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RomanceNo Intercourse For Two Years,help,i Cant Wait Anymore! by Beke2020(op): 1:58pm On Mar 29, 2018
Good Morning Admin,

Please ma,and sorry for coming to your inbox.Help me post and hide my id.My husband has not been in Nigeria for two years and these years I haven’t had s*x.My strength is failing me i cant bear it any longer.I always feel the urge now.Please ma what should i do? thanks

Anonymous,

Kindly use link to drop your comments. God bless you all NL's

https://livelystones.com.ng/without-intercourse-two-yearshelpi-cant-wait-anymore/#comment-1807
RomanceRe: I Thought My Marriage Could Survive Anything But Incest! by Beke2020(op): 1:42pm On Mar 29, 2018
That's if they have stopped it
z11111:
Hello Freda,

This is such a sad one. But what I have to say is,you need to seek God’s face in this one. Take time to pray about this. Whatever decision you make,dont do it in a hurry.

Remember,this happened 10 years ago. Can you possibly forgive your husband of what happened 10 years ago? What you should find out though,is to be certain that their incest stopped years ago. If indeed it didnt stop,then you have reasons to want to consider separation so that you guys can sort out issues before deciding whether you will proceed with divorce or not.

Its a tough one,but this is a warning to parents too. Check what your kids are doing,what they watch on TV…parents should also give their children sex education as early as possible so these kids can know what sex is and know the consequences.
RomanceRe: I Thought My Marriage Could Survive Anything But Incest! by Beke2020(op): 5:39pm On Mar 28, 2018
cool
ultimateyankee:
Kikikikikhahahahaha shocked grin
RomanceRe: I Thought My Marriage Could Survive Anything But Incest! by Beke2020(op): 1:03pm On Mar 28, 2018
When u don't teach your children sex from childhood, the learn it any how and the result is in the story posted
RomanceI Thought My Marriage Could Survive Anything But Incest! by Beke2020(op): 10:59am On Mar 28, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

My world has just come crumbling down....my marriage to Seun is a big fat lie!

My husband Seun is a twin. When I met him three years ago in London,I was quite fascinated to be dating a twin. I was dreaming one day if we got married that I would have twins also. When I met his twin sister kehinde,I was also surprised at their closeness. I thought it was cute. Prior to meeting Kehinde,Seun talked alot about her. How that they grew up quite close,more like soul mates. He even joked that his past girlfriends used to be jealous of his relationship with his twin sister.

When we were courting,I suspected that Kehinde was pretending to like me but soon as we were not been around other people,she seemed not to be interested in what I have to say. I honestly thought she was just being a needy sister to her brother. I gave her the benefit of doubt because of how close she and Seun were.

Last month,Kehinde went to Nigeria and came back with

...read full story and other stories on the blog :

https://livelystones.com.ng/i-thought-my-marriage-could-survive-anything-but-incest/
RomanceCongratulations In Order…..is Linda Ikeji Finally Engaged?…. by Beke2020(op): 9:00am On Mar 28, 2018
According to reports from Lailas blog,Guys, Linda Ikeji is engaged! This time around, it’s not a guess, not a rumour. It is real.

Who is Linda Ikeji’s husband? Who is Linda Ikeji’s fiance?.....



https://livelystones.com.ng/congratulations-in-order-is-linda-ikeji-finally-engaged/
FamilyHelp,i Am Heart Broken, She Abandoned Us After I Gave Her All She Needed by Beke2020(op): 8:50pm On Mar 27, 2018
Good Evening Jzhane,

Reading your stories and advise on your blog has not only motivated me, but compeled me to write my heart breaking story. Yes! Ify dumping our marriage of just three year with our son is quite heart breaking for me. It still feels like am dreaming...just that am still finding it hard to wake up for the dream is my only conviction its reality.

Most disastrous relationships we find ourselves usually have it warning sign, but we kinda ignore them...this is my experience and it leaves me with so many unanswered question each time I stare are our one year old son Ray. How will I explain this to him when he grows up? How will I look him eyes ball and say your mum abandoned us because of money.

I fell in love with Ify on sight, her family just moved into my neighbourhood few months before i gained admission into the university. She beautiful to behold. I wooed her morning and night. Osagie my best friend actually tried to discourage me when he noticed that Ify was materialistic, but I was blinded. One occasion Ify walked out on us when a guy who came from abroad showed up with a fine car.

After I graduated and started serving I was still keeping in touch with her, but at that time we were talking like we where dating. As soon as I got my first bank job in Lagos, I didn't waste time to Invite her. Waoh! She gave herself all to me. The spark of our relationship started. I gave her N50k when she was going back to Benin, from that day Ify will call me. Two years late I bought a car and traveled with it. Before, I could propose to Ify, she has already agreed. Infact, a week after I left Benin for Lagos, she was in my place because at this time I have rented my own apartment and we just continued to have fun.She will ask for this and that.I practically could not save something tangible even though I was well paid.As long as she was mine, I didn't worry. Not too long , we got married and she took in immediately.

