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QuizPay:
I will make this epistle to be as short as possible, forget about the grammar and focus on the content ...

Is this a red flag or not or its just what it is, or what is your take in this?

My fiancee Fines it difficult to cook (though she can cook and a very good cook), I am not the type that eat outside always (I love home food), I only do such once in a while. She cooks sometimes in the evening or at night but it's a no no in the morning, I have to make my dishes for myself before going to work and house chores is even the worst. l gave her 9.9% that's how worst in terms of house chores, her excuse is "my weakness is house chores, I will try to be adjusting blablabla.

She only tidy/clean when I complain, after that she returns to former ways except if I complain again. Any time she does house chores she won't let me hear words, I did this, I did that, you don't even appreciate me, I did that too ecsetera. Her suggestion is for us to hire househelp (and house help is a no no for me, even if I will take in house help not now). The house is even small for house help to come in. Sometimes, she dodges cooking by trying to convince me to buy/order food while coming home etc, I do that sometimes but most time I decline and tell her to prepare food at home.

Although if I compel her to do things in romantic way sha she will do it but must I be compelling someone daughter in romantic ways always before doing what she needs to do ni. Also she works in a finance firm and leaves the house around after seven or 7:30am (House to work is close), back by 6pm but should this be an excuse to prepare dish for me, for someone that finds it difficult to prepare breakfast as Early as possible for just one person how much more when kids are involved waking up to take care of kids ecsetera. We agreed she will stop the work and I will set her up when we got marry and she promised after that she will be able to do the tidy and cooking very well . Planning to knot this year anyways, just a bit worry about this house chores of a thing which I have told her times without number...

The good part about her
* She is faithful and literally tells me everything that happens to her on daily basis.
*she can confidently give me her phone to work (this has happened twice, because I need to help in fixing her phone) , which I will give her updates about her callers, messages etc when she returns back from work and her phone has never be on lock.
*She is open and transparent
*She is supportive and submissive (with the time I have spent with her)
*She is a prayer warrior (she can pray for 4hours ), though she skips Sunday sometime because of resting. And Sometimes, i am tempted to tell her to reduce prayer at night so she can cook/tidy things that need to be tidy in the morning.

About me
Me: Am I.T guy, In aspects of earning I earn thrice more than her but I find it easy in doing house chores, (my mama taught me well you know) do dishes and tidy up things myself, (that was how she knows me) and always putting things in place, provides everything needed, supportive etc...Am the kind of person I return home late sometimes because after leaving my official work, I check in my personal business before going home.. So something 9pm or 10pm or 11pm (depends on traffic) before I get back home.

To married people, Councillors, experienced people in the house, , I will like your contribution in terms of House chores issue and wife responsibility etc, It can help me or some people out there in this kind of similar situation. Thank.. (no insult I beg.)

Poor man checking and checking

stampo:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders.
This is real matters that needs your advice..

A very close friend of mine has found himself in a confused state and will need best advice on how to handle a critical situation.

This guy is already planning to get married with his girlfriend later this year ...plans going on.
During the last holidays, he ran into his ex girlfriend after a long while, they exchanged number and he invited her over to have a drink then hang out somewhere.

During the course of the meeting one thing lead to another they had sex...this happened 2 months ago.

My friend just got a call from the ex girlfriend that she missed her period and she is pregnant for him..
My friend was like trying to explain to her that he is get married in few months time and has no plans for her as regards marriage.

The ex girlfriend says she is keeping the pregnancy that my friend should do what ever he feels
The issue now how can he tell his girlfriend and parents about it.

Should he stop the planning of the wedding or should he continue with the ex girlfriend ?.

Please your advice on this issue is needed.

His not matured

Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?

You be mugu ....

Anigreat:





Dick wasn't made for one woman, it was made and designed for multiple women. So you'll be a failure if you stick to one woman in the name of being married to her and she bears the title " wife"

If King Solomon with all his Wisdom in abundance that was a divine wisdom given to him from above couldn't settled with one woman even two women, then while should i an Olodo settle with one pusssy, no, i can't and it can't happen.

Opportunity presented itself to you to drill some pusssy and you fuckenly scared because you have a wife. You have disappointed your ancestors even our father King Solomon. Failure like you.

Leave the mugu

Where is the governor?

Imo state is not a serious State

They are not serious people too

Nobody is behind this man
Just a talkative..

Igbos should learn politics...

I wanted to see his backup..
So this man no get backup self


Talkative

Wawelexy:
KANU actions no let us even know how to blame Buhari for refusing to release him.... The guy too F up abeg

You are right..

