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These are the kinds of things that happen in marriages that do not stand the test of time. Will not be surprised if a divorce is announced in five years.

sisisioge:
Oba stop being emotional. Marriage, love, relationships and everything in between are transactional. There must be a reason you want to be with a person, there must be a reason you love, there must be a reason you want them...Your reason is your consideration, once you shoot your shot and they agree(offer and acceptance), they must do so with a consideration attached. The moment you see this clearly, the easier it would be for you to manage every relationship.

By the way, consideration could be both material or immaterial. Who knows what the reasons for the parties herein had for this venture?

Cheers...longest time

I’m well aware of the transactional nature of relationships, I do have a thread on the matter after all . I just find it a little interesting, how hypocritical people can be on the same matter. I’m not surprised the wife isn’t giving up her organs, I wouldn’t either. What surprises me is the fact that the general public that would condemn a man for saying he’d choose his mother over his wife is the same public saying he should go meet his parents or siblings. I pity men who still believe in love. . They don’t know what is going on.

Meanwhile, what’s up with Oba. That’s an interesting name. Care to enlighten?

HRHQueenPhil:
Ur wife is now ur wife not a slave to be sent back to father's house when u are annoyed with her. Do these
1. Bring her back immediately
2. Buy her pyjamas and nighties
3.burn all her wrappers
4. Make sure she never leaves ur bedside without putting on appropriate clothing
Congratulations, nothing will spoil ur marraige

She’s not a slave. He cannot make her wear the nighties and pjs. He also cannot force her to leave the bedside without appropriate clothing. And he definitely has no right to burn her wrappers.

ednut1:
if this story is true. this a pointer that true love is a scam. many people are in relationships for material or societal gains

But if he makes his siblings and parents his next of kin and not his wife, we go dey hear all sorts of things say the man no sabi wetin be marriage.

I have said it before, and I will say it again, love is a scam and marriage is an even bigger scam. No woman marries a man she will not gain from.

yazga:
If it happened suddenly, she ought to make sacrifice but you can't force her. I believe he has siblings, let love ànd blood lead.

I love your comment in bold. Let love and blood lead. Tomorrow when the man makes his siblings his next of kin, they will say he doesn’t know what marriage is. Hypocrisy

Ugee12:
You are just mentally lazy... work on your reading skills. Readers are leaders.

Lol. Never change, nairaland.

Martinez39:
Hmmmmm. Seems you are awake. Good to see another man whose eyes have been opened.

If person no open eye, woman go take am catch cruise taya.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. That's where I ve problem with most ladies. Once something doesn't go in their way,you ate seen as an enemy. They are too emotional. Just like what happened yesterday in the hotel where I lodged. Due to the fact that my room was not cleaned when I came back,I refused paying. The receptionist started shouting at me and when I wanted to entre my room she used her body to block me,if I had slapped her,they would ve said I raised my hands on a woman. I simply called her director and she was sacked immediately. All the females working there saw me as a bad person but non spoke to her when she was acting.They seems to allow emotions becloud their sense of reasoning.

Women are more powerful and have more advantages than men than we would like to admit. Women will claim equality when it suits them and demand chivalry when it suits them and God help you if you’re outnumbered by fellow women or beta specimen.

They are super-Machiavellian and will f*ck you up without qualms when it serves them.

I’m sure the female colleagues of the receptionist would have been happy the way she “changed it for you” yesterday; only to tag you evil after their colleague’s stupidity backfired. If they really liked their colleague and wanted her to keep her job, they would have sternly cautioned her. But trust snakes to be two-faced

Even people that grew up with their fathers tend to appreciate them more as they get older. You begin to understand why your father did certain things and took certain steps later in life, especially when you have your own children

I cannot imagine how it must be for people who didn’t grow up with their dads and were raised on a biased story.

realtalk19:
How about violent men and men who is not responsible for the child's welfare and believes the mother shuld be the one to take up his responsibility while he squanders his money on irrrelivant things.

