₦airaland Forum

Chillisauce:
Where are my pallies.
Come and eat Sunday treat meat pie.

No body should even laugh at me .

Cococandy
Lynda Royce
Edwife
Efemenaxy
Beeevan
Oya o
Buka

pawn89:
well, a son that will pretend for as long as 20 years counting from adolescent age should as well assume that life of pretense, however, if the mother after all the years spent together with the son before he becomes someones' husband and still doesn't know her son, I wonder how the wife can.

If I understand your concept of "understanding" with respect to the context, then, I believe the problem lies with the son and not the mother. I bet the wife would face similar difficulty as the mother.

Good thoughts though!

Phema:
@bolded; Now, that is one mentality I can not stand. So, somethings are wrong when a woman does them, but are not when it's a man ekwa?

And by the way, how come it's mostly women he helps? Are there not guys/men that need emotional, psychological and financial support? Abeg, truth be told, this one pass "kindness".

Unfortunately, I no get better advice. The small one wey I get fit break home. So follow CC's advice. E go hard for me to follow sha

voodoo85:
Menopausal? Really? )) dont have what to say. Giving a dumb person the way because u gona bring me to your low level. Gud luck with your life. Too low to be nigerian... And thanx god

voodoo85:
Your thickness is unbelievable. Sorry maybe its your health condition. Than yh its acceptable. Why should i lie about what i do or how i live my life? Do u see any point of that? Do i know u? Will i ever meet u? Do i care what u think? Sorry no. I dont need to lie- am not nigerian

voodoo85:
Ustill didnt get why i called u mumu. Poor u. And its brilliant that u know me so well. Well done, mumu

pickabeau1:
Not really
More like on off

coogar:
chillipepper....long time no see.
beeevan told me you were contesting in a beauty pageant show in your village.

how did it go?

tpia6:
my dear, the dignity has developed wings and flown away.


your dignity is intertwined with your husband's actions once you marry.

unless you divorce him for being a philanderer, there is no dignity in watching your husband making a f.ool out of you around town.

its not about "outwaiting" the mistress and waiting for his wandering prick to come back .

if the mistress is the aggressive bull and your husband is still with her, then you need to check yourself.

voodoo85:
Probably u r from those ppl who say that kids r growing on their own and u dont need to grow them loool. If u did proper parenting than i dont know the quality of your studies lol

voodoo85:
We do say about them that kids didnt have enough attention when growing up when their parents where more busy working and studying. U r talking like its easy peasy to do
And yes we r PLANNING as it GONA HAVE, WILL HAVE,WILL START TRYING on a baby in a particular period of time. Expression mumu.

pickabeau1:
You like Women who kill?

pickabeau1:
hmm..... reminds me of Crime & Investigation

scary

pickabeau1:
hmmmm..................................

Chillisauce:
Cool. My baby has divorced beeevan's boy. She says she wants mature man, now she is looking forward to one of Efemenaxy sons. She likes guys who can cook okra soup for her (her favorite). Every month i cook a pot of okra, just for her. Eats it with her patato puree.

At Efe, just tell me one of your sons can cook the okra . And he will be all hers.

voodoo85:
I did travel i did study and working a gud job and married. Next year planning a baby. And am not 40 or 30. And now i can afford kid's private schools and everything else kid needs,without thinking how to meet the ends. And my kid now will get all my attention becauae i will not be juggling between home, academics and work like insane squirrel.

bukatyne:
beevan ti binu

I agree with you that one can juggle it all (apart from our little disagreement of school or no school ). However, I would rather do Omotola's than Genny's style agewise.

If one plans well you have more time building a career or whatever after kids if you marry early than building first and marrying later.

Besides, most people still single (ladies and guys) did not set out to marry late and are not really building anything. Most of the top people career & enterpreneur wise in Nigeria today are actually married/divorced with kids.

In Nigeria, we have it easier support systemwise and no serious minded person would say marriage is a show stopper.

We all want different things in life

voodoo85:
Many of u who said age 20-25, in europe ppl would look at u like at weirdos. For me its really strange as well. Dont u have dreams? Dont u want to study, find a gud job, travel? I suppose your purpose in this life is to get husband and multiply. The point of life

cococandy:
Edwife how are you?
Beeevan. (one for my boy)
Efemenaxy
Chillisauce
Lyndaroyce.

Hope you ladies are doing alright.

bukatyne:
LOL!

Investing now to reap the benefits tomorrow

@OP: A lot of guys were taught but they atill feel it is demeaning to do chores and dump it at the slightest chance or wait still they get married.

If bomboy never saw daddy doing chores, no amount of training will make him do it in future except if he decides to change

DukeNija:
Evil woman