₦airaland Forum

PrimadonnaO:
Lol. Eternal victims cracked me up.

Happy Sunday to you. It was just an angle to the incident.

Yeah. The victim complex angle.

Happy Sunday to you too.

franchasng:
Guys try to be getting married on time oh, hmm

There are millions of married women getting fûcked, as we speak, by guys who aren't their husbands.

PrimadonnaO:
You don't take advantage of a person's vulnerability.

Perhaps she called in... but I don't want to believe the original intention was to go nak*d. If he knew she was drunk, morality decides that he cuts the video because she wasn't acting from a place of consciousness. It's just like saying, a kid tells you they want to drive...and you hand them car keys... then you excuse yourself on the basis that it was the kid who said he could drive? Not fair. Makes no sense.

We should cover other people's shame... not expose them for the world to see. What's a one day video got to do with the reputation he has helped damage?

As usual, the eternal victims pop up.

Women and taking responsibility are like oil and water.

You quickly compare a grown woman who has married and divorced with a kid. But if they say women should submit to their husbands now you lot will be asking if she's a kid that needs to be controlled.

Women are disgusting

In 2019, I expect the main topic of marriage should be how Nigerian men hate marriage and refuse to commit to a marriage relationship. Such stories where a LovePeddler will be having mouth to talk in public just grind my gears.

Nigerian men are yet to understand that Nigerian women have rejected the idea of marriage. Naija man when will you wake up? These hoes are marrying you out of spite and mocking your efforts to make them happy while collecting your resources without any compunction. When they are done with you they move on to a better option.

If you must marry, make sure the woman is begging you to put a ring on it, and she must sign terms and conditions that protect you fully in case of any falling out. You both must have lawyers present to avoid stories of invalidity.

NaijaMutant:
Your punishment is even worse than the crime

I disagree. It's still not enough punishment. Anybody who can't consciously and willingly hurt children deserves even more.

Mizwisdom:
This life is a mystery. I can picture the mother trying to keep the boy away from his father as a kid, a man who did not contribute anything to his welfare. She was the one with him through childhood sicknesses, she did the hard work but now that he's all grown, the young man rebels and decides to search for his dad against her wish
The dad will surely reap where he did not sow, he'll turn the guy to a bank where he can withdraw money at will. After a few years the young man will learn the true nature of his father but he won't still severe the relationship. His father will use him until his last breath meanwhile the mum will gradually soften her stance (wetin she go do before?) It always ends this way and the cycle continues.

You are a witch. Whoever marries you would be unfortunate.

Yet, here we are fighting politicians who are stealing fertiliser meant for our farmers. I weep for Africa

ubunja:
so your wife can't cook, pound yam, fetch water
WTF is wrong with you Nigerian men? These are normal household chores.
Just get Sex Dolls then... Since sex is the only demand you have on your women.

Nigerian men can be very stupid when it comes to matters of pússy.

They think acting like bìtches is civilisation. The same woman who cannot cook for them is busy killing and de feathering chicken for some other dude somewhere.

immaculate1234:
Bleep off boy you know nothing with the way you talk one can detect that you are a fucking child who is privileged to be using a phone. U think say ur mate dey here

You sound really daft, old man.

Tufiakwa. Not my portion.

She is engaging in what is known as self consolation. Who asked her question that she's answering?

She's indirectly telling guys to look past the obvious mammary dilapidation and focus on the face that will also still degrade with time. I don't blame her, she has to sell market.

immaculate1234:
when will you have sense you started well and ended up disgracing yasef

I'm wiser than everything in your lineage.

McKenzie Bezos is loosed to be the richest woman in the world if divorce laws are anything to go by. Her ex husband Jeff is worth about $136bn. This means she's eligible to $68bn of that money or 50%.

Guys, if marriage was something you ever considered, I ask you to really think about what you want to get into. Marriage is outdated. Get a surrogate, get a baby mama, or just doing parlour wedding. Do not, I repeat, do not near a registry. It is not worth it.

In today's world, divorce or cuckolding is inevitable. Save yourself unnecessary stress. SAY NO TO MARRIAGE.

