in after some minutes. The entire hospital erupted with joy. Before Ogochukwu was discharged, her Doctor (in the presence of her brother, Anthony Onugu of Dover, Delaware) advised that she should never carryout surgery any more as her body is like "vegetable" and it would be difficult to pull through after another surgery. The doctor indicated that the fluid in her lungs would stop by the time she gets to menopause.
Both Kevin and Ogochukwu were happy, and Ogochukwu exclaimed that both of them were accomplished with the birth of a son and a daughter. So the Author's websites are full of disjointed and false stories

11. In 2001 while Ogochukwu was undergoing surgical recovery, she stayed in her brother's house (Anthony Onugu, then in Washington DC). As a bachelor, her brother felt inconvenienced by Ogochukwu's presence in his house. So, by the time Ogochukwu's 1-94 expired, Anthony (Ogochukwu brother) lied to Ogochukwu that he has filed an extension of stay with the Immigration services. Ogochukwu only found out that her brother did not submit her application when she was stopped by immigration from entering the USA in 2003. The Author's write up that it was their son medical that impacted Ogochukwu immigration issue is another lie. As the issue was in 2001 while their son was born in 2007.

12. Kevin was helped by the then ExxonMobil Management who intervened with the American Embassy in Lagos and that was how Ogochukwu got another US visa for a medical follow-up to resolve her endometriosis problem.

13. There was a time Ogochukwu and Kevin went to the hospital in Nigeria and the Doctor advised that the only cure to stop fluid in Ogochukwu lungs was to remove her ovaries. Her husband was not in support as he believed that Ogochukwu will bear children someday. That dream was achieved by both of them.

14. I would not want to delve into the lives / health of 2 children given to Ogochukwu and Kevin by God Almighty. So whoever posted all these stories about these children on the website is fighting God. No one can fight God and go free. Their son and daughter are fine and have settled down into a new school. Both of them are doing well in school. The statements about these beautiful children by the author has shown how wicked people can be.

15. The doctor advised Ogochukwu and Kevin to seek opportunities for their son to live with other children to improve his speech. Kevin suggested his elder brother's family where there are children. But Ogochukwu's sisters – Mrs Uzoamaka Otegbulu, Juliana Ejiofor and Ngozi Ijere instructed Ogochukwu not to allow their son to Kevin
brother's home. Instead they instructed that the child be taken to Mrs Uzoamaka Otegbulu' s home (INEC coordinator Lagos) at Surulere. Kevin obliged to Ogochukwu request, took a flight from the USA to Lagos with his son and kept his son with Mrs Uzoamaka Otegbulu in Lagos, Nigeria. Ogochukwu sister, Uzoamaka Otegbulu demanded for payment if Ogochukwu's son would stay with them. Ogochukwu asked Kevin to oblige and Kevin started sending monthly payments of N50,000 to Uzoamaka for the entire period of their son's stay. This explains why the 3 sisters were against
Kevin and Ogochukwu taking their son to Kevin's elder brother home – monetary gains.

16. Kevin and Ogochukwu love their children and during their daughter's christening, there was an emergency for Kevin to travel and both of them agreed that Kevin could travel while Ogochukwu go with Kevin's friend. The Author continued to spread false rumors indicating that Kevin refused to attend his daughter christening.

17. Kevin gave Ogochukwu the best and as much as he could – bought a new Lexus 450 car for Ogochukwu in America, provided Nannies so that Ogo would not do any house work, pay her monthly salary and provide food for the entire family, maintained her car, took her clothes to laundry, always there for her in terms of need. But her sisters are always interfering in their marriage, even while Ogochukwu continued to provide them with financial support, clothing, shoes, jewelries, etc.

18. Kevin and Ogochukwu love their children and he cannot call their children "these things". These are children God gave them after 7 years of marriage. So the author's note are all false and baseless.

19. Kevin spent more than N80M over the years for Ogochukwu endometrioses treatment abroad out of love and care for his wife to live longer. He was never under any duress during the stormy years (2000 – 2006) as his priority was to save Ogochukwu life. ALL KEVIN'S FRIENDS ARE AWARE OF THIS TRUE FACT. Kevin is a responsible man
and could never threaten his wife that he loved with a knife in their home. The author's statement that Kevin said he will "kill his wife and nothing will happen" is another BIG fabrication from this author of falsehood and incitement.

20. Kevin spent about N10M / year on medical expenses to keep Ogochukwu his dear wife alive. I was privileged to see some of these huge volumes in hospital receipts.

21. In November, 2011, Ogochukwu wanted to go to the USA for medical check-up and was denied visa by US embassy, Abuja citing that Ogochukwu violated USA immigration policy back in 2001 when she was in her brother's house in Washington DC to fully recover from surgery.

