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RomanceRe: My Fiancée Works But She Prefers I Pay Her Bills by Belafonte(m): 1:31pm On Sep 30, 2019
Homguy:
I really think you are only being used. Propose officially and she will turn you down.
Flesh and blood hath not revealed this to you. She might even accept just to milk him the more and then pull out of preparations due to one silly excuse which OP would have no choice but to reason with. Our brother is a maga and he has no one to tell him.
RomanceRe: My Fiancée Works But She Prefers I Pay Her Bills by Belafonte(m): 1:29pm On Sep 30, 2019
You think you have a fiancée but you don’t. You are a solid cash cow. I can bet my last some those “friends’ activities” she so religiously attends is a dude kpanshing the living daylights out of her.

Sorry bro, you’ve been played. grin
RomanceRe: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Belafonte(m): 1:15pm On Sep 30, 2019
Sandra8:
Oh dear, I like domination and to dominate. You possibly can't survive that kiss
Ants also like to dominate, but they cannot dominate lions. I’m sure you can only dominate things at your level, I’m not one of such kiss
RomanceRe: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Belafonte(m): 12:26pm On Sep 30, 2019
Sandra8:
To males yes, but not to females dear kiss
Not particularly true. Saw your topic on manipulating the male ego, and while the tricks you outlined there haven’t really been worked on me, I see the logic behind it and how it could be effective. The OP of this thread otoh, has been poorly written and lacks basis.
RomanceRe: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Belafonte(m): 12:23pm On Sep 30, 2019
Sandra8:
You are in a toxic environment, you need to move to a western country to get the cure you seek dear kiss
Yeah, that’s true. People don’t like sex and seek it doggedly in western countries. Can you arrange visa for me, though? Let me come and plank you in your western country? kiss
RomanceRe: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Belafonte(m): 12:18pm On Sep 30, 2019
Sandra8:
It's more prevalent in men than women dear, treat yourself and yours and we shall tend to ours love kiss kiss kiss
Who says we want treatment? grin. We are satisfied with ourselves, thank you.
RomanceRe: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Belafonte(m): 11:55am On Sep 30, 2019
These female miseducations are disappointing.
RomanceRe: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Belafonte(m): 11:54am On Sep 30, 2019
Blackivy29:
grin Men with neurological disorder like sexual addiction should be helped. I encourage treatment. We need a rehab facility here in nigeria. It would help curb this persistent issue of rape.

Sandra prepare for opposition. Positive threads attract negative minds.
What about the women with this disorder? Are you going to abandon your sisters?
RomanceRe: Why Men Cheat by Belafonte(m):
We do it because we want to. Duh. Besides, it’s not cheating, it’s playing the field.
FamilyRe: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Belafonte(m): 7:02pm On Sep 29, 2019
desvi:
it has to do with you claiming that "informed men" know that sèx becomes less after marriage
I’m not, have loads of married friends, though.
FamilyRe: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Belafonte(m): 5:36pm On Sep 29, 2019
desvi:
are you married?
What does that have to do with anything? You want to marry me?
FamilyRe: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Belafonte(m): 12:53pm On Sep 29, 2019
I find it interesting that men have failed to get with the times. Everyday we read sob stories from husbands, and these stories have an obvious uptick from previous years. If you’re observant, the writing is on the wall. Women have rejected marriage, and I would advise you guys to do same. There is no award for marriage.

I predict that decades from now, many of the guys trying to keep the status quo will have nothing but bitter tales to tell. Marriage is joy by force, please, and it is certainly not an achievement.

I don’t even know why you want to forge marriage sef, you should be glad to retain your singleness. Imagine the array of women at your disposal and imagine that you can have any of your choosing without having to keep such affairs clandestine. Imagine the amount of time and resources at your disposal to develop yourself and elevate your mind and work. Imagine the freedom to travel the world or indulge in hobbies; these are valuable things a marriage would deprive you of.

Marriage is sacrifice. Serious sacrifice. Now, the other party to the sacrifice is turning down the offer, you should be glad.

You can always have children if that’s your thing; it has always been a thing. Not all your age mates grew up with their fathers and I’m sure they have turned out fine.

The conversation should have left this rudimentary stage and risen to real high level human experiences, especially in a place like Nigeria where the IQ is so low. Stop trying to bully these women, please, you lot are pathetic and painful to watch. The red pill is available for everyone and it is free. Educate your daft asses ffs.
FamilyRe: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Belafonte(m): 12:23pm On Sep 29, 2019
desvi:
they are pained because
they benefit from marriage more
they have regular sèx which they need more than women
they can continue with their careers and have a cheap maid/helper/cook at home
yet she will have to make money too and contribute
they get children without the pains of child birth

and as the article stated, they get some sense grin
Only a loser would get married just to get regular sex. Any informed man knows that sex dwindles after marriage. It is more plentiful when single.
FamilyRe: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Belafonte(m): 12:04pm On Sep 29, 2019
Too many guys in this thread tying to convince OP she’s wrong. There’s no need for that. Everybody is free to believe what they want. Sometimes when you give attention to the wrong things they spread faster and wider than if they’d been ignored
FamilyRe: How And Why Women Become Easy Victims Of Prostitution In Nigeria by Belafonte(m): 1:23pm On Sep 28, 2019
Women! Victim complex will not let you people be great.

