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funmisticqueen2:
1. True, I actually don't support them leaving the royal family either, Harry has a very tough road ahead of him. I wish him the best.

2. But what I don't support is these masturbating incels opening a thread on top Meghan and Harry's matter. No matter how woke they are, Ubunja are Co are not even worthy to lick their boots, they can never be the man prince Harry is, them calling him a simp is from a place of self hate, spite and jealousy.

3. Learn to recognize your betters redpillerz

Notice the manipulative method used in this comment:

1. She admits that Prince Harry has made a monumental error like the redpillers on this thread have been pointing out.

2. She quickly tries to make redpillers on this thread feel inferior by saying they take a perverse joy in diagnosing the truth of the Harry-Meg situation.
She places the Prince far above your reach and as such you shouldn’t speak of matter “above your station”.
But has she refuted the analysis of redpillers on this thread? NO.

3. Again, shaming tactics are employed. Funny enough, she has no shame. I’ve checked her profile pic and I find her terrible to look at, I cannot even imagine that any dïck on earth can summon a hardon for her. That must be her main grouse, she’s not pretty but feels entitled to men of higher SMV than hers. But because she cannot get them, she’s internalized the defeat and is taking it out on other men.



VERDICT:
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Fuministicqueen is simply a bitter woman hiding under the tainted tent of feminism and misandry. You are advised to ignore her rants as they come from a frustrated mind.

Shalom

Arthur21:
wow,so you suddenly believe people opinion should be respected now without calling them names because i am serving you a bowl of the broth you dish out? How about when you call guys broke,and dish out unsavory comments about them for their opinions?or when you call ladies that don't agree with you shera7en word "pickmesha" ? Now you don't want to be called names?

I have always suspected you have a dual personality. At times you take a break and become humane towards others and the next minute you are gloating over someone, I almost sheds tears when I saw your new year thread of suicide and then days later you took on a maleficent personality.

Its all cool though. I respect you for one thing,you are not the type to keep malice and hold up to grudge. Cheers though!, I pray this current personality of yours last long

It’s not a dual personality. It’s the typical feminine manipulative tactics she uses along with generous utilisation of gaslighting. You have to understand that manipulation is a wonderful weapon.

bukatyne:
Funny thread.

Most of the guys on this thread seek to fight the way it was from creation:

When a man genuinely loves a woman, he will do ANYTHING to please her and make her happy.

That is why the Bible teaches balance and says women should submit to their husbands. So you both are pleasing one another and putting yourselves first.

As per Harry & Meghan, I have not done much research.

However, I feel that
1. Meghan should have counted the cost of marrying into the royal family and be READY to abide to their idiosyncrasies which honestly would be only during official duties. I am sure they do not dictate how she has her bath or what cour to paint her room.

2. Meghan leaving movies, marrying the prince, them leaving the prince hood and she going back to her movies sound like a game plan to me. No matter how 'rebellious' Harry is, he was breed for a certain type of life and discarding it all seems somehow. Already, he was the 6th in line or so therefore, the royal office Must have cut him some slack.

3. I hope he really investigated why Meghan divorced the first time and working towards preventing it. Let's also hope Meghan is not the fickle 'irreconcilable differences so divorce' kind of woman.

It would be a shame for Harry to give so much up and end up a broken, lonely man.

You are agreeing with most of the opinions on this thread without realizing it.

The Men here understand that a man will do anything for the woman he loves, but what is his reward? Even more importantly, does that woman love him back, does she appreciate his sacrifices? Or is the average woman just angling to have her way with manipulative tactics while preying on the man’s love?

I’m glad you mentioned “since creation”, I mean, from the first man, Adam, we clearly see the lot of man when he does what he shouldn’t do because of love. Doing anything to please your woman is the highway to losing your ordained throne as a man; I don’t care if he’s Adam, or Prince Harry, or a common bricklayer. Once you allow yourself to be controlled by your love for your woman and her pleasure, it is over for you as a man.

Correct

GGirll:
Have you come to add Igbo to your fight with fulani sai baba you voted ? Don't let your hatred for igbos kill you o. Go n face the Sao baba them you voted for n leave omo nna alone as we don't care about you either nonsense.

Yet you’re on this thread

judondasylva:
Oga it is illegal. You guys jubilated when they unlawfully proscribed IPOB as a terrorist organization and you never expect this. We told you guys to stand up for the right but hate could not allow most Yoruba people.

IPOB IS a terrorist organisation

sinkhole:
you're clearly not thinking deep as these other people "supporting" Amontekun.
If Amontekun is successfully declared illegal and Hisbah and co. could continue then tell me how South East, South South, North Central could organise to protect themselves?
The people supporting Amontekun now are only doing so to create a precedence on which to base their own actions later!

Don’t mind J111333, he is the typical child of hatred that doesn’t know what logical thinking is.

Igbo people have come again with their emotional arguments. MASSOB has been there for countless years and nobody cares about them and what they intend to achieve. The only reason Nnamdi Kanu was antagonized was because of his rhetoric of insulting every tribe and trying to paint other tribes as haters of the Igbo people, but the truth is we really don’t care about you people.