22. Kevin contacted Fragomen (immigration lawyers in the USA) to resolve Ogochukwu's immigration issue caused by her brother, Anthony Onugu once and for all. He has been on top of the Immigration issue till Ogochukwu died on Feb. 27, 2012.

23. In January 2012, Kevin recommended for Ogochukwu to seek for medical care in India's alternative medicine to avoid surgery from any Medical doctor based on the advice from Ogochukwu's American doctor. Ogochukwu accepted to travel to India with Kevin. However when Kevin returned from work, Ogochukwu informed him that her sister Uzoamaka Otegbulu preferred for her to go to Wellington hospital in London. Kevin informed Ogochukwu's mother, brothers and sisters of his preference for Ogochukwu to visit an Indian hospital, but all of them rejected the option and
insisted on London. Kevin, Ogochukwu and Kevin's friend, a medical Doctor in London agreed for Ogochukwu to stay in his house in London. He also warned that Ogochukwu should not do surgery based on the advice from her American doctor in 2010.

24. In January 2012, Kevin gave Ogochukwu N3M and 5,000 pounds for Ogochukwu's trip to London for check-up. By the time she got to London, her sister Uzoamaka already sent her friend to drive Ogochukwu to her house instead of Kevin's friend's house in London. Kevin called his friend to ask about Ogochukwu's arrival and was told that Ogochukwu did not come to their house. Ogochukwu later called and informed Kevin that there was a change in plan between her and her sisters, Uzoamaka Otegbulu and Juliana Ejiofor (Abuja) – that her sisters did not allow her to stay in
Kevin's friend's house. Kevin called Ogochukwu the next day and she informed Kevin that her sister's friend was demanding 80pounds/ night from her for staying in their house. Kevin frowned at the situation and was disappointed that she would listen her sisters' advice over his. Kevin went on to pay the 80 pounds / night for 3 weeks through his friends.

25. Ogochukwu told Kevin that she visited the doctors and that the level of fluid in her lungs was not an emergency that required immediate surgery. However that the doctors advised her to perform the surgery in the London hospital. Kevin's consent was sought, but he declined and reminded Ogo of the warning from her USA
doctor that she would die if she carries any further surgery. At that instance, Ogochukwu agreed not to perform surgery. She was given medicines that controlled the fluid in her lungs. She left London and returned to Nigeria on February 22, 2012.

26. Upon her return, Ogochukwu called her brothers-in-law, her sisters-in-law, her mother-in-law and informed them that she was back and her condition was not life threatening. So, the author's claim of issues with her in-laws are false and
fabricated lies.

27. Ogochukwu's mother-in-law visited her only twice through their marriage of 11 years as Ogochukwu usually stayed abroad due to her ill health with endometriosis. So the author's claim of having garden egg issue with her mother-in-law or threats by her mother in law are all false. Her mother-in-law, ~76 years old was so devastated by the false story from the author, as she took Ogochukwu as her child and stood by her and never pressured her son throughout her first 6 years of marriage with fighting endometriosis. She fondly calls Ogochukwu, Adaeze- nwam
(first daughter of the king, my daughter).

28. Kevin loves his children and gives them the best just like he gave to Ogochukwu. Their school fees, lesson teachers, feeding and all home requirements are provided and exceeded by Kevin. Their home teacher Mr Chinedu is still working for the family till today and Kevin continues to pay him. He is alive to testify. So, the author's
fabricated lies are so naked!

29. The email the author referred to regarding Ogochukwu hospital visit to London hospital is not true as Ogochukwu did not go to the initial hospital address she provided. So, the author's claims are all false and Kevin provided the hospital
money to London in 2012 as always. So, if Kevin did not provide the almost N5M for Ogochukwu medical trip to London, WHO DID?. The author is a liar.

30. Ogochukwu has a car and I saw her car yesterday being driven by her driver. People in the estate can testify to this. So the Author's claim that Ogochukwu car was sold is a big lie.

31. My understanding is that Ogochukwu went to London for medicals and not shopping. So the claim that Ogochukwu bought shoes for Kevin from London as indicated by the Author are all lies and wants to tarnish the image of Ogochukwu.

32. Kevin never had a quarrel with Ogochukwu regarding moving out of house at any time as claimed by the author.

33. Kevin refused consent for further surgery for Ogochukwu based on the USA medical doctor's advice that further surgery would lead to her death, but Ogochukwu's sisters were all over the place, pressurizing her for surgery. Her Sister, Mrs Uzoamaka Otegbulu went with Ogochukwu and signed the consent form for surgery WITHOUT INFORMING KEVIN, the husband. That was how Ogochukwu was sent to her early grave by her sister who felt that Ogochukwu's husband Kevin's guidance of no surgery did not matter. This same Ogochukwu's sister, Uzoamaka was with her till
she died. Instead, they turned around and started blaming Kevin who refused to sign for his wife's death warrant and had suffered with his dear wife Ogochukwu for 11 years.

