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It's just one sided story but I sympathize with OP. As a guy, I won't blame the guy completely till I hear his side. He's just stupid not to have broken up with you earlier.

Sikay19:
Or devilish hippo mysteriously appears in the swimming pool after the family returned from night vigil

Lol...typical black mindset.

Women are just too dumb. One better stay alive for children's sake cos leaving kids to a woman is worse than death itself.

Happy New Year Fam!

The guy na real MVP. She and others like her should learn. Not everyone laughing and cheering you are your followers, some are just waiting to see you fail.

Another example of failed parenting cum religion. While the mother's mate were hustling, she was slaying. Now she wants a rich son to alleviate her uselessness. What sad way to end.

Thegeneralqueen:
Cook for mad wey neva marry me i dey craz

People like you don't appreciate creativity cos you've never been good to yourself. Secondly, women like you scrubs toilet for a man after a one night stand, so dont form here. You can't cook for a man but you can allow him use his hard earned money to buy you food?? Grow up please....

Dear OP, you are about to find light please don't allow yourself be deceived. Religion is a big scam. Live your life having just love for humanity and no religious affiliations then you'll see how easy life is. Religion is for the weak. Free yourself.

gly2ken:
It is the type car I am driving now and I have local made pedal lock as well as other oyibo device. But It is God that protects. I am hoping to get a 206 or 307 as I am tired of this corrola wahala. I can't even allow my wife to drive it because fear of theft. Anyway the car is worth the hype.

Was at Magic Land Abuja yesterday and I was just restless. Had to stay less than the proposed time cos I knew badguys will take advantage of periods like this.

Drphemmy4u:
i am shocked too.I have it in my car too over 4years now.

I doubt if it's the locally fabricated pedal locks. The imported ones can be removed but the locally fabricated ones will take anyone time and energy. I wish your friend the best of luck.

Dear OP, it seems you just want to hear something sweet but some people are bent on giving you as e dey hot. I will neither scold you nor support you but will share a story. So a lady met a guy online, he's based in Abuja and all the glitz about Abj guys while she stays in Delta. Everything went very fast, just like yours and guyman went visiting. He felt pity and told aunty she needs a car to go round cos he's feeling pained she's going through so much stress. After gaining trust and all the initial no sex b4 marriage thing, uncle sent her his supposed car to ease her movement and borrowed series of funds from her (about 2m). 2months after, aunty was arrested cos uncle hired the car from a rental service and it was tracked to aunty. I don't need to tell you what aunty went through in the hands of police but aunty eyes clear. She was given free ride to Abuja and a free accommodation, hope you get? Enjoy

TonyeBarcanista:
Lol very funny but it shows you aren't a man. Forget about all these audio gentleman crap!

Yes, you hurt her by cheating a lying but slapping you while you were walking away shows she doesn't see you like her boss. She didn't go to the house to save your face, instead, her refusal to confront you at home was to save HER FACE from embarrassment.

What you should have done was to hold her fist after the first slap very tight, and give her strong warning never to attempt it again! Then walk out...

NB: I said this because it is a case of betrayal and I assume she acted on impulse but for she to even have thw guts to slap you shows you no be man for her face. If she sees you as man, she will either cry or go to her home to cry, and then await you to apologise and explain yourself.

I won't defend neither actions but I know that period that my gentle woman isn't in her right senses. Holding fist and showing the boss go just create unnecessary attention. We all have moment of weakness, guess that's mine but it was a life changing moment. I stopped cheating or let's say I became more tactical...lol.

TonyeBarcanista:
Baba in your case the slap is justified but sha you for hold her hand, give her serious warning say make she no ever reason am for her life no matter what.

For where� I can't even look her straight in the eyes. That was the first time I realise how painful it was when I cheat. Make I give complete gist. Brought in another babe to come spend weekend after giving my woman series of excuses. Weekend finish and babe no ready to go and main chick wan visit. Was posting her and later agreed to meet in a public place not knowing an aproko neighbor have hinted her. I got to the bar close to a major market and was with madam when she told me straight up that there's a woman in my house and we going home together. As guy man now, I denied and tried to walk away for such insult but babe stood up followed to the main road and landed me 2 clean slaps for playing on her intelligence. I no even mind people we dey jeer, I just carry next bike and went back home to clean up my mess. Funny enough, my woman knows coming to my house will greatly embarrass me so she opted to save my face while I thought I was smart.

