Romance › Avoid Nigerian Men Like A Plague! by Beey(op): 5:39am On Dec 25, 2016*. Modified: 6:14am On Dec 25, 2016 |
Here are reasons to run from the sweet-talking big boys from the west: 1.They are serious players.Based on my encounter with them and the strange stories I've heard from their fellow Nigerians,I can advise that soft-hearted girl to not even try dating one.If you can't deal with the thought of discovering a secret wife and children or condoms, hotel receipts and multiple online accounts,then you are better off on your own than with a Naija man.Run or he'll play you like a pack of cards. 2.They hold on to some traditions that make them feel entitled to have a final say in every matter.As a woman, you are to be seen and not heard.Their word is law and they'll control you like a puppeteer controls the strings of a puppet.They believe that the place of a woman is the living room, kitchen and then the other room. 3.They will treat you like an after thought and not a priority.Don't dare try to get his attention while he is watching a match with his crowd of fellow skirt chasing,heavy drinking friends.You'll very quickly realize that sports are the dearest thing to him after a heartbeat.Yes, you'll have to pet him like you pet a dog in an attempt to create friendship before you can gain access to a home. 4.They are opportunistic.These men are like a lion in search of prey to devour.Always on the lookout for the weak in the flock in order to prey on her.Be very careful to entertain them when you are vulnerable.Their tongues are sweeter than honey from out the comb.They will lead you like a sheep before it's shearer to your poverty after having milked you dry of everything valuable you had if you are not cautious.They hardly marry foreigners because they do not want a girl who cannot kneel down for their momma.So if he is promising you paradise and you have not spoken and met with any of his family members, honey he is taking you for a ride like a potential buyer test drives a car only to end up not like it and then returns it back on display after taking a ride in it.If you meet this kind, sweetie, Run like mad in the opposite direction!
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Christianity Etc › Re: Merry Christmas to everybody in Nigeria. by Beey(f): 1:52am On Dec 25, 2016 |
HungerBAD: May all you guys have a wonderful Christmas.
Remember this is a season of love and for giving. So make sure you shoe your neighbors some love.
Call that guy/lady you have been beefing,and be the adult and just forgive them.
Do not drink and drive,and please be responsible when you have fun on Christmas day.
Anybody that is first to post a picture of Christmas Rice and Stew on this thread,gets N10,000 recharge cards.
It has to be a real picture. Not some copy and paste pix from the Internet.
God bless you guys as you Celebrate your Christmas. So your profile picture says that you are proud to be a Freemason .What business do you then have with Christmas, having in mind that one cannot successfully serve two masters? |
Romance › Re: Photos Of A Bride & Her Squad Got Guys Drooling by Beey(f): 11:41pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
; agrovick: Lolllll, we will continue this tomorrow.
Nice to meet you Beey, even though you tried coming in like a wrecking ball. Merry Christmas to you  >:  .Ok, Merry Christmas! |
Romance › Re: Photos Of A Bride & Her Squad Got Guys Drooling by Beey(f): 11:24pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
agrovick: Stop running faster than your shadows , the backflips and the flag thing are unrelated.
You've assuaged my curiosity as to your nationality though, do you mind telling me why Kenya seems to be the hub for crazy happenings? A lot of stories have trended here Nothing out of the ordinary happens in Kenya.The stories that come from there, are not unique to my country alone.But, for some reason, some Naija people seem to have a special interest in Kenya.Out of all over 50 African countries, never do they post as much about those countries, as they do with Kenya.Even your neighbor Ghana, I hardly see stories from there.Strange events happen all over , but for some reason,Kenya seems to have a special place in the hearts of Nigerians. |
Romance › Re: Photos Of A Bride & Her Squad Got Guys Drooling by Beey(f): 11:16pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
nwakibie3: I thought ppl that do bride's maid and best man are singles.... Not really, even old couples get their age mates to serve in the capacity of groomsmen/bridesmaids. |
Romance › Re: Photos Of A Bride & Her Squad Got Guys Drooling by Beey(f): 10:58pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
agrovick: Start doing backflips  
That's a Kenyan flag right? Yes it is.Being Kenyan isn't an automatic license to becoming an athlete. |
Romance › Re: Photos Of A Bride & Her Squad Got Guys Drooling by Beey(f): 10:41pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
agrovick: Hahaha, boring atmosphere in your location? Troublesome, I know I am but today, am sort of bored. |
Romance › Re: Photos Of A Bride & Her Squad Got Guys Drooling by Beey(f): 10:34pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
agrovick: Troublemaker, are you by chance in the shared pictures? LOL,I am just tired of being quiet during this season. |
Family › Re: Father Forces 13-Year-Old Daughter To Marry 56-Year-Old Man With 3 Wives In Kano by Beey(f): 10:07pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Photos Of A Bride & Her Squad Got Guys Drooling by Beey(f): 10:00pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Xensity: I didn't drool. All I see is mental sheep in their late 20s with paint on their objectively average faces. So if they are mental sheep, what are you, mental rat? |
Romance › Re: Photos Of A Bride & Her Squad Got Guys Drooling by Beey(f): 9:59pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
agrovick: All I see is layers of make-up, thick ones at that.
