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Nollyzonenews:
Never forget that #domesticviolence is REAL. Single motherhood is never by choice. I have never been married and lived successfully. My goal is to empower more single moms. #domesticviolence is the leading cause of #singlemotherhood in #Nigeria.

Denial is real. Get counseling on the past and clear your mind. We are all unique and move on with life. Good Luck.
#godiswatching



http://news.nollyzone.com/denial-real-get-help-kemi-olunloyo-comes-tonto-dikehs-ex-husband/

We single ladies don't wanna be single moms, therefore we don't your empowerment, maybe our married counterpart can help out

She is not 18 but her birthday is 18th if Sept.... People don't really get the concept of this balloon

UdyOgwoUde:
Before you tag it "rape" you should ask if the alleged victim enjoyed it.

Even when the victim was a virgin

When you hear Ikere Ekiti... Just run!!! I just pray those guys didn't use that girl

OP... Kpele... You need deliverance

Guys should stop derailing this thread... Everyone of us has right to our opinion... Please, stop the insults... Op, my advice is that you just follow your heart... Tell your mum to stop sending nudes and cheating... Let her seek divorce and marry another man if she wants...

Your dad can never be repentant.... He'll keep following women till old age comes knocking...

But I've seen men who did worse to their wives esp. In my street... Most women are now single mother but one thing is common among them... They live a 'decent life'....

Please, we're all entitle to our opinions o buh stop throwing insults... It's too childish

Saintsammurai:
THE bible says, keep the sabbath day holy, the same bible says, seek ye first the kingdom of GOD and his riteousness and every other thing shall be added into it....You have mondays till saturdays to make money and provide for your families, you cannot go to your place of work on sundays, instead of going to the house of GOD, if you do that, then you will go to hell and wont make heaven.. THE time has come for the true worshipers of GOD to worship him in spirit and in truth. And the truth is, If you have a job that requires your service on sundays, then quit the job, because its GOD over everything... GOD will provide a better job for you...Let us tell ourselfs the truth, you cannot claim to love GOD and go to work on sundays instead of going to church to worship him.. so dont deceive yourself, Going to your place of work on sundays will only land you in hell and you are not a true christian...bible reference: Exodus 20 verse 8. deuteronomy 5 verse 12, exodus 31 verse 16.

If a client calls me on Sunday... I shouldn't go abi

elektra:
Let me ask you, the home the OP has described, is it whole? Are you implying that a home can only be broken by the woman?
In my opinion the OPs home is already broken and feminism had nothing to do with it.
His dad is no longer in the house, and is living with a different woman! OPs dad broke his home himself and did not need feminism to do so. So why TF are you blaming feminism?
You blame feminism because people like you think the actions of a man must not have an impact on his home, the home is entirely the responsibility of the woman (even though the man is the head and woman is merely a helper, oh the irony!)
If the OPs mum decides to file for divorce now, you will blame the broken home on the mum even though the home was broken long time ago (by the dad).

I don't blame feminism... Intact, you need to reread my comments... My point is this: let that woman file for divorce... The aspect of her cheating in what I detest... She should not cheat because her husband cheated.... Can't you just get it

Proudgorgeousga:
don't be foolish now, I didn't say she should cheat because he cheats. wait let me repeat in capital letters

THE PART OF YOUR COMMENTS MY REPLIES WAS BASED ON IS THE PART WHERE YOU SAID I QUOTE. "MARRIAGES DONT LAST BECAUSE WOMEN DONT ENDURE ANYMORE " DO YOU UNDERSTAND?

AT HER AGE I DONT THINK SHE IS CHEATING SIMPLY BECAUSE HE IS

SHE IS A HUMAN WHO HAS BEEN THROUGH A LOT and deserves happiness.

Must you use abusive language? You use the word 'dumb', 'foolish'.... You don't have to be aggressive... Your not the said mother or the OP and also learn to respect people... We're both stranger whoncoukd meet some day.... I don't talk to you rudely so you don't have too... Let's play maturity here!
Pls and old... Let's stop the mentions

Proudgorgeousga:
that is what you should have said not marriages don't last because women don't endure anymore.

it takes two to build a home.

Cheating bcis he cheats is a no no..
Someone is talking about patriarchy.... We are blacks, we're African! The purported 'feminism' is breaking homes...
My advice for you is that you run to God.... Being an atheist because if what a religion has/had done to you is not advisable gal... KnowomgvGid is sweeter

Proudgorgeousga:
my response Is as a result of the very dumb statement you made that "marriages don't last because women don't endure anymore"

nobody is born to endure wickedness you hear. if your mother named you endurance good for you not everybody enjoys suffering like you.

this woman's case is that her so called husband is an unrepentant cheat that has moved out with a sidechick young enough to be his daughter and the son is not making any move to stop the father or bring him home but trying to control his mother who had endured so much . she is an adult she has the right to choose her own part just like her son and husband.

