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RomanceRe: Mother In Law From Hell: My Mother In-law Calls Me A Bastard by Beke2020(op): 8:57pm On Mar 13, 2018
Nice point, we learn every day
shaybebaby:
I had a somewhat similar experience only this time it was my man's sister. Same sort of ish.

I ignored her till she left, made sure I wasn't about to say bye and once she'd gone, told OH I didn't want her darkening my doorstep ever again. Followed by blocking all lines of communication (Facebook, WhatsApp etc) we had previously. No time. angry
RomanceRe: My Father’s Lies & Betrayal Keeping Me From True Love by Beke2020: 8:44pm On Mar 13, 2018
Hello young man, i know this might sound harsh. Will advise you move on with your life and let everything be dead to you i.e past
z11111:
New Post Alert!

Good Morning Admin,

Thank you for sharing my story on your blog yesterday. I actually took some of the advice I got and I had a discussion with my dad yesterday. I called him and told him to meet me at my place last night. He came around 9pm. I told him I had decided to tell Mom about his infidelity with Aunty Nancy and that I wanted him to have the opportunity to do it himself or I will.

My dad got very angry and started shouting at me. He said I dont know how much he has sacrificed for my mom and us. That he was not the one with fertility issues. That my mom had lived a bad life before marriage. Had so many abortions and in marriage had problems with her womb so she couldnt get pregnant. That he didnt judge her but she deprived him of having his own biological children. He said he didnt plan to sleep with Aunty Nancy but at the time,my mom was more focused on her career than him and he was very lonely.

According to him,he has placed everybody's happiness first before his for many years and that he will not do that anymore. He said if I went ahead to tell mom,he would disinherit me and that there is no way he would let me marry Maya because he raised me as his son and even though I am adopted,he cannot see two siblings marry. We had a very heated argument. I told him to hell with his inheritance

https://livelystones.com.ng/remy-fathers-lies-betrayal-nathan-responds-contd-from-yesterday/
RomanceRe: How I'm Stucked In A Sexless Marriage And No Chance To Excape by Beke2020: 8:31pm On Mar 13, 2018
how? i dont mean blue film.
lefulefu:
that na sin
RomanceRe: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Beke2020: 8:01pm On Mar 13, 2018
Absolutely!
z11111:
Yes Man
But it doesn't conclude that a lady's level of exposure or virginity tells how good or bad she is.
RomanceMother In Law From Hell: My Mother In-law Calls Me A Bastard by Beke2020(op): 7:29pm On Mar 13, 2018
Good Morning ma,

I have only been married for seven months and I think I realize now that I have made a mistake in getting married to Chidi. I am thinking of a temporary separation in order for us to decide if this marriage will work out or not.

To be fair to my husband,he is trying but it seems our marriage is not meant to be. In Africa,men choose their mother first before their wife,maybe because they feel they have known the mother longer than the wife.

Chidi’s mother hates me and is doing everything to ensure I do not enjoy my marriage to her son. Right from when we were dating,she always made very unfriendly comments and that worried me but Chidi kept telling me not to worry as all I needed to do was get closer to the mom so she will get to like me. I did everything I could in my power. I visited her,bought her gifts,cleaned for her but she still didnt like me. Our marriage almost didnt hold,we broke up one time because of her but I guess the love was too strong,we got back again.

Since I got married,the same thing has been going on,even worse. Chidi’s mother’s problem with me is the fact that I was raised by a single mother and my grand mother too was a single mother. She said I was not raised properly and as such,not fit for her son. Her son,to the best of my knowledge has never complained about me. If anything,he loves me so much. But his mother keeps taunting me and that gets us into various arguments and I end up crying.

At first,I decided to ignore this woman. But she came to visit us and practically made life difficult for me. She refused to eat my food. She would go to the market and buy her own food stuff and cook her own food in my own house. When I complained to my husband,he begged me to just ignore her. That she is only visiting and will soon leave. But she makes food for my husband from her cooking and that really annoys me. I quarreled with my husband as to why he would eat his mother’s food and ignore mine. He will then try and be forcing himself to eat mine too. This was really frustrating.

Another thing I found very annoying was the fact that once my husband gets back from work,she engages him in conversation until past mid night. That truly pisses me off. She has taken over the time I have to bond with my husband. Its even affecting our sex life. I have been trying to conceive and not having regular sex is not helping. My husband says his mother will soon leave but she has been with us for almost two months. He says he cannot chase his mother away as it is against tradition. The sons’s mother is allowed......


