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Locking of shirt? I will beat you to pieces! Nonsense! How dare you? Don't ever try that even if you are drunk.

tchiwinnie:
okk.pls do. i dey o.how ur squad?

Dem dey, urs nko?

tchiwinnie:
i dey hail u too o.


DonaTee, beeevan, udoka2, favoredgal, jam04, LaRoyalHighness, blendy77 calling on u all to come help save a life. nothing s too small/big.

I ll have to read up, howdy babe?

Forget killing, focus on living the life.

I see no difference, abortion is as bad as fornication, adultery, lying, incest, hypocrisy e.t.c and all belong to the pit of hell, what really is the issue or difference you see?


What's the difference between the man that funded the abortion and the woman that housed the aborted foetus? Your friend isn't ready for marriage, confusion flies out of the Window when you are ready.

I have never celebrated any,After service (my first baby) took a few friends to a hotel lounge, bought a few drinks and food, that's all. For others, i baptize my kids and that's that .

coogar:
a woman laid dead after their ordeal.
how can you say he didn't kill anybody? what killed the woman then? what killed the woman but spared the man's life? the woman walked into the hotel room hale & hearty.....so how did she drop dead?

is she a fowl?

I really don't know why, but this statement is amusing .

Aprime:
Nature runs a restuarant called Karma. It's a place where there is no need to place any order. You are autimatically served what you deserve. Next Please...

Exactly what I said when a cheating man was crushed to pieces by a Mack truck while on rendezvous with his mistress, what I don't get is why they attacked me but liked yours . Their really should be a special place in hell for peeps with double standards.

This is as good or as bad as polygamy, i see no difference.

PrettyClare7:
biko,you made the best point.

Nne dalu .

NobleG1:
Well, I guess I was wrong about that. I made that comment with the little experience I had few times I visited banks in Nigeria when I visited Nigeria.

That's ok

stan4b:
Bros, haba. Though, she told me she paid d guy off, so d guy actually might av done it because of money.

Shuu!!Paying for sex to get back at her husband? That's beyond dumb mehn....If you are going to cheat, why not at least enjoy it and face the consequences. Her matter dey heaven..

If you are bold enough to cheat, you should be strong enough to shut the F up! . I just hope you aren't the dude she cheated with though .

aisha2:
Everybody is here tearing cloth. Nobody has asked:

1. Why did you touch her phone
2. What did you do to push her out
3. Why not fast and pray, loose that belle and wear sexy boxers
4. Ignore it, dont question her or nag it will push her to the other mans arms
5. Infact when you catch her sleeping with the man dont say anything instead, do your husbandly roles and when she asks tell her that its probably because you failed as a husband that pushed her out.

Poster sorry for making light of this but the double standard here stinks to the highest level

Oh lawd!!

Soyedele1:
I love nairaland soooo much esp this family section.
When a woman cheats, they start blaming the husband that its his fault and take sides wt d lady that cheated/cheats but when a man cheats, Yu see all kind of insults saying we men are meant to chat bla bla bla

I can forgive yu of any wrong doings but I can never forgive n live with a cheating woman. Those type of women bring death to husband(Yoruba beliefs).

CHEATING IS A CHOICE, NOT A MISTAKE

Thanks

Please where did poster say that he caught his wife cheating? Or do you suggest a man throws his wife out because she was foolish enough to use "hi Love" for another man. If she has committed the act, there won't be a reason for this thread because he did probably be hauling her baggages out.

If you chose to marry a man, you have accepted him in his entirety. You can't love him and hate his name or any other thing you chose to hate.

I don't know, pampering for a full grown woman sounds like you speak of a child ...showing affection is more like it.

Sophyrocks:
Hmm. Caroline, why are you attacking the girls? why dnt you face your Horseband who is being a cheerful giver since the year 1600 bc? You knew the type of man you married. Its useless attacking the girls when your husband is roaming about freely with any lady he fancies. He doesnt give a damn neither do the girls he sleeps with. I know the story that led you to this your ranting. If i were you, since you are so jobless, i would save save save for my exit out of that marriage before he lands you wiith HIV. Your husband is shameless. His story and escapades are all over the place so you will continue to fight all your life. Money was your aim for marrying him so you either deal with it or exit out of that marriage.

Such women are naturally losers, they did rather spend their life fighting off mistresses than get a life. They can't let go of the status that comes with the title.

You will know retired ashanas from the way they address themselves .

I don't know but the moment a dude fronts religion first, i will run for my life. Am lost too on the God fearing ish, especially now that the so called God fearing men are out doing the ' Just men'. Only God can tell who fears him and who doesn't. I did rather take my chances with a man I love and deal with matters as they arise however I deem fit, all these ridiculous criteria no dey gree me understand.

NobleG1:
You either fabricated this story or the lady in question is lying.

Bank customers don't even see bank cleaners because cleaners do their jobs before banks open for business.

Do Nigerian banks have messengers? If any has, do they interact with customers?

Nigerian banks do have guards but they're mostly men.

If you want to fabricate a plausible story, do better next time.

I have never been to access bank without seeing a cleaner or more.

What makes the cleaners unpolished? If they are so 'unpolished', how comes they are more desired than the so called polished bankers, this life sef .

andromida:
19 and so focused on man issues.

Lol, real focused on man issueooo, nah she go tire.

19 is too young to be playing with sex, by the time she is 23, she will be reading very high mileage .let her keep her legs shut, she never reach to date IMO.

You have to give life a meaning for yourself, start your life and step away from the past. Interact, its part of learning, you don't have a friend?

xynerise:
He may be right . He knows you "CATwalk" all the time even to the bathroom

E no get wetin person no go hear for kids' mouth.

You can't express erotic love without having the urge to make it. There is nothing Agape about the kind of love that brings a man and woman together.

Dying single is a better choice, if you need kids, breed some with your bf .

" Mummy why are you walking around like a bussy cat (pussy cat)?" he asked .

jarkbauer:
Thanks for this but I am not giving excuses but providing probable reasons why may plan to cheat. Neither am I ready to play second fiddle. She actually disgusts me right now and my plan is to chase out of my house like bigass said I will give her reasons to go on and cheat. Whether I like it or not I believe she will cheat when the time is right.

Chase her out of the house over a text message? It's obvious the kind of husband you have been. Chase her out and do it fast .

Something is wrong with you if you really expect forumites to donate and fund your 500k business dream . Get your hands dirty and do something, why aren't you asking for a job but money?

jarkbauer:
From the chat I knew the guy is very loaded more loaded than me. Maybe money is the attraction or the bait.

Are you being the husband that you should be or do you assume that it's just about money?