Will he be bold enough to to admit he wasn't responsible and couldn't take care of them like a father should?

Will he admit he was violent and irresponsible by always beating up the child's mother who eventually had to leave the marriage for the safety of hersslf and child?

The average IQ on Nairaland is in the lower 100s. I mean, look at this quote. What does the poster of this comment mean? On this thread! Well, it is Seun I blame. What with all the IG and vapid blog posts that hit front page. He has sacrificed quality for money. What a damn shame.

9.5 times out if 10, you will part with money if you have any dealings with the NPF. Whether as a criminal, suspect, witness or even victim. They are worse than AIDS.

As we speak, there are tens of thousands of Nigerians in a police cell this morning for no other reason than they were going about their legitimate businesses. If you have never been a victim of NPF extortion, just thank your stars.

I remember when I still dey stay for Mafoluku, the periods following a robbery incident were regarded as dangerous as the robbery itself. Because when police land with their van; you go buy coke down the road, enter. You dey go work, enter. You come greet your babe, enter. You tie towel carry bucket dey go fetch water, rubbish, enter.

The Nigerians society is corrupt from top to bottom.

darfay:
We should respect her religion

Should we also permit ifa adherents to convert their own khakis to babalawo style? NYSC is not by force, adhere to the rules or go home.

Nairanairafood:

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I go like do this competition oo.

See better chicken

Nice concept. Enjoyed watching the video.

ubunja:
belafonte long time boss

Life bruv. Working on a hookup with you soon. Trust you've been well.

You never jam. Dem to use preek turn your toto to oven.

Ubunja, you're the boss.

I find it funny and tragic when men have this sort of mindset. It simply means money is the criterion that qualifies you for a relationship with said woman. It smacks of low self esteem and ignorance.

How can you not value me when I'm poor and you expect me to lavish you with the proceeds of my hustle when I hit it big, when no be say dem swear for me.

Many hardworking men do not know this but their wives are being fûcked by jobless young men in the neighborhood. They feel like Jesus when they provide for her every desire not knowing they are paying mumu money.

The most painful one is when a woman tries to claim equality with the husband, bomb dey her head? Well, I don't really blame them, it's idiots that use cars to propose marriage to a woman that I blame. If I am to marry, a woman must practically beg me and roll on the ground before I even begin to consider her suitability.

Nonsense

Whoever was dicking that woman was obviously doing a good job, so much so she left home for 'vigil' despite her husband's vehemently expressed reservations. Even if the trumpet sounded and rapture took place, she would go see that man before answering heaven's call.

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MariaLavina:
You mistake me for your mom

Apparently not. My mom definitely doesn't have comprehension issues and knows a metaphor when she sees one.

Ramon92:
I guess generous enough to buy cars for his women hoping to use the result of his sweat and time to impress and keep a woman, so that the mad guys won't come after his prized possession.

The funny thing is that na dose mad guys gangan the woman go come de use the car pursue about. You go fuel d car and she go carry am while you're sweating under ac to go knack d mad boy..

Who come be the mad person now?

True story

MariaLavina:
You pinpoint problems but never share a solution. Fine you write up has some truths in it but you never teach how to differentiate between the leeches who don't ask out of pretence and those real ladies who don't ask because they have enough. Some ladies work and earn well enough to take care of themselves, you know? Or Do we just sum up all women to be Materialistic Gold diggers whether they do it directly or not.


Aside that, Which is better? A Proud, outright leech or a pretending one?

All women are the same, generally speaking. There is always an agenda. No matter how much money a woman makes, she still wants her man to spend on her and pamper her. If a woman can afford Mr. Biggs, she's looking for a guy who can get her to Sheraton levels. If she can afford Sheraton, she wants a Burj Khalifa nigga, that's how it works.

When I ride in my SUV, windows rolled up, AC chilling, I see women in the passenger's seat of their husbands cars(some even driving) AC-less, look at me like "why am I not with that nigga?" Y'all are monkeys always looking for a better, more stable branch to hop on.

