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^^^ Even if he gets a 2yr course, with what occupation does he want to get his PR?

And why would anybody want to spend millions for two years to get PR when you can do it at once.


Your brother must be called to bar in any of the States before being eligible for PR as a lawyer.

bravitudenatura:
Bravitudenatura is short for bravitude naturals my business, I take care of organic skincare and haircare and I also retail natural beauty products.
Yes I am nigerian
Looking for my bone. I am approaching 30 and I have had 3 failed relationship

Can your products wash away sin?
Just joking...

One thing I have learnt in my journey in this life, best things happen to us when we least expect it.

Never let the failed relationship or age make you compromise reasonable standard.

It is well...

NB: The gods can help you with the search... Ask Tearoses for the requirements. Not many and not difficult.

tearoses:
Amen Sis
God will provide you with your own bone of your bone and you will be his own bone of his bone

When my mum prayed this prayer for me years ago in this fashion "... You will not carry another person's bone..."

I told her, I'm not a dog that eats bone, so it wouldn't happen. Na human I go marry..

Bravitudenatura,

What is the meaning of this moniker? Are you a Nigerian?

Are you looking for your bone?

Hello peeps, i need your help on this. This is way past my understanding...

Good day everyone, am Annabel (pseudo name) am the only child of my mother. I was raised alone by my single mum. She broke up with my dad when I was 8 years old. Am 25 years old now and I still live with my mother.

My mother has been harassing my boyfriends sexually for a while unknown to me. I have been dropped by two serious guys that have promised to marry me without any serious reasons for doing so.

I have been bothered thinking it’s a spiritual thing. My mother will always tell me they are not the right person and the right one will eventually come around.

The whole truth behind my ordeal came to the opening recently. Am dating a young man in his early 30’s and we love each other dearly. We have started talking about marriage and he wants me to come and meet his parent. He showers me with affection and buys me gift at every little opportunity. I have been faithful to him.


Suddenly he told me he cannot go on with the relationship and he was not ready to tell me the reason.
I was heartbroken and I felt like dying. My mother again said he is not the right person for me but I knew deep down that something was wrong

One day I went to his house and demanded to know the reason for his action but he refused to tell me so I ran into his kitchen and grabbed a knife. I told him I would kill myself if he did not tell me what was going on. Then he dropped the bomb shell “your mother has been harassing me for sex ever since you introduced me to her”, I was like are you serious? He said my mother calls him at night even sometimes when I spend the night with him. He said my mother will say he can’t marry me unless she gets a taste of my boyfriend.

He refused and decided to cancel the whole thing because a bad mother-in-law is worse than the devil.

Immediately, the whole picture became clear before my eyes. Now I know I don’t have any spiritual problem. My problem has been my mother. I picked my phone and I called my two ex boyfriends, I asked them point blank “did my mother harass you sexually when we dated?” to my surprise they both agreed that my mother harassed both of them and she succeeded in sleeping with one of them.

I went home and asked my mother why she has been harassing my boyfriends sexually? She said she wants to make sure I get married to someone good in bed because that was what caused her own marriage to break. She said my father was not good in bed the reason behind why she engaged in extra marital affairs that later broke her marriage.

I have since left her house and I never believed I was born by such evil mother. She has since been begging for my forgiveness and even sending people to beg me. Am confused what should I do? Should I forgive her? If I do will I ever forget? Will I ever be free to let my husband get close t my mother? I am in a dilemma.

You can all read from the quote...

babygirlfl:
Always welcome dear. Please pay your dues to tearoses and not bellong.

:oo

So you are part of the conspiracy?

My advice is not to join them. Tearoses and others are beefing because of the many atonements they have made. If you can afford 40 big fat cows etc, you can join them..

Tearoses,



The gods are thirsty...

bravitudenatura:
Ok ma. I will take note of all levies to be paid

All the levies go to me, tearoses handles the paperwork.

^^^ Nothing you can do but wait for their decision.

cbjonstage:
good advice bad recommendation. that is anoda trauma for d youngman

Be needs to be cautious for his own safety.

Therock5555:
My parents married legally in church and I'm the second child and first male


I have doubted my parentage lots of times because I was the only child among my siblings given birth to in the village, maybe I was exchange by some faggort nurses because I don't behave one bit like any body else in the house

The cower in fear while he speaks, I oppose him when he speaks uncorted lies.

