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Godmystrength:
I am not talking about deception.. It is about whether the wife can still go ahead to be on pills without the husband's consent if after discussing and telling him and letting him know and he still refuses to give consent...because some people already said that the wife MUST not be on pills without the husband's CONSENT even if he is aware of it.... He MUST give CONSENT. so no CONSENT, no PILLS??

If after much talking ,the man is not budging , i will do what's best for me, the woman runs the major risk in child birth, whether she is breeding or not is 70 percent her call.

Godmystrength:
Please i never mentioned abortion..(i asked the question and i know what i was asking). the other thread was talking about birth control pills. And please do not bring the other thread into this. Question has nothing to do with the OP of that thread....Thank you...

You got to do what you got to do, when communication isn't making sense, you gat to stop talking and do the needful.

LewsTherin:
It's actually quite easy Efe. I consider myself to be a very lazy person. But like Bill Gates once said, when he needs a job done urgently, he looks for a lazy person to do it because a lazy person will always look for the easiest way to do anything. I am that kind of lazy person. Acting like a "man" is so much hard work. I can't stress myself to be a "man". So I choose to be a lover, a husband, a nice guy. So much easier.

There is nothing like a man with substance and depth, keep it up Sir.

I know male kids born out of wedlock, more than I can count.

Stillfire:
See Joke Silva with much more stellar career and much more longer marriage, if not the longest marriage in nollywood

"I'm Not A Cooking Kind Of Woman & My Husband Is Fine With It' - Nollywood Actress, Joke Silva

http://www.naij.com/66593.html

The couple who have been married for 28 years are still very much in love and have remained inseparable.

Veteran actress, Joke Silva in a recent interview with City People magazine talks about why she doesn’t like cooking and how her husband doesn’t mind someone else cooks for him.

“I have never lied about this, I have never been ‘a doing the cooking kind of woman’. When my husband met me, he knew. He was the one who used to do the cooking because he is good at it. I used to do the cooking when I felt like. Sometimes, it comes out to be a huge success and sometimes a failure. Some years ago, I cooked vegetables and it was terrible and my husband is such a gem, he ate it like that. It is not as if my mum didn’t teach me.

For my husband, cooking is a therapy and for me it is a chore and yet he will always tell you that I look after him so much, I do that in other ways. We have somebody who does the cooking. I have taught them to cook the way I like and we have people who do the general cleaning.”
Olu Jacobs obviously doesn’t mind as his love for his wife as remained stronger as he was quoted in an interview saying marrying Joke was the best decision of his life.

This is more like a healthy marriage, not that " he kicks my butt i apologize, he humps the help I apologize, he poops on my head I apologize " crap that was posted previously. How normal is that? You slap me, i then turn around to apologize? That's crazy mehn...

bukatyne:
What is the place of a woman in the society?

Under Men's jungle boots

Where is LovinaM? Agwo anyi gburu, odi mkpirisi ole?




May it be easy for the belleful mamas.

Congratulations Tbaby4real, may God bless and protect the unborn*** hugs****

EfemenaXY:
Christmas shopping, girls! Whose started?

Just got myself two large frozen and basted turkeys from the supermarket weighing 5.4kg each. Also got a Christmas cake, pudding, cards, and ribbons too.

Oya whose started yet? Chillisauce? Cococandy? Beeevan? Edwife? LyndaRoyce?

Happy midweek to you girls

Christmas? Ha! Never thought of it yet.

thorpido:
Do you pray before making major decisions in other areas?
Just asking.

No, I pray if I have a request to make from God, not before decisions, he already gave me a brain to make appropriate decisions.

ileobatojo:
Ok, I've been reading, yet I'm not getting any lazier....

What gives?

" a lot of people will choose not to be born", your are very right there banana Bender.

breadplanets:
Chai!!! I no do again biko.... The joking is over!

Phema:
I couldn't make it to Dangote's abode, so I decided to just manage Otedola.

Chillisauce:
Thank you, welcome on board. Its an interactive thread. Drop your suggestions too.

Its this place i learned how to wash beans for moi moi without the olden days method.
You will have to put in the blender, use the pulse function for about 10 secs , then rinse it off.
All the scales gone
It has helped ma alot esp when i want to make a fast one.


You owe me for this free information

Suggestions...errrhmmmm, erhmmm, how about blending some crayfish and pepper, then store them away . Chilli no idea,make i dey zoom...

One happily lazy Wife reporting, fire on ma! Chilli one is either lazy or hard working, if hard working ,use grinding stones, hand wash and plant your own cassava. If lazy, chilli is here to help .

Some people mentality sha, a man splitting bills with wify 50-50 is great but wify splitting chores 50-50 is disrespect, nah only God will deliver some people from the spirit of confusion. Man of the house calculating and dividing bills between himself and wify, how silly can a man get. What happens to handing over what you have, she pitches in where needed. Better still, divide the chores as you shared the bills, 50-50 .

Raiders:
I think the OP story is not complete because no man in his right sense will ask his wife to submit 100% of her salary to him. Maybe the husband feels like his wife is not supporting the household financially even tho she has a job. Nothing wrong in splitting the family bills by both couple 50-50. But most Nigeria women think the husband should be responsible for 100% of the house finances while she waste her salary on trival stuffs.

Yes some men do it, the lady in this case couldn't afford to submit the salary and kids weren't involved, they got divorced and both have re married. The lady resigned and moved to the states where she remarried, the man is happily settled here with 2 kids, so.....

meine:
Nope yours Is the most stup!d and dumbezt post for assuming that only women bear the sacrifice of raising a child. See y'all talking as If men don't have any role to play. The guy has the right to go crazy and assuming anything if their marriage was already shaky.

Join the queue, am ready for y ' all this morning.

How many men have died on the delivery beds?

Welcome

breadplanets:
Oh oh.... Now that is scary.

Jaybee's point is why I didn't comment initially,am very playful but my man blatantly telling me he is checking out a girl? E get as e be you, you encouraging him to go for it? What if he wasn't joking? Abeg I no fit shout.

Phema:
You really need to stop making me feel like I've a lost twin.

Phema that's very possible, the doc took you away through that back door usually located in the delivery room, hope they gave you off to one Ibru or Dangote .

I didn't even pray concerning my partner before deciding.

If am in your shoes, i did quit my job because I trust that whatever he earns is as good as mine. If his pay can cater for the family while you seek for another job, please do the needful. Long distance marriage nah rubbish....

Sophyrocks:
Still, Blatant justification to me. WOMEN ALSO STARE AT HOT HANDSOME MEN TOO. We also love men. I Love men too. I love their company. #Continues Filing nails#

Thank you!

iconize:
You probably need some retinal scan to read my initial comment.

Who said the wife pays his bills?

These fellows are just yapping claptrap.

Get your own retinal scan first before ruining another man's marriage with your bad advice.

I hope this woman will be sensible enough to tell him to GTH, criminal husbands everywhere .

A woman will pay half your bills and it's ok,yet he suddenly retrieved his manhood just because he made her some noodles? The mind of the average Nigger is warped mehn...


Don't ruin your friends marriage with your bad advice, if making the meals keeps them bonded, so be it.

Praying and working till their knees and knuckles peels to their bones, i hear ya .

Chillisauce:
Thanks babe. First time

the pie was yummy . Took me a long time though . Howdy

Am good babe, very yummy no doubt, what happened to your calorie errhhmm...erhmmm...counting ?

I will wholeheartedly answer to " The lazy Wife",than be a depiction of the African version of good wife.