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UnusualEmissary:
Marriage is an institution for you to choose a partner with whom you will live and plan the rest of your life.

The question now is what plan do you have for the rest of your life and who or what kind of person are you choosing to run that course of your life in future with?

There are several factors leading to that effect (highlighted by the OP) which include financial issues, lack of dedication from one or both parties, wrongdoing like cheating from one or both parties and so on ...

But the major factor, I think, is understanding what marriage is about and choosing someone who equally understands what marriage is about and is fit for you to run that course of life with.

When you as an individual has planned or visualised your character and future plans and you do enough diligence to choose someone with whom you are compatible based on those factors, then you will find fulfillment in marriage God willing. Because the actions both of you will be taking in that marriage will be such that are in harmony with each other and brings fulfilment.

A lot of people get involved in marriage because they are attracted to certain things such as money, feelings or beauty. They do not look at the bigger picture. As such, that union has no purpose upon which it is based and due to that, it tends to get uninteresting as time goes along.

I'm not sure if I captured my thoughts with the very right words but I think I tried.

turmacs:
See the kind of men we hope to cross paths with and marry.. Not some idiots older than 23, yet no car, no house, not even up to 100 million naira in his bank account, God forbid
Please if you're a lady and you know you're very hot and sexy, but you don't know where or how to meet real men, men of virtue, men wey their pockets dey flow like water, i have an advice for you, please don't settle for broke people.. Go to where all these big boys stay, like FESTAC, GRA, VGC or anywhere close to you that you know is mostly occupied by rich people.. Start going for jogging in those areas, even if you have to enter transport to get to the place, just do it.. Before you do it for 6 months, you will jam somebody that will change your life forever.. Please don't settle for a broke man, they don't deserve love, let them go and look for money.

Love56743:
No youth empowerment, No company No factory, sometimes our government don't think before acting, if Yahoo should stop today, it's only God that can help Nigeria, Because i remember way back then in campus that time i wasn't doing Yahoo i know the kind of life will live then, Now that Yahoo has come to reduce cultism and arm robbering government nor wan hear

Verokeena:
It was more of a warning to him.. I didn't neglect him there.. he had access to his phone.. even though as first he wasn't taking my call but I kept texting him..

Now the thing is he was supposed to come out the next day but he refused. Said since I placed him there he'd wish to die there(emotional blackmail if you ask me)

I had to go with his friends to beg him the next day..

advanceDNA:
Solomon considered adonija's action as being covetous of the what belongs to the king's office....he not only wanted the girl, he wanted the throne.......its a treasonable offence..
..its Solomon's discretion to either put such a person to death or not...in my opinion...he would be stupíd to leave such a person alive...

.. however we are in mordern times that laws are different....even kings do not have final say over capital punishment....

TheUnsure:
They are Muslims, I'm not.

STRI1:
Nothing in Islam calls for violence. Islam calls for peace and love, yes some verses in suurotul tawbah prepares directions for Muslims in war front and even in war front, women, children, infact and animals are soared from being killed.

Even if your enemies in war repent it's upon you as Muslims to protect them.

However, non Muslims, christians and Jews are protected by the Muslim host. So, Islam breeds peace not violence. But emotional few makes misunderstanding out of their knowledge. Much love from a Muslim brother

STRI1:
I am a Muslim and I understand ecert aspect of my religion. Islam is perfect as away of life and I've been to Islamic schools all my life. Nothing in Islam gives the slightest support fir violence. But emotional Muslims who seems to defend everything than use wisdom in handling situations makes matter worse.

RedChiefPriest:
When she is old enough for marriage,anything before that is forbidden.
Early dating is what is leading to huge body counts or what do most people do in relationships nowadays?
Is it not having sex,deceiving one another and do nonsense up and down.
Relationship is to get to know one another before marriage,so when she is close to that age then she should get into one.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Hmmmm
Sorry

Everyone should mount thier guard

The street is no longer funny
Who lose guard them maga am
The funny thing be say if you name top ten countries into keyboarding Nigeria nor dey the list
Pakistan, India, brazil and them Romania are too good

thinkmoney:
I have studied the Quran and several Hadiths. I might even know the history of the then Islamic world more than you.
However, please point out any incident during the prophets lifetime where somebody was lynched

JAMO84:
For your mind now, UK na Christian Country abi?

thinkmoney:
The f**king killers and illiterates have killed another person again. The people that have their heads filled with stones. Disgrace of a people. People that do not know that humans make mistakes. Electors of bad leaders. Terrible people.
Mohammed didn’t preach this their kind of religion. There is no record of such killings all through Mohammed’s time.
This trend is continuing because the bad leaders this people put in place didn’t do anything about past incidents.

