Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 11:57am On Feb 12, 2019 |
ubunja: abortion is violence against unborn babies you dumb man-hater. I'm not a man hater I have a son. And yes I agree abortion is violence against the unborn - abortion should be made a crime! |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 11:53am On Feb 12, 2019 |
marvinsync:
listen men and women are programmed differently , men were programmed to take e action be violent, if not for men and that violence mechanism the early humans won't have survived in the wild
men and women both get angry ,both get road rage but men act on that anger and women talk but a lot of women do act on that anger , trust me I know first hand how violent women can be
and u just mentioned feminism and that's why feminism has such a bad image both here and abroad , u talk about equality but go about it by women supremacy At the bolded, if men were programmed to be violent then men having built society have no place in the modern world they built. Proud feminists like myself believe this violent programming is a social construct - men are told they have to be violent to be real men. It's that specific programming that feminism is looking to deprogram. |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 11:44am On Feb 12, 2019 |
marvinsync: men are inferior and belong in the jungle yet society was built by men !
we are poor at conflict resolution[b] yet the world order that we know today was created by men , [/b] yes we are brutal but we are also rational when need be , we have strong and weak sides . Yes men built society due to partriarchal oppression of women and we thank you for building society - now that you have finished building society, men can now retire to the jungle so you can continue killing yourselves and robbing yourselves there and using your own pants for rituals. At the bolded, go to Google and type: "London stabbing", "Toronto shooting", " Chicago shooting", "Maryland shooting", "Lagos rituals" respectively then click on the News tab to see the wonderful order men are creating including the wonderful order of biafran war hat killed 1 milloon ppl and now boko haram. Your brutality is TOXIC. See how Nigerian politicians are assassinating themselves.... that by definition is I. I can understand having a bruised ego but you just need to attend anti - violence training from the ladies. |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 11:31am On Feb 12, 2019 |
ubunja: so Cleopatra and all the other female warriors are suffering from what? First of all cleopatra was a ruler that sent toxic men to war she didn't fight heself. Same as Jezebel. It's really simple and it baffles me how many could be so defensive. Go to every police department of every city in the world and look at violent offences stats. In every city without exception it's 90+% male and 3% or less female. It's a statistic men should not only be ashamed of but also start taking steps to correct. |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 11:16am On Feb 12, 2019 |
ubunja: Its toxic masculinity before a woman is in trouble, then it becomes "why didn't you help me? " uuhm Toxic masc....
Let Boko Haram attack a village and I promise you no woman will be making noise about toxic masculinity.
When it's peaceful men are enemies When it's dangerous men are expected to be heroes.
F U C K T H A T S H I T Boko haram is attacking in the first place because of the toxic masculinity of their members. How come there arent any female boko haram members?? Except the female suicide bombers they sometimes recruit against their will. |
Crime › Re: Lady Stabbed To Death In Anambra During Morning Exercise. Graphic Photos by BigBashiru: 11:00am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Jaqenhghar: They will blame the victim. Just keep reading. You will hear how she is not supposed to go out, or if its robbery she must have caused it by struggling with the robbers or some dumb shít That's partriarchy. Oppressive partriarchy. Feminism should take over Nigeria. Men are killers. |
Crime › Re: Lady Stabbed To Death In Anambra During Morning Exercise. Graphic Photos by BigBashiru: 10:56am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Bouncingbabyboy: It's a simple investigation!!! They asked for her phone she declined.... They killed hey Men are killers. #endtoxicmasculinitynow |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 10:48am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Franzinni: You women always want to eat your cake and have it back... Let's talk about the low life expectancy of men? Or should we talk about the high standards that men have to reach to even be recognized as a man? Or how men are suppose to take violence from women and accept it as being a man.... Hell no.. If a woman comes to slap me... Boy am I taking off my shirt and sure there is gonna be some ass whopping coming next.... I don't see man and woman... I see people and since women are tired of being delicate and tender... You are welcome to our world... Where we see man to man... Haha let's see how long y'all last. Friends and family have been left heartbroken over to the death of a lady identified as Ezeobi Oluchukwu popularly known as Luchy Belle. It was gathered that the deceased, a popular makeup artist - was stabbed to death yesterday during an early morning exercise/jogging in Awka, Anambra state capital. Though the main reason for the attack on the beautiful lady is yet to be determined, but it is alleged that her phone was collected by the killers. She passed away instantly after being stabbed. Her corpse has been deposited at the mortuary. A Facebook user Chibuike Igwe posted; What a wicked world. Can you believe she is no more. The pictures attached to this post is my friend, a smart hard working lady with great sense of humor .. She was stabbed to death while doing early morning exercise. The persons/people that did this to you will know no peace forever. #Blackmonday . Am still shocked after confirming you are no more. RIP OLUCHI The latest attack is coming days after six people were killed in a renewed cult clash in Awka. https://www.nairaland.com/5017742/lady-stabbed-death-anambra-during** my comments ** These are the actions of the so called biblically ordained leaders of the society(men). It's embarrassing. And these stories happen every day |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 10:25am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Franzinni: my sister let me be honest with you right now!! And I say this out of the purity of my soul.... And for your information I am surrounded by female individuals everyday.. I take care of them and they take care of me as the family that we are.... And with this I can tell you feminism is a myth.... And no matter how much it is pushed it won't ever come to bare.... A woman will always do like a woman and a man will do like a man.... Trying to fight nature is the same as suicide...