BTW he's a preacher so nothing seems wrong to him. If I begin to spill everything, I might run out of pages

I guess the bold is the root of the issues. You must have been too curious and challenging since a toddler. He probably see it as a deviant behavior and in a bid to straighten you, he adopted the"negative " approach which many parents do adopt.

Get to the library, buy him a book on child developmental psychology. He needs to learn some stuff.

Meanwhile, you need to learn how to pass across your opinion without him seeing you as rude and disobedient.

chuckdee13:
Ok...he's been there for over a year now and he's been doing other jobs but they keep saying he has no experience in customer service...well I guess he has to keep trying just like u did
thank a lot

Tell your friend, in his spare time, to volunteer for an organization in their customer service department. If will give him the experience needed and reference.

Phatxplorer and susubrown,

This is not what you resolve on the internet. You need the service of a psychologist for therapy sessions for the two of you. It is obvious you both have anger management issues.

Nevertheless, the problem with the union is the foundation. Your foundation is faulty. Whatever you are experiencing now are what you guys never failed to deal with before tying the knot.

I believe it is not completely over, it can still be salvaged. You can get to address foundational issues on a sincere note. Express your grievances to each other not with the mind of winning the day from any party but with a view to finding a lasting solution. Treat each other with respect, dignity and get to learn what the true meaning of LOVE is.

Marriage is a beautiful thing for parties who are opened and sincere with themselves.

Above all, you both need Jesus.

I wish you both peace and a lasting solution to your challenges.

5minsmadness:
Bros I wasnt supporting you.
I think you were rude to her.

Alright....

Don't need a support though...

There was no reason for any insinuation. The Op never complained of her husband molesting or harassing the girl. If she wouldn't leave a 25yr old with her husband no matter how holy, she could have kept it to herself.

No need for the suggestive comment.

And I don't think my response was rude.

Thanks

5minsmadness:
You're right. He isn't.

Thank you jare....

She thinks every man on the street is irresponsible.

Momcherry:

I can't leave a 15yr old maid with my husband 4 two weeks no matter how holy he might be.

The OP married someone responsible and she was confident to leave a 15yr old young girl with him for two weeks.

If you have a 15yr old male help, do you think your husband will leave him with you?

taryour:
Lol. We all are doing very fine o egbon, business doing great to we thank God. ese gan sir. trust you doing fine as well, family , work and business.

We can only be grateful ma'am..

[quote author=gabinogem post=40311352][/quote]Ok...

Kimoni:
Hahahaha

Replied you...


Royalroy..

The basics of self defense is a must to learn especially those living in a violence prone area.

gabinogem:
House help are always not helpful. [/b]They even add more stress to the already stressful life at home... that's why I always advice folks to engage in family planning. [b]If ur home was well planned, such a situation wouldn't have occurred. Good spacing is healthy for breeding.

@1st bold... Fallacy of generalization.

@2nd bold.... Who told you her pregnancy is a mistake? How has family planning affected somebody going on official assignment but didn't want to leave the kid alone?
Sometimes, it is good not to type than add nothing to a situation other than compounding problem. How has your comment helped the Op?


@Op,

Since she didn't accuse you of any wrong doing and your conscience is clear, you have no business seeing the parents in person. They should be the one to seek you since they are the one in need of help more.

I will advice that you do a proper check on a potential domestic help prior to taking her in. Don't take the girl back, no matter the pleadings.

As noted above by 5mins.., change all the locks in your house and that of your husband.

This experience shouldn't deter you from being good to your domestic workers. Many will advice you to treat them like a second class citizen, do not give in to such evil advices.

May God see you through to a safe delivery.

Mutaino7:
i dey fear to even quote you sef... you fit audition to be jet li disciple in his next film cos as u dey endure beating so u go fit take harsh training..

Ha ha....

Do you want to test my endurance?

Vikky014:
lol

Do we rewind?

taryour:
GBAM !!! Finito..,

Oga bellong i hail oo, how are the gods?

The gods are smiling at how mortals cheat themselves.

We are fine madam. How is family and biz?

