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Most of the people in social media pretend to be what they are not Especially in Facebook, putting on their new and best clothes just to create an impression. When you see them in reality, they are opposite of what they showcase in social media. |
The other cases of inbreeding was when i was young, my neigbour had two newphew that was staying with her, the elder one was trying to perform a Mouth Gig on the younger one Advise to parents always listen to your kids ,be watchful |
Mrsincredible is right, relatives molest more than househelps they like to try their skills on people they are familiar with than outsiders. The few cases of inbreeding that i have seen was when; i went to my familyfriends house to spend the weekened. My friends sister and her cousin were both in the palour watching a movie,her sister then slept off, her cousin started touching her in her private region and even made attempt to pull down her pant, she immediately woke up,their argument woke the rest of the households up and she narrated the story.The cousin denied it of course but with her explanation we knew he was lying.The next day her dad told the cousin to go back to where he came from. |
Why not use your energy to advice and empower your sister? Since the husband is not ready leave him alone,you cannot force him, when he is ready he will overcome his fears |
[quote author=jennykadry]Olu and Joke's marriage have stood the test of time. They are envied by people...how many of yous so called "traditionalists" are able to keep your family/home together? how has your cultural values helped your country and made it better? you freaking compare us to the "whites" or more like accuse of us of copying their way of life but guess what? their system works for them, can your country boast of same? women are loved and respected...women are given rights. Our opinions are heard, women are able to practice medicine, a course women couldn't study in the past...we are able to do things for ourselves and our families...we are given the right to work where and when we want to...stop acting like cave men and embrace civilization y'all[/ Very good one! ALL the ANTI FEMINIST work on self esteem and your ego.Feminism should not be giving you sleepless night and fever you cannot convince any female not to have her fundamental human right. |
@op,you've made the first step of letting it out,I really admire your courage,that shows you will be able to overcome it with time. Focus on the future, because the deed has been done and you cannot turn back the hands of time,your uncle and your brother are both adults, they are suppose to know that inbreeding is wrong,so you cannot kill yourself over them. And as per upbringing of your kids,I know you will make a good mum,because you will do everything in your means not to allow them be a victim |
Sex education varies according to the age,I will say the easiest way to give a child below six years sex education is by: Making them know their body parts and the functions, Tell them the difference between a male and female, Making them to understand the meaning of privacy, The most important one is to tell them their private organ is out of bound,nobody is allowed to touch or look at it;not even their brother, sister,father, grandfather, anybody you can imagine, In conclusion, make them your friend, find time to communicate with them daily,tell them their secret is safe with you,they should be able to depend on you as a protector from anything. |
Merry Christmas! You be got everything at the right place |
[quote author=Efemena_xy]No, it is not compulsory. It's all about doing what you and your spouse feel comfortable with. The important thing is communicating with your spouse what you both want. Women keeping quite for fear that their man will think them loose / wanton / an ashi is a real problem and it's not helped either when the man in question feels uncomfortable for his wife / partner to air her views about what she wants sex.u@lly. Having said that, I'll be hard pressed to find a man admit that he detests or@l sex. Not only do most men dream that, but they also want their wife / partner to swallow - sort of makes them feel like a king. Whether the woman will go that far is an entirely different thing. Same thing too for women. Many would love to have their man 'go down' on them if you know what I mean. But whether the man feels comfortable doing so is another thing. So it depends really.[/quote]It really depends,it is all about communication,many women will want it but may be too shy to admit it.According to o p.pocket economist, some men are so selfish,they believe it is all about them,not caring if their wife is satisfied or not |
Baby mama: Thanks sweetie.yes o,it is about know how to do the right thing at the right time.thanks |
Baby mama: Your wish is my command.yekini here we comefirstly, I must really thank you all for your great and realistic input in this thread.To the questions, I don't think you will be happy married to a man with no blokos,even if he is very rich,I am sure you will be missing the really thing,with time you will start feeling disgusted, no matter the size of his wallet. Secondly,I have a question for the married folks,is MouthAction compulsory for couples to stay sexually connected?does every couple practice it?for those that are not getting it are they old-fashioned?dose it make a man to feel loved and cherished? |
