Are men really simple, a question, some one just asked me now, question that is seeking for an answer. hmmmmmm

What you should know is that, in life,dealing with out spoken (vocal) people,not flippant people o. is easy than dealing with quiet people, because you dont know where to start from with quiet people, but if you are sensitive and observant with outspoken person,you could know where to start from, is easy to feel their purse.

A CLOSER LOOK AT MEN HAVE REALLY OPEN MY EYES TO SOME ASPECT OF MEN THAT IS HIDDEN TO THE EYES!

Now i asked, is it because most people said,my growing up days, i was what they call (tom-boy ) or because 7 out of 10 people among my friends are guys or because am in a men dominated industry now (my job), wait a little, could it be because my mother told me, she was expecting to have a baby boy then came (I) this beautiful woman that write today.

An average man want what he want and that he want to him is final. hmmmmmmm. and without making noise. he can go extra miles to get it,yes,i said extra miles, that’s men for you. That's for real men, because good number of (men be ) dont even know what they want, they just go with what is available, and that is why you find them being unhappy and people around them suffers it.

This is as a result of our believe system, what we believe a man should be and should become, has helped us in grooming, Molding them into what they are today, we thought them from child hood and as an adult that system never changed.

Remember how we often remind them that they are men, as man, you re suppose to do this, do that, could it be that?

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PERFECTIONISM ! SLOWS DOWN ACHIEVEMENTS, INTRODUCES HURDLES

“Delay is the deadliest form of denial.”

So have you noticed it, Some folks are almost perfect. Are you? WAIT!! Don’t rush to say no until i finished unfolding my findings. There is a chance you are from my perspective. First, what is perfection? Let’s forget what we already know about it. Forget what the dictionary says it means and don’t bother connecting to the idea that God is perfect and we are not God. So what is it then? At 21, I was very ambitious. I attempted making no mistakes at anything. Yes, anything. I had a motto then: “A Year of No mistakes”. My perception of perfection was the absence of obvious and reasonable mistakes or failure. I did a lot to succeed with that theory and motto back then when life looks so simple,easy, sweet.with little but small to bother us.

So did I succeed with that? Yes, I did (laughs). hahahahaha, was it a boomerang, ANSWER THAT PLEASE!

Well, I succeeded just in one thing – I mastered perfectionism. Then after, I graduated to
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THIS THING FOR WHICH HAS NO NAME:

What do we call it? What name do we give a ‘thing’ with no name?

Gradually I came to realize that a problem that has no name doesn’t exist right? There is this important concept that nobody talks about. The single most important trouble we have once we start something new. Its goal is to stop us; Preventing us from finishing the race. Our dreams and goals are stopped half way because of this no name concept. It’s strongest and at its peak in between the time we started and the time we are meant to finish our new project. Once we defeat perfectionism and all other odds and gods fighting against us it takes over. It doesn’t have a name or maybe I don’t know what is called. It’s not lack of concentration, or lost enthusiasm or even failure or lack of focus or clarity. It’s not lack of
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life is a personal thing!

Once in life, one has to make a grab for mortality, if not one has not lived

If one think he/she can, one can and if one thinks he/she can not the person cannot, is all about what you think. [ OUR THINKING]

Those who believe in themselves, believe in their own decision and leave aside those who don’t believe in their decisions, ideas, ideology and dreams .

They pay no attention, concern to those who don’t share their point of views, they demonstrate such ideas in their confidence through their ideas, actions, moves and thinking, that the fear of failure which goes with others motivate them and help them not to be in the same line with others. This they do that makes a lot of people think,
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Many people will not like this, but if I don’t write it, my conscience and God will not forgive me. Multi–level marketing OR what we call networking business is a strategy that some direct sales companies use to encourage their existing distributors to recruit new distributors by paying the existing distributors a percentage of their recruits’ sales; the recruits are known as a distributor’s “down-line.” Yes it exist, and works, but, now I asked why is African always their dumping ground. (ebe ndi ara) abi.

Because they know they can always manipulate us easily, Emotional, Mentally and Physically. Because they know it is there, in African, you can easily find a lot of people who reasons before thinking, because that is where you find a lot of people who are lazy, where you find a lot of people who are mentally poor, Emotionally weak
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HMMMM, EVEN ME, HAVE HARD IT TIME WITHOUT NUMBER. AT A TIME I STOP MAKING resolutions,LETS SAY IS IN HUMAN, BOTH YOU, I, CAN STILL OVER COME IT. I can see goals, flying here and there, but how many of this goals will be attained, not because God will not allowed us attain them, or that we cannot, or there are no available resources enough for us to attain them but!

It all starts with personality, power of our decision making, our staying power, our focusing power, our power of tolerance/persistent, then our desire of attainment of our desire as people / person so it can manifest.