BoboYekini:
Answer me brothers. Or are we all pussified office dweebs? Can you bring mayhem to the table?

I cannot fight but I understand the basics of finishing an opponent when need be.

I know the right places to touch to either maim or kill if need be. It is one of the things you learn on the street for those of us who grew up on the street.

Nevertheless, I have always avoided whatever will make me face someone in a fight since I blinded the right eye of a boy in my pre-primary school days.

It was at Amuto nursery and primary school in the Island, very close to KWAM1's house when he was still singing Talazo fuji. This boy had a brawl with me and I was in nursery two, he was in 1, the stuff ended physical and blood started gushing from his eyes. All the teachers took turn to beat me silly that day and was the last day I attended the school.

This boy fortunately/unfortunately got admitted to my primary school when I was in primary two. The eye was partially blind and I never recovered from the guilt. I avoided him like plague till he left for another school.

While in secondary school, I had issues with a classmate that resulted in physical. I tried as much as possible not to defend myself because the scene of my childhood played in my mind. While trying to dodge him from exchanging fists, he landed a one shot punch on my left eye. I was fortunate not to go partially blind but I treated it for two weeks. My colleagues didn't understand why I couldn't fight back.

If I have to defend my life and that of my family however, one of us in the brawl will answer the divine call prematurely and I believe I wouldn't be the one.

Wisdom in struggle is better than strength.

phatxplorer:
Plz am new on nairaland and I need you guys candid advice and opinions.what would you do if after marriage, you found marriage pix of your wife with another Man whom she only told u dat they dated. Numerous traditional wedding pix wit d guy even kissing.and when u confronted the woman, she says the wedding was not real but only arranged coz of some travelling plans.she did not say this b4 u married her ooo.and she kept the pix and brought them to ur matrimonial home.

If she had a legal wedding, with documents to proof the first wedding, it doesn't matter whether she did it to arrange travelling for someone, you are at liberty to divorce her.

According to the law of the land, she has committed a criminal offence worth 21years behind bar.

Don't take her explanation as the truth. Get to the bottom of it and do the needful.

Ewuro4:
Welcome, introduce yourself and pay your fees to the gods as Tearoses is out of town.

Bellong give her the banking details to remit her fees to.

Have you told her the fee?

Mindfulness:
Good you didn't offer anything non-alcoholic. I am very funny when tipsy. Give me the burukutu.

Obviously, you don't know the two.. They conc. alcoholic drinks. It will be nice to see your "very funny" side..

Mindfulness:
What drinks are available at a boys night out?

I am not very picky but I am quite thirsty because I have been talking a lot.

Sapele water and burukutu

Kimoni:
Even with 100 HMs?? Haba!!

What is HM? Reply sent.


Efe,

Na me do am for him. It is called "aworo". Damiso will interprete if her ajebo understand it.. . Like crowd juju done by police for naija police station.

pickabeau1:
Please can you leave all this philosophy girlie stuff from here

This is the boys room

Burntpalace:
100 hail Mary's for you. Go and sin no more.



Ayam innocent of all charges.

Her sin "are" way too much to let go easily. Kimoni, your punishment will be like those given to witches in the old England..

And I have stripped Ile of her "Nunship"...

Efe, you just dey confirm your ajebo everyday. And NO, the gods don't deal with foreign cowries, dem no get fire...

cococandy:
You know maybe the gods have wives.

The immortals don't descend low to rough the mortals...

The hat and sandal is for atonement. Bukatyne, stay away from it else.....

FrancisTony:
Okay, sir.

Thanks

FrancisTony:
I don't quote alternate monikers but when you are ready for the fight, bring it on with your real moniker.

Francis,

At this point, I expect that you yield yourself to what you typed in your signature.

Don't fuel a flaming fire... Not every time you respond to stuff..

And if I remember right, the genesis of this brouhaha is you implying she is Francis18. In as much as the Francis18 has not claimed to be Kimoni nor do you have a convincing evidence that she is the handler of the moniker, it is not out of hand to advice you to put an end to the insinuation.

I implore you to let Go.

It is enough.


Kimoni,

In as much as you do not have convincing evidence that Francistony is behind hottestlesbian, it is appropriate that you don't ascribe it to him.

Please, let this slide.