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Sports / Re: Hiba Abouk: I Need Time To Digest The Shock – Hakimi’s Wife Breaks Silence by ben1daEbiri(m): 7:17am On Apr 20, 2023 |
Godjone: Hakim would be a fool if he accepts any reconciliation from that lying gold digger. A woman who's already filing to get half your estate for mere rape allegation? Why not what for the court to confirm him guilty or not before that? |
Sports / Re: Hiba Abouk: I Need Time To Digest The Shock – Hakimi’s Wife Breaks Silence by ben1daEbiri(m): 7:13am On Apr 20, 2023 |
Hambivert: White woman don't regard marriage; they rather see it as a poverty alleviation scheme. I mean a woman could stay married for a few years to cash out millions of dollars. The only profession for women that has equal pay is prostitution. 1 Like |
Sports / Re: Hiba Abouk: I Need Time To Digest The Shock – Hakimi’s Wife Breaks Silence by ben1daEbiri(m): 7:09am On Apr 20, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Why should I send my GF money to buy her cream? Wife is understandable but GF? How was she buying her cream before we met? Who sends me money to buy my own cream? I noticed that every comment from a woman regarding this Hakimi saga is so unintelligent. Reading them further exposes how retarded women are. So much nonsense being spewed just to defend nonsense. A woman that quickly throws her husband under the bus for a rape allegation and already seeking reparations should have nothing to do with marriage period! A lying gold digger! 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by ben1daEbiri(m): 4:36pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
concho: Leave that lying b i t c h and her family alone and move on with your life! 2 Likes |
Business / Re: Kwara POS Operator Lavishes N280m Received In Error by ben1daEbiri(m): 9:01am On Apr 19, 2023 |
MarketDispatch: I made a similar mistake in November last year UBA, the same account number but different names. I didn't care to check for the name because I didn't think it was possible for 2 different people to have the same account number in the same bank. Secondly the money was some kind of contribution so I felt he wasn't receiving it through his own account which I know his name but was also the same UBA besides it was just 2k so I didn't want to go through all that stress for 2k. Everything I narrated may sound unbelievable but it's true, 2 people having the same account number but different names in the same bank, unless something has been done by the bank to stop future occurrence of that. |
Politics / Re: What Might Happen To Nigeria Currency After Subsidy Removal? by ben1daEbiri(m): 11:06am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Donpenny: It seems they have a union that decide how much increase in price of a commodity in a month. The increase isn't a one off, they do it incrementally so people still buy without paying much attention to it. This method helps them to attain their goal to make an increase within a minth for any commodity for as much as they want. Let's say they want to increase price of a commodity from #2000 to #2500, they know people will kick again that or not buy at all so they increase the price by #100 or so every market day; by the end of the month they commodity will be at #2500. This tactic is the reason why so many commodities in the market increase almost everyday. Like I said if the market women don't become reasonable they'll also be affected as people won't even have enough to buy these items, just like what's happening to poultry farmers with eggs. Again we need to help ourselves, dark times ahead 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: What Might Happen To Nigeria Currency After Subsidy Removal? by ben1daEbiri(m): 10:56am On Apr 18, 2023 |
pat077: When will we realise that palliative don't take people out of poverty? |
Politics / Re: What Might Happen To Nigeria Currency After Subsidy Removal? by ben1daEbiri(m): 10:48am On Apr 18, 2023 |
What many of you is failing to understand that the major reason for inflation isn't really the increase in price of fuel but our very selfish market women who hike prices and want to make 100% or more profit. Down south we hike things for no damn reason, a #50 increase in fuel results in astronomical increase that's not commensurate with the increase in fuel and further more they make this increase per unit of the item. If we don't become reasonable and help ourselves after subsidy is removed vices like pickpocketing and burglary will be on the increase. 5 Likes |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Free To Air Satellite Tv General Thread by ben1daEbiri(m): 12:29pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
adubam: Send me the link too oppsopsson@gmail.com |
Phones / Re: Pictures From E-money And Kcee Visit To TECNO Flagship Store In Lagos by ben1daEbiri(m): 9:45am On Apr 16, 2023 |
KayCee92: Tavors are one of the top end assault rifles ever made along side the M16 and M4 carbine. So they are basically better than the traditional AK-47. These special squards of the agencies are the very best in terms of training and weapons handling, recreational also the ones directly in line of danger so they need it more than an average policeman you'll see on the highway or patrol duty. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Brighton (1 - 2) On 15th April 2023 by ben1daEbiri(m): 7:55pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Trojan8: No matter what |
NYSC / Re: Living Conditions Of Corpers In Asaba, Delta State (Photos) by ben1daEbiri(m): 7:32pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Elioandrew: Delta State is too dirty. I'm serving at PTI Warri and the corpers Lodge is riddled with mosquitoes too. I was temporarily staying with an acquaintance at jakpa Road close to wood Market and was riddled with mosquitoes too added that the power supply was poor so I had to run to the lodge which had power supply similar to my place in Rivers State. I weep for this State, they've had very useless Governors. |
NYSC / Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by ben1daEbiri(m): 6:13pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
