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Guy stop being boring. Women despise boring guys and easily get dripping wet for non-bring guys.

The problem this girl is facing is simple. She has a "good" guy who does things by the book but lacks spontaneity. He sounds rigid. He probably has never slapped her butt, ever. Never pressed the bobby, once ever. She can not feel sexual desires towards him. It is against natural human laws of sexual attraction.

Women want a muthafucka, not a sheep.

I would not be surprised if this sister is already chopping blokos codedly. If she isn't, she probably already is already eyeing some dude somewhere.

All this no sex before marriage sef dey sound somehow for my ear. How can a woman love you when you haven't banged nonsense out of her head. Give her the kind of love making that will make her deny her parents, religion and tribe.

Stop thinking women will love you because you have money, because they won't. You will only be an ATM.

hugoboss36:
....see as the money dey easy for ur mouth...metcheeew

Even at 200K, it would be cheaper than playing daddy to a bastàrd.

Shirer:
I tell you, it is worse than murder. I am forever traumatized by the attempt to corrupt my bloodline. I can't imagine the torture of those who unknowingly raise another man's seed for any length of time - especially, when they find out very late. Kai! Woe unto man.

Real woe. At this point, I don't know how I'm going to get married because I do not possess the capacity to trust a woman. I've been with enough to know even the most innocent-looking ones have a private dìck tucked carefully away, and barring divine intervention in some cases one would be none the wiser.

In this day and age, only an ignorant man would neglect carrying out a DNA test on children presented to him as his. Interesting times we live in.

Shirer:
I've heard many say paternity fraud mostly involves the first child. From my experience, I can say that women keep refining their game to stay ahead of everyone.
My first son is my carbon copy it would be a waste of money to think of DNA test. With this confirmation seemingly assured, the mother thought to fool me with the second. But a series of events combined to expose her. Rather than face shame, she risked her life to abort the thing at 5months. She obviously wanted a child with a much beloved boyfriend but, surprisingly, wanted to keep the marriage. The shock of it all!
Abeg, stop trying to decode the female one.

Hmm, interesting. I can't think of anything crazier than passing of another man's child as someone else's, yet this seems to be the vogue amongst women.

To the unmarried guys reading learn today that nothing can satisfy a woman. Nothing

Hoes gon hoe

newdawn2017:
Which time, don't u see he Has become a dangerous man already as it is? D Op's nightmare has just begun, she should runaway now d@ d abuse in an incubatory stage.

Lol. Go help am pack her load na.

Give him time, he'll come around. You did betray his trust by not informing him earlier. These things can't be rushed. Maybe he's wondering what else you are hiding from him. But I'd say give him time.

I can bet a whole month's salary her body count is closer to 20 than 10. She has had Seven boyfriends, she hasn't included the ones that just scammed her and stayed for like three months; the ones she likes but have girlfriends and she just raised her skirt for a one-time knacking. Nigga, seven as an official number is quite high o.

David.

Well, he is in the best position to educate the rest of us on condom usage seeing as he has fathered children rather indiscriminately. The lesson is simple: if you don't want to end up looking irresponsible, use a condom.

Mimi, sorry you're not the top pick, please move on, and better luck next time.

You be proper mumu. So, you hink you've retaliated because you refused to fprward one last payment? Your concluaion was such an anticlimax, i thought you did something mean like mistakenly hit her with your car or something really life damaging. Alas, you ended with a limp "I refused to give her money for her certificate" Who gives a fûck?

She even had the guts to call you stingy and the sanctimony to judge you on not forgetting the past. Can you imagine the fûcking nerve on that bîtch? But why wouldn't she? You proved to be a fool. You knew she was lying yet you kept sponsoring her. Why? Because you worship pûssy. Not because you're patient, not because you're nice. You simply worship pûssy.

The best way to have your fill of pûssy is to disdain it. There are literally plenty of fishes in the damn sea. Why should you send her money to come in the first place? Next time tell her to borrow from someone around and assure her you'll sort her when she comes. Don't be too stupid to be doing something twice that should never even have happened. The Ondo wey you dey yansh no dey dia? It is guys like you that make women feel entitled to money they don't deserve. Upon everything you still no see yansh staff, what a shame.

You think she really needed your money to collect her certfiicate? Lol. S only wanted to reopen your office file and see if your well still has oil, mumu. The fact that she could still call you names shows you were/are nothing more than an ATM to her.

She's very obviously referring to sex.

Successvibes11:
Thanks so much for this comment ma.
That's the problem I'm facing. No matter how decent my dress is, many guys still drool and see me as olosho. The verbal harrasment alone made me question God at a time, asking him why he made me busty. But I'm glad I now know someone who overcame. God bless you.

If there's anything i won't do, it's discriminate against an innocent woman with God's blessings. I would just say anybody who has a bad word against you for mere looks is a narrow-minded bigot. Not saying you're not an olosho, just saying I don't judge books by their cover, I like to have informed opinions.

You will never make it in advertising. You cannot just talk about a product without ample samples and expect the public to be convinced. Even the apostles preached the gospel with signs and wonders supporting. My friend, show us boobs let us make our own judgement. You can't just come and claim your neighbour fainted upon sighting your boobs with no evidence. For all we know, you're a man with dry chest and scraggy beards.

