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Agriculture / Need To Start A Fish Farm by Benbobola(m): 4:13pm On Sep 21, 2017
Hello house. please i am about to start a full scale backyard fish farm using three fish tanks of different sizes as they grow. can anybofy please brief me of the dos and dont's of the business and a cost estimation for 700 fingerlings over the period of 5 months/ achieve a table weight of 1kg and above?
Thanks
and please is there anyone with this kind of farming that can be a mentor to me in ibadan, so as to be successful in the venture?
Agriculture / Re: Freshly Harvested Grown-in-nigeria Exotic Fruits, Vegetables And Roses by Benbobola(m): 3:49pm On Sep 21, 2017
Hi. please where is the location of your farm in Plateau state. i would like to visit in December
Jobs/Vacancies / Any Updates On KDU? by Benbobola(m): 4:50am On Aug 26, 2017
Morning. Pls has anyone here heard anything about the KolaDaisi University vacancies ever since the submission deadline passed?
Agriculture / Re: What Is The Estimated Cost Of Building A Deep-litter System Poultry House by Benbobola(m): 4:09pm On Aug 23, 2017
600 birds
Oluwapresley:



Depends on the capacity of the pen. How many birds are you looking at?
Agriculture / What Is The Estimated Cost Of Building A Deep-litter System Poultry House by Benbobola(m): 3:41pm On Aug 23, 2017
Good evening, Agropreneurs. Pls does anyone know the estimate cost of building a poultry house deep litter system both for brooding and housing growers? and where to get charcoal pots in ibadan? Thank you
Celebrities / Re: Genevieve Nnaji Vacations In Portugal (Photos) by Benbobola(m): 8:38pm On Aug 15, 2017
i wonder o. vacation from what exactly?
Caustics:
sad who gave her money for vacation? Has she started following politicians.
Crime / Re: Update On The Two Guys Who Stole Lordesszzetta’s Phone.. by Benbobola(m): 7:45pm On Aug 15, 2017
Dude, borrow some sense in the way she used to track and retrieve her phone, not condem her for being resilient towards retrieving her property
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


Thats why you should not believe everything you see on social media.
This girl is a mumu sha..

Very gullible!
So you just went to an AirForce base just like that?
You are lucky they did not use your Toto to play ludo.


No phone is worth that gamble.
Next time if you lose your phone; JUST MOVE ON!

Politics / Re: 6 Rescued Lagos Students To Meet With Acting President Yemi Osinbajo In Aso Rock by Benbobola(m): 1:38pm On Jul 31, 2017
Dude, you hate too much. try and acknowledge some good once in a while. we are talking about young kids' lives that were being rescued. you do not have to hate on the V.P in retrospect
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

This country is a joke.
So being a kidnap victim qualifies you to meet with a jobless VP?

This is just a cheap source of propaganda for their failed government.

SMH

Family / Re: How Would You Have Reacted? by Benbobola(m): 6:26am On Jul 20, 2017
but in 5 years, i would assume by now the wife already knows her husband's gauge when it comes to food. The both of you should talk it out. .... and by the way, i think the issue of respect is gradually flying out the window.
Celebrities / Re: Tonto Dikeh Flees With Son, Husband’s Properties Document Worth $1million by Benbobola(m): 6:29am On Feb 25, 2017
What I don't understand is if the marriage was based on lies from the start, why did she marry him. Tonto is a materialistic woman and she probably married him because of his wealth then. When she was showing off cars and gifts he bought for her, was that still based on lies or she was just enjoying the material benefits. I remember her ex, d dude that customizes gold and diamond stoned materials, also based on materialistic things. Am not saying Churchill is a saint some of her accusations might be true but she has d most fault for marrying him for love of vain things
Crime / Re: Man Shot Dead In South Africa Xenophobic Attack (Graphic Photos) by Benbobola(m): 12:57pm On Feb 24, 2017
Pls if u guys ever plan a reprisal attack or looting on shoprite in retaliation, abeg make una inform me. I Don already dey prepare list of things wey I need for my new house like groceries, gadgets, e.t.c. am against attacking the workers there but looting the whole shop? Let's go dia!
Romance / Re: How My Friend's Girlfriend Tested Him To See If He Truly Loves Her by Benbobola(m): 7:24pm On Feb 08, 2017
Its so wrong. I once watched a recorded video that a girl made. She got into an argument with her bf. Shouting and all that, next thing she tore his ps4 with its cable away from the power socket, went to their backyard and threw it in d pool. D poor dude hurriedly jumped after it but it was too late. It was well sunk into the pool and all wet. While he was still lamenting angrily, the girl went back in, brought out the live camera and was laughing inside at what she had just done (d poor guy kept lamenting angrily at the background of the recording). The girl had bought a new ps4 and was about to tell him "it was just a prank, I bought you a new one". She took the new one outside to meet him and behold! He got angrier. Know why? A ps4 is also a mass storage device. Apart from playing games. He had saved all his most important documents, work stuff, certificates, e.t.c on it without having another back up. Everything was just gone! Now tell me, if you were d girl, would you feel proud? You may just have destroyed his career.