6.8ft madt gan o. Was 6.2ft at 18yrs and I can remember being made fun of but now eh....na selling point o. You have to love yourself. You've got something you should be proud of.

Na man you be o. I was once slapped by my GF when she caught me cheating. My own na market square sef, i just walked away jejely. So, OP find a way to communicate with your wife. You know her better. Best of luck

If I were in your shoes, I'll walk away. Dated one like that and we both work in same organization, same salary and same time frame. She stays with me and I do feeding, transport and all. She gives one excuse or the other just to make me think she's having family issues that gulps her salary. Even when I go broke and borrow from friends and family, she will tell me she's also broke. Not till our mutual friend through whom I met her hinted me that she has over 200k(12yrs ago o) in her account while I was trying to borrow from him. Na there my eyes clear that I've been used for free food and accommodation. Me sef no get 1k savings. Don't let anyone tell you a man have to caters for all, it's bullshit. She won't be sincere in other dealings too. wise up bro

mrNEMZY:
Had it been she died in your custody, there is this thing called autopsy, and it is done in hospitals all over Nigeria.

It's ignorance that makes people allow themselves to be victims of such occurrences. If this kind of thing happens, make sure you are the first person to call for help, and if they start throwing fingers, opt for an autopsy ASAP.

And I think that as an adult, you should have the contact of a lawyer handy, so when poo blows, you will know your line of action.

Bro...your ASAP might be as soon as 10years. Pray the family wants an out of court settlement. like the OP suggested, prevention is better than cure.

Beautiful.....takes courage to go against the norm.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Regrettably married?

Yes babe. She's still into her ex and there's every possibility it goes more than he can imagine. Her attitude shows she married him for sinister motives and regrets she's with him. My opinion...

I feel for you bro. Just like you've been advised, do a secret DNA and DO NOT plan traveling with her for now. What I can deduce from your write up is a situation where a woman is regrettably married and battling with reality. Be calm....you will be fine Las las

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goslowgoslow:
Please is that how to invite the victim to come and prove his accusation? By parking a bus with gun trotting police in front of her house? Honestly this your comment is very irritating, looks like you are not educated at all. :-

Reading the comment made me sick! Who does that! A full bus of armed men just to serve an invitation letter? Haba!

OdiaI:
Hmmm,this was common in unity schools back in the day. This particular senior used to wake us up in the middle of the night to punish us over something as flimsy as we didn't come first during Saturday inspection. Many times, she lined us up to flog us on our backs, very heavy strokes with hangers.

If I knew what I know now about the anatomy of the human body, I would not have allowed her. Worse cases happened in government boarding schools. I don't know about now.

This case is very glaring. I see that she is guilty of what the school accused her of from all that her Father narrated. At the same time, the school exaggerated some things. It is clear the school took the stand to pacify the parents of the punished students. I hope they would have taken this same stand had the parents not raised the alarm against Demilade?

As for Mr Malaolu, he should use this opportunity to get closer to his daughter and teach her how to be humble.

She took after the dad, humility is far from him...very far.

missioner:
Must everything get to the Media ?

Dr Niran Malaolu
CEO/owner of Rockcity Fm Abeokuta.


No wonder your radio station and it workers are wallowing in unnecessary complacency !

I can imagine his daughter's attitude cos I met him just once and he's damn rude! Very pompous and inhumane. His daughter will be worse sef.

KendrickAyomide:
Konji na Bastard. This is how they Invent new Diseases and Form Barbaric creatures. This is the combination that formed the likes of Tinubu and Obasanjo

Omo ale leleyi o

To all the guys saying 17yrs old isn't a minor; aside you bringing up your own constitution, if your younger sis of 25yrs old open up to you now that she was raped by an uncle when she was 17yrs but couldn't find the nerve to tell you...will you dismiss it and tell her she enjoyed it? Especially when the same uncle still comes to your house and act all godly like nothing happened.....make una dey reason. When she finds her voice wouldn't be the issue but how u can help her get over it. Never pray to be with a rape victim, it affects them more than this childish talks.

Baba have spoken.....he brought it upon himself.

Even bottle water.....