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Waoh! Awesome contribution

enilove:
A culture is nothing but a way of behaviour or ways of life of a particular set of people or society.
If their beliefs or traditions contradicts the commandments of God , you have the right to reject it .

You will account for how you use your body , which is the temple of the Holy Spirit , before God. Your husband will not stand to defend you.

This is what the Bible says as per your case :

Leviticus 18:1-6,16 KJV
And the Lord spake unto Moses, saying,
[2] Speak unto the children of Israel, and say unto them, I am the Lord your God.
[3] After the doings of the land of Egypt, wherein ye dwelt, shall ye not do: and after the doings of the land of Canaan, whither I bring you, shall ye not do: neither shall ye walk in their ordinances.
[4] Ye shall do my judgments, and keep mine ordinances, to walk therein: I am the Lord your God.
[5] Ye shall therefore keep my statutes, and my judgments: which if a man do, he shall live in them: I am the Lord .
[6] None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their unclothedness: I am the Lord .
[16] Thou shalt not uncover the unclothedness of thy brother's wife: it is thy brother's unclothedness.

Jesus said :

Matthew 5:16-20 KJV
Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
[17] Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfil.
[18] For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled.
[19] Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them , the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.
[20] For I say unto you, That except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.

The Pharisees don't sleep with their brother's wife and Jesus told us that OUR RIGHTEOUSNESS SHOULD EVEN BE HIGHER THAN THOSE OF THE PHARISEES.

God is able to fight your battles for you, just commit your family into the hands of God and don't agree with their HELL culture .
Let your husband know that you are not going to do it. Then go on fasting and prayers.

May God help you to overcome, in Jesus name.

Waoh! I gbadun your line of tut

elyna:
management of funds is essential in the growth of every relationship, and is an issue that should be thoroughly discussed before marriage, all hope is not lost, he should have a heart to heart conversation with her, remind her she'll be at the receiving end if Financial difficulties set in, no woman wants to hear that part.

Haba, end someone life? E nefa rih like dat

dnoable08:
Well it's either u show us or u end ur life

PastorandMentor:
Gold digger. You thought she got money to waste for a f *ck boy like you. Wake up. Even oyigbo done wise talk more a naija.

@Pastorandmentor, you wan take laugh finish person

faruz:
La click la bend

Hmnnnnn

, u wan scatter the marriage b dat

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Fire him!

habsydiamond:
Op....Kindly read the rest and summarise it for me later....

ehinmowo:
Story dt u paid freelancer to write for u to get traffic to ur site. Weldone!

Mistake has been made...apply wisdom

But he should be reasonable...Anyway money amplifies ones true character

mikejj:
sweet heart u made a big mistake...u shouldn't have let him work for you...is better u give him money to do what he wants if you have... familiarity will run Dan ur busines

Good day LS,

I am a married woman. I have been married for 11 years now. I am also a business woman. I love my husband. God has blessed us with four kids. My husband has been working in the financial sector for over a decade. Unfortunately he lost his job last year.

Ever since he lost his job,he has been searching for another one to no avail. Since then,I have been the one taking care of the house financially. I dont complain cos by God’s grace I am doing fine in my business. My husband on the other hand was getting really frustrated at doing nothing and staying at home. His ego began to set in,if we have any small misunderstanding,he will start saying that I am disrespecting him cos he is not bringing any money into the house. Because of this,I loaned him N2M to start a business. He started a dry cleaning business which he was managing for a while.

However,he said he is not really getting fulfilled in the business. He seemed to want a more demanding job like he is used to. So I asked him to join my business and become my accountant and manager. That idea was good to him. Since July last year,he has been working with me. Even though we agreed on a salary of N300k every month,I discovered that my husband is spending money from my business that I have no clue about. When I discovered.....Read more@

https://livelystones.com.ng/help-me-save-my-marriage-and-my-husbands-ego-is-ruining-everything/

z11111:
such thing happen.

some ladies can stay for months without sex ,especially if they are sexually active.

Simple as A,B,C

Radiants:
Mr Pilot should not only be concerned about Ehis, he should be concerned about how she spends his money.

The lady is not naïve, she is DUMB... He should block the card. he shouldn't collect the card from her.

Leave pressure aside, ladies should always shine their eyes b4 venturing into any marriage. A broken relationship they say is better than a broken marriage

z11111:
Condition sometimes make people do it.

What did you expect him to say b4?

metalgear:
He didn't hear the bell, yet claimed they were in the sitting room? Lady, he's tapping that ass like no tomorrow.

Hmnnnn

habsydiamond:
the outside babe go get belle too noni

Tell us naa

habsydiamond:
Read the rest Ursef...i already know where it will end like nollywood movies..

