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Trojan8:No matter what |
Elioandrew:Delta State is too dirty. I'm serving at PTI Warri and the corpers Lodge is riddled with mosquitoes too. I was temporarily staying with an acquaintance at jakpa Road close to wood Market and was riddled with mosquitoes too added that the power supply was poor so I had to run to the lodge which had power supply similar to my place in Rivers State. I weep for this State, they've had very useless Governors. |
OgThanos:It's always 3 months between batches and 1month between streams; sometimes can be less than a month. This has been the sequence apart from this year being and election year and all that NPC squabbles. If batch A stream I goes to camp in January, batch A stream II will goto by February. Batch B stream I will goto camp by April (3 months later) while batch B stream II will be in camp by May and so on. Sometimes there could be exceptions especially between streams like mine was batch C stream II 2022 we went to camp just a week after stream I left camp because they didn't want us to spend Christmas in camp. So you should count atleast 3months from when A stream II will leave camp, you should also consider that there may be an exception too since A stream II took so long this year. |
OdogwuMoney6:That's Tavor. It's only used by the DSS, EFCC and special squad of the army, airforce and navy. |
BloomingDale:Her work schedule might be hectic but reading through the thread you can see through her sheer unwillingness to make the marriage work. The effort is too one-sided. It's only a matter of time before OP passes breaking point. She makes good money (~800k/month) so he can afford to pay a maid since she's failed to do the basic things a woman should in her marriage. She's also depriving the husband of sex; see there are too many of these kind of movie script in nollywood and we all know how most of them end. If the OP starts engaging the made for sex then she's doomed. I'll give you one little advice: Never outsource cooking for your husband to a maid! You job might me demanding and all that but make out to time to cook for your husband as much as you can even if you have a made. These little things increases the bind and synergy in marriage. If a maid that cooks food your husband eats has an eye for your husband she can do it with so much ease either my making very delicious meals or use juju and in some cases both. There's so much already to end the marriage and you can see the OP is thr one holding onto it. Please don't try defending this nonsense again! |
babywhite:Lest say the wife pays for everything in the house: does her husband not deserve any love and respect because she foots the bills? If you're married you won't do such If you want to really enjoy you're marriage, if you're yet to marry I pray we live long enough to see you make your own thread if you behave like the OP's wife. We can all agree that if the OP was someone else she'll be sent packing already. This here really one of the reasons our parents had very good marriages that has lasted a lifetime but you lot still slate your mothers that they were "abused". In many Nigerian families today, mothers were lowkey running the family either doing 9-5 of some form of trade but still loved and respected their husbands. Again I'll warn you ahead of time; if you're single please don't go I to marriage eith this mindset because you may not be as lucky as the OP's wife who got married to a woman that seem to be disillusioned about the basic tenets of marriage. |
BloomingDale:Reading your reply gives me stroke and is making me retarded so this is going to be my last reply: what happens to the wife speaking up so it can be resolved? You can see the OP is making so much effort to de-escalate the situation but the wife is not ready for that. A man's literally begging to ve loved and respected in his marriage and this weak defence is what you come up with? I'm sure you'll never take this sh.it if someone was doing it to your brother. You're the type that will overrun your sister inlaw in the slightest of provocation but here you are foaming in the mouth because he's not your brother? |
folake4u:In all of these what you could point out was that her job is hectic? Jesus Christ!! I can't believe someone in God's green earth thinks like you. I hope you maintain the same energy if your brother's wife treat him this way. |
BloomingDale:Did you read the part that says they gave a housemaid? The husband's salary is not enough but she rakes ~800k/month. What does she do with all that money? The OP also stated that he pays all the bills and fees. We're you blind to that? Women supporting women indeed! |
BloomingDale:I see. So a man that marries a woman who does a tasking job doesn't deserve love and respect? The comments from these women is ridiculous! |
folake4u:The fact that her job is tasking justifies this kind of treatment metted to her husband? I'm not even surprised. Women supporting women! |
I don't want to believe this is real because it sounds like one of those nollywood cooked up sh.it. You have to man up! For a woman that had boldly asked Rory divorce I think you should do just that. You can't fix this especially when the effort to do it is one sided. You'll only keep on enduring the marriage. OP a part of me honestly rhinks she's using the bible and church as a front because theirs no how any sane human would be so clutched to bible and church activities and it wouldn't rob off in her lifestyle. The last time a girl told me she needed some "space" I feigned ignorance and felt we could salvage the relationship. She kept on frustrating me so I had no other option than to end it since that was what she clearly wanted. OP yours is marriage and I'm not gonna sugarcoat it: pull the plug now for your sanity! It will be hard and bitter but you have to do it. Once a woman starts showing these signs, she's already emotionally detached from you long before that. What's the point of putting up with a woman who doesn't love or respect you? At some point her loyalty will come to question. |
TheGoodJoe:Wike is employing 10k people into Rivers State civil service though. |
Anthony is still young. He should try another career because football clearly isn't for him |
Moniya4Real:So many people think the US is the next best thing after Jesus Christ but are very wrong. The US shouldn't be meddling at other people's issues at this point. They should rather concentrate on the failing institutions that have become an object of mockery lately. The whole of Africa is still suffering from the influx of weapons from the Arabian spring and other chaos initiated by the US and it's allies. It's always easy to bring in weapons but getting them off becomes a huge task. Ukraine and the whole Scandinavia is going to suffer for this influx of weapons in a few years. Warlords would thrive and render almost all the aid that the US would render. Another Afghanistan and Syria is about to unfold right in our eyes but the thieving, ISIS weapon selling country that loves world peace isn't ready for that. I could go on and one but these people already believe that the US is the messiah. Right now let's focus on the hardship APCPDP have brought and sell our votes again first on Saturday. We'll come to this discussion later. |
