₦airaland Forum

Ooni:
This editorial is hateful. Southwest is peaceful and accommodating and we must maintain this virtue against all odds. We must forgive and forget the killings else our region will turn to borno.

Sweetshugar:
someone should pls lie to men that we still have a good man,I'm hardworking and pretty

Bhus21:
A few posters think this is a made-up scenario. Even me in the situation the thing be me like film. I keep thinking I will pinch myself one day and wake up from this nightmare.

What's worse is is that you don't even know near half of the story. For example, the fact that I warned her about the guy before. Cried and begged her to stay away from him. She didn't listen and went ahead to sleep with him. So the betrayal is a very deep one.

One poster said I am a weak man. I can tell you for a fact that the easiest thing to do is to walk away and not look back. I am young, successful, and attractive so a new relationship is the least of my worries. My biggest concern, and why I'm trying to act rationally is because of our 3 young kids. They are innocent and didn't ask for any of this so I'm trying to ensure their well-being. If we divorce, we are going to rip their world apart so suddenly and cruelly. No kid deserves that at all.

bukatyne:
Same Jesus who said adultery (or unfaithfulness/fornication) is a ground for divorce also forgave an actual adulterous wife that was caught in the act.

In essence, it is not compulsory to divorce after adultery. It is the poster's choice to (forgive and divorce) or (forgive and stay).

Bhus21:
2 days after I found out and going through emotional turmoil. I resolved to do the Christ-like thing and give the marriage a chance. I spoke to her at length and tried to convince her of her folly. I then made a candle-lit dinner at night and bought some flowers. I then extracted a commitment to work on the marriage for 6 months.

So imagine my horror when 2 days later I find out she was still talking to her affair partner for hours. Omo this wahala is even deeper than I thought.

Nigerian women are becoming sick jokes en masse. What exactly is the point of going on a date with a bunch of women who have decided to feast to their hearts' content at the expense of their male companion? What exactly is a date meant to achieve in the scheme of things? You want to go to an impressive restaurant to 'assess' whether the guy is good enough for your time, at his expense.
No, my brothers would rather cut to the chase and if you're not coming to his place, it's on to the next one. There's really not much sense in wooing today's Nigerian woman. It. Is. All. About. The. Money. We now live in an era of 'no romance without finance'. Why should I woo you when all you're after is the money? You can swerve if you want to eat at Barcelos.
Secondly, whether there's a date or you've been invited to his house at first invite, there's no good intentions. He wants to lay you. Stop acting like a trip to a posh restaurant will suddenly wipe out sexual fantasies about you. Or maybe you're saying it's only ok to have those sexual fantasies after you've been wined and dined?
In conclusion, the 'come to my house dynamic' is mostly a move to economise the expenditure of time and other resources considering the margin of success/lack of.

Shellsploit:
Ontop beans N100
But on a more serious note, you should have gone back to switch off thr generator.

Romanoff:
Between child upbringing, cooking and doing chores plus a job or a business?

See why a woman can't do it all for a healthy marriage?

BluntCrazeMan:
This is typical of those:
“I love my baby.. I don't want my baby to cry... If my baby cries, it tears my heart apart.”
...
The baby had reached FOUR YEARS, and the baby is still a baby.

mutter:
Truth be told humans can be evil.
The lowest of creatures that God created... Which animal kills and hurts another just out of pleasure or envy or some other crapy mood.

Magnoliaa:
[color=dodgerblue]I doubt. Seriously.[/color]

InvertedHammer:
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God didn't marry.

Even at 33, Jesus refused to marry.

Satan didn't marry.

Catholic church (oldest christian religion) decided their priests will not marry.

There is something they are not telling us

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App222:
I did not authorize anybody to adopt my son. Never.

Pls Nigerians, what kind of wickedness is this that this evil lady wants to do with her man? Pls return my son to me.


I am the father of the boy you're talking about and I never authorized anybody to adopt my son and will never authorize or allow anyone adopt my son.

There are 2 things that made me to know from your story that I am the one you're talking about.

They are:
1. You said it's 4 years now that you've been together. This corresponds well to my story. 
2. You said the child is a boy. This also corresponds well. 

I am a very responsible man and I'm not irresponsible as you claimed. That must have been the lie you were told by the lady. She's a liar and has always been a liar.

She actually ran away with my son since then. Ran away to an unknown destination with my son and packed all my properties away with her. Properties worth a lot of money.

That was after she planned to kill me and assassinate me and I ran away from her to save my life. So she later after one year, ran away with my son and said she would give him to her new man friend, even after I had already planned to enroll the boy in school to register him in a school but she denied me access to the boy till today. I've not seen the boy till today. 

Her dad doesn't even know where she lives. She's a complete liar, a pretender, a Jezebel and a green snake under green grass. You're a dead man if you marry her, mark my word.

She now turned round and said she had registered him in school and that I should be sending school fees in order to be extorting money from me continuously, just like she was extorting money from me while we were together and she ended up wrecking me financially and collecting all the money I had.

How can you ask me to send you school fees for a school I don't know? Location I don't know. Class I don't know. 

Mr man, you want to marry a Jezebel and a manipulator, you are digging your own grave by marrying her. 

Return my son to me, I want to put my son in school so that he can be trained properly with good morals. I don't want him to be taken to club every night as she takes him to club to do evil things. This is a very wicked and evil lady. You want to marry a devil, continue.... nobody will tell you when you will begin to regret it. 

You people will never know peace until you return my son to me. He's not your son, he's my son, so you're a child thief for wanting to adopt my son when I the father I'm still alive and I've not seen my son for 4 years now. 

Return my son to me or else.....

doggedfighter:
Many of the guys are broke so red pill is a consolation for them.

Jmw2kblogposts:
THANK YOU! And some stupid simps will say MGTOW is trash! Keep it coming people!

Fluency:
Hmm!
But patience is a virtue.

liajosh:
Why water come dey her eyes?

scofield114:
its desire and low access to enough pvssy that derive majority of nairaland redpillers to the redpill movement an everage nairaland redpiller is misogynist in disguise. sorry guys if you are poor and ugly then u need redpill to feel fine, but if you are rich or handsome guy u dont need any redpill, as the pvssy will always be at your disposal redpillers are angry with females because they wanna get laid more often and female folks are denying them the opportunity i repeat if you are rich or handsome (most important) u wouldnt waste reading about redpill redpill is all about pussy. i challenge martinex39, dpsychologist, luminouz, ubunja, and the rest to post their pics they cant because they are all ugly and broke ass guys

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