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gloria34:
I really dont see anything wrong in d use of condom between married couples o, I'll even prefer that, who wants to constantly b on pills. but if d pill will b taken by d man, no problem

z11111:
First of all , you need to seek counsel from a higher person in your church , meaning you will inform your husband . It may not be easy but you have to.
What ever he says , stand.

z11111:


She is contributing to it nah.

or is it not a woman that decides to get pregnant or not ?

Zinny25:
Mtchhheeew nothing wey person no go read.

z11111:
It's better he tells the wife first that d lady informing her.

fancy4eve:
U really need 2 calm down nd talk 2 ur wife, make her see reasons why u don't want her step brother in d house again nd if she insist, u make her choose btw u both, her reaction will tell, cus I know she can not pick her step bro ova u nd pls do not install any camera, cus it might lead 2 a broken home. Just talk 2 her nd if possible, wit d step bro.

DonroxyII:
lol, they are bleeping joor !!!

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z11111:
Dear Jzhane,

I graduated about four years ago after struggling to put myself through school yet I couldnt find a job. I did all kinds of menial jobs just to get by. I sold food,I sold drinks,I did catering,I taught at a primary school where they paid me N5k every one or two months. It was really tough to get by in Eket. I was really suffering and I almost quit but I reached out to my aunty in lagos and begged her to allow me come and look for a job in Lagos which I believed would be better than my options here in Eket. Initially she refused,she said she is living in a one man bedroom with her lover,she wasnt sure if the man would agree.

Two weeks later,she called me to start coming that the man says they will manage. I got to Lagos last year August with high hopes of finding a job. And it was not easy. I ended up taking a job as a house maid. I couldnt stay long cos the husband of the woman who hired me,started coming after me the first night I slept in their house. I quit the job and the next job I took as a maid,I would be going and coming during the day.

It was not easy sharing one room with my aunty and her man but I didnt have a choice. I slept on the floor,while they slept on the bed. One day,my aunty’s lover started making advances at me. I was shocked and reported him to my aunty. My aunty just shook her head and said: just use condom my dear. I couldn’t believe her. she didnt see anything wrong in this. she said,she dosent have a choice. she suspected it would come to this. He was the one paying for the room. If she refused,he would leave her. I told her to let him go and she said,dont you know man is difficult to find these days.what man does not cheat. That I should relax,she is fine with it. I just couldnt believe it. I thought long and hard about this. My aunty reassured me that she is totally ok with it. That most people in Lagos have to go through things like this to make it.

The next time the man came after me was on Sunday evening,my off day. I resisted a while until I finally agreed. Since then,almost every other day,this man wants to sleep with me. My aunty bought me contraceptives cos he refused to wear condoms. I was sad for my aunty but strangely,I began to relax like she said and it felt like I was in a relationship with the man. He became my lover. I used to look forward to sleeping with him. He also preferred me to my aunty cos I am younger and prettier. This did not go down well with my aunty. She stopped talking to me and started to keep malice with me. But she couldnt do anything for the fear of loosing the man.

The big problem now ..

https://livelystones.com.ng/help-i-mistakenly-fell-in-love-with-my-auntys-lover/

kingkakaone:
Yes bro it is not easy sometimes, but I have always passed that uneasy route in dealing with people and it has made me live in peace and joy.
The truth is that if u don't communicate with her, u will be hurting urself more than now.
Sooner or later that hurt grows to become a volcano which might destroy whatever good moments u had with her.

Sheggun1:
My sister...... Don't stay with cheater ooooooooooo....... All u need to do is prayer and follow ur mind

chenzen:
honestly u av to tell her plainly u aint ready

Papanwamaikpe:
Na she dey impregnate herself? Mkpi!

lenghtinny:
I keep saying hoes deserves no love


All she needs are dicks in wholesale quantities

Innov8ve1:
Oga you need to let her know you are not ready. Dont let anyone push you to do what you arent ready to do else you end up blaming yourself at the end of the day.


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z11111:
Traditional men self.

It's until you start going outside that his eyes will open

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amakadihot87:
When she delivers this baby ,take her to any general or teaching hospital so she can enroll for family planning.....
.....any good gynaecology can as well do it.........i think IUCD is the best........

DeadRat:
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mgtow:
Nothing like love here. It's better he lets her go. He can't derail his life and his plans because of her, and if she's not an understanding person there is no point. And marriage doesn't bring any miraculous favour though I get what you're saying. People should plan their lives properly before jumping into something as serious as marriage. A man should get married only when he is self assured and convinced that he can handle the demands and responsibility that come with marriage based on realities on ground not just on faith or hope. Have a great week.