A woman cannot enjoy her sexuality, she has to offer it to a man, yet rape is a crime and rapists are shunned.

Next you say na poverty cause, but all the men in Nigeria are immune from poverty?

No wonder our forefathers never took the words of your mouths seriously, you people mostly reason from your rectums.

There are prostitutes from comfortable homes and there are women from humble lineages who aren’t prostitutes. Every human should take responsibility for their actions and lifestyles and stop blaming society. Your lack of principles or attraction to easy money is the real reason you and your kind prostitute themselves. Keep your buck-pushing in your anus. Nonsense
FamilyRe: Most Women Are Subjected To Pressure To Get Married As Quickly As Possible by Belafonte(m): 3:22pm On Sep 24, 2019
This might help...


Risks of Pregnancy Over Age 30

Many women wait until later in life to have children. In the United States, birth rates for women in their 30s are at the highest levels in 4 decades. But an older mother may be at increased risk for things such as:

Miscarriage

Birth defects

Twins

High blood pressure

Gestational diabetes

Difficult labor

Some studies show that while there is a higher risk of pregnancy problems in older women, their babies may not have more problems than babies of younger women. This is more likely when women get prenatal care and give birth in a healthcare facility ready to care for high-risk mothers and babies.

Risk for chromosome problems

The risk for chromosome problems increases with the mother's age. The chance of having a child with Down syndrome increases over time. The risk is about 1 in 1,250 for a woman who conceives at age 25. It increases to about 1 in 100 for a woman who conceives at age 40. The risks may be higher. This is because many statistics only report live births. They do not note pregnancies with chromosome problems that ended due to pregnancy loss.

After having 1 child with Down syndrome, the chance of having another baby with Down syndrome is higher. After age 40, the recurrence risk for Down syndrome is based on the age of the mother at delivery. Most babies with Down syndrome are born to women under the age of 35. This is because women under the age of 35 have more babies than women over 35.

Risk for miscarriage
Some studies have shown a higher chance of miscarriage (early pregnancy loss) in older mothers. For all women, about half of first trimester miscarriages happen because of a chromosome problem in the baby. The risk of chromosome problems increase with the mother’s age. So miscarriage is also more likely.
https://www.stanfordchildrens.org/en/topic/default?id=pregnancy-over-age-30-90-P02481
CelebritiesRe: Moesha Buduong Slays In Beach Photos by Belafonte(m): 9:59pm On Sep 23, 2019
Timbuktuo:
My friend
CelebritiesRe: R.kelly The Fall Of A Star by Belafonte(m): 5:07pm On Sep 19, 2019
I’m an R.Kelly super fan. I listen to his songs daily.

However, I have to be honest, he had it coming. Sex slavery, statutory rape? Smh. He must have thought he was untouchable.

I feel sad how story has gone this way, but I have to console myself with playing his songs back-to-back.

I feel like slapping his head for depriving us of such good music. Hopefully, he gets to make some in jail.
RomanceRe: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION:women's 4 Favourite Lies by Belafonte(m):
funmisticqueen:
it is good that men like you are begining to THINK you are getting wiser in this game. Game On.
Again, the typical Nigerian woman exposes herself. If any man here was ever in doubt as to how true Ubunja’s lectures are, think again.

The women here only antagonise him because he is leaking their secrets. Secrets they have utilized in gaining the upper hand in “love” and relationships. If you ever thought your girlfriend was with you out of love, think again. She’s with you because she has something to gain. No woman will stay with a man she gains nothing from.
RomanceRe: Confused About Lil Sis' Source Of Wealth.. Sdk blog by Belafonte(m): 1:06pm On Sep 15, 2019
So, this is the update on the chronicle:

Update on Thursday Chronicle..


[b] Good morning Stella. I'm the guy whose story was posted on your Chronicle yesterday. Well I send that story about two weeks ago and had lost hope about you posting it.


Most of your followers were bashing me and telling me to mind my business. Some even said I was broke. The truth is i'm not broke. I work and earn about 150k monthly and I am just 27 years old.

I eventually asked my sister about the money and she said it was for someone but when she noticed I didn't believe her she confessed to me.

Apparently she's dating this married older banker in Victoria island and the guy who is in his late fifties has been spending money on her. The painful part is my mum knows about it because the man opened a supermarket for my mother.


I was so hurt and ashamed. I mean which my mother would open her eyes and allow her 23 years old daughter to be sleeping with a man older than her own father. While my mum has been going around lying that her older brother who is in the UK sent her money to open the supermarket.


Anyways I'm back to my state of residence now without saying a word to both my parents but I'm sure my mum knows I know. My sister said she has broken up with the man but then It's actually none of my business again.