Amotekun has been established and yorubas have not insulted anybody, but you cannot take our name out of your mouth. When you fight your fight, you insult us; when we fight our own fight you insult us. Dem swear for una?

starbuck:
From your write up, you are trying to seek validation from us to either LovePeddler about, abort the innocent kid or leave your 11 year old marriage...


Stick dịa joor

Ah, finally, someone with eyes

Just before I got pregnant I was having a lot of guys wooing me that my husband became very active in his affections towards me and it made me feel like I’m being courted again then this happened

Wait, did anyone else see this? Oh, just me? Okay, carry on then.

cococandy:
Why should she come visit? When everyone expects her to be raped when she visits a man?

Your default reasoning state is idiotic

buknija:
We only met just 2 weeks after she got pregnant, 1 month later we were forced into marriage.

What the f^ck is this nonsense talk? They forced you into marriag. At gunpoint or what? Your story reeks of weakness, no wonder she’s bullying you

Unless he’s ready to secure good paying jobs for them and ensure that they won’t be robbed or harassed by police and can guarantee them 24/7 electricity, he is no position to tell them who to blame or how to go about pursuing their interests. Just wish them well and move on. Don’t worry other people will replace their tithes and offerings

crackkhaus:
For a woman to have the guts to be branding knives in front of her husband, it must mean she sees him as being incapable of anything.

Too bad.

Personally, I wouldn’t feel comfortable being around, let alone sleeping beside, someone who brandishes knives at the slightest marital conflict.

The fact that Buknija still lives with her remains inconceivable to my mind. Like someone threatened to stab you, not once, not twice but six times and you dey snore like he-goat beside am? I cannot.

Oga OP, I think you still live under the illusion that people will treat you with the same respect that you treat them. I am happy to let you know that that is not the case. And with a woman who has threatened to stab you countless times without remorse, I think your survival should be your highest priority. I truly do not know how you can sleep with that kind of person in the same house. You think she can’t poison you? . Nigga you will die and nothing will happen.

I don’t know how you people see marriage these days o, but let me tell you categorically that today’s women don’t want to get married, they only do because of societal pressure, which is why they’re always looking for a made man to marry because that’s their compensation for being in an institution they detest.

So, to your question, sir I’m not married but I can categorically tell you that the day that man slapped my mother on the shoulder is the day that marriage would have ended because I would have given him the sternest, most -threatening warning of his life and if he had repeated it it would become a police matter because I will knock his ass out. He even told you “aye e maa baje” on top his daughter’s misbehavior fa. It’s your fault na, they have you sh*t to chop and you ate it, swallowed it and told them thank you.

Nigga, divorce is the first option in marriage in today’s world. If it is not working or both parties do not see eye-to-eye, pack your sh*t up and call it deuces. If you are killed, you will be buried and there’s no coming back from death. O tan fun e niyen.

1x2x3:
Lol..... Tech without electricity

That even makes our achievement more valuable. What are you contributing?

kaziblake:
Just go away.

Didn't mean to be so harsh.

How's your weekend going?

kaziblake:
Just say you are tired of her and wanna be with another woman but know that not all that glitters that are gold

Make it a habit to not comment on topics if you lack the comprehension and logical skills required to analyse issues without bias.

LadySarah:
Nobody is perfect in anyway.While You are having problems with this one,the other one might send You to your grave.
I'm not saying You should endure, but to make You understand that You cant Enjoy a person until both of You decide to make it work.

Can You guys Go back to the drawing board and find out how and Where things started getting bad.

Do You feel You got pressured cos of the baby?
Did you love her before?
She might be feeling unfulfilled considering taking away her shakara period from her(pregnant at 19).

You knocked on the Door and did half rite,You are her husband.

I think the part in bold is sophistry, no offence. How can you make it work with a person that can boldly come to your place of employment and cause a scene,not even with her spouse but a coworker? It takes two to tango and she is very clearly not willing to tango.

I wonder what you face at home if she can plan and carry out such an act as coming to fight an unknown person in your place of employment. Do you know some organisations would terminate you on the spot? They will tell her to wait for you so you both can go home together as they are typing your sack letter.

She has no regard for you, and certainly home for herself, but those are not even as bad as her sparing no thought for the child you with have.

She has told you she wants to leave and that you should too. Has it ever occurred to you that she could kill you? . It always seems farfetched till you're dead. Hopefully, you don't lose your life.

I would advise you to inform your people and hers of her intentions to dissolve the union and leave. They will try to convince you to stay citing all sorts of reasons, but if you value your life I expect you to leave.

As to your new-found love interest, I would advise against it, and if you can't, have very clear boundaries. Going through challenges can make is blind to the flaws our supposed relief can possess.

Good luck.

Martinez39:
They are just pained that a son has reconciled with his father. During parental alienation, women will, without fail, condition the kids to think that their fathers are bad and they will even exaggerate. Am I saying that there are no bad fathers? Of course not but majority of children in divided homes who are staying with the mother have been conditioned to erroneously see their father in bad light. Children, both male and female, must give their fathers the benefit of doubt. The females here are angry because they are the type that will engage in such subtle brainwashing of their kids and parental alienation all for the cheap game of power dynamics or to avenge their hurt during a disagreement with their spouse.

