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vivie01:
Seconded!
While not condoning what you did, I think you should still exercise patience till you give birth, Go for DNA test and confirm if your husband is the father. You take further steps based on the result.

DOUBLEWAHALA:
women are always responsible for their husband's death

blackpanthar:
the advice has already been given on the link... so why come here for what she would NEVER READ.... all these link stories HELP NO ONE...

Lifeofpolice1:
RIP to English language

anonymuz:
a very big fool

Jochabed:
Very Sad story,may God see you through. But the little i know about God is that he does not contradict himself.

God said "I Hate Divorce" Mr Bankole was a married man,and got divorced and said "God" told him to marry you? And he is an evangelist,he should know the scripture better. Tell him to go back to God in TOTAL REPENTANCE because he lied against the Most High. I wish him quick recovery.Amen

Adasun:
Cockhold culture

Samuelgr8:
Because gals like her, make some men call all ladies LovePeddler. couple of days to your wedding u still doing runs. Only God go deliver her from her village people

satelliteDISH:
A cheap girl is not the girl that accepts your proposal the first day.
WHO IS A CHEAP GIRL?
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1. A cheap gal is any gal who is living in a man's house and the man has not paid her bride price, no wedding but she is living with him.
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2. A cheap gal is any gal who is already having sex with a common boyfriend and she does not know where the relationship is heading to, she does not know where the guy comes from, no marriage plans, no wedding hope but she is having sex with the guy because of the money she is getting from him.
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3. A cheap gal is any gal who sends her nude pics to her boy friend in the name of love.
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4. A cheap gal is any gal who has done one or more abortions and she is still doing more.
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5. A cheap gal is any gal who dresses half naked in the name of fashion, exposing her boobs and other erotic parts of her body in the street or post such pictures on Facebook or Whatsapp and receives 500 likes and 100 comments that you're "beautiful" and you say "thank you".
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6. A cheap gal is any gal who has an affair with a married man even after knowing it, having sex with him, abort pregnancy, receives money, cause havoc in the man's marriage in order for her to be married.
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7. A cheap girl is any gal who reads this post and gets Angry and will refuse to comment.
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gevnet:
Hmmm! This is really serious. You said you are Christians and that means you believe in God. My advice is do everything you can: take him to men of God (including taking him to RCCG Camp) and two of you should devote yourself completely to God. I still believe in miracle. You said you are just 26. There are ladies who are in their thirties, forties and are not having sex right now. What if you were not married. Both of you should call the God of heaven and earth for help.
Giving up shouldn't be an option in life but the choice is yours.

lestat:
Rest of the story





Good Morning Ma,

I want to thank you specially for the good work God is using you to do on your blog. How you are helping people with problems,the godly advice that you give. I applaud your consistency. I dont know whether anybody is paying you but I want to tell you that God will reward you abundantly.

So I read one of your stories last two weeks where a woman is married to a man that is sick for almost three years and she wants to leave the marriage. I cried when I read that because I am also in that same situation. All the responses people are giving,they really encouraged me. But I decided to write cos some people dont seem to understand how hard it is. You cannot imagine the trauma a woman who is married to a vegetable is facing.



I got married about five years ago. I was pregnant with my first child when me,my husband and two other people were travelling to the East for Christmas had an accident. My husband was the one driving. One person died,the other person sustained serious injury,my husband to was seriously injured. He was in coma for almost two months. I even though I was seven months pregnant,my injuries did not affect the pregnancy. I was put in intensive care though for one month cos they feared I would go into after shock and maybe loose the baby. But God was faithful,I had a CS on the eight. God gave us a healthy baby boy,we called him Chukwuegbuka.

But my husband was not so successful, The accident left him in the hospital for the next one year. He was at the time completely paralysed from his waist down. He could use his legs,he couldnt stand or sit by himself. He would poo and pee on one spot. It was very difficult for us. After a year,he was discharged for us to go and manage him from home. That was three and half years ago. Since then,my husband has progressed from being in a wheel chair to using a walker but the sad part is,he does not have any stamina for intercourse. He can cuddle me,we kiss and all but thats all. I know many people will say I should be grateful for this but the truth is,its the hardest thing I ever faced in my life.

I havent been with any man. I have urges. I cry every day. My husband too feels frustrated about his condition. Sometimes he goes into depression. We talk about this and my husband has even given me go ahead to sleep with any man I choose as long as I use protection. But my heart cannot do it. We are Christians. I cannot betray him. I feel like he is saying that ti make me happy but if I actually do it,it would break his heart totally.

Ma,I read all the comments to the other lady,some telling her to be patient,that God is testing her,etc..I mean,that is good but the truth is,at the end of the day,we are humans. And I will not blame her if she goes to find a man to sleep with her. Even my family has held a meeting and decided that I move on. The doctors have said that my husband will not even be able to father another child, the accident made him impotent. He can never be able to make love to me or any other woman for the rest of his life. I am 26 years old. Is this what I will endure for the rest of my life?