Thank You.

dharamanil:
We are on same page bruv, I meant dumping her and moving forward is the right thing to do. But from the way he explained he is in serious love. If he has the right team around to help him he would be able to outgrow

Right

dharamanil:
Marriage is not compulsory, but emotions ain't easy to control especially when it's 100 percent. If he has the ability and the right team he would be able to change the current narrative.

The fight between a deep rooted emotion and common sense is always a big one

Lol. You cannot change any human being. Even people find it hard to change themselves knowing how destructive their habits are to themselves and their relationships. How then can you plan your future happiness on changing another person? It is beyond naive and laughable.

Divorce stories are replete with people who thought they could manage their partners' crazy habits. Only a fool would marry this girl.

EmekaBlue:
I dey pity dem na...How many more men to drill their borehole bfr dem finally get one to put dem in d house..abi is it when they reach menopause ni

Bros leave them abeg. Marriage contracted under pressure and force doesn't end well. They marry but still avidly fûck other men. So, what's the point?

If Dem like make Dem reach menopause. Is it your menopause? Your menopause lost?

You need to stop putting pressure on women to marry. They no want. They want to enjoy their lives and that's okay. Marriage is not an achievement.

Besides what is your business with their single status? Are they praying to you for relationship or husband?

Your own is to fûck and move on to the next.

Leave women alone.

chiommy123:
swear you've never cheated before

I can swear I've never told a girlfriend that a child another woman had for me is hers.

dharamanil:
The truth is that the only fault you v got is you are a simple and easy going guy and it don't mean you ain't a man.

Some guys here telling you that there babe or gf or fiance dare not recieve call or always ready to Bleep em and all those trash. Only if they know how quickieis and how many quickies there babes be collecting behind them. Majority of this 90s ladies do this even the one that's with a mad man still looks for a way to cheat.

Your Fiance will become reallybetter after marriage because only then she would know she is off the market but bro, u better don't go broke or if u want to go broke make sure she don fat. Majority of the girls in lekki are like this I swear, The igbo ones likes there husband abroad, the yoruba ones likes there husbands to have no time. Bro just pray

You know what women are but you don't mind marrying them? Don't you think that's a problem?

Marriage is not compulsory, my friend. If you aren't married, now is the time to start laying plans to not do so. Marriage in these times is a losing proposition for men.

The OP must call off his engagement as a matter of urgency. The path before him is one of sorrow. Nothing good can come of it. And women get worse after marriage, not better.

Lordbellish:
she always telling me she dry, baby can't u see am dry and me being dry means I'm not in the mood...

or if she concepts to making love, once she cums, she pushes me away... and now do a hand job on me b4 I cum... (sorry I'm spelling everything out like this) I'm seriously hurting

Do you know that a woman must get wet if she wants or desires a man? . It is an impossibility for a woman to be dry if she really wants to fûck. I repeat, an impossibility.

She is dry because she does not fancy you. She's with you because of what she gets from you. I am begging you. Do not marry this girl. You will be afflicted with sorrow if you do.

I wish I could open your head and put knowledge of women inside just to make you understand that you are walking into problems with your eyes wide open.

chiommy123:
I don't support cheating in any way but you guys make it look like a woman's thing

Yeah. Guys bring a child from another woman and tell the wife it's hers. It's really not a woman's thing.

I have been saying this thing on nairaland for years. A paternity test for a man s as basic and crucial as ante-natal for women and vaccination for newborns.

Believe a woman at face value and weep.

Check the child they said belongs to you before you discover the truth after decades.

Imagine that this bìtch knew who the real father of this children was and not only collected regular child support from this man, but also housed him to pay more. . Correct business centre.

Men, do not marry because of love. Women do not now what that word means.

Lordbellish:
I felt like smashing her phone on the wall Buh I couldn't.... I just lost my appetite and left the house for her before I will do something silly...


when I came back she already ate hers and left my in the freezer.... from what I gathered from this post, my mind is made. i have called her elder sister this morning and told her everything and that if she doesn't stop, I will cancel every marriage plans.. she said her and the husband will invite me and he sister over to talk to us.. on how to get along, she really begged me shaaa

First of all, it is a sign of weakness making threats. If you want to do something, do it without advance warning.