To see themselves losing a pawn in such game and the fact that people are beginning to wake up and give their fathers the benefit of doubt does not go down well with them.

Spot on.

For them it's always about some Machiavellian scheme and competition with nobody competing with them.

They are neurotic.

A woman on this thread is saying today's men are foolish, another said they are spineless, and they are saying this with disdain and contempt. What they have failed to remember is that today's men were chiefly raised by here mothers, at least, going by this thread.

If today's men are foolish and spineless, the blame should go to the mothers, the same ones who have had the most influence on their lives

NoToPile:
Loool, so the moral is never ever train your child alone as a woman, las las the they would say they didn't listen to their father's point of view for abandoning them at some point in their lives.





A father has no excuse for abandoning his children (even if its just for a few years) irrespective of his issues with their mum.


Op you can reconcile with your dad, but dont EVER try to water down the sufferings of your mum.


From the comments this thread going the lane of another operation blame the woman thread.

Women are number one on the victimhood appropriation list. This man hasn't even blamed his mum for anything. He simply mended his relationship with his dad and women are angry that he did that.

crackhaus:
You're probably one of the only ones here who actually has working neurons in the brain. I've been following this since yesterday and wondering why people were antagonizing the OP.

The antagonism is actually ruing the fact that emotional blackmail isn't as effective as they thought it was when a child and estranged father are concerned

bdchange:
I think you are taking it too far. Reconciling with his father won't stop his love towards his mother or care he ought to give to her. Moreover you can't disregard his father side of the story if he has the chance to hear him out. There are some instances where the mother will forcefully take the child away from the father neglecting the repercussion. At least a case study is clearly seen in Tonto Dike's case now. She even drag the father to court to stop him from seeing his own child ooo. Who does that for Christ's sake? So you see there always two sides to a coin.

That's not her problem, her problem is that the child must hate the father forever.

So, IceColdVeins, did you have the talk with your dad about why things ended the way they did and why he took the decision he did?

Omo, see wailing and gnashing of teeth by some people on this thread. They are suddenly realising that emotional blackmail hardly works and if it does lasts only for a while. Una never cry reach.

Women that will always lie to you about something that you know and can see that you will be shocked are now sad that a man is giving his father the benefit of the doubt? F*ck y'all, really.

If genders were reversed. They would still justify themselves and demonise fathers. One even said a child of hers would be dead to her if they went seeking their father . It is always about you, that is why children go to seek out their fathers years after. Something tells them the story you tell them is not complete, so they go to find the missing piece of the puzzle. Una go still cry blood.

Thanks a million, friend. Got it in my mail.

Fyi0:
Nonsense. Gerrarahere bitch

Absolutely no need for this

[quote]Well some pals in the office told me i dodged a bullet cos thats her modus operandi. She always goes for her bosses to secure her job, she did same with her previous boss, and i should count my gains and move on, which I am moving on though. Well the lady is 35 but still acts the age of 20. Cos at her age she still derives pleasure from clubbing and partying.[/b]

@nairaonfire, you should be conducting a thanksgiving service. So, na woman with these attributes you wan carry go show your family say you done see wife.

myang500:
I already did a DNA test on them both, they are my biological children. No worries on that side. The see finish issue is what i always tell her, na the see finish make her do things that I have stood up like a man to draw a ine on never to happen but will still happen, then will expect me to take her sorry and move on immediately, when i keep the silent treatment, she comes up with i dont know how to handle issues, or i dont like to communicate, communicate wetin over and over again? The funny thing is, yesterday I had gone to a salon to request for home service for pedicure and manicure. So two ladies followed me home. Upon my entering, i told her two people are here to come and do pedi and medi for me. So i asked the house maid to boil water. Within some few seconds, she approached the ladies saying, please and please go and get the water yourself once it has finished boiling, the house maid and i are going out, in a rash tone to know she was angry, i then called her aside, and told her that was uncalled for, these people are here to work, you didnt have to lay your personal wrath on them, she was like yea but i ought to have told her before choosing to bring the ladies home for service, i was like you have always deliberated for me to bring in whoever i want to whenever you refuse to help me with my leg saying its salvery for me to ask her to do my leg. This is still in the midst of reconciliation with me, that she brought up this attitude, the see finish is extreme and it justifies the fact that I know that she can never change, the attitude is in her. Shes asking that we go for counseling, i know its just for the clout, it wont change sht, i told her to go first, i will follow, she hasnt.

Bro, let me be straight with you. Theoretically speaking, she can change, but I think it would be height of folly for you to expect her to. She will only change if she wants to, which you have zero control over.

Forget all this talk about communication, it only works with people who are acting in good faith and genuinely seek to understand their partners. With someone acting in bad faith you will talk and talk and talk and they will just be mocking you inside.

The prescription for a solution is so long I don't have the strength to start typing it up.

zeb04:
the reason your wife don’t respect you, is because you dont respect her. See the way you are talking about your wife to strangers. If you cant respect her, at least respect yourself or your children.

Any woman that threatens the husband with infidelity and says he is wasting her yansh is unworthy of respect.