Imagine going to the CBN to demand to be given money. This is what these women are doing.

You get what you want in life by earning it, not becoming a nuisance.

These women should be arrested and made to sweep the whole of Abuja. This is the result of joblessness.

Yorubas say when one suffers a huge embarrassment, little ones will become commonplace.

Christafarian:

Legally speaking, the Nigerian Police have no business in the matter. Funny Bone would be doing no criminal wrong during the event. At best, she could sue for defamation which is purely a civil matter and not criminal.

You see why the Nigerian Police are the most
used...
...misused
...and abused public body in Africa?

If she's not careful she'll be the one to pay FunnyBone. There's no ale against making a joke out of anyone's personal matter, especially the one they choose to publish themselves.

On the other hand, Tonto is playing the publicity game well. She's doing all this to trend and claim the spotlight back from Regina Daniel's. All Na format

Shugavee:
Ofcourse he has to pay her,, u put her on ur flyer n u think it’s just gonna slide,,

Many of you ate functional illiterates. Is Tonto Dike a protected topic? You think you're talking to your brood of daft friends?

You sound silly. Someone who had been there for you and has pulled strings for you to be a man an hin you wan leave, not because she has any faults but because you "don't love her". Not only are you an ingrate, you are foolish to boot.

Mister, love is a scam. The woman who you want to love, will she love you back? The love this one has for you is undisputed but you are looking for something that isn't lost.

This woman has shown you she can be a good wife to you and want to throw it away because "you don't love her"? Let me tell you, that feeling of love or are looking for doesn't last more than two years, three years Max and you're back to seeing her as normal. The divorcees in town tidy were once madly in love with their exes. Some could even kill those same exes if they find them alone in an obscure corner.

Use your brain and grab your blessing with both hands and secure you future. Wife no dey outside again.

And no, her family cannot control you if you do not let them. Stop being a pússy and a lick spittle and handle your affairs like a man. Firmly, but politely. They will come to respect you for it.

Do not be unfortunate, you fûcktard

yesloaded:
its difficult for a gal of her age to be loyal to you based on the kind of lifestyles gals of these days! forgive her but let her be, look for a matured woman & not underage kids! gals within her age range loves to explore, what most of these school gals on campus will make you wish not to send your female child to school! forget her crocodile tears, its normal for a cheat!

You say make person leave tokunboh say e no good, say make he carry Naija used 4th hand. Is that not wickedness?

You think their aunties and elder sisters are better? Where you think say the upcoming ones learn work? Smh

Eagerly awaiting women to come and complain about leaving this man naked

delugajackson:
Nigerian ladies and their entitlement cum materialistic-mentality. All she mentioned was money, cars, clothes and all. She doesn't even realize how stupid she sounds. Don't you think we men deserve better? A man will offer you all these and all you can give in return is your over-stretched pussay?

Back in the days, it was easy to find a nice girl, and settle down without stress. Nowadays, all we have are a bunch of entitled, materialistic, money-hungry hoes parading themselves as girlfriends and wives-to-be. These are the type of ladies that end up with fraudstars, ritualists, and drug pushers. They never end up nicely. I await the day that tragedy will befall you. I will read your story on Nairaland with a devilish smile on my face. Oh, what a day that will be.

Sorry to say, but men do not deserve better. If they did, women would offer better. Today's Nigerian male is a weakling who worships pússy and will do anything a woman demands to get a putrid taste of her over-shared lady parts.

As we speak, men are doling out untold sums just o get a kiss and you expect the women to do better. The truth is Nigerian men te cheap as fúck.

monex:
that was the comment she made before the first strip. After watching the video i can say:

MCGalaxy is a pervert
Etinosa had already planned to strip
Etinosa was not drunk
She wanted to go viral with a strip but it didnt come out as planned

Why is MC Galaxy a pervert? How is he different from people who watch pórn? Unless you mean to say that pórn watchers are perverts, which I wouldn't necessarily disagree with.