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@Missnicole,

I replied you

What are you feeding them? They may not like the food you are giving them.

Try different things to know what they like. If eventually they stick to the bottle, make sure you give them balanced diet.

You need not become mad at the children, when it comes to food, they know what they want. Just make sure they get balanced diet from whatever they eat.

Do not compare your kids with other children, this is usually the greatest undoing of most parents. Children are different and unique in their own ways.

If your introduction is more than 50k, I guess you need to re-evaluate your spending judgement.

TooNoisy:
It is a known fact that Awolowo was prepared to work with Zik, in fact he had asked Zik if they could form a Government together, but Zik prefered Ahmadu Bello. Why do you think people then referred to Zik as the beautiful bride. Awolowo and Ahmadu Bellong were sworn enemies hence Awo was jailed in the 60s.
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40manlappy:
Thank you. What about 189 please?

189 is also PR but independent. You don't need state sponsorship for it.

Congratulations Mikey.

bukatyne:
Very True

Happy new year.

Happy new year sis..

May 2016 be glorious for you and family.

Some of the problems confronting marriages these days are lack of tolerance, insincerity, pride and destructive ego.

Laying a solid foundation right from pre-meeting your spouse to courtship and the marriage proper will go a long way to building a vibrant union.

olompa:
Good day house, Please i have a CCNA that expired march last year. Please can I include it as one of the documents to be accessed by ACS along with my degree certificate, transcript and employee reference.

Thank you all

No harm in adding it

40manlappy:
Good evening.

Welcome to 2016. May all our positive expectations for this year be fulfilled beyond our imagination.

Please, what are the steps to being nominated by an Australian state or territory government agency?

Get your skills and qualifications assessed, if positive, fill the EOI and add states you are interested in getting their nominations.

Meanwhile, some states require that you first apply to them directly before filling the EOI. Go to the website of each state to get their requirement especially English score and years of experience.. You will also need to be sure if your occupation is on the sponsored list.

Why not go for 189?

Bornsad,

I think you actually need to find reasons to believe more in humanity than psychological attention.

You probably have been disappointed in the past leading to withdrawal from people. I get your point of wanting to be alone sometimes, it is natural. It is a time to refire, re-strategize, and be apart for deeep reflections. The alone time shouldn't take you away from people forever. When you find people with aligned vision, focus and passion (doesn't mean you share same opinion), I believe you will see a friend in such people.

For now, take it one day at a time by looking inward.

True friendship starts with oneself becoming a great friend to others.

What are the things you want to gain from friendship? If you can define it, start acting them to others, you will attract like minds who can lay down their lives for you.

After marriage, having good friends is the next best thing to happen to mankind. In times of trial, down times, you have someone standing up for you to make the journey easy. I have been there and I thank God for the people Be surrounded me with.

That being said, some will want to take advantage of you, it is left for you to be able to discern and identify them from and by their actions. So you know how to relate with such people.

As a tree cannot make a forest, no one can survive in isolation. Living friendless expedite depression and other emotional issues to ravage the soul.

Rogan2020,

Stop spamming the thread please.

Sheguru,

Only VETASSES can give you bold response to your question.

However, quite a good number of us got assessed as comparable to Australian Bachelor degree.

I studied a 4year course.

Don't mislead people. When it comes to visa application, it is treated on individual merit and not collective. In rating the country, the total socio-economic factors were considered not because of isolated case of drug peddling.

Get back to the drawing room, address the issues raised and reapply. You are not the first to be denied neither will you be the last.

Some have been denied in the past, they reapplied and got it. No matter how you rant here, it wouldn't solve anything as none here works as a case officer.

You can send a pm to Laminaria, he was once in your situation but did his homework well the second time.


Goodluck to you.

kayswag726:
Hello house,I wanna study medicine, bt later opt for microbiology,did nt meet up with d requirement, I was admitted to study microbiology in one of Nigeria university, now I need advice should I continue with MCB and do masters in clinical or industrial microbiology in Australia, or I shud just go and medicine abroad, and wat ar the chances of microbiologist in Australia?,and nevertheless,I plan on staying back,raising a family.

waiting for ur advice, anyone please

For international students, depending on school, medicine cost about $60k per annum. Some schools are up to $90k.

However, it is worth it when you start working as a doctor.

killsmith:
I lost 5 people in months...

Was it accidents, sickness or mystery?

killsmith:
Been depressed since 2011.....and thoughts of suicide keeps creeping in.....I fear I might break anytime soon....
Hopefully I can find solace here...

Do you have an idea of what initiated the depression?

@Queenfav,

No, i'm not a psychiatrist but I have handled different mental illness situation to discern one when I see it.

I'm pretty sure the psychiatrist will educate him on his to take himself away from danger while seeking medical help on her behalf.

queenfav:
Are you a psychiatrist?You sound like one.I have encountered women worse than op's wife during my mediation sessions,so please this is not a pyschological issue.The woman has bad character,clear and simple!I hv encountered a client who told me his wife came to his work place,stripped naked and started laying curses on him with her hand placed on her vag.ina.That one is just one instance,there are so many cases I have even forgotten now!My point is,she has a clear mind.She was lucid enough to pretend to have a good attitude so he could marry her.There are lots of women like that out there,so its beyond all what u said.