https://livelystones.com.ng/mother-in-law-from-hell-my-mother-in-law-calls-me-a-bastard/
RomanceRe: Craaaaaazzzzy!!!…how A Married Woman Enjoy Being Raped! by Beke2020: 8:49am On Mar 13, 2018
I totally disagree with u. Sex is made to be enjoyed. Just the way u get a rouse, same way you should feel satisfied when you have inter course. As a man, how do you feel when ur sex partner stop ur half way when u have not ejaculated? Frustrated! Same with ladies. Let be fair in our judgement.
RomanceRe: How I'm Stucked In A Sexless Marriage And No Chance To Excape by Beke2020: 8:39am On Mar 13, 2018
Lol! If not properly manage sex issue can destroy a marriage
Pricelessangel0:
undecided Maybe this is why a guy was asking me if am really sexual active? when i was telling celibacy is my way until wedding night
RomanceRe: We GOT Married Against Our Parent Wish And Now.... by Beke2020: 10:38pm On Mar 12, 2018
Parents and their wahala
RomanceRe: My Brother In Law Has Been My Lover For More Than 10 Years by Beke2020: 10:10pm On Mar 12, 2018
Things dey happen ooo
RomanceRe: My Two Years Old Marriage Crash Because Of This...... by Beke2020: 9:15pm On Mar 12, 2018
shikina
habsydiamond:
Bro..Na dictionary u write ooo...I don tire as I dey read and even weak sef....I go need agbara bitters to come back strong....but the small I read...u money issue Una get...go and get a better job....
RomanceRe: Were Celibate For Two Years,how Could She Lie To Me? by Beke2020: 9:07pm On Mar 12, 2018
You make sense die
Hector09:
Thou am still a virgin oo, but frm xperience, having a large hole does nt mean that she bleeps along, it might be d cus of her body size or d other way round
RomanceRe: Craaaaaazzzzy!!!…how A Married Woman Enjoy Being Raped! by Beke2020: 8:41pm On Mar 12, 2018
Haba, read the story again
xynerise:
I guess she collected the robbers phone number and tells him when to rob again grin
FamilyRe: Is God Punishing Me In My Marriage For My Sins Against His Servant? by Beke2020: 8:18pm On Mar 12, 2018
God don't punish people like that. He is a good God the bible says
RomanceRe: Craaaaaazzzzy!!!…how A Married Woman Enjoy Being Raped! by Beke2020: 6:10pm On Mar 12, 2018
cool
DeadRat:
So What Do You Want Me To Do Now? undecided



Call The Police?
RomanceRe: Man Contemplates Suicide As Wife Treats Him With So Much Contempt by Beke2020: 5:57pm On Mar 12, 2018
Woman & money are 5 & 6, a man who cannot effort to take care of his wife, will have some else take of her. Its a woman's nature. If am permitted to use that language
RomanceRe: How Do I Protect My Husband From Preying Hawks by Beke2020: 5:46pm On Mar 12, 2018
elyna:
I wish her the best of luck, she's going to be needing it,few years from now, she hasn't seen anything yet, she should continue reading his text messages, thank God the hubby is a doctor, I'm sure he'll be able to prescribe hypertension drugs.
Lol! She lady misinterprete the meaning protect your marriage. They think it by suspecting and poke nosing into their husband sms, and checking every call he makes. Senseless intuition I call it
RomanceRe: My Father’s Lies & Betrayal Keeping Me From True Love by Beke2020: 1:58pm On Mar 12, 2018
.....comment loading
RomanceRe: How I'm Stucked In A Sexless Marriage And No Chance To Excape by Beke2020: 1:26pm On Mar 12, 2018
Cases like this require patience. Encourage her to watch alot of american films.
RomanceRe: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Beke2020: 11:01pm On Mar 11, 2018
You are 100% correct! Load of excuses especially for those living in busy cities like Eko
BossLaifay:
One mans meat they say.... Lol. What is scaring you is what 99.9% of married men now long for because they probably get placed on a time table topped with excuses of headache and body ache and tiredness and whatever the hell else is in the book of excuses.... Ekpele
RomanceRe: After Four Years And Betrayer, She Wants To Come Back.... by Beke2020: 4:16pm On Mar 11, 2018
Hmnnnn! It yours to make. But what ever you decision, prayerfully do.
RomanceRe: I Am In Love With A Womanizer...can A Baby Change His Mind? by Beke2020: 4:10pm On Mar 11, 2018
Look before you leap
RomanceRe: How Do I Handle My Husband Elder Brother Excesses? by Beke2020: 4:08pm On Mar 11, 2018
Take charge....
FamilyRe: My Brother In Law Has Been My Lover For More Than 10 Years by Beke2020: 4:02pm On Mar 11, 2018
Any thing and everything is possible my dear friends
RomanceRe: How Do I Protect My Husband From Preying Hawks by Beke2020: 3:56pm On Mar 11, 2018
They are every where!
Jokes EtcI Regreted Marrying A Village Girl by Beke2020(op): 10:55pm On Mar 10, 2018
Dear Admin,

I am a young man of thirty two. I deliberately searched for a wife to marry from my village because I fear women from the city here. So when I was ready a year ago,I sent my parents to help me find a wife.