OgThanos: It's always 3 months between batches and 1month between streams; sometimes can be less than a month. This has been the sequence apart from this year being and election year and all that NPC squabbles. If batch A stream I goes to camp in January, batch A stream II will goto by February. Batch B stream I will goto camp by April (3 months later) while batch B stream II will be in camp by May and so on. Sometimes there could be exceptions especially between streams like mine was batch C stream II 2022 we went to camp just a week after stream I left camp because they didn't want us to spend Christmas in camp. So you should count atleast 3months from when A stream II will leave camp, you should also consider that there may be an exception too since A stream II took so long this year. 1 Like |
Phones / Re: Pictures From E-money And Kcee Visit To TECNO Flagship Store In Lagos by ben1daEbiri(m): 11:28am On Apr 15, 2023 |
OdogwuMoney6: That's Tavor. It's only used by the DSS, EFCC and special squad of the army, airforce and navy. |
Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by ben1daEbiri(m): 8:12am On Apr 11, 2023 |
BloomingDale: Her work schedule might be hectic but reading through the thread you can see through her sheer unwillingness to make the marriage work. The effort is too one-sided. It's only a matter of time before OP passes breaking point. She makes good money (~800k/month) so he can afford to pay a maid since she's failed to do the basic things a woman should in her marriage. She's also depriving the husband of sex; see there are too many of these kind of movie script in nollywood and we all know how most of them end. If the OP starts engaging the made for sex then she's doomed. I'll give you one little advice: Never outsource cooking for your husband to a maid! You job might me demanding and all that but make out to time to cook for your husband as much as you can even if you have a made. These little things increases the bind and synergy in marriage. If a maid that cooks food your husband eats has an eye for your husband she can do it with so much ease either my making very delicious meals or use juju and in some cases both. There's so much already to end the marriage and you can see the OP is thr one holding onto it. Please don't try defending this nonsense again! 1 Like |
Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by ben1daEbiri(m): 6:52am On Apr 11, 2023 |
babywhite: Lest say the wife pays for everything in the house: does her husband not deserve any love and respect because she foots the bills? If you're married you won't do such If you want to really enjoy you're marriage, if you're yet to marry I pray we live long enough to see you make your own thread if you behave like the OP's wife. We can all agree that if the OP was someone else she'll be sent packing already. This here really one of the reasons our parents had very good marriages that has lasted a lifetime but you lot still slate your mothers that they were "abused". In many Nigerian families today, mothers were lowkey running the family either doing 9-5 of some form of trade but still loved and respected their husbands. Again I'll warn you ahead of time; if you're single please don't go I to marriage eith this mindset because you may not be as lucky as the OP's wife who got married to a woman that seem to be disillusioned about the basic tenets of marriage. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by ben1daEbiri(m): 6:43am On Apr 11, 2023 |
BloomingDale: Reading your reply gives me stroke and is making me retarded so this is going to be my last reply: what happens to the wife speaking up so it can be resolved? You can see the OP is making so much effort to de-escalate the situation but the wife is not ready for that. A man's literally begging to ve loved and respected in his marriage and this weak defence is what you come up with? I'm sure you'll never take this sh.it if someone was doing it to your brother. You're the type that will overrun your sister inlaw in the slightest of provocation but here you are foaming in the mouth because he's not your brother? 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by ben1daEbiri(m): 1:28am On Apr 11, 2023 |
folake4u: In all of these what you could point out was that her job is hectic? Jesus Christ!! I can't believe someone in God's green earth thinks like you. I hope you maintain the same energy if your brother's wife treat him this way. |
Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by ben1daEbiri(m): 1:24am On Apr 11, 2023 |
BloomingDale: Did you read the part that says they gave a housemaid? The husband's salary is not enough but she rakes ~800k/month. What does she do with all that money? The OP also stated that he pays all the bills and fees. We're you blind to that? Women supporting women indeed! 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by ben1daEbiri(m): 8:32pm On Apr 10, 2023 |
BloomingDale: I see. So a man that marries a woman who does a tasking job doesn't deserve love and respect? The comments from these women is ridiculous! 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by ben1daEbiri(m): 8:30pm On Apr 10, 2023 |
folake4u: The fact that her job is tasking justifies this kind of treatment metted to her husband? I'm not even surprised. Women supporting women! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by ben1daEbiri(m): 8:27pm On Apr 10, 2023 |
I don't want to believe this is real because it sounds like one of those nollywood cooked up sh.it. You have to man up! For a woman that had boldly asked Rory divorce I think you should do just that. You can't fix this especially when the effort to do it is one sided. You'll only keep on enduring the marriage. OP a part of me honestly rhinks she's using the bible and church as a front because theirs no how any sane human would be so clutched to bible and church activities and it wouldn't rob off in her lifestyle. The last time a girl told me she needed some "space" I feigned ignorance and felt we could salvage the relationship. She kept on frustrating me so I had no other option than to end it since that was what she clearly wanted. OP yours is marriage and I'm not gonna sugarcoat it: pull the plug now for your sanity! It will be hard and bitter but you have to do it. Once a woman starts showing these signs, she's already emotionally detached from you long before that. What's the point of putting up with a woman who doesn't love or respect you? At some point her loyalty will come to question. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Governor Wike Commissions More Projects In Rivers State by ben1daEbiri(m): 12:01pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