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Politics / Re: Nenadi Usman Down With Breast Cancer, Begs Court To Travel by Benbobola(m): 7:01pm On Feb 08, 2017
leobrownish:
is she trying to say no hospital in Nigeria can takecare of breast cancer? haa
Nigeria is finished

all this yeye politicians have sold Nigeria finish!!!
You don't just "take care" of breast cancer. I know someone that had it for a long while, was getting treatment at one of the best medical centers in the southwest, but she sadly passed away December last year even after all the treatment. Every life is worth something. Let her provide medical report to the judge and be allowed to go treat herself anywhere she thinks she will get the best.
Politics / Re: Nenadi Usman Down With Breast Cancer, Begs Court To Travel by Benbobola(m): 6:56pm On Feb 08, 2017
jomboliski:
What happened to all the hospitals in Nigeria... Our leaders should be stoped from traveling out for medical treatment
When even the Paramount leader of the nation is away for medical treatment, who else can stop them.

But still cancer can never be taken lightly, she should be allowed to seek help anywhere she can get it. Every life matters
Family / What Our Kids Talk About by Benbobola(m): 1:07pm On Dec 01, 2016
Hello Nairalanders. Something has been bothering my mind and I thought to share. Recently, I got a part-time teaching gig in a school where I teach Grade 3 pupils. My pupils are great and they range between 7 to 8years of age. They are sharp and very observant of their surroundings. What battles me most is the gist they share amongst themselves in their free time in class. They share horrific tales of how their father beat their mothers silly in the previous night and how their mother wept profusely overnight. These same parents are seen smiling together when the come drop their wards off the next day. The fights imprint on the children's brain and alters their thinking of a peaceful home. As I was sitting marking their classwork two days ago, they were discussing... One said " hey, My daddy slapped my mummy last night and she was crying". Another said " my daddy used his koboko to beat my mummy out of the house last weekend. My mummy took us to our grandma's house after he beat her very well". They all share these storie with themselves without even bothering if their teacher hears or not.
Its really gruesome at times but I have learnt that a lot of these couples that appear to be happy in public are not as happy at home. Still the part that bothers me is that these things are done in the presence of these young minds. The boys in the class are already feeling they are the superior to the girls and can easily bully or attempt to strike them. Pls parents, we must stop this. Its will definitely have negative effects on our wards as they develop.
Thanks.

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Crime / Re: Nigerian Man Shot Dead In The US by Benbobola(m): 7:22pm On Nov 22, 2016
HtwoOw:
Sorry for the gun shot , but Nobody shoots anybody for no reason
Really? Have you heard of "the Nigerian police"?

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Events / Re: Bride On Wheelchair Weds Boyfriend Of 8 Years (Pics, Video) by Benbobola(m): 9:32pm On Nov 21, 2016
yemiosinbajo:



You did not answer my question. F9
Lol...Apologies. International school, Ibadan.
Events / Re: Bride On Wheelchair Weds Boyfriend Of 8 Years (Pics, Video) by Benbobola(m): 9:15pm On Nov 21, 2016
yemiosinbajo:



Amen attended Corona, which one is ISI?
Lizzy was in ISI, not Amen
Events / Re: Bride On Wheelchair Weds Boyfriend Of 8 Years (Pics, Video) by Benbobola(m): 8:19pm On Nov 21, 2016
KvnGRezz:
Oga mi...ITK she dem ask yhu? undecided undecided undecided
Thank you for speaking your mind. Just wanted people doubting to know its not a scam and true love still exists no matter the predicament anyone may find themselves. Ciao
Events / Re: Bride On Wheelchair Weds Boyfriend Of 8 Years (Pics, Video) by Benbobola(m): 8:09pm On Nov 21, 2016
NB: she was not always on a wheelchair... We both attended ISI, so I know her.
An accident occurred to put her in that state and she remains as gracious as ever.
They have been married close to 3months now. It's no scam! Amen had always known Lizzy for a long time. They are a beautiful couple #DIY

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Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Algeria 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifiers 3 - 1 (Full Time) by Benbobola(m): 6:24pm On Nov 12, 2016
Pls why is this commentator shouting? He is making this interesting match irritating audibly. At least his partner is more calm
Pets / Re: Ever Seen A White German Shepherd? by Benbobola(m): 10:27pm On Oct 19, 2016
Someone has a white male GSD on this forum. Forgotten his moniker tho
Family / Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by Benbobola(m): 9:48pm On Oct 18, 2016
mnairaland:


Which other way is there if you.can't afford to house her.[center][/center]

Most women who are good wives are bad daughter-in-laws. So, without having to spell it out, all bad wives are usually bad DIL.

Any woman who cannot accomodate her MIL,even if she is a witch, is a bad DIL.

To be honest, a lot of MIL are unreasonable, but the root of DIL/MIL problem is the fact that many DIL have their minds already prigrammed wrongly about MIL.