Ladyhippolyta88:
That is not true
Yoruba men are good and I plan on marrying one

Of course, we are good, we are just misunderstood. We know what women want and we know how to give it to them.

A yoruba demon is a man who has come to understand that women do not deserve any sort of compassiom in the dating game and acts in his own interest at all times

Let's look at this woman for example, she had a guy and left him for the yoruba demon in this story. Why? Did she care for Germo's feelings? No! Yet, she expected someone else to care for her won feelings. Isn't that demonic too? So, why the crocodile tears?

Truth is yoruba men are ahead of the curve when it comes to women, not because we are wiser but because we had the fortune/misfortune of having truly independent women when the rest of Nigeria had their women in purdah or still working on farms. We have seen what occurs when there's a sexual liberation and we have adjusted accordingly.

So, to my fellow demons out there, I say, "keep demonising". Make sure you make our ancestors happy. Cheers.

Mumu. Let her run from here to Kathmandu's, Egebgbe came inside her, his spērm is inside her body. Let her run from that.

MrBrownJay1:
and thats possibly what she is doing... or do you expect her to stay with this unfortunate man forever, hanging on to a dream?! would you stay with a person who has been failing for 3 yrs?! abeg stop the hypocrisy, and accept that people should focus on LIVING, instead of thinking that love is bigger than life. there is a time when you have to set that r/ship aside and focus on your damn self, let go of all the dead weight that are setting your destiny backward.

is it nice, nope, but certainly has to be done! the ultimatum is to give him a 3 month chance to redeem himself, instead of just walking away from this man with NO LIFE (you certainly have no life if you cant fend for your own basic life needs)!

People at that guy's level get married on the daily. If he is not the type to strive higher then he is not. She should leave him straight up if she wants to, no need putting silly ultimatums as the reason why he will keep her. She is free to leave today today, what is stopping her?

She that is not a failure why can she not dash him one of her numerous jobs she is fending off? The way she's sounding, she must have like ten jobs she's not doing or at least one. What work does she do?

Ugly girls fûck better than finer ones on average and are usually more willing because they dont get as much attention as their finer counterparts. Fine girls dont feel the need to acquire bed skills because they have their pick of men. If a guy breaks up with them they get another one before the ex gets home.

Demmtek:
op tell your friend to accelerate before her babe brake up with her in december
there is still time he can accelerate to so many business option or find a better job we all know it is not easy.

He shoukd accelerate fir himself and dump the babe. If she knew how to make money, she would be showing him. She doesnt and is now pressuring him to find any means so she can get money to be spending anyhow. Bleep that.

MrBrownJay1:
what if that man has NOTHING to offer?! should she stay with him? the reality is that you NEED money to LIVE (aka feed yourself, put a roof over your head, clothes, sanity etc) so if you cant do that for 3 long yrs then it puts a strand on your r/ship and people will start looking for other life options. it s a natural process and if you believe that couple can survive together on love and fresh air, then you best wake up quick/

She's free to leave him if he has nothing to offer, women have been doing that for millennia, it's nothing new. Maybe he's a late bloomer or a slow learner or just down on his luck or whatever. Nobody knows, but the moment threats and ultimatums are introduced into a relationship it's no longer organic, pressure has been introduced. And I can tell you that if this relationship continues and the guy gets a better job, as if good jobs are just waiting to be picked, this guy will reevaluate his commitment to that relationship.

No body's forcing her to stay, she can leave today or she can give him a good job, I'm sure she has plenty lying around, she should dash him only one.

thesicilian:
OP tell your friend it'd be a big mistake to let that girl go. A girl that has been with him for 3yrs of his jobless (underemployed) life is a wife material until proven otherwise. I'm sure she made that statement after seeing him becoming too comfortable with having nothing, just plain lazy. So instead of seeing her as a bad person, he should use the December ultimatum as a strong driving force to get a better job or business idea before then.

Merbenko, I urge you to ignore this comment. A wife material will make do with whatever her man can offer her materially, she will not be making silly threats and issuing nonsense ultimatums. I'd she wants to leave she can leave now, why wait till december.

Repeat to your friend, he should dump her now and love on with his life. I guarantee you that girl is already shopping for a replacement, that's if she hasn't even found one already. Her time is past, she has already checked out mentally, she's only hanging in there for sentimental reasons. Let him forget her and face his future.

Abc

Femsyn:
I agree with you from the medical perspective. But the real cause is far beyond all these based on experience what I see around me.

What would you say the real cause(s) are?

1. Alcoholism
2. Too much ejaculation
3. Poor diet
4. Stress
5. Untreated/poorlytreated STDs
6. Too many abortions
7. Poorly executed abortions

Take your pick

Lol. Women are not ready obviously. Anyway, marriage is a dying institution so anybody is free to come up with ridiculous policies. You never jam crase.

Chyy5, it is because of bastãrds like you that today's girls behave anyhow without compunction. You think money will make her love you? No! Money will only make her give you pûssy amd that's it. You cannot buy love, you fool. Leave the girl for her boyfriend abeg. Low self esteem having mofo.

Only you house agent, only you babe dey apologise to another man for your presence. What an idiot.