Please I’ve an issue bothering me rn. I’m thinking of terminating my School though I’m in year 2(1st semester)
I noticed I’m able to make more than 300k a month online these covid season but if I’m in school I don’t make up to this amount because I don’t have enough time to stay online and do things I wanna do.
But I don’t wanna make a decision that’s gonna affect me forever so I’m seeking for your honest opinion.
Should I just terminate this school and focus more on my online Business.
What my online business just require of me is Data(like 50gb per month )and to always be online to run the stuff.
Bro, hold onto the online biz & school simultaneously. By the way, I'm really interested in the online biz; pls link me up so I can use it as a side job. Chat me on WhatsApp +2348032060962. Thanks.
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Millenniumlady: Lies missionary is the fastest way of getting pregnant
Nope, doggy style is actually a faster way of getting pregnant cos the head of the penis hits the G*spot properly (depth penetration) & when sperm is released, they travel easily to the cervix.
PS: Missionary position is actually boring, why would you be looking at each other as if you guys are doing evangelism?
You miss her badly and it's normal it's not s spiritual thing. Breaking up with someone you love is very painful, that's why guys don't fall in love, but give it time and it will fade but don't ever call her or go back to her, it's better you avoid her this period till it passes
@Op, take the advice above. Remember, don't call or communicate with her no matter what. With time, the memories you have about her will fade away.
TheOdumodu: How I got to know about her infidelity
At that time, I was really bent on finding out all her misdeeds though I knew I would get hurt, but I just had to do it. As God will have it, there was one morning when we were about going to church and while she was having her bath, I took her phone and went to her Whatsapp chat with the guy she claimed was her primary school classmate and I could not believe what I saw. In the chat, the guy asked her what they were and she said they were sex mates… My heart began beating faster and I seriously wanted to go to the toilet after reading that (laughs). Immediately she came out from the bathroom, I confronted her and she said it was a game they were playing on Whatsapp that it’s not true. Now, where I messed up was I didn’t really go through the chat and I wasn’t thinking straight at that time so I took her word for it because she sounded so convincing and innocent trust me so I let it go and we went to church.
After I was this close at finding out her misdeeds, she now made her Whatsapp accessible using a pin code and that was what really ascertained me that she actually was a cheat and I said to myself that this time, I must get it right. For my plan to work, I needed her Whatsapp pin so one day while she was with her phone, I pretended to be asleep and when she was about typing her Whatsapp pin, I quickly looked stylishly and I finally got it.
One fateful day, she went out with her female friend and left her phone at my place because it was dead so after she left, I quickly used my laptop to power on the phone and immediately went to her Whatsapp to go through the chats again and this time, carefully so I did just that and from what I saw, she really was a cheat, in fact, the chat was really nasty and I can’t speak of it. Truth is after I read it all, I cried my eyes out cause I felt used and betrayed by someone I trusted a lot. After I got hold of myself, I called her friend so I could speak to her but she hung up so I waited till the next day for her to get back.
The next day seemed to take forever to come but nevertheless, it came and I couldn’t wait to hear another lie from her but at the same time, I was eager to see her cause I feel a void in me whenever she isn’t close to me. Anyways, she later came back and was apologetic, she said she hid it from me because she was scared I would break up and that she never had sex with the guy (I still don’t believe that) but they’ve kissed. It was all like a dream to me but I had to accept reality and although what she did hurt me, I was ready to forgive her and put everything behind as long as she stays away from the so-called primary school classmate, I guess she wasn’t ready to be forgiven. She still spoke to the guy regularly and said she would stop speaking to him soon that she can’t just stop talking to him like that… I was dumbfounded sincerely.
To cut the long story short, I kept having this bitterness inside of me whenever I think of what she did and it was driving me crazy so things fell apart and we went our separate ways.
Conclusion
One of my greatest fear right now is that I’m still in love with her despite all that has happened and that I might not be able to love another the same way or if possible, more. I really want to see her happy, I really do but also, I want her to experience the pain I went through or even far greater pain cause I’m still hurting inside and I don’t know how to let go of this hurt other than thinking about it or expressing it out in writing. The biggest question I have that has gone unanswered is “why did I have to be cheated on and lied to the face?”. I remember her looking me in the eye and telling me there is nobody else, that I’m the only guy she’s with presently… isn’t that witchcraft?
Now I keep asking myself if I was an experiment to her or was I just used to while away time though I have no answer to those questions yet but I’d really like to know if she truly ever loved me but I surely can say I loved her deeply and I still do to the moon and back.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R3Ma22gLYrU# @Op, stop wasting useful energy on ladies, check the link above. You're going to discover an awesome secret there. Indeed you're gonna find out something that will positively shift your reasoning in order to become a better & happier man while you still rapport or mingle with ladies. The ladies we see around these days don't worth any drop of affections & love at all. Just roll with them at you spare time & satisfy yourself first. Remember, no affections or love, no matter how gorgeous/hot they might look.