Every day I cry,every day I ask God why..sometimes,I am angry with my husband. I curse the day I met him but I look at my son and I am again thankful. Your readers may give me the same advice that they gave the other woman. But I want us to be all truthful. Look at the situation again,this time very objectively,putting yourselves in our shoes. If it was you,what would you really do?

More importantly,since my husband has given me go ahead to meet with other men,do you think I should go ahead? Surely,wont even God understand? Please help me answer these two major questions. For now,I am trying,but I dont know what tomorrow may bring. I dont know how much longer I can stay strong.

Your advises are most welcome. Please dont judge me,try to put yourself in my shoes first…God bless.

From Anonymous,

lestat:
Rest of the story





Good Morning Ma,

I want to thank you specially for the good work God is using you to do on your blog. How you are helping people with problems,the godly advice that you give. I applaud your consistency. I dont know whether anybody is paying you but I want to tell you that God will reward you abundantly.

So I read one of your stories last two weeks where a woman is married to a man that is sick for almost three years and she wants to leave the marriage. I cried when I read that because I am also in that same situation. All the responses people are giving,they really encouraged me. But I decided to write cos some people dont seem to understand how hard it is. You cannot imagine the trauma a woman who is married to a vegetable is facing.



I got married about five years ago. I was pregnant with my first child when me,my husband and two other people were travelling to the East for Christmas had an accident. My husband was the one driving. One person died,the other person sustained serious injury,my husband to was seriously injured. He was in coma for almost two months. I even though I was seven months pregnant,my injuries did not affect the pregnancy. I was put in intensive care though for one month cos they feared I would go into after shock and maybe loose the baby. But God was faithful,I had a CS on the eight. God gave us a healthy baby boy,we called him Chukwuegbuka.

But my husband was not so successful, The accident left him in the hospital for the next one year. He was at the time completely paralysed from his waist down. He could use his legs,he couldnt stand or sit by himself. He would poo and pee on one spot. It was very difficult for us. After a year,he was discharged for us to go and manage him from home. That was three and half years ago. Since then,my husband has progressed from being in a wheel chair to using a walker but the sad part is,he does not have any stamina for intercourse. He can cuddle me,we kiss and all but thats all. I know many people will say I should be grateful for this but the truth is,its the hardest thing I ever faced in my life.

I havent been with any man. I have urges. I cry every day. My husband too feels frustrated about his condition. Sometimes he goes into depression. We talk about this and my husband has even given me go ahead to sleep with any man I choose as long as I use protection. But my heart cannot do it. We are Christians. I cannot betray him. I feel like he is saying that ti make me happy but if I actually do it,it would break his heart totally.

Ma,I read all the comments to the other lady,some telling her to be patient,that God is testing her,etc..I mean,that is good but the truth is,at the end of the day,we are humans. And I will not blame her if she goes to find a man to sleep with her. Even my family has held a meeting and decided that I move on. The doctors have said that my husband will not even be able to father another child, the accident made him impotent. He can never be able to make love to me or any other woman for the rest of his life. I am 26 years old. Is this what I will endure for the rest of my life?

Every day I cry,every day I ask God why..sometimes,I am angry with my husband. I curse the day I met him but I look at my son and I am again thankful. Your readers may give me the same advice that they gave the other woman. But I want us to be all truthful. Look at the situation again,this time very objectively,putting yourselves in our shoes. If it was you,what would you really do?

More importantly,since my husband has given me go ahead to meet with other men,do you think I should go ahead? Surely,wont even God understand? Please help me answer these two major questions. For now,I am trying,but I dont know what tomorrow may bring. I dont know how much longer I can stay strong.

Your advises are most welcome. Please dont judge me,try to put yourself in my shoes first…God bless.

From Anonymous,

MissRaine69:
So you were happy to chop his hood weed smoking money until someone with better means came along? Reinvented and repackaged yourself this what happens when you hide a past ....it catches up with you.

z11111:
Then ,go hustle and come back.

But make em no do rituals ohhhhh.

liquidlove2018:
Suicide is never a good thought ohhh.

You have stay and try to raise your kids.

hooklover:
The guy should be happy oh. I am happy for him. His load has been taken away....

ORAGBON:
Dont u dare it

Arabiandude:
Propose to him then.

Lexusgs430:
For all we care, your husband might be willing to go ahead with such a plan.... Speak with him and gauge his reactions.....

It can only go 2 ways......

chigoizie7:
To use u do money ritual just de hungry me

z11111:
Sure ,the wife may not trust him again but he just have to do it.

z11111:
This real story sent by people to publish .

Lots of persons think it's everyone that fabricate stories. What I keep saying ,for smth not have happened to you doesn't mean ,it's false.
People are going through shits daily ,majority caused by their actions or decision .

So,it's real