However, all the love, laughter and happiness was short lived. A fraud happened in my unit, though, I was not involved, but my job was found wanting in that area and I was terminated. I tried to secure another but it was not forth coming. Ray,our little son just clocked one year and we couldn't celebrate it because of financial constraint. Daily Ify, will nag me,call me all kinds of names for not being able to secure a job and provide for my family the way I used to. One day,after....................read full post and many others on the blog :



https://livelystones.com.ng/helpi-am-heartbroken-she-abandoned-us-after-i-gave-her-everything/
RomanceRe: Help,i Am Heart Broken, She Abandoned Us After I Gave Her All She Needed by Beke2020: 8:44pm On Mar 27, 2018
Absolutely!
lenghtinny:
She came for the money angry
RomanceRe: Help,i Am Heart Broken, She Abandoned Us After I Gave Her All She Needed by Beke2020: 6:20pm On Mar 27, 2018
So many guyz have found themselves in this kind of position. Chasing after gals who doesn't have their time
FamilyRe: My Husband’s Neighbor Cooks For Him,am I Being Paranoid? by Beke2020(op): 6:07pm On Mar 27, 2018
Lol!
Cutehector:
Mchew... Instead of her to thank the edible caterer that has been cooking for her husband and thank her stars that he is feeding well , na jealousy wey she go dey think of... Women are something else..
FamilyRe: My Husband & His Sister Are Threatening Me,please Help! by Beke2020(op): 6:03pm On Mar 27, 2018
Sometimes, you're hoping he would change for better
ImaIma1:
And you waited till you had 3 children before realizing?
RomanceRe: My Husband’s Neighbor Cooks For Him,am I Being Paranoid? by Beke2020: 5:37pm On Mar 27, 2018
lefulefu:
i concurcheesy.. He probably don dey hang her legs for window dey smash d punana like no man's businesscheesy.
make you no destroy somebody home with all this insight
RomanceRe: My Husband’s Neighbor Cooks For Him,am I Being Paranoid? by Beke2020: 6:24am On Mar 27, 2018
cool
agbonkamen:
God forbid I am not a crusher grin grin
Christianity EtcMy Husband & His Sister Are Threatening Me,please Help! by Beke2020(op): 10:56pm On Mar 26, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

My name is Pricilia(not real name). I am a mother of three children and I am currently pregnant with my fourth child. I am very unhappy in my marriage at this time and I need your help and advice.

Ever since I got married to my husband,I have been noticing several behaviors that I dont like. We have been married for five years now. I met my husband as a virgin. We are not doing very well financially because my husband is a Driver and the pay is very poor. He was also doing his part time degree course. So all the money I made from my petty trading went into providing for the family and assisting my husband with his schooling. I did not plan to have a fourth child but I guess mistakes happen. I almost aborted this pregnancy when I found out. This is because,we can hardly even feed ourselves at the moment not to talk of having another extra mouth to feed.



With all these challenges,my pain is that my husband is always flirting with women. Women from his part time schooling and some of his passengers as a Taxi Driver. Many times I see text messages that his female friends send to him. When I confront him,he just starts shouting at me. One time,I reported him to my pastor in church and when we got home,he....Read full story from



https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-his-sister-are-threatening-meplease-help/
FamilyMy Husband’s Neighbor Cooks For Him,am I Being Paranoid? by Beke2020(op): 10:35pm On Mar 26, 2018
Good Day Admin,

Please keep my identity private but kindly let me know when you post this as I want to read the comments and advice from what I am about to share with you.

I have been married for six years to a wonderful man. We have two children. Last year,he got a job offer that was in Port Harcourt. I was very happy for him as the offer came with plenty benefits. But I was also sad cos that meant my husband would relocate to OH without us. My job and our family support system is here in Ibadan. We talked about this and agreed that he would be coming to see us in Ibadan once in a month. Its not been easy but so far,we have been trying.

Last month was a wedding anniversary. Though he planned that we would celebrate the anniversary when he came to see us at the end of the month,I made up my mind to secretly give him a surprise by traveling to PH to visit him. So,I arranged for the kids to go their grandma’s place and I set out to PH for my surprise visit. I got to PH quite late being that its my first time. I also didnt call him to come pick up at the park,I took a taxi to his house. On getting there,I was shown to his apartment in the compound. He was not back from work. So I called him and told him I sent him a surprise package which he needs to sign off that the courier man was at his door. He said,he will call his neighbor to receive it but I told him its a surprise only for him to see. He agreed and came back after like 15 mins.