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Without knowing that without have gone through that lean of life, they will not be where they are today, what they went through in life, build their confidence in them and in God, character,endurance ,hope,trust and patience to strive more out of life etc
In spite of all these, only few of us can defend our certificate, if you asked me today, I will tell you that most of those certificate we carry about, that is deceiving us, are all ordinary papers, which many of us are carrying about answering names, just to fulfilled the battered dreams of our parents.
My grand Mother her blessed memory was very intelligent woman and has not seen the four-walls of class room, said, we get intelligent at home while brilliancy can be bought with money. I laugh then, now i know better.
Many of us today lack intelligence, but in pursuit of brilliancy,and what can brilliancy do for us without intelligence, that is where you and i are today.(many are suffering for the mistakes of few)

A man with good intelligence can survive more better than a man with brilliancy.
Members of Grade 1 cared for their parents and children, they have regards for humanity but Grade 2 are still struggling to find their feet at age 30 and. This is because their parents practically did everything for them,
Starting from:
Getting Schools for them, getting spouse for them, preparing for their marriage and hosting/arranging it, paying house rent for them, buying cars for them, getting/securing jobs opportunity for them, getting house help for them, booking for flight ticket for them, buying property for them, and making decisions for them, the worst is speaking/thinking for them hey!. uwa
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SUCCESS TO DIFFERENT PEOPLE IN THIS ERA OF SOCIAL MEDIA MEANS DIFFERENT THINGS

AS A CHILD I HAD OF ELUSION/ELUSIVE BUT IT WAS ONE PARTICULAR WORD THAT TOOK ME YEARS TO UNDERSTAND NOT UNTIL AFTER MY HIGH SCHOOL, I COULD NOT BUT WHEN I GOT TO SOCIAL MEDIA NO ONE EXPLAIN THE WORD TO ME, I PRACTICALLY GRAB IT IMMEDIATELY.

Peoples life styles, determines what they see or hold as success ,one of the reasons many society are prone to more crime/evil is all about life style,believe system, i always write with my society at the back of my mind, am an African,

In the olden days our forefathers and mothers had a wonderful and fulfilled life and live happily with little things at their disposal but today the case is quite different. As a one time banker in the late 2000, the bank will always asked, what is in it for me hmmmmmmm, that was when my society started losing their hold,
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IS GOD A FOOL?

WHO’S HANDWORK IS THIS?

Many people have watched their days turn into weeks and their weeks turn into months and their months turn into years, all adding up to a lifetime of complaisant robot, being what some nameless, faceless, world assigned them to be and have, they performed or are performing less than commendable. How pathetic! this could be, what a world! or what a life we live. Africa, my Africans.

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IN NIGERIA, MUST FOOTBALLERS ( SUPER FALCON) HAVE TO ALWAYS CARRY PLACARDS BEFORE THEY CAN BE PAID?? IN FACT THIS PARTICULAR CASE IS PATHETIC BECAUSE THE SO CALLED MINISTER BOLDLY SAID THAT “THEY WERE NOT EXPECTING THEM TO WIN? REALLY? EXCUSE ME SIR,.. NO HOLD IT THERE, before murder our minister.



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Every thing we see around us in the man's made world began as a thought or an idea in the mind of a single person, individual, group of people before it was translated into reality.

No wonder in the bible it was said in the book of Genesis from verse one down ,mostly what you will see there is “and God said let there be, and God said let there be” please for those who have read Qumran tell us is it so there too?.

Even your life,God wished for a need for whom to worship him,in different ways that each and every one of us find ourselves, that is why, you and i were created, to worship God for whom he is, not for what you want or can get, mind you.

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Last generation, got admission on merit, Jobs on merit, without knowing anyone or being friends to well placed individuals or knowing people who knows someone or knows people, only on merit ..
They were opportune to attend good schools, many of them sitting in their fathers compound or attending to their farms or fathers farm in the village, or where ever they are, were called/invited for interviews, scholarships and were scrutinizes base on the formula available at that time,
They enjoyed life, did things as at when is due, the Government cared for them, the little they could to make life comfortable for them with the level of system and structure on ground.

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In life,one of the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry, Yes.

This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right, then, you will enjoy forever, so therefore, marry right or be single, that’s the only way to be happy in life in this stressful life of us, because marriage itself is not easy, so with right partner, you get it a bit closer rightfully. .

A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life, finance, Career, family, children, health, relationship, spiritual life, outlook, attitude etc. This subject is so important to the extent that so many married people are hoping to be single again, so as to be able to make the right choice all over again. It has gotten to the point that most couple are now praying for their partners to die, which is wrong, instead of praying for one to die, please, gently walk away.

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