You just don't get it.... Well ... I don't support that man but my point is she should seek divorce first!!!

Proudgorgeousga:
when you get married tolerate shít don't expect other women to be as dumb as you life is too short to be unhappy.

why is it that enduring hardship and pain is only seen as a virtue in women?

You know a good Sunday by its Saturday... You choose your happiness and don't let any man determine that for you!
I love this woman in question for a season, she have been able to endure till now... I just pray she ain't led astray...
In as much as every lady countering my advice believes life offers good men to them or their parents, even a bright sky has some dark clouds!!
When you get married and your husband cheats, then go out there, get laid by another man!
OP, like I said, talk to your mum... It's either she seek divorce, even the book of Matt 19:9 agrees to divorce only the note of fornication or stay in the marriage!
In as much as I don't support abusive marriages, I hate women who cheats....

alfred007:
I just needed a stranger to talk to and share what I'm going through with and thus, this write up on this platform!

I've been indoors, with lots of thought running through my mind and honesty I can't keep all that locked up anymore.
I will be glad if u read through.

I'm Alfred007 by name and I have just lost everything except my phone and laptop *lol*. funny but true, technically.

All my life I ve been someone that never depend on people, reason being that I can't stand being turned down. Lost my dad when I was 3, and was raised by my grand aunt. All that happened at my early life thought me the important of work, planning, discipline and saving,and most of all the education. it all made me strong, I guess!

during my secondary school days I reunited with my mum and life seemed a little fun though we weren't that close but it was better than what I had earlier. Then my mum observed my value for money and also encouraged me to save, got me a saving box and open an account in d bank for me, *2005/2006 (jss 3) I guess*. Twas awesome I must say!

She took care of me till my 4th year in the university **my I.t period** and since then It has always been me though she supported my project. During my project time I saw opportunity to make money *** statistical analysis, project work for my mates, Map, etc 2014***

From my 3rd or so I started planning for my MSC, made enquiries and started saving up. After school I knew what I wanted, **MSC at IPS UNIPORT because of the standard and length of study! I knew the price!

So I opened a shop immediately after school because I had a plan and plan comes with date. I needed to save up!

I denied my self a lot of things ** good clothes, shoes, women lol, saw them as distractions,*** I needed to hit my target sooner enough. I was also hunting for scholarship abroad, preferably Germany! I had every thing planned out.

But now, i'm broken, all lost in a twinkle of an eye, all my savings, looked like a dream but it ain't! I have been lying on the since, I don't know who to turn to, I. don't know who to talk to, I have never felt this way before in my whole life.

Funny thing is b4 anything bad happens to me, I will know but can't do anything about, I can't change it.
Noticed it when I foresaw an accident that claimed lives could change it,the whole persons in bus died!

I always have this feeling that all will be well and I need someone to confirm that to me!

if u read this, thank you! at least I've talked to someone!
do have a good day

All will be well...
My boyfriend loose his life savings seeking a scholarship only to be denied visa.... Yet, all is well... He's back on his feet stronger than I

.bro
.. All is well

sonofanarchy:
see how fat your face is you look like kungfu panda

Are you in anyway better?

cococandy:
lmao
Use your better view of life to feed yourself.

For sure my father is not out there making my mom think her place in life is supposed to be miserable. Can't say the same for you.

Wish yours come on a platter of gold... You're beautiful.... I wish you stop the mentions....
Cheers

cococandy:

You're dumb. dumb enough to think I would take you seriously. Such moronic entitlement

If you think I'm dumb because I gave you a better view of what life looks like.. Then I think you need to check yourself! BTW, Where is your father?

cococandy:
So your mom's actions disgust you but not your dad's? I'm sorry you're as bad as he is.
Anyone who can't see how both actions are equally terrible can't be taken seriously,
Infact I don't see what your mom has done wrong as of now. Your father is the cause of everything and if I were her I'd do it in way that will hurt him deeply. Bringing other women into my home. The nerve of him.
And the nerve of for even finding something wrong about her actions.

Are you married? If not, my prayer is that you won't fall into her shoes...
You're a lady, you shouldn't think this way... Marriages this days don't last because we, WOMEN, are not tolerating enough! God and the community have placed this men over us... As I was growing up, I believed in equality between both gender till when I'm matured enough... Then I know we don't have equal right in some aspect
I want you to know this, if you pay evil with evil... What will be your gain?
Now, if she's flirting with men of her age range, obviously she is either cheating with a married man or a divorced man- are they any better than her 'irresponsible husband' I wish I can lecture this woman in question!
At her age, let her look after her children and grandchildren... She can control her emotions seeing kids around and not flirting with men! My two cents

Yelabechi:
I

Should I confront her or just keep mute.