34. Their urge for vengeance and manipulations continued after Ogochukwu's death as they faked a Facebook page on behalf of Ogochukwu and with the help of Anthony Onugu in Dover, Delaware, and wrote unimaginable things against Kevin and their children to sway small minds. Abah!

35. Kevin heard of Ogochukwu's death (while undergoing surgery) and under shock, he rushed to Lagos to see his dear wife at the mortuary. Upon arrival at the mortuary and later on, Ogochukwu's sister Uzoamaka screamed at him that Kevin connived with his employers to kill Ogochukwu (another false statement). She even threatened
Kevin's life.

36. In less than 4 days of Ogochukwu's death, her sister asked Ogochukwu's cousins and the Nannies to leave Kevin's and Ogochukwu's children for Kevin to care for alone. The Nannies left and Kevin rushed back from Lagos to stay with their children, then Ogochukwu's cousins left the children for Kevin also. These
Nannies informed Kevin that they are willing to stay but their aunties, Uzoamaka Otegbulu and Ngozi Ijere asked them to leave in order to punish Kevin. Ogochukwu's cousin also stole the children's international passports and
Ogochukwu's jewelries. Kevin stayed with these little kids and later got four Nannies for his kids through the help of his eldest sister, Amaka.

37. In less than 7 days of Ogochukwu's death, her sisters called Kevin demanding for Ogochukwu's bags of shoes, clothes and Jewelry. Kevin replied that they will have those after Ogochukwu's burial. That was when people like me told Kevin not to give out Ogochukwu's clothes as they belong to her daughter.

38. Kevin has great regard for his elder brother, his bosses and colleagues in the office. So the claim from the Author that Kevin has no regard for everyone is a LIE. People that know Kevin appreciate a humble, ready-to help, friendly, non-violent and God-fearing young man who takes his family first and is very serious at work.

39. Kevin never screamed at his wife. In the morning of Feb. 27th, Kevin called Ogochukwu to remember "no surgery" per American doctor's advice. Kevin made that call in the presence of his colleagues. He reminded her to return in the afternoon of Feb. 27th as his secretary already booked a flight for her return the same
Monday, but Ogochukwu requested that the booking be changed till Tuesday morning so that she could buy rappers in Lagos. There was no plan for Ogochukwu to undergo surgery. My investigation also indicated that he never asked Ogochukwu to pay back moneies (more than N80M he spent so far) while in the hospital as fabricated by the
author. Also none of Ogochukwu's brothers nor her sisters ever contributed 1 penny for Ogochukwu's endometriosis cure for 11 years. The author is a liar.

40. Kevin and Ogochukwu and their children were a peace loving family and are good example of a family with patience, love and care for each other. Kevin spoilt Ogochukwu with love and stood by her financially and morally during the stormy years (2000 - 2006) and beyond. They got married, conquered challenges in the first 6 years together and God blessed them with beautiful children. Had Ogochukwu's sisters not manipulated her into surgery, she would not have died. All friends of Ogochukwu and Kevin should keep the legacy of their marriage and respect for the children. The names and pictures of these children should not be allowed in public places as it will create social stigma for these children in the future. Adieu our friend, Ogochukwu until we meet to part no more.

Kevin and family are mourning and people should allow them to bury their dead. These authors were not as close as I am to both of them. I used to live with them for 4 years and I know every detail and how they love themselves. In every marriage, there may be issues, but the way and manner the authors fabricated lies using Ogochukwu's name in vain and tarnishing Kevin's image in the website is so regrettable, and God will never leave the rumor mongers that never hear the other side before passing condemnations.


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the way rumours are begining to spread over the internet is becoming alarming, nigerians as usual have started abusing the use of social media , God help us, i knew that story was fabricated the first time i read it cus i actually know the family in question.

Laila Ikeji: Wow, am speechless!!!

are u related to linda ikeji

Laila Ikeji: laffssssssssssss.

but sincerely guys, i dnt really like it wen guys diss nigerian girls like ds. no wonder u guys r nw going for old white women, abi?

Haba!!! well sha, a prophet isnt appreciated amongst his kinsmen. so e no dey bother us. fine janded guys dey too n funny enuff, they love our black magic. so we goin work it gud on dem.

good luck , i used to support naija sisters and defend them all the time but they recently taught me a big lesson i will never forget bitty story is comedy compared to what they did to me.they need to change , the good ones among them are not up to 10 percent .