Other eastern states don't like ebonyi people

Anigreat:



You're the seating governor, this statement is expected of you, because being a governor means you've pledged your allegiance to the zoo government.

But for the mere fact that you're the governor, doesn't mean you can take a decision for the whole people of Ebonyi. Give Ebonyians referendum now, and see them leave your sorry ass for Biafra then you and your family can continue in your one zoogeria.

The way you guys are talking about this referendum as if you have done a proper home work on it

Which state will be involve ?
People are leaving in fear not because of the Fulani, but because of the so call ipob and unknown gun men. Like the set at home .

Go and ask people what they think or how they feel about it.

Ndimkpurummiri:
Who does not know that he is drug pusher?
You can't earn money legitimately and be spending it like that.
Many okoros are languishing in prisons in Asia countries because of this man

Where is the proof?

In conclusion the autopsy is asking Timothy which Trauma killed you..?

Richy4:
Is it the Nigerian police that should fish him out or social media users?.. What efforts have they made to contact the police?

If care is not taken, the police might not even be aware of this atrocious and abominable act

Police will ask for money, social media will not
Don't worry we will fish him out .

FreeStuffsNG:
N9.7 billion as at 2017 and even today is huge.

I honestly don't know how his lawyers will defend and prove that federal government paid an officer travel allowance that totalled N9.7 billion. Like when you tell a lie, you will need more lies to cover the first lie, as it stands today, he is in soup.

All the enemies of Nigeria will lose las las. They always lose. God bless Nigeria.

In dollars

Nnamdi KANU will be used for politics


Freedom is not coming soon

deboysben:
Ndigbo the most United tribe in Nigeria.
So much love for themselves.

Their love for nnamdi kanu is second to none.
That's y they obey anything related to nnamdi kanu.

You lie

PointZerom:


How can ESN kill people and still shout ESN..ESN?
An enemy has done this to rope ESN in.

Ok is not ESN

Where is ESN ?
Do ESN exist?

What is there job ?

Add Anambra state and make profit.
We fly

Non is calling on APC
Not even opposition party.


I think APC is using jazz on Nigerians

Non is calling on APC

I think APC is using jazz on Nigerians.

Advocate500:
Two notorious looter that supposed to be in jail in any serious country that want to fight corruption.

President and VP in one picture

DICKstractor:
Yhen yhen

Manchester united how many European cups combine. You talk as if man u won 100 ucl

We are talking about current squad now, you are bringing up cup

Go and sleep

sammyj:
Yeye they smell. Stop dishing out fake news abeg !!! Man U and the current manager are 6 and half a dozen. There is no separating them !!!

Na you wan pay ?

DICKstractor:
Man city
Liverpool
Chelsea
Bayern
Psg
Real Madrid


Which team will Manchester united displace as a top 6 team in Europe

Chelsea and man city how many champion league?? Cup

Man united have how many ? Cup

Sick fingers

Great100000:
We don't want Zizou, we Man Utd supporters want Solskjaer to continue doing the great work he is doing..... Give him 7 Years and he will Win Carabao Cup for us

In Ole we trust

He is not stingy at all, he like to open WiFi to other Clubs and you want to sack him.. We Man Utd Fans are happy with what he is doing and we are behind him

GGMU

Sick fingers

Goldbw122:
Problem many and she is thanking God, now tell me why you should not thank God hmm..

She with large penis positive......

Notyourtype:
After i bought a ring and wanted to suprise my girl today after service, i was suprise to walk out of the church and headed straight home like i never had a plan..

i want to do it in a very romantic way, i've watched videos on youtube and thought today was the day, but i have not gotten the courage yet..

I kno very well she will say yes, as this has always being her prayer, but i still don't just know the best way to do it..

I will have to wait again till next sunday, as i told myself i will propose to her inside the church..

please nairalanders, i need a method that will be romantic, i don't just want to propose to her, but rather, i want it to be very romantic..

should i just walk to her and do it, or is there a better way i can do it to make it more romantic?

Please help me reach more people, next sunday is the day.. Thanks

If you know get mind , then get high

Warpath:
Are you sure?

Yes the offer will close soon

Chinemeremjosh0:
Miaa gị ọnụ

Udenné

jaxxy:
It is not hard. It is easier to make money than find a faithful gal friend.

You lie

Ammishaddai:
[s][/s] Bros ,you just started carrying igbo. By the time you become a veteran, you will understand my language better

Do you smoke ? I'm sure No

So don't say what you don't know.