They should all go and sit down somewhere and stop disturbing the peace of the world wide web  Did they force you to look at them? |
Romance › Re: Photos Of A Bride & Her Squad Got Guys Drooling by Beey(f): 9:58pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Seun: Check out the 2nd lady from the right middle row of pic 1. She is the first from the right on pic 3 too. Ahh, Oga Seun, so you have flesh & blood afterall and an eye for good things to top it up?I thought you were super human  |
Romance › Re: Photos Of A Bride & Her Squad Got Guys Drooling by Beey(f): 9:55pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Photos Of A Bride & Her Squad Got Guys Drooling by Beey(f): 9:55pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
lefulefu: Nigerian women are pretty no doubt.if u reach other African countries and see their women and come bck to naija u go admit dat naija babes are really beautiful. How many other African countries have you been to?Let's see your picture. |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Can I Do About Noise Pollution By A Church? by Beey(f): 7:02pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Fiyinfoluwa20: So, our close used to be the most serene place I know, now this church just moved into a building behind mine and they have had like 3 services since yesterday. We cannot live peacefully again with all the instruments and noise and FYI, we have a church in our close and we don't even hear from them save on Sundays, they don't disturb at all.
What authorities can one report this to that would be swift to act.
This is madness!
I am a liberal and I never read anywhere in the Bible where Jesus or any of the apostle for that matter disturb people to pass their message.
Who has had similar experience and how did you handle this? The only thing you can do, is to soundproof your home if you can afford, as the soundproof recording studios to prevent any noise that may interfere with recording.It can be very expensive though but if you can afford, that would be your option. |
Events › Re: Liberian Couple Ride In Keke To Their Wedding Venue (Photos) by Beey(f): 2:49pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Kenyan Pastor Dies From Overdose Of Viagra In Hotel Room by Beey(f): 8:53am On Dec 24, 2016 |
konkonbilo: Is there a better hell than Nigeria? LOL, atleast that didn't come from me.  |
Health › Re: #A Rogue Doctor Exposed. by Beey(op): 8:31pm On Dec 23, 2016*. Modified: 11:23pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
[quote author=HungerBAD post=52202355]Cool.
So let's remain friends aiight?make babies not war. |
Health › Re: #A Rogue Doctor Exposed. by Beey(op): 8:19pm On Dec 23, 2016*. Modified: 11:23pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
HungerBAD: Cool.
So let's remain friends aiight?make babies not war. |
Health › Re: #A Rogue Doctor Exposed. by Beey(op): 8:14pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
HungerBAD: Cool.
Don't take it personal,I have a lot of Kenyan cool friends okay?I am in the 310 area code and you? Am on area code 774 |
Health › Re: #A Rogue Doctor Exposed. by Beey(op): 8:12pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
HungerBAD: Cool.
Don't take it personal,I have a lot of Kenyan cool friends okay?I am in the 310 area code and you? I don't really take it personal but I always come to defend my people  |
Health › Re: #A Rogue Doctor Exposed. by Beey(op): 8:02pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
HungerBAD: So you are a Kenyan?was wondering why you got mad about my statement on Kenyan women. Kenyan by birth, American by adoption |
Romance › Re: Kenyan Pastor Dies From Overdose Of Viagra In Hotel Room by Beey(f): 7:39pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
1stCitizen: Add Zimbabwe and Uganda pot calling kettle black |
Romance › Re: Kenyan Pastor Dies From Overdose Of Viagra In Hotel Room by Beey(f): 7:35pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
HungerBAD: A Pastor.
A Secret lover.
A bottle of Viagra.
It cannot get better than this. I am still thinking on which of the 3 Aforementioned things I should write about.
But hey,it's Kenya and nothing good comes out from that Country,except sexual matters. I think Sex should be made a National Sports in Kenya.
Kudos to our Nigerian women. You will not know how decent Nigerian women are until you encounter women from South Africa,Kenya,Jamaica and the African Americans.