TheGoodJoe: Wike is employing 10k people into Rivers State civil service though. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester United Vs Real Betis : Europa League (4 - 1) On 9th March 2023 by ben1daEbiri(m): 10:10pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Anthony is still young. He should try another career because football clearly isn't for him 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia-Ukraine Live: What Exactly Did US President, Joe Biden Say (Photos) by ben1daEbiri(m): 10:32am On Feb 22, 2023 |
Moniya4Real: So many people think the US is the next best thing after Jesus Christ but are very wrong. The US shouldn't be meddling at other people's issues at this point. They should rather concentrate on the failing institutions that have become an object of mockery lately. The whole of Africa is still suffering from the influx of weapons from the Arabian spring and other chaos initiated by the US and it's allies. It's always easy to bring in weapons but getting them off becomes a huge task. Ukraine and the whole Scandinavia is going to suffer for this influx of weapons in a few years. Warlords would thrive and render almost all the aid that the US would render. Another Afghanistan and Syria is about to unfold right in our eyes but the thieving, ISIS weapon selling country that loves world peace isn't ready for that. I could go on and one but these people already believe that the US is the messiah. Right now let's focus on the hardship APCPDP have brought and sell our votes again first on Saturday. We'll come to this discussion later. 1 Like 1 Share |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia-Ukraine Live: What Exactly Did US President, Joe Biden Say (Photos) by ben1daEbiri(m): 9:41am On Feb 22, 2023 |
bibiking7: I said this in a similar thread yesterday. Putin will never call for a ceasefire without his own terms on the forefront. How long will Ukraine hold on for? They can be getting funds and weapons from the US but the damage is on Ukrainian soil. Putin would mind channel even rubble to the war and Biden has also reiterated is unwavering support for Ukraine but the question remains at what cost? Putin is not going to pay a dime in reparations to Ukraine. It's better to bury egos now and negotiate for peace. Germany being forced to pay reparations for WW1 from a nonexistent vault was one of the reasons WWII started. If the US is so concerned about world peace they should be pushing for a ceasefire instead of chosing a side but no, weapons must be sold and money must be made. Zelenskiy is a fool for letting this war start in the first place. I've been saying this and I'm not sorry for that. Two elephants are fighting and he chose to be the grass. If the war spirals out of control the US playing big brother to Ukraine may not be left out. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia-Ukraine Live: What Exactly Did US President, Joe Biden Say (Photos) by ben1daEbiri(m): 9:40am On Feb 22, 2023 |
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Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia-Ukraine Live: What Exactly Did US President, Joe Biden Say (Photos) by ben1daEbiri(m): 9:30am On Feb 22, 2023 |
Awesometouch1: If you think Russia is behind America in tech and even weaponry thne go back to the space race and cold War. Don't buy the American propaganda you see in movies totally. Russia maybe financially inferior to America but in tech and weaponry they're neck to neck. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia-Ukraine Live: What Exactly Did US President, Joe Biden Say (Photos) by ben1daEbiri(m): 9:27am On Feb 22, 2023 |
infofta: You're actually getting the whole thing mixed up. America defending freedom? 😂😂😂 I pray we all stay alive to see when America will start giving democracy to Ukraine. |
Politics / Re: Soludo Inspects 26km Ufuma-Awa-Okpeze-Ndiukwenu-Amansea Road by ben1daEbiri(m): 6:36am On Feb 22, 2023 |
Seeing all these poor quality road projects littered across the country makes me thank Gov. Wike the more. You may not like his ways but his road projects are of topmost quality. You can be sure Julius Berger won't do a subpar quality road for him he'll openly call them out. When he contracted the law school project to private individuals he went as far as calling the contractors wives to remind their husbands not to squander Rivers State money without doing the project because when he comes to arrest their husbands he'll also arrest them too 😂😂. Again he constantly remind JB that he gave them money for road projects during the raining season so they also have to work during the raining season, if they won't they should return the money. So many people don't like his unconventional ways of doing things but it works. Anything you can do to make sure projects are done by the contractor and not just money being pocketed. This road projects being done by Soludo WON'T last 4yrs. 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia-Ukraine Live: Vladimir Putin's Combative Speech (Photos) by ben1daEbiri(m): 8:20pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
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Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia-Ukraine Live: Vladimir Putin's Combative Speech (Photos) by ben1daEbiri(m): 7:52pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
MT: You know its only an ICBM that can do considerable damage in mainland Russia provided the missile makes it past Russia defence systems. You think if Ukraine had missiles that would hit mainland Russia they would hold on this whole time without using it? 1 Like |
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