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Oga go and work on your marriage, you have to nip this in the bud when 'the do' probably hasn't been done. Snap her out of that fantasy fast and start rebuilding what's broken in your relationship .

CBNIM:
Why the preference for a lesbian? Or the female homo as you put it instead of male homo?

A female homo has less chances of Molesting little boys than a male one, am only speaking for myself.

If it is female homo, no wahala, male homo? Bloody hell! Nooooooo!!!!

I don't see why 35k shouldn't support a single lady for a month.

I wish I can resurrect the corpse and beat it some more, how silly can some ladies be!

bukatyne:
Lol!

A friend in the OP's shoes had to go to school by force.

The OP's hubby wants her to a house wife so he is thinking what is the use of schooling?

She will go through this same thing when she wants to work with him because school enlightens and broadens one's mind.

OP:

I would advise you think about going to Open University. You can study online and still be a house wife.

If hubby doesn't bulge for working: start thinking in the lines of business especially online.
It is well

My sister God knows that only him can stop me from being a graduate ooo, can't afford to be an illiterate in the name of marriage or divorce abeg.

....With the kind of men Nigeria breed this should be good news

I hate aji mehnnnn, but nah God dey create.

Kids can be beyond annoying, handling another 's? I will pass....

We are talking of a business guy that is probably uneducated, how do you make such a person see from your perspective?

OP can your parents sponsor it?

Success is what it is, married or not.

edwife:
You know,it's not only an office job that can give you experience.Some ladies with kids will leave home by 5 and return by 8pm,and still struggling to make ends meet.All their salary will be spent on transportation and child care,so what the point?

Nah this style of working to pay only transport and child-care I really no understand.

edwife:
Gbam,I can not for the life of me leave my house for peanut,all in the name of not staying idle...

All in all is about a good pay and the future.

Hahahaha , one can gather experience through peanuts, it gives a boost to your CV and prepares you for the main bucks. If her job isn't paying, then she can easily drop it and look for another. I rather leave my house for peanuts than stay at home, one who is at home isn't idle but monotony drives me nuts ( if you are usually hyper) ...Every day at work breaks the monotonous life of market, kitchen, chores and more chores. This is for those in Naija though,am not sure if experience and age affects employment there.

I did probably sell off the wedding ring and carry on like nothing happened . I don't believe in wasting a fraction of my life on anything that isn't worth while.

If this job is driving you nuts,let it go and have the time for active job hunting, am nursing my own headache here. I nearly let mine go because I feel like I did collapse any moment but I adjusted with time, may be you will.

If it is a job without future, quit and look for another, if not stay where you are.

My hubby

You said he cheated? No action is too extreme while dealing with such.

If you can't beat them, bounce or join them, your choice, then binding and casting dey game too .

datalossvictim1:
Preach!!!! The exact thing I said to a friend minute the pricey jewel and maiden hood lol

tell herooo!!!

Sophyrocks:
This story has landed here? I read it on Bella naija. U need to see the hilarious comments there. I truly commend ladies 4 keeping their virginities but I found this vision story ridiculous. So as a christian, her vision told her she would marry a muslim? O.k. Im hoping her husband is the liberal type and 2nd wife wont appear frm nowhere. After 5-10 yrs then she can come back and talk. And by the way, all these details about the wedding night are totally unnecessary. I guess she is the type that fantasizes a lot. She is still in the euphoria phase. She strikes me as a naive lady with no knowledge of experience.

Thank you! If virgins and LovePeddler*s are crying about distressed marriages alike, what's the big catch? She should have waited for at least 5yrs before giving us the tutorial.


Preserving the maiden hood shouldn't be about men, it should about you and how you want it so you don't get disappointed when he doesn't treat you like some pricey jewel.

All these long story because of a piece flesh between your Engine box?


Fine lady though....hopefully a piece of hymen will be all it takes to be happily ever after.

Intolerant should be a better word, for those that are usually cantankerous ,they become more so. For me, every little thing makes me want to cry, the body scent of some people makes me feel like shoving them into a bin. Pregnancy isn't a sickness but that doesn't mean it cannot simulate the symptoms of a disease.

All my hospital visits and lots more as a child was with my dad, i really don't know where you got this from OP. Some dads are useless from the stuffs I have heard though.

Preshila:
choi! Beevan, nne u be real area gangsta...lols

babyosisi:
Do you know what husbands like that do
They suck the woman dry,some trick them to even cash and submit their retirement savings and 401k
I have seen that with my korokoro eyes
Even to buy pad,you will be begging for your own money
The marriage will eventually crash because bloodsuckers like that never get enough ,they suck and suck and control every move,your friends,they cut you away from your loved ones and isolate you to suck you to death until she decides to flee and she is left penniless
Any man that says the marriage must not be peaceful till you give him 100% of your pay check is not of God and must be resisted like the devil himself

How a woman will fall for such scam beats me, love of marriage , fear of what people might say, lack of self esteem that no man is ever going to want them? I don't really get the mental make up of a woman that will fall for such nonsense. Same happened in a neighbor's marriage and she fled like she was chased by a thousand demons, hers was " resign or submit the Money", kids weren't involved.

pickabeau1:
Some believe in evolution

We are talking about you, what do you believe?

pickabeau1:
Not everyone believes that....


The point is that most societies n households have always been led by men..biblical or not

Stop hiding PB, if our bible said that the book of Genesis recorded the beginning of man kind and we believed that, then the reason for patriarchy isn't far fetched.

pickabeau1:
The bible did not make man the Head
Even before Christianity, moat societies havebeen patriarchal

Society started from Genesis (bible) or are you saying the bible lied ? That there is no Adam and Eve? Nor curse, neither was there a serpent?

1stCitizen:
Your argument makes a lot of sense though

As a matter of fact I do not have a problem with who's the head and who 's the tail, i have no problem with being the woman but being the foot stool? , at that juncture thunder gat to fire Satan left nyash .

They claim women are fish brained but to think that these dudes are eating off the hands of a celebrity that will say anything to sell her image is bewildering . A man is the head because that was the curse given to eve for her disobedience(" from this day forward ,the man shall rule over you " ,not that he is equipped with more intellectual capacity than the woman. I won't fight over this head thing but I can't accept a lesser treatment. The man is the head because the bible said so and I can't challenge that, but a woman must be heard, she must be treated with respect , her opinions must count and that is that... .


Most of them doesn't even know how their head ship came about, all they know is chanting head! Head! all the way.

lovinam:
Hahahahah. Afukwana o. I went to do it and was told d senior doc no de bvut d younger ones can do it. We went to cashier to pay na eim one woman call us to d side and say make we wait thje senior doc( he went on vac) to come back o say e go beta for us. Nne I kocha my buhind tapu oso. Maybe she has a failure story to tell me I no wait to hear o. Na dec he go show.

Nne nah IUD you want put? Me no dey IUD before person engine box go start smell like rotten fish, i no fit shout abeg. Una get mind, dey say original doc no dey u still wan pay, una for pay me cheaper make i do the procedure for you


Unu choro ibido tibe the okwe no mercy , i hope ogbanje agaghi agba before this doc atua down