bibiking7:I said this in a similar thread yesterday. Putin will never call for a ceasefire without his own terms on the forefront. How long will Ukraine hold on for? They can be getting funds and weapons from the US but the damage is on Ukrainian soil. Putin would mind channel even rubble to the war and Biden has also reiterated is unwavering support for Ukraine but the question remains at what cost? Putin is not going to pay a dime in reparations to Ukraine. It's better to bury egos now and negotiate for peace. Germany being forced to pay reparations for WW1 from a nonexistent vault was one of the reasons WWII started. If the US is so concerned about world peace they should be pushing for a ceasefire instead of chosing a side but no, weapons must be sold and money must be made. Zelenskiy is a fool for letting this war start in the first place. I've been saying this and I'm not sorry for that. Two elephants are fighting and he chose to be the grass. If the war spirals out of control the US playing big brother to Ukraine may not be left out. |
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Awesometouch1:If you think Russia is behind America in tech and even weaponry thne go back to the space race and cold War. Don't buy the American propaganda you see in movies totally. Russia maybe financially inferior to America but in tech and weaponry they're neck to neck. |
infofta:You're actually getting the whole thing mixed up. America defending freedom? 😂😂😂 I pray we all stay alive to see when America will start giving democracy to Ukraine. |
Seeing all these poor quality road projects littered across the country makes me thank Gov. Wike the more. You may not like his ways but his road projects are of topmost quality. You can be sure Julius Berger won't do a subpar quality road for him he'll openly call them out. When he contracted the law school project to private individuals he went as far as calling the contractors wives to remind their husbands not to squander Rivers State money without doing the project because when he comes to arrest their husbands he'll also arrest them too 😂😂. Again he constantly remind JB that he gave them money for road projects during the raining season so they also have to work during the raining season, if they won't they should return the money. So many people don't like his unconventional ways of doing things but it works. Anything you can do to make sure projects are done by the contractor and not just money being pocketed. This road projects being done by Soludo WON'T last 4yrs. |
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MT:You know its only an ICBM that can do considerable damage in mainland Russia provided the missile makes it past Russia defence systems. You think if Ukraine had missiles that would hit mainland Russia they would hold on this whole time without using it? |
MT:The countries I mentioned have one thing in common and that's communism. Just like all communist states, it's very uncommon for it's citizens to revolt. You posted a link regarding Chinese revolt. Hope you also know the outcome of the revolt? |
TenQ:Lol this must be playing |
MT:I would use China and NK as examples. Have you ever heard that any of the two countries revolted or evenhad protests? No matter how unsatisfied the citizens are they never do that. |
MT:You've watched too many movies that's making you think the first paragraph is even a thing. Is communism a joke to you? Why do y'all think this whole thing is about land grabbing? Please go back to atleast 2014 |
Akoja360:Putin's hands is itching to use nukes. For the sake of the whole world nobody should dare him to do that because if nukes are involved the world is doomed. The West is playing the long game that's whey they've not given Ukraine ICBMs or any other kind of weapons that will hit mainland Russia. Forget the longtalks and egos bigger than cruise ships being displayed. No one has enough balls to use nukes as almost all the countries that have nukes have a no-first-strike policy |
MT:And you think Putin would want to negotiate when Ukraine is winning the war knowing that the conditions wouldn't favour them? You see this leaves us in a loop. For the war to end anytime soon both parties would've to swallow their pride and negotiate. I'm sorry but Ukraine would have to let go of the region(s) Russia have occupied and Russia in the other hand would have to reach some kind of treaty not to attack or push further. Ukraine wouldn't agree to these terms we have a very tricky situation in our hands. The best way to end a war? Don't even start it! |
Crumbian:You get the drift. |
MT:I'm sorry for the first paragraph. I agree I spiralled out of control. At this point the West have realised that economic sanctions aren't working against Russia so they have to try something else. Confronting Russia head one would be a bad idea for both parties — I mean the whole world. Anyone who's ready to outspend and hold onto this war the longest would win it. Honestly there's not gonna be a winner in this war. Ukraine is pretty much holding onto the Russian offensive while the US is steadily dooling out cash and arms. They should go to the negotiation table and end this year long madness. |
SaLongs1:Lol! This is more than just bowing to a bully. Putin warned severally before the war in Ukraine but he was the lone voice in the wilderness. No one listened to him, on a last ditch effort to avert this the French PM on alliance with the West only fuelled it. If Zelenskiy so loves his people as claimed then he would've avoided the war at all cost. Would you as a president allow the ongoing onslaught in your country? Putin right from the onset knew and has always reiterated in his speeches that the war was against the West and not Ukraine. Both parties regret the war! If Zelenskiy could turn back the hands of time he wouldn't got into the war. Putin on the other hand his expending so much in this war. The tactic the West thought they would use more or less economic. Sanction Russia to it's knees but it seems Putin was holding his cards close to his and wasn't clueless afterall. The biggest loser of this war? Ukraine! Anyone who thinks Putin would be docked in the ICC or Russia forced to pay reparations to Ukraine must be delusion. Russia and the US dine in the same table, it's just a matter of who finished his meal first. America loves war, they don't care if they win or lose as long stocks of precision instruments and weaponry keeps pointing up they're happy. On the other hand Russian Oligarchs are also running put of patience just as Americans are frustrated that their taxes is funding a war elsewhere. Interesting times ahead! |
MT:The West do not want to crush Russia? What are you smoking man? No body is ready to risk a nuclear Holocaust. The US won't even dare confront NK talk more of Russia. Russia won't dare confront the US too. Anyone who has nukes is treated like flies perching on the scrotum, you don't use brutal force! |