Confront her... She's your mum...
No matter how irresponsible your father is, she has no right to cheat while they're still married... If she likes, let her seek divorce...
Secondly, its not advisable for a woman, esp. Of her age to be sending nudes to men no matter what...
Thirdly, keeping two or more partner shouldn't be a way of getting back to her 'estranged' husband... If I am to counsel her, my question would be...'what if her husband is dead after having grandchildren? Having another husband or partner doesn't make sense

DabLord:
I am an introvert. My ex wooed me. My relationship with her was going on perfectly until she told me that she doesn't loved me, I was angry to the extend it leads to her and my family quarrelling 5years ago. I broke up with her, along the line she and her family reconciled with my family (except me because i don't want anything to bring us together again).

She was impregnated by another guy last year, so she gave birth last two week Thursday.

All my family members went to her visited her at the hospital (except i). She did her naming ceremony which i was invited but i didn't attend but she named her new born baby my names because she still love me (which my elder brother told me she told him). I felt bad after hearing that.

Should i visit her just to say hi or i sholdnt?
Please dont mind my english, I am familiar with french more than english..

Please I need a mature advice, kindly move it to the front page

Bonjour Monsieur

classical15:
common bibi, why would you say op needs help? you're a big fan of reverse cowgirl style?

Please, how did you know?

OP needs help

jesselicious:
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Lovely couples...Her makeup is darker

goshen26:
Tell her?

She will definitely deny it. Tho I have forgiven her, but I have this gift of retention. When I see u as a person I remember everything that have transpired between us, even to the cloth u were wearing on those days...

Ugh.... I challenge you to let go... As for me, if you offend me and I refuse to tell you about it, people always suffer for it... Please and please, let go and as you do that, God will bless you.
Stay blessed

rayzornaija:
I grew up as an orphan and my uncle raised me. I remember him telling me that I won't amount to nothing in life and I will die just like my father ... But guess what? I made it in Nigeria and here in Atlanta. The motherf*cker still lives in igando with his troops of children barely managing to feed once a day.

If you have, share with him... If you can help, please do! At least, he raised you like you said.... Have you ever thought of what would had happened to you if he ne'er raised you? In eery situation we find yourself, there is always a stepping stone/hinderance that leads us to success

goshen26:
Far back in 1998.

i was in primary 6. I was preparing for a common entrance, my mum was admitted into the hospital, my dad was away based on quarrel. As a young chap, i would prepare mum's meal, take it to the hospital. It was really a tough time for me as a kid.

Then i over heard my mum friends discussing about hw my parents differences was affecting my academics then. One of them said "bi won o ba le ran lo si school ki won je ki o lo ko mekanik na" interpretation " If they can't afford his education they should enroll him as a mechanic apprentice"

To God be the Glory I am a graduate today, but each time i see the woman that said that statement i still remember, we are family friends and we attend the same church.

Its very bad hurting a young child... Please forget and let go... You can even tell her ...

luckier9:
are you curently serving in Edo in 2017 or your girlfriend who do not want you to know income inform you that Edo is not paying

I SERVED in Edo state,batch A,2016/17 and I know people who are still serving there... Edo state no dey pay... Na only some schools dey give coroers koney

luckier9:
Some people expecialy Batch B that will be going to camp in les than two month time from now 'after Passing out of B16 on the 24th october 2017' the best state to choose besed on state payment of alawee aside 19500 of FG.
Here are the list of best states

1. LAGOS *6k state alawee
2. Enugu* 5k state alawee
3. OSUN* 5k
4. Edo* 5kand job space
5. Jos* 5k
6. Abuja* No state alawe but free choice of PPA
7. Abia* 5k
8. Akwaibom* 5k
9. Delta* 5k but pay in bounk after your servics before you can take it.
10. Gigawa. 5k.

After my research in this month of september, i was able to carry it out. But it dosn't means that other state don not pay. Some pay below 4k is only Rivers state that don't pay at all since 2016. You can make your correction because some of the informations are optain from secondary source

Edo state no dey pay o... I smell lies

IgboticGirl:
Is there any Afonja in DAT area





They should quickly search every afonja house dia.... Those group of people are more Dan heartless wen it comes to skull mining and skull researching

Kpele.... Must you be tribalistic?

Danielmoore:
So u don't fear STDs

With only one partner?

kibra4u:
So you ma like raw 4uck abi.....the thing they sweet die sha..............

I never said that

damola311:
Is this not Ola Royal hotel @your dp?

Nope... That's Atlas in Ado Ekiti