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OP this is not a good sign at all, most guy's will consider it a pleasure excusing themselves from friends to pick their fiance from the airport.


Seems you are enjoying the benefits and not ready to let go.

GoodFaith:
E concern u too
lair, secretive and a cheater
Go play with ur toto

If you decide to be rude, don't cry foul when i get back with no regards for anyone or anything you hold dear. Lay off my case, i wouldn't have bothered responding if I knew I was replying a complete dunce.

GoodFaith:
Here u go again " customized cheating machines "
Nigerian women don't cheat, please keep that BS in ur pocket
Nigerian women are the biggest cheater out there but they just do it on the down low
U know better

E concern you .

morenike23:
It's only my mum that knws that am engagedd,am just in 300l.hav tried to confuse him to wait,buh he insist now that we shuldd do intro and don't knw how to confuse him to wait afta the intro...

You don't sound very sure of what you intend doing, 300 level is not that early for marriage but your worry concerning your dad shows you aren't ready. I was in my Year 1 the first time I told my dad that am set to get married . He wanted to start telling me on how young and yadah yadah yadah, i had to quickly remind him how old he was when he got married, cited examples and won him over( though it was after I told him the age of the suitor), he wanted to be sure am not conned into marriage . I don't know your relationship with your dad, am very close to mine and we can discuss like peers, so it wasn't hard for me. By the second semester, wedding plans has commenced, sooo...


He raised the issue of not wanting me to drop out from school because of marriage but my confidence alone couldn't let them resist my request , i seemed so sure of myself .

GoodFaith:

full of shit

Leave me alone and go argue about how Nigeria men are customized cheating machines and Nigeria women meant to watch and applaud. I no too get strength for back and forth .

I had to go read some more, hand picking a maid? Please disregard my first post.

Phema just read your post, you made a whole lot of sense, so sad if she has a pro player on her hands .

Godmystrength, i don't believe in forgiving a cheating partner but i will make an exception with this, he confessed, you didn't catch him. I believe he is repentant.

GoodFaith:
"
"Why Do Nigerian Wives Chase Out Their Maids When Caught With Husband?"
below was from u
If you pay the rent, both husband and maid should be sent parking, if not, still throw down their personal effects and keep the doors locked . They should go somewhere and start a family already.


I wonder how some women ever stayed married to a husband that slept with their help, still have sex with him arrrrgghhhh!


Op your question tire me sha

Eehhhheeee...so?

Some men dey here dey claim I go do this, i go do that if nah me , in real life dey go just dey dey look like dog pikin just like OP .

The future is here...am happy for you OP .

coogar:
resist the temptation....deny! deny!! deny!!!

wait o, where's your evil twin(chillisuya)?

...in the gym, she has a bikini contest coming up.

coogar:
hypnosis?
beev, you want to deny the desperation of some of our naija sisters when it comes to marriage?

I really wish I can vehemently deny it, you swept both feet off the ground . As it stands now, my mouth dey shake jigigigi .

coogar:
men organise it cos women demanded them.

Hypnosis was at play, to get grown women to make a caricature of themselves can't be ordinary .

bukatyne:
You dey mind coogar?

I am sure he pastors one of those churches

Happy sunday

I have no doubt about that ,he seems to understand fully the intricacies of' operation catch a spouse ' miracles


Happy sunday to you too dear, thanks

SAMBARRY:
Na the man go suffer am at least im waka waka go finish. He go turn agarachanwa



na any time she like he go chop

You forget sey nah Naija, people fit Lynch her for not feeding the ' vegetable'.

coogar:
let's look at the facts, shall we?

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beeevan, there's more to come.......

..like bukatyne said, men like you organized these programs, they always assume they know what women want.


Are those banners for real?

coogar:
i thought women prefer marriage to contracts.....or is that assertion wrong?

Very very wrong assertion ooo!!!

When you figure out how to secure contracts, please do let us know, thanks .

hirety:
I feel so sorry for d man cos of d kids. I wish no one died in that accident. the man should have been crippled and others alive. he would now see if d babe n her yeye family go stay or not! death just set him free jare! I no like am!

Being crippled is a punishment to the innocent wife, of what use is a cheating crippled man to the welfare of a family? He will only be a liability and pain to the woman for the rest of his life.

If you pay the rent, both husband and maid should be sent parking, if not, still throw down their personal effects and keep the doors locked . They should go somewhere and start a family already.


I wonder how some women ever stayed married to a husband that slept with their help, still have sex with him arrrrgghhhh!


Op your question tire me sha

I can't forgive nor forget infidelity, might consider forgiveness only when you have served a penance. Only his pain and misery will pacify the hurt caused by his infidelity.


Once it's gone, its gone forever.

bossladyMo:
Abeg gist me na! How many days overdue were you?

Mine was 13 days over due, very swift delivery as the labor only took the distance from my house to the hospital. I birthed him with clothes on, no time for changing.



LovinaM you don do the do?

Good money in my account and I will be leaping with excitement. I don't know how to express emotions, but i have learnt to make efforts....

edwife:
You wicked!

Nah true nah .

coogar:
be nice!

Am trying.

Seriously this man is old, let him be before he breaks his waist. You swore to celibacy the day you chose a man almost two decades older. For better, for worse....

Tuface had lots of babies without marriage, do you have money to fund the baby making scheme? Lots of women will willingly be your baby mama if you are loaded .

This one cheating men are dying here and there like ants, the women should just know where the documents are before he gets crushed by a Mack truck while on weekend rendezvous with his wh*ore. Abeg no cheater should quote me to yarn opata, i know get strength for to and fro.


I doubt the mental sagacity of a man who thinks is Ok for a man to cheat and not a woman. The day you are caught cheating should be the day you stopped counting on her fidelity. A cheating man kills a woman's conscience (if she ever loved him). How some women manage to root for their horn dogs beats me, is it that they are so hopeless, docile or downright stu*pid ? Abeg make i face my work, what you accept, is what you are fed.

Aren't the kids grown enough to put this man in his place?

RuuDie:
I actually just did... its crazy, absurd, difficult, inexplicable... but I did; and I don't regret it!!!

There is nothing wrong with forgiveness if you can, we all can't afford to be that lenient while dealing with cheats.