Hmnnnn

habsydiamond:
the outside babe go get belle too noni

Hmmmnnn i smell foul play

Good Morning House,

Please ,I kindly need your suggestion regards this matter. This is from one of us here. For a while I have been on this issue ,praying with her. This is the story of Lupenda, who lives and work in Kenya. She is married to a goat in form a husband, with 2 kids. But this guy has another mistress some where in the place where he lives and work in Kenya. This has been on for several years. I have counselled the lady to visit police station, court , NGO in same country. According to her she has gone to some of these places I mentioned but no much action rather they are pleading for peace. The worst part is the husband abandoned the kids with her. The little money she earns is not enough to take care of the kids. The heights of it all, I woke up this morning and saw her message ,narrating how the husband mistress sent her

...read full story and other stories on the blog :

https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husbands-mistress-sent-me-their-nudes-i-feel-like-ending-his-life/

Hello All,

I am very encouraged by what I read on your platform. This has motivated me to send my problem. God punish poverty. I never wish anyone even my enemy to be poor cos if you are poor or as a man you cannot take care of your own family,you are completely finished.

I met Ajiri five years ago. She was working as Contractor to my company. I work with a manufacturing company as a Store Officer. She was about 31 years at the time. I used to admire how hard working she was as a single woman. She seemed to be doing well for herself. So,I was like her insider friend for her business since she was supplying things to my company. One day,we were gisting casually and I asked her why she is not married,she said no man ask her. They all want to sleep with her and want her money but not to settle down. I told her I liked her but I dont have money like her,she was like,love is not about money.

Long story short,we got married like almost seven months later. My wife is also from a very rich family. So like our wedding,they sponsored everything. Since our marriage,cos I am in school too,its my wife that has been taking care of all our finances in the house. We talked about this before we got married. She said,she didnt mind to support us until I finish school and get a better job.

But since we got married,......

https://livelystones.com.ng/god-punish-poverty-my-wife-treats-me-like-a-slave/

You maybe right, but not absolutely on this matter. I know what am talking about

SexyDenzel:
A fly that heeds to no advice follows corpse to the grave. Some things are worth betting on my friend but marrying a whxxe is not one of them, its just matter of how long can she try to hold her whxreness down and locked up before it resurfaces again.

elgramz:
Wicked you

shior

you are right, but we still have good gals out there. just the devil ones known are everywhere now, making it looks like there are no angels, whereas there are also far more angels out there

mikidon:
hoes everywhere. making me to wonder 'is it worth it getting married'

Good Day LS,

I ran into Cynthia two years ago in a banking hall. Cynthia and I went to the same University. She was a one time Miss Uniben. A very pretty girl. Every guy's dream. Guys ejaculate just thinking about her. She was so fine. But it was also rumored that she was a runs girl. She not only moved with guys in the school,she was well known among politicians in the state. There were all kinds of gist about Cynthia.

When I saw her in the banking hall two years ago,I introduced myself cos she didnt know me in school. She was nice. She had come to do some banking and coincidentally I was leaving the bank the same time as her so I offered to give her ride instead of taking a taxi. We exchanged numbers and later on,I called her and found out she was single. We talked for like a month before I had the courage to tell her I liked her. We started dating. I must confess,she was fun. Very fun to be with. I liked her humor,she was a very smart girl and very good in bed too.

When I asked her about her lifestyle in school,she claimed that she indeed lived a wild life in school but she has changed since she left school. I introduced her to my parents after dating for one year. We got engaged shortly after that. My elder brother who is in the US came for our wedding and was surprised at my choice for marriage. He called me aside one day and told me that Cynthia was a very loose girl. My brother was two years ahead of me in school. He said many guys had slept with Cynthia at wild club parties including himself. I was shocked but I told him Cynthia had changed. He said many people will be laughing at me behind my back. Well,I said to him,everybody has a past. I didnt tell Cynthia what my brother had told me.

After my wedding,my elder brother was around for like a month. Just before he left,he told me I was wrong for marrying Cynthia cos she has not changed.According to him,he has information that one night after our wedding,Cynthia cheated on me. My brother and one of his friends set a trap for Cynthia. They framed her and sent nude (s.x) pictures she had taken with guys whilst she was in school. They threatened to ruin her and her marriage if she didnt meet them in a hotel. My wife actually showed up at the hotel and was begging not to be exposed.

...read full story and other stories on the blog :


https://livelystones.com.ng/once-a-slut-how-do-i-know-my-wife-has-truly-changed/

My friend there is always an exemption oooooh

SexyDenzel:
As once a soldier always a soldier so is once a wh*ore always a wh*re bro. How the F will you make a loose whrre the mother of your Kids? Your daughters will get the whrre tendencies. Never marry a whorr but mofos won't hear!!.

Good day Admin,

Janet is my girlfriend and fiancee. After her youth service,I encouraged her to come down to Lagos so she can look for a job. When she arrived,she didnt have anywhere to stay so she started to squat with me. I work in an insurance company,I been there for almost a year but the pay is not much. I am hoping to find a better paid job soon.