Let me break down how this will go. Your call to the sister has sent some panic into your girlfriend's family, they will rally round their daughter and try to call her to order and encourage her to not give you any reason to have a rethink. But have you asked yourself if they are unaware of her whorish ways or her proclivity to being too friendly with men? Lol.

They will also stylishly guilt you by hammering on the fact that your consideration of ending the relationship because of this small issue is not good, they may even say men don't and should not behave in that manner. . They will scold their daughter small and scold you too, yet you're the one with the grouse . Then they will tell you to not hesitate to contact them when she starts misbehaving again, they will promise to help you manage your relationship because you were foolish enough to marry olosho.

They will make it seem like you are overreacting. The aim of this is to make you accepting of such behaviour from their daughter, because she will still do more things like this. You will be fully cuckolded, my friend. Then maybe one day, you'll divorce or start beating her or just hate yourself. One thing is for sure, you are going down the wrong path if you marry this girl. Hear me again, you will regret marrying this girl.

Oh, by the way, expect to now have a coded prostitute for a wife, because she will no longer be able to receive those calls in your presence. You think those male friends of hers will evaporate? I laugh in Greek. She will keep giving men her number, difference is she'll not receive calls from them in your presence anymore.

Good luck. I anticipate your tales of marital woe in the family section in a few years.

Fine bara. Tueh. I pity the guy that will marry this one. The hoeism in this country is getting out of hand.

lilmax:
this is why in a relationship, you spell out what you can't tolerate

if you had talked about this the first time you encountered it, she would have changed

tbh with you, baba that girl will never change and I can tell she's still a kid that doesn't know right and left

the ball is in your court, if you go ahead, you're going to regret it....this is just facts

The best talking about it would accomplish is she would be discreet about the calls. A normal responsible woman should not be told that such behaviours are whorish. If she thinks it's normal, then a man who values his peace of mind should not be considering marriage with her.

Lordbellish:
it's not insecurity my Dear... I have gotten list from their family... against my Coming by Easter with my family... or do you think I don't see beautiful girls out side that I will flirt with or give my number to....

Your fiance is a hoe. I would advise you to not marry her. If she can do this confidently and defiantly when you're about to wed, a period she should be pretending, what do you think she'll do when you guys are official?

Do not rush into marriage. In this same Nigeria marriages break up within six months. If you think I'm exaggerating, go to any courts around your location and see for yourself. You cannot marry a prostitute and expect virtuous behaviours from her. Don't let anyone pressure you, not her, not her family, not your family. No-one.

Don't let anyone go and bring a basterd for you to train. A word is enough for the wise. If you like, marry the neighbourhood pússy, na you go carry your cross by yourself

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
My respect goes to those pass this kinda test, I just feel it's childish. Lobatan

Your feelings are immaterial. They carry no weight in the grand scheme of things.

Girls are saying you did a stupid thing because they would have failed the test, themselves.

Putting money on your girlfriend is the height of trust. Think about it, should a right-thinking not be happy that you trust her enough to bet on her fidelity?

Hoes everywhere getting butthurt cos they don't want to be put on the spot. They're trying to discourage guys from doing this. So fûcking predictable.

Third World mentality. If they deny you visa now, you'll start weeping racism like deranged idiots. Is this the behaviour of a man who should have been allowed to stay in a First World country?

You can take the monkey out of the jungle, but you cannot the jungle out of the monkey. I'm embarrassed on this idiots behalf.

Ilamina:


Why I am so unlucky

Because you make poor choices.

You can change your luck by changing your choices and actions.

Unless your choices have led to a irreversible health damage or life imprisonment, you can always rehabilitate your life.

Difficult, but doable

Guys, stop wanking in 2019. It dulls your natural male instincts. Go out and talk to a woman no matter how difficult it is. Speak to a woman everyday. Watching porn and wanking are killing you.

funmisticqueen:
idiot. She is free game until you walk her to the altar. What did you do to earn her loyalty?

She is free game. That is why she will not be taken to the altar.