₦airaland Forum

Phema:
I honestly don't know what you are talking about.

Am sure you don't .

Phema:
I will welccome the lady and her child into our home. . .and we will live happily ever after.

Murder is also sin Phema

coogar:
he's probably someone's husband too or one of those jobless youths who rapê grandmothers in nigeria.

Why u dey vex?

Just make sure you don't start begging like mumu when you are finally caught, immediately you are busted, go home pack and leave. When I go get comment nah when you start beg after being caught .


You are still so damn weak and fragile, who opens a thread after cheating?

cococandy:
no they will spend it looking for the love the husbands didn't give them from their sons. Frustrating their daughters in law and generally being a nuisance to the young couple because they spent their youth and the age they should have been loving up living in bitterness .

God knows why e no give me daughter, because any frustrated hag of a MIL go smell pepper from my hand if she craze near my daughter, if the marriage wan crash, make e crash, rubbish! Why are women so wicked to themselves? this one is even earning well, yet.... .

Jahblessme:
How do you know the kind of woman she is?
S ex is actually really enjoyable ,is it only cheating men that enjoy s ex? Or you think if she finds a fresh blokos to give it to her well she won't enjoy it?
So you think that if she wants to knack she won't protect herself as per condom? Std ko std ni..tell that to the useless men

Op do whatever makes you happy..if its to massage a stray banana to keep you sane,enjoy.Especially as you won't leave.
All na temptation...go and sin no more

Thank you , something must give, she either leaves and get a life or joins the band if she can't beat them like she wanted to.

After spending their lives running after their cheating husbands, they will start beefing others who chose to live the life. I pity any frustrated wife of a horn dog wey go form frustration reach my side, nonsense!

Women like you should have an association in honor of cheating husbands . Why feel bitter, just suck it and keep loving him no matter what, if he brings herpes home, just show some more love .

bukatyne:
She will not issue it as a condition, she will appeal to them

Hmmmm, there is no harm in trial abi, i pray God provides a means for them ASAP.

I will not accept the baby, the father and the mother. They all should get the hell away from me . As for forgiveness, as long as they get the hell away, far away.

saucechilli:
shedding tears? You are kidding right?
One thing you dont understand, these are what they are used to. They will even call you names for giving 'useful' advice to them.

Only help those that are willing to be helped.

@moca, make i follow you na.

....But chilli this just too pathetic, how do one get to such level?

aisha2:
Chai so when he fu-ck.another woman reach house I go help am massage the waist and say well done darling, am sure you hit it very well. Hehehehehe
Nothing as depressing as listening to some Nigerian marriages

If I tell you that I don't feel like shedding tears, am lying, a very pathetic situation .

saucechilli:
i just upgraded like you na
chilli go vacation

Welcome back babe .

saucechilli:
Bravo! Nice speech.

Beeevan, give this woman some tequila shot

Chilli oooo!!! How come I no know sey nah you? What did you commit this time ?

Better2014:
@Better2014 im also in ph...thks for ur advice.You r welcum dear.what I did xterday was 2 b Romantic wiv my hubby,I massaged him like neva b4 and spoke wiv him,I fink u shuld try dat 2.sure it wil help.

Chai!! God!! imagine women giving massages just to stop a cheating husband from running back to his mistress. God have mercy on Nigerian women bikonu .


This is just too painful, may I never be that woman that will reward a cheating husband, Amen .

You don't wean a child abruptly, you start dropping his feeding time. Assuming you BF him 10 times a day, drop 2 meals per week till it reduces to 0. This method is painless and child adapts to normal feed quite quickly. It takes me 3 to 6 weeks to wean a baby and it's quite easier.

He is not even providing enough, yet he wants you at home. Women should be wary of the thought process of some men they marry, 14months is old enough. What happens if you get pregnant now? You wait till that one is 2? The circle continues....i feel for you.

coogar:
i think she should take the job with a condition to bring her husband in as a driver, security man or a gardener. by so doing, the family remains intact.

Employees are in no position to issue conditions, especially where menial job that pays as much as 30k is involved.

A good pay for being a house girl, i will quickly knot my Brazilian hair and go for it. My point is, she won't be branded for being a house girl, let her take the offer if there is no alternative. Anything honest to earn a living is better than begging here and there...


So sad that a family has to scatter this way, i pray God gives you the means to unite them ASAP.

coogar:
afraid of what?



i know about 3 of them - very ripe for marriage if the "right" man comes. who are you doing this for? your brother?

For myself .

Innunique:
she is of age, probably in her mid 30s or late 30s...

She is old enough to handle her husband's spiritual wife .

coogar:
thanks for the info......
ituku babes are cheap - they have all been touched & sullied by coogar & friends.



nice!
i will go with nkwerre. hopefully, i won't regret my decision.

Coogar just give me recommendations and let me decide how sullied they really are .

coogar:
biko, where in imo state is the most expensive village to get a bride? that is where i want to go. i need the name of the LGA & the family compound/name.

Nkwerre or Nkwelle I guess, don't know which is correct. I don't know the LGA, but am sure you will find your way. I heard brides are cheap in Utuku, i need some recommendations. Which family breeds the best yards of wife materials there? .

Is your aunt handicapped or under aged?

coogar:
byvan!
beevan!!
beeevan!!!

how many times did i call you? you are a criminal.

3 times Coogar .

Age has nothing to do with marriage, i know women that got married in their 30s and divorced just as I know those divorced in their 20s. Simple! Marry your best friend, that's all, it's easier to tolerate your buddy than just a ' husband '.


If you ask me, those in their 30s whose marriage is assumed to be made in heaven might just be sticking it out so the world won't laugh at them and they have waited so long for this, so letting it go is out of the question . A younger woman can start afresh if it crumbles. What you faced as a young bride is the same thing you will face as an older one, maturity is not age.

dBard:

no too vex bros

Osahon7:
lool..abeg come search for Edo state joor

I will head to Anambra .

Just load the babe 4gallon and come for marriage 2 years later to check the condition of the list, if the same, go and come back 10 years later .

Saw my friend's list and they were indicating " Real gold not GL", i wan laugh fall for gutter . Seriously I go go find wife for cheaper areas Joor.

Chai!! Sorry dbard, this is painful . The cake is damn Ugly!