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thanks.
Make a decision that would suit both of you.
•Tell him/her that you will make full payment from your salary (3,6 or 9 months salary depending on the duration that covers the payment) once they help you secure the job. In fact, be willing to give them additional one month of your salary as a sign of appreciation for adhering to your demand. •Put the agreement on writing & be willing to sign in order to convince them.
~If they disagree to these, don't listen to them further. Keep off, They are hucksters.
festacman: Before before, women were like a pot of coffee. You warm it up and pour in milk jejely. Now, women are more of yam in a mortar. You pound with all your energy. How times change!
I used to be the good guy. the kind to hold the door for ladies. my brother the same ladies you hold the door for will look down on you for it. Chivalry is dead.
Now I'm so careless in my attitude and dealings with females and they can't seem to get enough of me. I swear, even good girls sef like bad boys. Na the way nature wire female sense.
So ignore that girl that you think is the center of your universe and chase money pants down. A thousand girls will beg to be baby mamas for you.
sotherefore: On my opinion....you don't have to be a jerk......the following are those things that make you a nice guy..
1)...if a girl cross your boundary...you will just overlook which means you don't know what you want......never fail to let a girl know when she has offended you no matter how beautiful she may be...
2)..laughing stupidly when you are around her..am not saying you should be Mr.serious but laff when is absolutely necessary or only when it funny to you.....don't be so happy because you have seen her and start smiling like a child....i mean laughed maturedly
3)being afraid to let a girl go....as a man your self respect is more important than her...if she can't respect you....let her go .
4)not having a life......as a man activists in your life should be the most important.....don't always be too available..she called you to come over...don't just agreed as if you are desperate...tell her that you have to check your schedule if there is Time.........don't cancel important events to hang out with a lady..
5)..don't give her money so easily....she ask you for 3000 and you just give to her like that without making her work for it...
MOST IMPORTANTLY.....Don't always try to make her happy....do only thing that you like whether she likes it or not as Long as you are comfortable with it........e.g....a girl may say you like ignoring her but when you start giving her too much attention...boom ! ...she throw you to the nice guy section because she has change you.....ignoring her was the challenge she was facing .now she has changed you and no mystery left............IN A SIMPLE EXPLANATION...PLAY HARD TO GET...NEVER BE A CHEAP GUY..
My guy,go get money,you go know whether pretty ladies fall in love or not....not any how money but better one
Once you start making money & notice pretty ladies are coming around you unlike before, be rest assured that your money is what they came for & 'love' is totally out of the equation.
I doubt this for now although she has lots of secrets which I know. She's just too different and special to me.
Bro, listen to the advice those guys are rendering to you. Take your mind off that lady. Dating or planning a future with her is catastrophic, believe me.
Once you notice that a girl is cheating on you, do not condone such act. I repeat, don't condone such act! No matter how much you love her, exit her from your life cos she has already lost respect for you & will cheat continuously behind your back, possibly even if you marry her.
After few weeks of leaving her, you will get over the emotions and then start hanging out with other ladies & boost your social life.
Mark these words: Never get too committed to a Nigerian lady while dating her (curtail your emotions & affections by all means). Most times, it's not the love a guy has for a lady that prevents him from letting her go, it's actually the commitment, sacrifice & the energy that the guy has put in so far in the relationship that is holding him back, not any 'unrealistic' love. Secondly, make sure your woman loves you more than you love her.
Minnmick10: Good morning guys, I just need advice from mature minds. There is this girl I really love and she know, she loves me too but a times her actions speaks otherwise like she moves with different guys so much and when I call a times,she would just say she is busy but actually she is another guy and it really hurts me. Now the part getting me confused is that sometimes she would visit me and she would cook, clean the house, wash my clothes, and also take me out. so guys I need advices please
Recently, I ended a relationship very similar to this, though I'd have been happier if I followed my intuition earlier. Notwithstanding, I'm glad I made the right choice for my mental & emotional health...I'm experiencing true happiness already.
Guys, if you're in a committed relationship with a lady & you notice that she's seeing other guys, don't hesitate to quit that relationship abruptly; cos it's a time bomb. Here's a standing fact: That kind of lady will continue to cheat on the guy endlessly, even if caught red handed, she would devise another hidden means to cheat. Also (very important), such lady will not RESPECT that guy no matter what. She will continue to act up as though she loves him but in the truest sense, she has no love for him & the respect she has for him has long vanished....she's just pretending all along. Once she gets the 'bigger better deal', she will leave the guy unbeknownst to him.