My girl got a job with a bank not too long. The bank was on the island which was quite far for her as my place is in Ogba. We agreed that she would be joining my neighbor who owns a car, a married man who also leaves for work on the island. Because Janet follows Mr Mike to work,we some how became close to him. So sometimes,on weekends, we just hang out and gist briefly as neighbors.

After like a month or so that my girl started working,I started to notice some behavior with her. She started to dress somehow too attractive too. I thought she just wanted to look nice as a banker. when she comes back home,she will just be with her phone,not really interested in gisting with me like before. I was a bit worried so I told her that I dont like her new behaviors but she just told me that I am just imagining things that she has not changed.Well,I let her be.

On Sunday morning,I decided to go to church cos I havent gone in a while. But my girl said she is too tired and needed to rest. Anyway,I kind of understood cos bank work is very stressful,she even works on Saturdays sometimes. I went on my way to church. In church that day,the service ended on time cos they announced that they were going to attend a member’s celebration or something. so I went home earlier than usual. On getting home,I discovered that the apartment was quiet. I thought Janet was sleeping,I decided not wake her up so I entered very quietly. getting inside,I found Janet and Mr Mike......




https://livelystones.com.ng/one-million-naira-to-take-back-my-cheating-girlfriend/

Amazing both of you not enjoying sex with each other, meaning your courtship was without sex. You guyz are both novice and need help

Dear Jzhane,

I am a married woman in my late thirties. I love my husband and my family but I have a serious problem. The problem I have is that my husband is always travelling for business. When he comes around,he hardly stays long when we make love. I dont know if its the stress or maybe he has lost interest. I try to talk to him and he says I should focus on other things,that s*x is not everything.

Anyway,I was at the mall two months ago and I had a flat tyre. A young man who came around shopping was there to help me. We exchanged numbers and since then,we have been chatting on whatsapp. Truth be told,I got carried away chatting with this guy cos the chats became flirty. For me,it was fun cos I was sort of getting the attention I was not getting from my hubby. I know I shouldn’t have gone to that extent but it didnt start out like this..it was innocent until it was no longer innocent. I confided in him about my frustrations in marriage and he was like I should myself busy which was a good idea since as a stay home mom,I actually could do more.

This young man encouraged me to do some modelling cos I have the figure. Initially I was shy but I took.....

https://livelystones.com.ng/have-i-betrayed-my-husbandi-only-wanted-to-have-some-fun/

Good Afternoon Jzhane,

Please keep my identity private. I am writing you with a heavy heart and I hope I can get some good advice from you and your platform readers. Please I beg you readers,this is a real story. It sounds unreal but its real. Its happening to me and I am at my wits end.My friend recently introduced me to LS and I must say you have done a very good job.

My name is Abigail. I am 36 years old. Three years ago,I married my husband Bankole. Bankole was a divorcee with two children,two boys. Before I met Bankole,I lived a very fast life. I was trying to keep body and soul together. I had made some unwise decisions. I slept with married men cos I wanted a certain level of living. I am not proud of this but I didnt know better. I was just happy enjoying money and trips to different parts of the world all paid by my various sugar daddies.

When I was 32 years old,I met Bankole on a flight from Dubai. I wanted to hook up with him. He looked rich and not too young. We got talking and all. He took my number and said he would call me when we got to Nigeria. Two days later,he called me and said he wanted to see me. I went to see him,dressed to kill. When I met him in Sheraton that evening,he ordered for food and drinks. As we eat,he said he wanted to tell me something. It turns out that Bankole is an evangelist. He said when he saw me on the plane,God told him to marry me.

I was shocked. Me,Abigail,a runs girl? Well,he sounded very confident. He preached to me there and I got born again. He took his time to start mentoring me and in two months time,we were married in a very lavish wedding which held in Warri. I was happy. I didnt ever think I would ever be married. To a good man,a rich man and a man who loves God. All was fine until almost a year after our marriage.

Exactly 11 months later,Bankole fell ill. At first,we thought it was just a normal sickness and he would get better. Well,he didnt. He got worse and worse. In three months,my husband was so sick you could hardly recognize him. We flew him abroad where he spent six months there. All the tests they carried out on him all came back negative. Devastated,we returned home where we continued to fast and pray for him.

Almsot two years later,my husband has not gotten better. He is confined to a wheel chair like a vegetable. He cannot do anything. We have spent all his money on trying to get him well. I am so sad. They say its a spiritual attack. Many people have prayed. We have gone to several prayer houses,no change. Some say,his ex wife cursed him. I have prayed and cried all I can.

Now,my problem is........full story@



https://livelystones.com.ng/helphow-do-i-move-on-from-my-marriage-when-my-husband-needs-me/

Who is to blame b4?