Since she has the support of her mother.
Thank you Stella. [/b]
https://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2019/09/chronicles-of-blog-visitor-narrative.html?m=1


Naija women, we dey greet o. grin
RomanceRe: Ubunja Posts Will Bleep You Up, His Points Are Valid But Run For Your Life by Belafonte(m): 12:57pm On Sep 15, 2019
The red pill is not for everybody
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: B & O >:( by Belafonte(op): 5:46pm On Sep 14, 2019
sisisioge:
Well, since you are miles away and not auditioning... Why not. I will respond to the PM. Let's even put a face to the retired big mouth grin
Yimu. Hit me up
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: B & O >:( by Belafonte(op): 5:33pm On Sep 14, 2019
sisisioge:
Thank you. I noticed you too but got put off by one post where you were insulting everybody. I also saw a post where you declared yourself a bonafide foorkboy. Hian...I no fit shout.

By the way, don't start feeling special, I have quite a number of crushes. Any post that appeals to my sapiosexual self usually gets my attention...now imagine how many crushes they were! grin grin grin
Lol. Me and my big mouth. Just said that to trigger your sisters who think being called a fboi is more damaging than it actually is, though I can’t even remember the thread sef. And I’ve stopped insulting people as I’m sure you can tell. And no I’m not auditioning for you, just tryna let you know I’ve grown.

I’ve always liked you because you seem to be my kinda girl; calm, level-headed, secretly and stylishly naughty but classy, etc. Again, this is not an audition, I tend to be expressive.

Lol. I’m special na. Always was, always will be. cool. I’m not sure I would say I’m Sapir-qulaifies, though people compliment my “intelligence”. Thanks for the compliment, however, always good to receive appreciation.

PS: I think we should move this to email and delete this thread. Discretion and all.
FamilyRe: My Neighbours Have Seen My Wife's Unclad Body Twice!!! by Belafonte(m): 5:26pm On Sep 14, 2019
HRHQueenPhil:
u talk like an idiot, the wife is to submit to her husband. This is the exact example she needs to obey her husband.so shut d fvck up!
Just checked your profile and I’m disappointed in the fact that you had to spew such venom. I’m not pissed just disappointed. As fine as you are you lack tact and class.

I wonder what’s making you so angry. Must have been long you had good s*x. Sorry. kiss
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: B & O >:( by Belafonte(op): 5:19pm On Sep 14, 2019
sisisioge:
Right! grin
It’s a good name.

Modified the preceding post. Would be nice if you read it.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: B & O >:( by Belafonte(op): 5:04pm On Sep 14, 2019
sisisioge:
I dey manage. I thought you are in Ikeja....you must have moved/travelled. Its not Bisola, more like B.m.o
Relocated, actually. Honestly, though, don’t remember having that much communication with you, even though I’ve been a long time admirer. Used to sneak peeks at your lips in your dp back when you had a portion of your face on there. angry

Ah, lovely name. I like it really. Don’t know why it didn’t come to me sooner.

It’s _i_b_ , if I'm right?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: B & O >:( by Belafonte(op): 4:21pm On Sep 14, 2019
Belafonte:
Brendo? grin
B_s__o. cool

Cracked it

sisisioge:
You opened a whole thread. Incredible!
Discretion?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: B & O >:( by Belafonte(op): 4:14pm On Sep 14, 2019
sisisioge:
grin grin grin grin

Oya come and be going...don't even think of over stretching the flirt. I know you Oba...quite well. The rains won't be helping you right now, especially since we are in the same Ikeja grin. Biko enjoy your evening...cheers.
You see, you don’t even know me well enough. I’m not in ikeja. I’m miles away.

Question for you, though, how you faring with the downpour?

And I still don’t know your name.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneB & O >:( by Belafonte(op): 4:04pm On Sep 14, 2019
sisisioge:
Try B....o grin grin
Brendo? grin
FamilyRe: My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the man by Belafonte(m): 3:53pm On Sep 14, 2019
sisisioge:
grin grin grin

Oga then tongue....enjoy
So, what’s your real name? angry

Maybe I should ask in private angry
FamilyRe: My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the man by Belafonte(m): 3:38pm On Sep 14, 2019
sisisioge:
Glad we are on the same page. But I still believe in love so long as parties have all their cards on the table.

How did you know the Oba is a name? What if I wanted to write Oga? Anyways, I know its the suffix before your name grin...its cool though. Obaf... cool cool cool
I won’t say I still believe in love, but I do believe that you can have strong affection for someone and want and actively pursue the best for them. When I say I don’t believe in love, what I mean is I strongly believe everyone will revert to self preservation when sufficiently incentivized, if that makes sense. Cards may appear to be on the table, but na only God fit read thoughts and schemes.

This is getting weirder. Obaf? Okay, I need an explanation. This information is new to me. How did you come about this piece of info, if I may ask. Perhaps, you did intend to write Oga angry

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