Since you are not married, I will advice you to look at it critically because it is not a good thing.Ask yourself some questions like: How you will be able to make babies, even if babies should come,can you cope alone?it will look as if you are a single mother,it will also affect the children because their father will look like a stranger to them. Then the companionship marriage is made for;how are you going to enjoy it? Like the things husband and wife do for eachother can you be doing them once in a year?then will you have peace of mind ?because you will always be won dering what your husband is up to.There are alot of disadvantage , If you really want to enjoy your marriage don't consider long distance marriage |
Thank God for the breathe of life |
I prefer husbands to be older than their wives with a minimum of five years,since most women age faster than their husbands |
Please married women,wear anything you are comfortable with,don't make the mistake that you don't have anybody to impress,you have your husband to impress.Believe it or not he will be comparing those days with now .Dress properly,wear trendy clothes because the time to be fashionable is now. |
For my two children mine was very easy,immediately I get to the labour ward the baby dose not take more than 20mins to get down, but after that ,I will start bleeding seriousely,the blood will be pumping out ,until i will run out of blood without the doctors knowing the cause,different methods will be use to stop it yet to no avail,the doctors will then transfuse some blood for me,until later in the day when d bleeding will subside. Very fearful I must confess,but to God be the glory because I will always come out victorious with my baby by my side.I must testify the goodness of the lord in the land of the living |
byvan: The babies dumped inside trash cans and wells were also birthed by mothers , yes some mothers are the darkness in their children's life.u are right |
He is in a haste for a reason,try to understand his reasons for that, ask about him around his neighborhood you might garther some information. If u believe in God,just start praying about it.Tell him to give you sometime to know him,at least, as from next year u can start talking about marriage. |
Your son's school is" over teaching",and that is what most private schools are doing,they just want to make you feel you are getting the worth of your money.Normally,the nursery school is supposed to be a preparation class for basic classes but now,i wonder what they will teach them when they get to that stage,nowadays private schools are teaching more than the children can comprehend; which is very bad. Learning comes with wisdom,they should allow the child to grow up first when it is the right age the child will understand. |
OP! you must be the one that is a mumu, because it is obvious you lack direction and your actions are meaningless |
She is matured enough to know where her heart belongs,but don't forget to advice her to look carefully,especially in areas like: Why a 52yrs old is divorcing,why his first marriage is childless,and inquire about the man from people around him,ask to know his family and lastly ask God in prayers to direct her. |
Some things are better left unsaid for the sake of peace to reign.Somethings can be labeled unnecessary because telling your partner will only anger him/her like the example you gave. |
Why is tonto always causing problem here and there is she the only one that deserve attention? |
alutawestand: I've prepared his favourite dish (afang soup) and waiting patiently for him. @ dayokanu, will do exactly as u said. Wonderfulur husband really loves you.Please never mention divorce in an argument it hurts alot. |
kolanpas: u dont encourage child marriage but u encourage child having boy friend with illicit sex.mayb u guys dont know how girls are developing in this generatn.mayb u should check d develop country permited age for marriage.let me ask u what can u c in girl b4 u can say she is ripe 4 marriage.nobody is encouraging a child to have illicit sex. Beside u can't pay evil with evil and that dose not give u the right to marry them off to some oldmen because they are doing the wrong thing.If U want to know when a girl is ripe for marriage place a 24yrs old and a 12yrs old together and interview them.Pls support the right thing because u will have female children in future. Children are mearnt to be protected from the ills in the society not disposing them into marriage |
Marriage |
That is why northeners should not be allowed to rule they want to turn the country upside down |
Acidosis: Okay I'll help you here:go and pray for wisdom to understand if u like quote verses to match ur claim |
Ishilove: Wish I could package frosbel and take him home |
U are just looking for attention are you not even happy she gave you food |
Especially in Facebook, putting on their new and best clothes just to create an impression. When you see them in reality, they are opposite of what they showcase in social media.
you cannot convince any female not to have her fundamental human right.


