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HungerBAD:
A Pastor.

A Secret lover.

A bottle of Viagra.

It cannot get better than this. I am still thinking on which of the 3 Aforementioned things I should write about.

But hey,it's Kenya and nothing good comes out from that Country,except sexual matters. I think Sex should be made a National Sports in Kenya.

Kudos to our Nigerian women. You will not know how decent Nigerian women are until you encounter women from South Africa,Kenya,Jamaica and the African Americans.

These women make our women look like MOTHER TERESA.

Jbond:
Ok, but from your point of view seems you ain't a patient lady, if you're in a relationship try not to make hasty decisions aii? Safe.

Jbond:
Yeah I get your drift. And the lady in question might be saying the truth about not being with her phone, sometimes we find it easy to make conclusions about other person and tag what they say lies or what they do as deceitful, but want people to believe us when we tell them stuffs. We should try and love without expecting the same in return all the time, love can never be 50-50, the best one can get is 60-40.

Jbond:
Cool anyway, but I was not really cool with the milking dry aspect you mentioned, cos helping someone that is not financially upright simply cos you're in a position to do so does not translate to the person milking you dry, cos I'm sure if the person is in a better position he or she won't be in need of help. And sometimes people end up tagging everything to the money ish and won't even care if the person really loves them or not.

sirusX:
^^^^ You go fear that kain thing

@aigjoey...this your own get k-leg too. one can't just get a girl to accept within a week except u've bn nursing her before you broke up a.k.a. cheating

aigjoey:
For this same nasty behavior I just left my girl last week. She has the same attributes and nature of your baby mama. She argues too much.. Nags more than buharis government,,, always right,, talk too much... In fact u can never correct her. The only time we are friends is during sex. In fact we even quarreled at times during sex. She is so some how. Ahhh.. God forbid.. My brother, I warned her, advice her, begged her to change but at d end she refused. Next for me was to walk out before I die young. If I mistakenly married her, I will be beating her everyday and u know the implications. My brother am out of her life for good and already have a girlfriend now who listen to voice of reasoning and homely. Pls run away.. U just cannot cope with her if eventually u two are married. Run o... Run oo

Jbond:
I don't really know how this issue relates to milking someone dry according to a lady's comment previously, people tend to tag gold digging and all that to a relationship if one party is financially stable than the other even when the person really loves the financially stable partner. Anyway ma niggy just do your thing and keep yourself occupied with positive vibes and the right lady will come along.

butanep:
You have indeed spoken maturely. I like the way you dish it out.

Laveda:


Respek! You made lotta sense.

daniska3yaro:
Damn u really hit the nail on the rock,nice advice.

Kenshinmunac:
*sigh* searching and searching for a girlfriend, all to no avail. Young cool fine guy, but very lonely, no girlfriend. I don't think at this point with all this rejection that I will ever get married in life.

I have searching for a gf, met some girls who turned out to be nasty gold diggers, I didn't wanna waste my time on them cause I'm not a flirt, I'm not looking for a short term relationship so having "fun" with all these girls seemed like a waste of time to me as Sex is not my problem, love is.

So I met this girl few days back, we got talking, I fell for her instantly, she looked calm and very honest, she is not all these girls who do kk in chat, she is caring and very simple, hard to come by., we flowed really well chatting and I was very happy I found someone as I quickly asked her out and she said "let's see how it goes"

I said okay, so today being Sunday, normal chilling day, I called her, very eager to see her beautiful face once more, we got talking and she said I should come to her side.

So I said okay by six,

Six reach I entered road straight to her side, 30 mins drive, when I got close I dialled her number twice she didn't pick I thought maybe she was taking her bath or something was patient and kept on going, so when I got there by 7pm, I called and called but she didn't pick up the call and she was expecting me o!

Na so I begin call her, Even send whatsapp message and direct message all to no avail. I got so maddddd and pissed off, I almost cried because I don't know why I'm being treated like this by ladies. Head to toe I complete, face I fine, fashion sense Is great, but yet, my handsomeness and the growing cash I get can't even get me the slightest fly talk less about a lady

*sigh*

By 5 mins past 8 she called me, by then I was already going home, and she began to plead, this where error words.

"please I'm sorry, my elder brother took my phone to share WiFi, I didn't know he would go far"

I asked "didn't you tell him you were expecting someone"?"

She replied" i did na but he did not listen, I can't just come and stand on the road and be waiting for you, please don't be angry"

In my heart I said Chai! What kind of excuse is this?? This girl just told me indirectly that I'm not important.

So painful.

I see guys with their girl very happy preparing for Christmas, me i have none. All I do is admire beautiful couples and wish It could be......

Unfortunately the sad reality greets me in my face.

I begin to lose my self confidence gradually because of rejection.

Smh, all I feel right now is self pity, all I can do is lament.

I don't know if I just dislike women right now self.

JuicyGee:
Uhm.. I think I've been depressed since 2007.. The thing is I don't know if its depression. I mean, can someone be depressed without knowing it for such a long time? I'm really lazy to type right now.. All I can say is I went into a deep sadness in 2007/2008 when my parents divorced. Then I had self esteem probs in through out secondary school.. I enjoy being alone.. Sometimes I wish I was alone in the whole world. This morning I woke up having suicidal thoughts (to me I just think its me messing with my imagination, nothing serious), inflicting pain on myself emotionally and it feels good.. I don't know.. Maybe it isn't depression, maybe I'm having a bad morning, maybe its my period messing with my head. I just think its one of those sad days.. I don't know

veekid:
Subhanallah

Airforce1:
Nice settings



Rejoice with me guys..
today mark the 7th month i stopped doing drugs.
I'm a better guy now living a cool and happy life without drugs.

rowland545:
My friend got pregnant and she said she intends removing it. So we bought a lot of drugs from pos.. to mes... u name it, we bought all so it did not work...

Then there was this one she bought I've forgotten the name . After she took it she began to bleed . We thought that was it, so the next day, we bought pregnancy strip to test and its still showing two lines which is positive.... Then we waited for a week and she went to the lab and it's still showing positive...

Is it positive for the baby to still be there or is it out? .I'm confused. Doctors in the house, pls help ...pls no abusive words.....