Did you or anyone conduct a psychiatric evaluation on all those people before dismissing they are not mental health patients?

A simple logical analysis will tell you that there is something wrong somewhere. You obviously know little or nothing about mental health illness.

I'm not making an authoritative statement on the state of her mind but giving the guy possible situation based on his narration.

There are millions of unevaluated mental patients roaming freely as free on the streets because of our ignorance. Most people believe it is until you run mad on the street that you have mental sickness. While many who have mental illness cannot go for treatment because of stigmatisation which is also an acute ignorance from people who think they are knowledgeable.

In summary, in as much as you or anyone else is yet to conduct a psychiatric examination of her, you can't dismiss it with boldness it is not a mental health case.

Op,

What you have described about your wife is beyond character flaws. She is suffering from acute mental disorder. Mental issues do not always end people on the streets like mad men.

A mentally sound person especially woman will not seek to hurt her baby. She believes everybody is against her life, hence her resort go herbalist. She is having personality and behavioral disorders.

No matter the involvement of her parents, she wouldn't change not because she doesn't want to but because she is incapable of rational thought at the moment. This mental illness may have come from her past with the cultist. That is not the point here anyway but for you to know that she needs urgent medical help.

She will never agree she has mental issues, it is for you to seek help on her behalf.

What to do... Vist a psychiatrist, narrate this story to him. I am sure he will take it up from there. There will be significant changes once she starts treatment.

However, you need serious prayers and fastings as she already opened doors for principalities to your home by her actions.

I assure you that if she gets medical help, this will be a thing of the past coupled with prayers.

It is well with you bro.. May God open doors for you in the new year.

[quote author=zeb04 post=41331130][/quote]Thanks sis...

It is a pleasure to always be of help in our little way.

Merry Christmas to all.

May the new new year bring joy, great blessings and fulfillment to all...

You claim not to know he is ungodly?

He is a fellowship leader yet impregnated you before marriage and you still believe he was godly. Either you are deceiving us or you are deceiving yourself.

Your parents had a reason before they told you it is not compulsory to marry him because you became pregnant. As usual with the youths, you neglected the wisdom in their advice.

I'm not blaming you for anything, only opposed to the fact that you want us to believe you had no idea he was ungodly despite committing fornication without repentance with you.

Why are you guys in a hurry?

Patience is a virtue. They handle hundreds of applications, so you should patiently wait till your case is resolved and stop complaining.

No matter how long, you will be attended to.

^^^^ sent a mail to you.

Laeroy,

You are perfectly normal. You are only showing signs of temperament mismanagement. This is something that can be resolved by you if you are ready to commit to the transformation of character and management of emotions.

To start with, do not expect too much from people. I want to believe that your negative reaction is as a result of disappointment from people you expected too much from. Have a realistic expectations of and from people. When you are wronged, rather than hitting back with same scale, try to talk to the person first and register hour displeasure. I bet you that you will get better result this way than reacting angrily.

You need to know that opinion is what it is, opinion and nothing more. I know it is somehow difficult for some people not to react to other's opinion about them. However, you need to understand that sometimes people say negative things about you because they are jealous of your person and how far you have gone. They want to put you down to their level. It is left for you to laugh it off and let them wallow in their misery or join them in the mud. I prefer the former.

Nevertheless, some are passing the right information but in a wrong way. You sometimes need to examine what is being said if it is true. If true, take it as a feedback for yourself and make amend where necessary.

Life is beautiful my sister and we have many things to live for. Doing good unto and for others will not only bring joy to your heart but fulfillment for living.

I will send you a Pm

STAugustineOf13:
I don't understand,
You mean I will still generate the HAP I.D by my self after I've lodged my Visa Application.?

Yes.. That has been addressed about 2-4 pages back.

^^^^ They are not responsible for sending you HAP ID. You should generate it yourself from their website.

Happy wedding anniversary cococandy..

May the good Lord keep blessing your union with all good things. I pray that the enemy will not sow tares in your marriage.


Nothing for the gods?

^^^ I'm sorry to say, the guy is done with you.

Forget about him, pick up your life and move on.

In your next relationship, be wise in your dealings and decision. How will you be living with a guy you are not married to? He got tired of you and he is moving in to the next victim.

Edwife,

It is well. Faithful is He who has called us..

sunkee28:
@Bellong Thanks so much!
I really appreciate your advice, but i still have question because am totally new to this.
I have checked SOL but my course assessment falls under ACS but my experience falls under education, that is why am confused on the body to apply for assessment.

If the computing you are teaching falls under any of the occupation on the list, you are good to go.

dozie2014:
B.Eng. 6 years experience in Telecom Passive infrastructure.

You should rewrite your CDR and reapply. Make sure that it is sell written fitting the occupation and follow the EA's template.