The truth is this, even if a woman's MIL is a witch the womsn can still disarm her and end up making her her best friend and ally.

The real primary reason why MIL's have issues with their DIL's is because they have fears and the primary reason DIL's have issues with their MIL is because they
have fears.

There are certain basic things that can be done to to disarm a bad MIL.

1.Identify her fears.
2. Allay her fears.
3.Recipricate love for hatred, kindness for unkindness.
4. Take her as your mother.
5.Treat her as you wouod treat your mother(that is if you treat your mother well otherwise, treat her right right.
6.Confront you fears.
7.Get rid of you fears.
8.Re-program your mind to be pisitively dispossed towards her.
9.Pray
10.Watch her change.

cc: Loisemm, sisisioge
I get your point bro. But you still don't know women. You are talking because you are viewing it from a man's position. You have never heard about MIL who decide to be cooking for their sons even when the wife tries her best to satisfy? MILs that say their son stayed in their womb for 9 months, they raised him to be the man that he is today therefore, they are the ones best suited to cook his best meals. U can never predict women, brother. Be it the DIL or MIL, any of them could provoke each other no matter how nice they "pretend" to be to each other, then the beef starts. The beat thing is to nip it in the bud and prevent it. Na woman we dey talk about o!

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Family / Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by Benbobola(m): 7:30pm On Oct 18, 2016
mnairaland:


Suppose u can't afford to build a house for.her and your father is dead and she is aged and needs care and attention.What will you do. I hope you know the same bible says children should take care of their aged mum.
In that case, run the option through your wife first. If she says yes, fine. If she says no, find another way. Its her home and she is the mother and caretaker of the home so her opinion counts. Am sure she will help you think of another option.

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Family / Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by Benbobola(m): 7:25pm On Oct 18, 2016
I really would not advice the MIL moving in. A couple should be made to grow their home by themselves. She moving in would obstruct that. The bible says a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave unto his wife, not that his mother will be moving with him to his home. When d mother was with her husband, did she allow her own MIL to join her home? When there would be misunderstandings in the home (definitely), the MIL would definitely interfere and be biased on her son. Everybody should learn to maintain their lane in life. She has run her own family by herself. She should allow his wife to run hers by not moving in with them. Am surprised some men are saying it is cool for her to move in. Seems u don't know anything about women at all. They keep the worst malice and they are your worst enemies. The moment one does sth wrong to the other in that house (definitely unavoidable), the other would seek out justice. Its in their blood. To avoid this terrible danger, allow her to visit as many times as possible or rent an apartment close for her. But never let your mother call your place HER HOME! Its for the good of the family o.... A word is enough for the wise!
#mytwocents #ozokworloading

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Jobs/Vacancies / Has Anyone Ever Gotten An Actual Job On jiji by Benbobola(m): 5:38pm On Oct 03, 2016
Hello. Pls am curious to know if anyone has actually gotten a real job through jiji. Am not talking of them Gilead resources and co. A proper job!
Celebrities / Re: Dj Cuppy Flaunts N75Million Wrist Watch by Benbobola(m): 6:55pm On Sep 27, 2016
Funny, but she never mentioned she bought it. Could a been a gift from the boutique in London after playing for them.

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Pets / Re: Please Help Save The Life Of My Dog!!! [VIEWER'S DISCRETION IS ADVISED] by Benbobola(m): 8:50pm On Sep 25, 2016
Sept20:


Her number isn't going through
She doesn't seem active on WhatsApp although I've sent a message and her location says oyo state
She just got married. Dunno if she's still on honeymoon tho grin

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Pets / Re: Please Help Save The Life Of My Dog!!! [VIEWER'S DISCRETION IS ADVISED] by Benbobola(m): 7:01am On Sep 25, 2016
Now, this is what you call an emergency!
Contact drgbaks
Education / Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Benbobola(m): 6:37am On Sep 25, 2016
It all depends on goals. I know a couple like that back in 300 lvl. Now, they are happily married.

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Celebrities / Re: Jidenna Starts Scholarship Scheme In ESUT To Honour Late Dad by Benbobola(m): 2:19am On Sep 05, 2016
RadicallyBlunt:
Sounds nice but its more like a show off to me. Scholarship should be abt encouraging young scholars to sit up more with their studies. It shdnt wait until the honor to an already made famous person is due

Such a scholarship 4 d best stdnt shd be something done like yearly for d best 3 stdnts or so like Afe Babalola does. By so doing, we'll know u have d interest of talented scholars in mind and not trying to make some big men feel pleased by doing it in their name.
Alaye, its not your money he's sponsoring them with fa and just because Afe Babalola does it in a way doesn't mean he must follow suit. We all try to give back to the economy one way or another in our own small way.
Romance / Re: Man Proposes To Girlfriend In SFC Jos (see Photos) by Benbobola(m): 2:14am On Sep 05, 2016
Targaeryian:
SFC arguably make the best pizza in Jos

Congrats to them.

HML in advance.
But also make the worst burger

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