Efemena_xy:

No, it is not compulsory. It's all about doing what you and your spouse feel comfortable with. The important thing is communicating with your spouse what you both want.

Women keeping quite for fear that their man will think them loose / wanton / an ashi is a real problem and it's not helped either when the man in question feels uncomfortable for his wife / partner to air her views about what she wants sex.u@lly.

Having said that, I'll be hard pressed to find a man admit that he detests or@l sex. Not only do most men dream that, but they also want their wife / partner to swallow - sort of makes them feel like a king.

Whether the woman will go that far is an entirely different thing. Same thing too for women. Many would love to have their man 'go down' on them if you know what I mean. But whether the man feels comfortable doing so is another thing.

So it depends really.

Baby mama:

Thanks sweetie.
Speaking about bee jay
I doubt if there is any man born of woman that does not enjoy it and want it done
I am yet to meet that man

Gosh!
That last line doesn't come out right,it presupposes that yours truly has sampled and sampled men from Ijebuode to Abakaliki when that is far from the truth
Where is the Yekini expert,can you weigh in on this rofl

Then on the other matter about a rich man with no Yekini,Nne there are many routes to get to arochukwu
The ultimate satisfaction for a woman is to hit the roof top
And the secret to making her hit that rooftop is not just the Yekini but the continual stimulation of the c during action by that Yekini or whatever device ( I might say)
A man can have Blokoss the size of Ijebu plantain,if he doesn't know to move in a fashion to stimulate the c optimally,that woman ain't enjoying a thing.
That is the gospel truth
So a man without a Blokoss can do other things to get her there

Baby mama:

Your wish is my command.yekini here we come

For the married ladies in here I have a question
If you were at this age of your life and unmarried,would your check list for the " ideal " spouse change?
Would you " lower" your standards to increase your chances
Would you for instance be more open to marry from another tribe or even religion
Would you consider a short man even though you are one who wouldn't have done so some years back?
How about a man wey im sumtin dey like Aki and paw paw one

Personally I kNow that if I were single till this point,my priorities will be a little different
Things like faith in Christ would not be compromised but I will comfortably manage,a short ugly man with no functional blokoss if he were stinkingly rich

I am talking affluence n'enwero atu ( affluence without measure)
Even if he had no Blokoss kpa kpa,we can manage ourselves in other ways as long as he is willing to be trained in other ways
His secret and ( wallet) will be very safe with me


Oya ladies,answer the questions

byvan: The babies dumped inside trash cans and wells were also birthed by mothers , yes some mothers are the darkness in their children's life.

alutawestand: I've prepared his favourite dish (afang soup) and waiting patiently for him. @ dayokanu, will do exactly as u said. Wonderful

kolanpas: u dont encourage child marriage but u encourage child having boy friend with illicit sex.mayb u guys dont know how girls are developing in this generatn.mayb u should check d develop country permited age for marriage.let me ask u what can u c in girl b4 u can say she is ripe 4 marriage.

Acidosis:
Okay I'll help you here:

"While Jesus was saying these things, one of the women in the crowd [I believe shes the founder of catholic] raised her voice and said to Him, “Blessed is the womb that bore You and the breasts at which You nursed.” But ...He said,
“On the contrary, blessed are those who hear the word of God and observe it.'" Luke 11:27-28 Worship, honour, glory and praise are due to
God alone. He commands it.

If anyone has any Bible verses to contradict this... please feel free! Please only verses, not opinions. I've yet to find anywhere in the Bible that says honour of anykind is due to Mary.

This is a gross misconception of the word of God and plain IDOLATRY! ... and the sad thing, you'll never see this truth except you remove the veil of religion!

gree-die... read that bible verse again! Its soo clear Jesus contradicted that woman immediately! Like he knew some people would follow her steps...

Mary has no power to bless anyone... Shes powerless and helpless... She cannot help herself let alone the over 1billion worshippers..

What else do you want to hear?

Ishilove: Wish I could package frosbel and take him home

What the Word says is there is only one Mediator, Jesus Christ. I don't understand how Mary managed to become an intercessor

@greedie: I attended a catholice secondary school, so I know for a fact that Catholics ask Mary to pray for human beings.

"Hail Mary, Mother of God,

Pray for us sinners,

Now and forever more. Amen"

A song-

"Mater Amabalis

Ora pronobis

Listen to your children, they are calling on you

Ave sanctissima, ave purissima,

Sinless and beautiful, star of the night"

Not just Mary, but a thousand and one other saints, some of who we've never heard of are asked to pray for the sins of mankind.

They sha say all of them kpakpo should pray for 'us'.

The justification for this is Elisabeth, John the Baptist's mother who declared that Mary was 'blessed and more highly favoured amongst every other woman'. Luke 1vs 42.

And my Lord said in Matthew 15 vs 9: They worship Me in vain, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.
Na u sabi is that what ur pastor has been telling yo