When he saw me,he was truly surprised and we hugged each other passionately. When we got inside,I told him I brought ingredients to cook his favorite dish for him and I went straight to his kitchen to start cooking even though I was so tired. When I got to his kitchen,I was surprised to find that he had so many food stuff and his pots were filled with all kinds of food. Stew,soup,etc. I was surprised cos I know my husband cannot cook. I asked him how he got these foods. I noticed he was uncomfortable. My husband is a terrible liar too. He tried to say..em,my colleague’s wife helps me cook. I told which colleague,let me call and thank her. He said,ok..thats a lie,I am sorry but if I tell you,you would probably be angry. So I promised not to be angry. He then ................

https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husbands-neighbor-cooks-for-himam-i-being-paranoid/
RomanceRe: My Husband’s Neighbor Cooks For Him,am I Being Paranoid? by Beke2020: 10:21pm On Mar 26, 2018
Same thought here
SapphirePRINCEX:
If he should live beside Genesis, then he has to o .

For lying at first, the man is a fucking cheat!
RomanceRe: My Husband’s Neighbor Cooks For Him,am I Being Paranoid? by Beke2020: 8:00pm On Mar 26, 2018
Am sure you and Marvin906 likes each other
agbonkamen:
hahahaha marvin906 and this word "misery" be like 5&6 I guess you just learnt it recently grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: My Husband & His Sister Are Threatening Me,please Help! by Beke2020(op): 6:12pm On Mar 26, 2018
MissRaine69:
What’s wrong with some women? Finances are not stable , unhappy in the marriage but somehow the children keep coming. How can you expect your life to improve when you personally keep adding to those woes?
It a matter of vision
RomanceRe: My Husband’s Neighbor Cooks For Him,am I Being Paranoid? by Beke2020: 6:05pm On Mar 26, 2018
PH girls, hmnnn! She should move in with her hobby else she will ex...
RomanceRe: My Husband & His Sister Are Threatening Me,please Help! by Beke2020(op): 11:20am On Mar 26, 2018
No, not all men cheat. Because a large number do doesn't make all men cheaters
bjayx:
Yes...all men cheats. But what is the business of the husbands' sister in this mara?
FamilyMy Husband & His Sister Are Threatening Me,please Help! by Beke2020(op): 9:53am On Mar 26, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

My name is Pricilia(not real name). I am a mother of three children and I am currently pregnant with my fourth child. I am very unhappy in my marriage at this time and I need your help and advice.

Ever since I got married to my husband,I have been noticing several behaviors that I dont like. We have been married for five years now. I met my husband as a virgin. We are not doing very well financially because my husband is a Driver and the pay is very poor. He was also doing his part time degree course. So all the money I made from my petty trading went into providing for the family and assisting my husband with his schooling. I did not plan to have a fourth child but I guess mistakes happen. I almost aborted this pregnancy when I found out. This is because,we can hardly even feed ourselves at the moment not to talk of having another extra mouth to feed.



With all these challenges,my pain is that my husband is always flirting with women. Women from his part time schooling and some of his passengers as a Taxi Driver. Many times I see text messages that his female friends send to him. When I confront him,he just starts shouting at me. One time,I reported him to my pastor in church and when we got home,he....Read full story from



https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-his-sister-are-threatening-meplease-help/
RomanceMy Husband & His Sister Are Threatening Me,please Help! by Beke2020(op): 9:17am On Mar 26, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

My name is Pricilia(not real name). I am a mother of three children and I am currently pregnant with my fourth child. I am very unhappy in my marriage at this time and I need your help and advice.

Ever since I got married to my husband,I have been noticing several behaviors that I dont like. We have been married for five years now. I met my husband as a virgin. We are not doing very well financially because my husband is a Driver and the pay is very poor. He was also doing his part time degree course. So all the money I made from my petty trading went into providing for the family and assisting my husband with his schooling. I did not plan to have a fourth child but I guess mistakes happen. I almost aborted this pregnancy when I found out. This is because,we can hardly even feed ourselves at the moment not to talk of having another extra mouth to feed.

With all these challenges,my pain is that my husband is always flirting with women. Women from his part time schooling and some of his passengers as a Taxi Driver. Many times I see text messages that his female friends send to him. When I confront him,he just starts shouting at me. One time,I reported him to my pastor in church and when we got home,he....Read full story from.