Nigerian guys should wise up & curtail the affections we have for our ladies these days. They don't worth it. A good number of them are beautiful undoubtedly but something 'dark' lies within them. So endeavour to apply Logic/discretion & don't ever forget to TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS....INTUITION DOESN'T LIE!!
@Op, you've been adviced.....the ball is in your court.
merit455: huh.....,you like him because he does everything you need. If he was just a friend,you will not come and asekd for advice,stingy and greedy African girls
Was never hard before. I be bad boy, me self know. It will only take me some steps to sleep with her but I just like her. I need a relationship with her, so I want to take it slow.
I get format Wella, na she go beg to insert it but na. Let's spread love today
Dey there dey form nice guy by saying you need a relationship with her, other guys who are contributing nothing meaningful to her are sleeping recklessly with your babe to be. At the very end, she will tell you she's a virgin & "no sex till marriage".
iLegendd: You're complaining too much. I guess you're a pastor-to-be. Also, you act like a weak man because of the statement, "But I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it."
Real men want issues while their wives pray for no issues. A relationship where the man does not want issues hardly last. It's more like saying, "I'm afraid of my wife because she is the boss."
I have told men countless times to learn 3 skills, else their marriages or relationships will NEVER last and those skills are
1. How to handle women skill 2. How to make money skill 3. How to manage money skill
You probably have skill 2 and 3, but lack skill 1. They are playing a game and I know the game. Go learn about women and psychology.
When your wife's best friend gets married, your wife will 100% sleep with her friend's husband whether you like it or not. The swinging has already started. They may not even be bisexual or lesbians, but swingers. Though, they exhibited the "bi" attributes.
Modified:
Extra info: I didn't want to say this because it will make you depressed, but I'll reveal it. Your wife is 100% currently sleeping with another man.
That person is probably her ex and he is so great in bed, but as a bad boy, that young man refused to commit, so she dumped him and got married to you before she hits menopause.
She has been cheating with him, but she felt she has betrayed you, so she used her friend to set you up to equalize the cheat.
Now, she no longer feels remorseful. She is so happy the equation is equal. She can now sleep with that young man or those young men day and night without feeling like a LovePeddler or a cheat.
Afterall, she'll say to herself, "I have been with these men and slept with them countless times before I met you. Moreover, you too slept with my friend, so no biggie."
Your wife gained 3 things
1. She is no longer feeling remorseful 2. She is still having the best sex of her life behind your back as she has been having before meeting you 3. If you catch her and accuse her, she will tell you the story of how you first cheated on her with her best friend and paint you as an unfaithful husband
Note: Her best friend has already told her even though they are both acting as if they didn't know what happened. It's all staged. Best friends reveal things to each other they can't even reveal to their parents or spouses. The bond between besties is unexplainable — especially the ones I like to call 'partners-in-crime.'
Women love different sweet dicks and your woman now has the privilege to get as many as she wants without remorse. Why? You did it too and she knows you'll still do it again and again.
She now has the belief that, "For my husband to cheat with my best friend and think I don't know, he can actually cheat with other women, especially his ex, so why shouldn't I cheat with my ex too? After all, if you do me I do you, man no go vex."
Final Tip: Just watch how happier your wife will be nowadays because a huge burden has been lifted off her shoulder. It's just like someone who accidentally killed another woman's child and out of fear, hurriedly buried the child. She will be restless while pretending to be happy — as she silently prays for no one to ever find out. All of a sudden, she woke from sleep and realized it was just a dream.
Do you know how relieved she will feel? That is exactly how your wife is feeling. She believes she can happily fly now like a free bird.
Las las, if yawa gas, she go say na you start am, but truly, she is the one who started the cheating and confided with her partner-in-crime, best friend, to switch the game and make you look like the bad person.
Truly, you are finally the bad person because you weren't man enough to control your marriage and who comes in or how many days a visitor is allowed to stay. That statement you made above is still making me angry. How can a real man say, "But I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it?"
This is the best comment so far in this thread. I doff my hat for you @ I legend. That man really acted like a simp.
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OKOATA: I got redundant at my place of work some few years ago, had a woman and a child to take care of, families here and there and was earning 140k then. I didn’t even bother myself to look for another job, I just went online to search for secrets and that’s what’s keeping me till today. A lot of guys are just lazy to search for informations and secrets online that’s why they prefer meagre salary like 15k, my own sibling was earning 20k per month and they were still oweing him 3 months salary, what do we call that. Those guys feeling depressed and wanting to end it all with sniper I just wonder in despair how lots of guys die in ignorance where you can find bountiful and many secrets online. You have a mobile phone or a laptop to connect to the internet and you are still hungry or broke then you are lazy.
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Romance / Re: No Such Thing As Love In This 21st Century, Be Wise!!! by Beetwaise(m): 12:33pm On Jun 21, 2020 