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AchalugoNwa:
one simp down more to go

TheUndercover:
LOL! Same story all the time, I'm not even surprised anymore.

Women will take a strong man, shatter his frame, and suck his soul dry until he’s a shadow of his former self. Then she will become disgusted of his transformation and go do the same thing to another man.

They are blinded by oxytocin, so they won't listen until they get burnt. So many weak men these days. Take the red pill now. Ignore it and pay dearly for it later. Visit the Red Pill thread.

Important Life Lessons you should know as a Man -
https://www.nairaland.com/6425951/phase-1-machiavellian-tactics-life

https://www.nairaland.com/6445859/phase-2-charming-cunning-tactics

Xenry:
If you aren't screwing her, then another guy is doing it. Her phone is her cheating dairy, that's why she kept it away from you.
You ain't financially strong and you want to marry? Well, as for me and my guys, we ain't entering into any relationship until we start to dey make 8-digits per annum.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
We are the same thing then. Were you not the client I throw out because you were wasting time trying to achieve an erection and was begging me to wait a little? Hope your dick is working now? After that I realized why your type can't settle down for one woman is because you can't stand the shame of a them knowing you have dysfunctional dicks.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Your type will be sleeping with 10th hand pussies but will come and here and advice others to stay away from second hand pussy.
I know your type.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
OP come.and answer this question..
I think they are saying if you didn't deflower,you should keep fucking her till she becomes unfuckable. The. You will come back here tomorrow lamenting in how your babe of 6yrs married another guy's she met 6months ago. Then you will join the NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE USELESS crew members.
These are the kind of people you brought your private life to. And they are giving you the advice you need.

nextstep:
Funny

But seriously, are we saying that responsibility to a woman is dependent on who deflowered her? What's this, 1896? Did she "meet him at home" too? What's good for the goose, etc.

All I know is, nobody (especially women) should mention "free sex", as if she's doesn't enjoy the financial benefits that come with having a boyfriend/husband. That money spent over 6-years on outings and urgent 2k, can buy property in some parts. Don't say he had "free" sex... there was an opportunity cost of being with her.

nextstep:
If that were true, OP won't be disturbing us with this yarn. Obviously what she's doing is working on him... enough to write this tale instead of sleeping.

Let's be fair to her: she's likely a nice lady, a good girlfriend for 6 good years. We don't know if OP has even proposed. I mean, a lady approaching 30 is going to start fearing for her future. OP can find another lady today, spend 6 years with her, before deciding to marry. A woman does not have the luxury of time, and who knows, her next boyfriend can also take his time (3-6 years) "getting his finances ready".

Not saying one should rush into marriage, but both sides should sit and talk this thing through, though her clock is running out.

Jmw2kblogposts:
Women don't deserve your TIME
Women don't deserve your ATTENTION
Women don't deserve your hard earned MONEY
Women don't deserve your BODY
Women don't deserve your EMOTIONS
Women don't even deserve your THOUGHTS!

Now when you get a woman to yourself especially as a girlfriend or wife, ACT LIKE THE LIST ABOVE, and your redpill will be in action!
TRP IS GOLDEN!!

pkang:
I met a new girl and we arranged to meet today. We scheduled to meet by 1pm and by 1:25pm I haven't seen her so I called. I got the response, sorry o I no fit come.

Nothing new here as a typical naija babe, they don't keep to time.

I no vex either because I need enter market go see my sales. Also, her excuse seems genuine as she is not independent.

She also said that I should be calling and while we talk she can pay me a surprise visit one day.

Guys, how do I keep up with this communication as I no sabi call woman they talk apart from come over.

I dey mature and realize I need to talk the talk. Not talking is responsible for my 95% breakups.
Meeting a woman no be too much problem but talking the talk na where my problem dey.

Guys, put me through on this.

Ladycewhy:
Aren't they Nigerians, you will get faster answer as to what is special about Nigerian women that anyone would want to wife them. I am guessing you are one of those team foreign.

Ladycewhy:
Oh I see it's you ,one of those penis people. . You should have asked your father that question whats so special about your mother ? Or isn't she Nigerian?


I think you should be asking the op what's so special in having sex and having access to a so called " Nigerian woman's" phone.


How much is registry? You can live together but can't pay for registry?


If she is mad, then the op is madder for thinking he could use back door to earn husband status.


You and the op dot need crack ,your stupidity is enough to get you high.

Obaseki500:
We sleep on the same bed and we live in the same house but we have not had sex since December 2020 till date. She's right beside me as I type this message. Each time I go close to her, she tells me I am not entitled to sex because I have not paid her bride price.

nextstep:
Please don't use the word "free". Let's count all the tfare, hair money, urgent 2k, settling lecturer, money for soup and small provisions, outings, plus she might be living rent-free, and all the attention she's gotten. It's not free my man.

nextstep:
Well that's the point of her game isn't it? You either rush and marry her, or give her licence to become a free agent. 6 years no be beans, and no matter your decision, she has forced your hands. Chess.

Ladycewhy:
And it's not by force to unlock phone or have sex either.


The op be wan use backdoor get access to husband rights ,I sure say na im convince the lady make she move in with am, but babe wake up from slumber come turn tables now e don run come nairaland. Nonsense.


The op is a typical time waster.

Bigsecret:
Tbh, I feel like she is trying to speed up the whole process (marriage). Get focused and marry her!!!

Ladycewhy:
Oga the one wey you don chop for 6 years never do you?


Go and pay bride price or let her go and meet someone who is serious.

Kirkman:
Obaseki500; since you said things are OK for you now financially; what are you waiting for at least do introduction and traditional wedding the rest can come later. Just so you know she has options, and mentally she has given you a time frame, once it elapses she's gone and no amount of begging will bring her back and she will move on to her next best option. She has tried enough 6 years is not child's play.

romanticgod:
The recent act of hers that made me create this thread was that she reluctantly told me on phone that a guy asked her for a walk together and she doesn't know what to do. Seriously? Because of her past allegations that I take things too serious at times, I told her to go ahead.

Is she making me a simp for love knowing very well she would feel unhappy if I grant such request from a lady?

KingZaddy:
There is no single woman on this planet that can not be controlled or made to stay loyal...


Whatever women turn out to be today are what men made them to be... Men created bitches

Zzor:
Stay with that broke guy and both of you will become rich in the future? uncle what if he disappointed you and didn't become rich? Its advisable for a lady to be with a man she's comfortable with and love so that whatever life brings she will gladly accept it