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-his-sister-are-threatening-meplease-help/
RomanceRe: She Is Putting Me Under Pressure To Marry Her by Beke2020(op): 7:20pm On Mar 25, 2018
Most decision you take under pressure turns out wrong. So, get urself together
Christianity EtcRe: Desperation Made Her Do It. Can God Forgive Us For The Abortion? by Beke2020(op): 7:12pm On Mar 25, 2018
GoodMuyis:
The landlord agreed shocked but if... this is a make-up story, you too have committed sin but God can forgive you too OP, if you repent
Yes God forgives, but don't use that as an avenue for sin
FamilyRe: Help: I Mistakenly Fell In Love With My Aunty’s Lover by Beke2020(op): 7:09pm On Mar 25, 2018
venoc200:
I don know say na places like orile this Kain thing fit happen..not surprised atal
Lol! Can happen in most places naa
RomanceRe: Craaaaaazzzzy!!!…how A Married Woman Enjoy Being Raped! by Beke2020: 6:58pm On Mar 25, 2018
No bi her fault
cruzita:
u love what? like seriously?i mean like seriously
RomanceRe: Is My Uncle Wife Ogbanje?.. Their Marriage Is In Trouble by Beke2020: 2:21pm On Mar 25, 2018
The grammar here too much and my dictionary is far.
z11111:
Dear Ofure,

Your Uncle’s wife may be experiencing a psychological or mental break down …this pattern is synonymous with people who suffer from bipolar disease or schizophrenia.

In any case,what she needs is prayers,understanding and love. I cannot rule out spiritual influences but that can be resolved if she gives her life to Christ.

Since you know this lady,why not reach out to her,see how you can help her?
RomanceRe: Is My Uncle Wife Ogbanje?.. Their Marriage Is In Trouble by Beke2020: 11:55pm On Mar 24, 2018
Pray you dont see or enter one chance with a woman
JONNYSPUTE:
Your uncle is the ogbanje here. Just because she is not from ur tribe,you people termed her that. Anyways I know it must be a fake story but you tried.
RomanceWhat Pastor Chris Oyakhilome Said About Spiritual Husband by Beke2020(op): 11:29pm On Mar 24, 2018
The belief of Nigerians towards “Spiritual Husband” is a negative one as most believe is a taboo/negative arrow from the spirit world targeted at the progress of an individual

Meanwhile, Nigerian pastor, Chris Oyakhilome is of a different opinion and has distorted the belief that some people have spiritual husbands or wives.

In a recent teaching, the general overseer of Believer’s Loveworld revealed that the idea of a spiritual spouse is completely false Pastor Chris shared that it is possible for people to encounter spiritual personalities and often times, could be demonic but the notion that they have unknowingly exchange marital vows with such is not possible....


https://livelystones.com.ng/pastor-chris-oyakhilome-said-spiritual-husband/

Celebrities“I Sold ‘okpa’ With My Mother For 10 Years” – Gospel Singer, Frank Edwards by Beke2020(op): 10:59pm On Mar 24, 2018
Frank Edwards, renowned gospel singer has shared his life story of how he survived as a child.

He also advised people that whatever suffering they go through is training for the future.

He has taken to his Instagram page to share the inspirational story of how his survived as a child by selling ‘Okpa’

Okpa is a delicacy popularly known in the eastern part of Nigeria.

He had sold it for ten years with his mother.

In a bid to inspire and advice people about waiting for God’s time, the gospel singer also stated that all the difficulties people go through before they succeed is training for the future.

This experience at the time made him familiar with business strategy and dealing with customers.

Furthermore, he also added that his experience gave him training for the future.

According to him, his mom made the okpa daily and he had to sell it with her.

He shared how this caused his eyes to become permanently red due to the damaged caused when he fanned the flames of his mother’s cooking.

Read his post below:



https://livelystones.com.ng/sold-okpa-mother-10-years-gospel-singer-frank-edwards/

Christianity Etc“I Sold ‘okpa’ With My Mother For 10 Years” – Gospel Singer, Frank Edwards by Beke2020(op): 10:43pm On Mar 24, 2018
Frank Edwards, renowned gospel singer has shared his life story of how he survived as a child.

He also advised people that whatever suffering they go through is training for the future.

He has taken to his Instagram page to share the inspirational story of how his survived as a child by selling ‘Okpa’

Okpa is a delicacy popularly known in the eastern part of Nigeria.

He had sold it for ten years with his mother.

In a bid to inspire and advice people about waiting for God’s time, the gospel singer also stated that all the difficulties people go through before they succeed is training for the future.

This experience at the time made him familiar with business strategy and dealing with customers.

Furthermore, he also added that his experience gave him training for the future.

According to him, his mom made the okpa daily and he had to sell it with her.

He shared how this caused his eyes to become permanently red due to the damaged caused when he fanned the flames of his mother’s cooking.

Read his post below:



https://livelystones.com.ng/sold-okpa-mother-10-years-gospel-singer-frank-edwards/

RomanceRe: I Love My Mom But She Stands In The Way Of My Happiness by Beke2020(op): 10:35pm On Mar 24, 2018
Summary of the story is the mum doesnt want her son to marry a Yoruba gal because of her experience from a Yoruba husband. period!
Kobicove:
Paste the full story here undecided

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