Jennyclay:
I can manage chicken neck

accordadoga28:
I'm 100% sure pigs 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 🐖 won't participate in.the tournament.


They are still pained that nanu lost the election.

Their prayer is that Tinubu should fail and disappoint we Nigerians.



If you check the names of the participants now, you will see names like Adewale, Babalola, Mohammed, Akpos, Oghenetega, Kamarudeen, Erdoo, Akpan, Ekaete, Abubakar, Tanko, Garuba, Oluwatobi, Opeoluwa, Mufutaudeen, Usman, Efe, Ogheneruka


Eeyah only one pig participated

Giftedhands45:
@all thanks for your advice and suggestions.
I have reported to his mum and siblings severally and they're not happy about his behavior, but he refuses to change.

The advice on moving to my parents house once the house rent expires is exactly what I will do.

For those saying I bring forth children to suffer them. No, My children are not suffering. I tried to give them the best in my own power. I'm the only one suffering because I'm doing it all alone.
And sure, no more intimacy here anymore. He can't provide, he can't touch me either

IyaebeTheGreat:
He's right , premarital sex has never been good, it'll mess you up as a lady and you won't be able to know the right man for you. Premarital sex is the major reason why most women end up with bad men.

accordadoga:
Keep protesting as long as it's a 'peaceful' protest. Other parts of Nigeria no be SADEAST
Make una no just cause violence.. Soldiers dey for una... ÒRÒ KÙYÙNKÙYÙN INÚ ELÉDÈ 🐖 LÓ Ń GBÉ... Just keep your grievances and violence inside you.. GRUMBLING IS ALLOWED.

Are you aware that Prophet Buba is Fulani

Hope u don't use to see Igbo people in your dream




I hear say one OSU wan contest for Lagos this Saturday..


How true is this??

Una wan start dey sit at home on Mondays?


EKO TI N GBAGBAKUGBA
EKO TI BAJE

dustmalik:
OP, we dash LP all the APC votes in Rivers and Lagos, LP still won't catch up. So what's the point?

Obi could never have won this election, no matter how you look at it. Take a second look at his numbers in the core north, he did very poorly.

Obi will be wasting his time and money going to court.

Wickedfacts:
Here will go to work and put up an half-hearted effort.

Okupe and Pat Utomi working for the winner underground finished Obi. They gave him terrible advice and didn't stop until they ruined him.

Moh247:


Mumu bitter lossers

3rd place sef dey make mouth


Atiku and PDP have been very mature even as the second place, not this loud mouthed chestbeating gorrilas who came 3rd




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accordadoga:
Fellow Urchins,

Pls let's cheer PANDORA up.

Pikin wey score zero for exam still get score. Zero na still score. E get pikin wey no even see that exam come write at all..

Let's encourage PANDORA.. He did well

He has learnt his lessons and I'm sure he will be back to his root (maybe Accord Party this time)

CoronaVirusRelo:
Waste of endorsement!

Endorsement they could have sold and use proceeds to eat Ofe Nsala and Nkwobi simultaneously.

Absolute waste!

Thinkam:
Realistically Obi doesn't stand a chance to win, we're stuck with Atiku or Tinubu.
Be wise

Obi will drop out of the race latest February 14

Atiku is coming

DrAkpamudehe:

I am a member of the PDP national working committee, and I can testify that Obi is currently in talks about stepping down for his Boss ,Atiku.

Obi will step down latest February 14, which is a Valentine Day. Forget about what Labour party are talking. There is always an atom of truth in every speculation.

Peter is our boy and he will step down for his senior brother on the 14th of February. You can bank on what i have written here

Atiku is the next president

lhordspy:
Maybe you should also point out the place where she said: "My husband should be boothed out of ASO rock, if elected president and fail to perform'

Words of a true democrat. Before you start criticising her, just know she is more of a christian than you are. An ordained pastor at one of the biggest church in Africa.

Thanksful:
Is not late, the police should trace him and pick him up asap