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Nice point, we learn every day shaybebaby: |
Hello young man, i know this might sound harsh. Will advise you move on with your life and let everything be dead to you i.e past z11111: |
how? i dont mean blue film. lefulefu: |
Absolutely! z11111: |
Good Morning ma, I have only been married for seven months and I think I realize now that I have made a mistake in getting married to Chidi. I am thinking of a temporary separation in order for us to decide if this marriage will work out or not. To be fair to my husband,he is trying but it seems our marriage is not meant to be. In Africa,men choose their mother first before their wife,maybe because they feel they have known the mother longer than the wife. Chidi’s mother hates me and is doing everything to ensure I do not enjoy my marriage to her son. Right from when we were dating,she always made very unfriendly comments and that worried me but Chidi kept telling me not to worry as all I needed to do was get closer to the mom so she will get to like me. I did everything I could in my power. I visited her,bought her gifts,cleaned for her but she still didnt like me. Our marriage almost didnt hold,we broke up one time because of her but I guess the love was too strong,we got back again. Since I got married,the same thing has been going on,even worse. Chidi’s mother’s problem with me is the fact that I was raised by a single mother and my grand mother too was a single mother. She said I was not raised properly and as such,not fit for her son. Her son,to the best of my knowledge has never complained about me. If anything,he loves me so much. But his mother keeps taunting me and that gets us into various arguments and I end up crying. At first,I decided to ignore this woman. But she came to visit us and practically made life difficult for me. She refused to eat my food. She would go to the market and buy her own food stuff and cook her own food in my own house. When I complained to my husband,he begged me to just ignore her. That she is only visiting and will soon leave. But she makes food for my husband from her cooking and that really annoys me. I quarreled with my husband as to why he would eat his mother’s food and ignore mine. He will then try and be forcing himself to eat mine too. This was really frustrating. Another thing I found very annoying was the fact that once my husband gets back from work,she engages him in conversation until past mid night. That truly pisses me off. She has taken over the time I have to bond with my husband. Its even affecting our sex life. I have been trying to conceive and not having regular sex is not helping. My husband says his mother will soon leave but she has been with us for almost two months. He says he cannot chase his mother away as it is against tradition. The sons’s mother is allowed...... https://livelystones.com.ng/mother-in-law-from-hell-my-mother-in-law-calls-me-a-bastard/ |
I totally disagree with u. Sex is made to be enjoyed. Just the way u get a rouse, same way you should feel satisfied when you have inter course. As a man, how do you feel when ur sex partner stop ur half way when u have not ejaculated? Frustrated! Same with ladies. Let be fair in our judgement. |
Lol! If not properly manage sex issue can destroy a marriage Pricelessangel0: |
Parents and their wahala |
Things dey happen ooo |
shikina habsydiamond: |
You make sense die Hector09: |
Haba, read the story again xynerise: |
God don't punish people like that. He is a good God the bible says |
![]() DeadRat: |
Woman & money are 5 & 6, a man who cannot effort to take care of his wife, will have some else take of her. Its a woman's nature. If am permitted to use that language |
elyna:Lol! She lady misinterprete the meaning protect your marriage. They think it by suspecting and poke nosing into their husband sms, and checking every call he makes. Senseless intuition I call it |
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Cases like this require patience. Encourage her to watch alot of american films. |
You are 100% correct! Load of excuses especially for those living in busy cities like Eko BossLaifay: |
Hmnnnn! It yours to make. But what ever you decision, prayerfully do. |
Look before you leap |
Take charge.... |
Any thing and everything is possible my dear friends |
They are every where! |
Dear Admin, I am a young man of thirty two. I deliberately searched for a wife to marry from my village because I fear women from the city here. So when I was ready a year ago,I sent my parents to help me find a wife. Uru my wife just finished her NCE and everybody know here in the village as a very good and quiet, I was very happy when my parents chose her for me. Even when I was courting her (we courted for like 2 months before our wedding),she used to be very shy and reserved and I was impressed by how homely and godly she was. Our wedding came and I was very much satisfied when I found out on our wedding night that Uru was a virgin. Because of this,I didnt fear or have any cause to fear or suspect my wife. She moved to join me here in the city but what I am seeing after the marriage is...... http://livelystones.com.ng/my-wife-pretended-to-be-innocent-but-i-am-scared-of-what-she-will-do/ |
you just spoke my mind Splinz: |
This story got me thinking.... |
True talk olasaad: |
easier said than done. its her blood. wont be easy to let go like that liquidlove2018: |
pls explain. am interested mu2sa2: |
Dear Lively Stones, I got married traditionally four years ago to Abdul. As soon as we got married,he went to South Africa where his business is. I discovered I was pregnant a month later. At the time,I had to go and live with his parents in Ilorin. Living with inlaws is very difficult,they almost want to run your life. Abdul kept telling me that he was working on our visa for me and my daughter to come join him but a whole year past and there was nothing. I was really lonely and frustrated. After my daughter clocked one year.Abdul stopped calling home. His parents and I were worried and wondered what had happened. Rumors began to come in that Abdul was arrested and jailed in South Africa for doing drugs. We couldnt confirm that but we also didnt know how to reach him. At that point,even feeding was becoming tough for us as Abdul wasnt sending in money as before. So I told my inlaws that I needed a job. A friend of mine in Lagos asked me to come so she can get a job for me. So I left my daughter with my inlaws and moved to Lagos. I got to Lagos two years ago. There was no job. I just had OND,even that couldnt find me a job. I didnt know Lagos was that difficult. But I was determined. I worked as sales girls for about seven months before things picked up. I got an office assistant job later on. Being alone in this city is not easy. I get alot of passes from men but I made up my mind to honor my marriage. About this time,the rumors that were making rounds was that Abdul was now free from prison but married to a white south african woman. That broke me.My parents were also worried that I was wasting my life. When Kunle,a young man I met from work started coming for me,I kept resisting but not for long. I Knew I am married but being without intimacy for almost three years is not easy. I started seeing Kunle when I heard the rumors that Abdul had married someone in SA. One day,I went to Ilorin to visit my daughter cos I hadnt heard from her for like a month. My inlaws didnt pick up my calls. I got to Ilorin in the evening and was told by my mother inlaw that Abdul sent for our daughter and she has gone to join him there two weeks ago.Apparently,Abdul had been in touch with my inlaws,they didnt tell me. Instead,they fed him stories that I was cheating on him in Lagos. Hence,Abdul just arranged for my daughter’s visa and sent for her alone. My heart is broken. God knows I tried to wait for Abdul. I only began to see Kunle like four months ago. If I was a man,am sure no one will judge me after waiting for four years for a spouse that you didnt hear from. I cried and cried. I don know what to do now, I dont know how to see my daughter again. As if this tragedy is not enough,returning to Lagos,I discovered Kunle is.....Read More http://livelystones.com.ng/i-waited-for-him-for-four-years-but-he-took-my-daughter-away/ |
hmnnnn, so yielding to temptation is not the best way to get rid of it? Chapter what n verse what? MissRaine69: |

Maybe this is why a guy was asking me if am really sexual active? when i was telling celibacy is my way until wedding night