Uru my wife just finished her NCE and everybody know here in the village as a very good and quiet, I was very happy when my parents chose her for me. Even when I was courting her (we courted for like 2 months before our wedding),she used to be very shy and reserved and I was impressed by how homely and godly she was.

Our wedding came and I was very much satisfied when I found out on our wedding night that Uru was a virgin. Because of this,I didnt fear or have any cause to fear or suspect my wife. She moved to join me here in the city but what I am seeing after the marriage is......


http://livelystones.com.ng/my-wife-pretended-to-be-innocent-but-i-am-scared-of-what-she-will-do/
RomanceRe: I Have Needs But Marriage Is Not The Answer by Beke2020: 9:28pm On Mar 10, 2018
you just spoke my mind
Splinz:
Dear 39 year old woman...

You're free to go into the world and fvck your kitty out without marriage. But mbok, do not drag the name of Christianity into it.

However, if you feel your nunu tickles every now and then and wets you like the Atlantic, and you still want to be part of what ever is called 'Christianity', you may consider doing the right thing.

Dazzol.
RomanceRe: Craaaaaazzzzy!!!…how A Married Woman Enjoy Being Raped! by Beke2020: 8:52pm On Mar 10, 2018
This story got me thinking....
RomanceRe: Oblivious Husband: How His Rejection Driving Me To A Friendly Enemy by Beke2020: 8:51pm On Mar 10, 2018
True talk
olasaad:
Not only on social media, but in this life generally
RomanceRe: I Waited For Him For Four Years But He Took My Daughter Away by Beke2020: 8:48pm On Mar 10, 2018
easier said than done. its her blood. wont be easy to let go like that
liquidlove2018:
My dear , just move on with your life.

Some day , your daughter will search for you.
RomanceRe: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Beke2020: 8:45pm On Mar 10, 2018
pls explain. am interested
mu2sa2:
All these guys looking for virgin probably don't know that there is a way they use artificial blood to fake virginity nowadays.
RomanceI Waited For Him For Four Years But He Took My Daughter Away by Beke2020(op): 8:14am On Mar 10, 2018
Dear Lively Stones,

I got married traditionally four years ago to Abdul. As soon as we got married,he went to South Africa where his business is. I discovered I was pregnant a month later. At the time,I had to go and live with his parents in Ilorin. Living with inlaws is very difficult,they almost want to run your life.

Abdul kept telling me that he was working on our visa for me and my daughter to come join him but a whole year past and there was nothing. I was really lonely and frustrated. After my daughter clocked one year.Abdul stopped calling home. His parents and I were worried and wondered what had happened.

Rumors began to come in that Abdul was arrested and jailed in South Africa for doing drugs. We couldnt confirm that but we also didnt know how to reach him. At that point,even feeding was becoming tough for us as Abdul wasnt sending in money as before. So I told my inlaws that I needed a job. A friend of mine in Lagos asked me to come so she can get a job for me. So I left my daughter with my inlaws and moved to Lagos.

I got to Lagos two years ago. There was no job. I just had OND,even that couldnt find me a job. I didnt know Lagos was that difficult. But I was determined. I worked as sales girls for about seven months before things picked up. I got an office assistant job later on. Being alone in this city is not easy. I get alot of passes from men but I made up my mind to honor my marriage.

About this time,the rumors that were making rounds was that Abdul was now free from prison but married to a white south african woman. That broke me.My parents were also worried that I was wasting my life. When Kunle,a young man I met from work started coming for me,I kept resisting but not for long. I Knew I am married but being without intimacy for almost three years is not easy. I started seeing Kunle when I heard the rumors that Abdul had married someone in SA.

One day,I went to Ilorin to visit my daughter cos I hadnt heard from her for like a month. My inlaws didnt pick up my calls. I got to Ilorin in the evening and was told by my mother inlaw that Abdul sent for our daughter and she has gone to join him there two weeks ago.Apparently,Abdul had been in touch with my inlaws,they didnt tell me. Instead,they fed him stories that I was cheating on him in Lagos. Hence,Abdul just arranged for my daughter’s visa and sent for her alone.

My heart is broken. God knows I tried to wait for Abdul. I only began to see Kunle like four months ago. If I was a man,am sure no one will judge me after waiting for four years for a spouse that you didnt hear from. I cried and cried.

I don know what to do now, I dont know how to see my daughter again.

As if this tragedy is not enough,returning to Lagos,I discovered Kunle is.....Read More




http://livelystones.com.ng/i-waited-for-him-for-four-years-but-he-took-my-daughter-away/
RomanceRe: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Beke2020: 7:51am On Mar 10, 2018
hmnnnn, so yielding to temptation is not the best way to get rid of it? Chapter what n verse what?
MissRaine69:
The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it.

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