These women make our women look like MOTHER TERESA. Go to hell!Mycheeeeew |
Romance › Re: What This Girl Did To Me Just Made Me Hate Girls. by Beey(f): 12:47am On Dec 22, 2016 |
Jbond: Ok, but from your point of view seems you ain't a patient lady, if you're in a relationship try not to make hasty decisions aii? Safe. Nawa oh.We completely went off topic because of this your question.Now sounds like this is getting personal.Am out please! |
Romance › Re: What This Girl Did To Me Just Made Me Hate Girls. by Beey(f): 7:56pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
Jbond: Yeah I get your drift. And the lady in question might be saying the truth about not being with her phone, sometimes we find it easy to make conclusions about other person and tag what they say lies or what they do as deceitful, but want people to believe us when we tell them stuffs. We should try and love without expecting the same in return all the time, love can never be 50-50, the best one can get is 60-40. I think our views are a little different because if I give out of love to someone am in a love relationship with, I shouldn't expect material things but love should be reciprocated.You hold a different view than mine and we could go on and on.But he decision is left for the writer to make. |
Romance › Re: What This Girl Did To Me Just Made Me Hate Girls. by Beey(f): 1:39pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
Jbond: Cool anyway, but I was not really cool with the milking dry aspect you mentioned, cos helping someone that is not financially upright simply cos you're in a position to do so does not translate to the person milking you dry, cos I'm sure if the person is in a better position he or she won't be in need of help. And sometimes people end up tagging everything to the money ish and won't even care if the person really loves them or not. I think you did not understand me.Helping someone who needs the help, am all for it.If you are in a position to help someone, please do it.My issue is when love is not reciprocated.You have to chase them time after time and yet they claim to love you?Or they always have a million excuses why they couldn't talk like the guy explained about the girl in question.If that's the case, even if you rendered help with a pure mind, you'll definitely feel used as though the other party was after you for the help you gave and not coz of love.Coz as I told the OP in a previous post, if the love is real, you won't have to beg for it.You won't have to chase after them for proof.When you are loved, you'll know.Because that girl or whoever one is in love with, will answer their calls, they won't be with you and be contacting other men/women , they won't have a million excuses.So the issue of milking dry came in to describe when you genuinely help someone, but at the end of the day you realize they never loved you, but were enjoying the help.Because love is not in all about empty words, but it's words and actions.Hope am clear and you understood my advise for this guy that wrote. |
Literature › Re: Diary Of A Broke Playboy by Beey(f): 1:28pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
gtin: Lol, it means scatter LOL.Oh ok. |
Romance › Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Beey(f): 5:30am On Dec 21, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Beey(f): 3:27am On Dec 21, 2016 |
aigjoey: For this same nasty behavior I just left my girl last week. She has the same attributes and nature of your baby mama. She argues too much.. Nags more than buharis government,,, always right,, talk too much... In fact u can never correct her. The only time we are friends is during sex. In fact we even quarreled at times during sex. She is so some how. Ahhh.. God forbid.. My brother, I warned her, advice her, begged her to change but at d end she refused. Next for me was to walk out before I die young. If I mistakenly married her, I will be beating her everyday and u know the implications. My brother am out of her life for good and already have a girlfriend now who listen to voice of reasoning and homely. Pls run away.. U just cannot cope with her if eventually u two are married. Run o... Run oo You left your gf last week and you already found a replacement? Na wa oh |
Romance › Re: What This Girl Did To Me Just Made Me Hate Girls. by Beey(f): 1:52am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Jbond: I don't really know how this issue relates to milking someone dry according to a lady's comment previously, people tend to tag gold digging and all that to a relationship if one party is financially stable than the other even when the person really loves the financially stable partner. Anyway ma niggy just do your thing and keep yourself occupied with positive vibes and the right lady will come along. It depends on your perspective to my writing Jbond.I don't think one party supporting the other that's not as financially stable is an issue.Problem comes in when they don't have time as the writer was complaining that they had a plan with the girl,and then she went quiet on him.The story of her brother taking her phone doesn't make sense coz I don't get how one can take somebody's phone away without their consent if it's not a case of theft.When there are never ending excuses, it's most likely one is a side dish and there's a main course somewhere.Those who have a forgiving nature will always be quick to forgive a person who doesn't value them and who is having fun with other women or men whichever the case might be , as one might come to learn because where there's smoke, there's fire.That's why my advise to the writer was not to love so much to the point of looking desperate coz once under the mercy of those kind of people, your value and respect go down.If it's love, he won't have to beg for it. |
Literature › Re: Diary Of A Broke Playboy by Beey(f): 12:24am On Dec 21, 2016 |
gtin: Dnt change pls i luv d old u scara Scara? What does that mean? |