Please look up the story of Aileen wornous... And let me see what you have to say about that... She is not even a man. You are basically saying that's how men are - by saying so you are degrading men. In advanced societies men have listened to the feminist side and adjusted their behaviours appropriately. And the society is better for it Of course women aren't angels and so there will be outliers like the serial killer you have mentioned. It does not feel good to be identified with a violent gender so preach to other men to become less violent and also to commit less violent crime like kidnapping, rituals, etc |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 10:12am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Franzinni: madam bashiru... Very soon you feminist will say a mad man is suffering from masculinity. When he sees a woman and proceeds to beat her up for ignoring him... That kind person is mad! Simple... Let's not label it toxic anything... If you are a man and you are violent like a rabid animal.... You are simply a mad violent man... Eg el rufai.... But we can't seriously say there is toxic masculinity... Let's be honest... El rufai is not even a masculine man... If not for money... Only empty women will pick any interest in his presence... And as a short man we can't expect him to be less agressive because.... He must feel God cheated him vertically....
I digress again.... Road rage is not unique to me. Alone women too are guilty but why they don't mostly involve physical violence is because of..... The recognition of their limits... Eg lack of the man juice... Testosterone... I am no expert and I am only having this discussion based on my level of understanding Road rage is male on male violence. When two females get involved in road rage incident they don't bring out a gun or bottle and hits the other person dead. Let's talk of female to female road rage; in that case they don't kill themselves. It's men that are always killing themselves and it's nothing to be proud of. Let's talk about gangs. There are female gangs too but the difference is the female gang members and gang rivals don't go about killing themselves. This is the thrust of feminism and this is why the movement is here to stay. |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 9:54am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Franzinni: well if it will make you wet.... Then I will admit that men are inferior to women... But inside your mind you know that no person is superior just by admission of sex... But by the content of your person... So don't let the west deceive you.... I am an advocate of preservation of masculinity... Women are now saying they don't need men but they still getting piped down on the down low.... We see through all the bs What you don't understand is there's positive masculinity and toxic masculinity. The west is doing away with toxic masculinity: The world welcomes positive masculinity. Did I even mention road rage. At least five men are killed every week in road rage incidents. A man brushes another mans car or cut the man in traffic - A heated argument ensues and one driver comes out of the car and shoots the other man dead. One happened in Lagos few weeks ago. You know deep down there's toxic masculinity it's your ego that doesn't wanna let you accept it. |
Romance › Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by BigBashiru: 9:46am On Feb 12, 2019 |
ubunja: That's just everyday incidents. Women also do it. Now every crime men do it's toxic masculinity? Smh WOMEN DO THE SAME AND MORE YOU DUMB CHILD. who aborts? Who dumps babies? Stupid girl Show me in Nigeria 50 news paper articles where women committed murder in 2018. You won't find up to 50 that led to death. But I can show you 250 in nigeria for just 2018 where toxic actions of males led to death. |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 9:41am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Franzinni: trust me what women lack in brute strength... They more than compensate for in devious schemes and nefarious tendencies... As a man I will never underestimate a woman for as long as I live.... I did and I paid the price.... Still carry the scars till this very moment...
I digress...... The bitter truth is women are just as brutal as men of not more.... So we don't need to give it a name and then turn it into a "thing"... I agree with you. But I would rather fall victim to a woman's schemes that be murdered by a man because his ego was bruised before my time. While women scheme and are nefarious but in most cases it doesn't endanger life thru violence. If someone is robbed by a woman they most likely will still be still alive, but if someone is robbed by a man, chances are the person will also be shot dead in the process. |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 9:40am On Feb 12, 2019 |
My point is men are great but definitely have capacity to be better men. |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 9:39am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Headlesschicken:
This bet guy again,someone pls tell that @$$hole to enjoy his sure bet alone.... As in eh |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 9:37am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Franzinni: yes you might be right on that but... That makes us men.... We are stronger and we have shorter fuses... And that is down to our chemical makeup... I can guess you are female and have no clue what it t be a man or you are of the gay extraction... And not trying to be insulting here so please don't see it that way.... My point is you don't really know what it is to be a man... Not in the slightest.
I am male and a masculine male for that matter.... I am gentle when I need to be but it is well within me to become a brute when needs arise... That doesn't mean it is toxic masculinity... It's just means I am a man... By this admission, you admit then that men are inferior to women and men belong in the jungle where bruteness is the order of the day. So all men can go into Sambisa forest and brute it out with their bh brothers and leave the modern world to women. Not trying to be insulting just trying to be thought provoking for others that will read this. With thought provoking statements everyone can learn. |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 9:34am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Franzinni: Bashiru.... There is nothing like toxic masculinity... Those people you sighted as examples up there simply have mental problems and that is it.... Just last week a 13 year old boy just went... And beheaded his mother... Now he is not even yes a man... Will you call that toxic masculinity?
A wife whips out a blade and cut her husband's cock off because he was sexting another woman is she suffering toxic masculinity...
Bashiru... You be man I guess... No dey follow oyinbo proper gate this yamayama... Brainwashing talk... They want all men to begin tie wrapper... Most violence women commit is in the context of occultism, marriage/ relationship and petty theft. But men commit most brutal/ violent crimes and their actions are a menace to society. |
Romance › How To End Toxic Masculinity by BigBashiru(op): 9:30am On Feb 12, 2019 |
- Women should become leaders of the society for less violence. - Women should become Governors. - Women should become more pastors. - Marriage should end and be substituted with civil partnerships. - Women should shame men by talking about their violent dispositions. - Just thus morning nurtw treasurer had been murdered in Lagos.
Men = killers
At the rate at which they go about their murder sprees it's safe to conclude women are superior to men! |
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 9:25am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Franzinni: Bashiru.... There is nothing like toxic masculinity... Those people you sighted as examples up there simply have mental problems and that is it.... Just last week a 13 year old boy just went... And beheaded his mother... Now he is not even yes a man... Will you call that toxic masculinity?
A wife whips out a blade and cut her husband's cock off because he was sexting another woman is she suffering toxic masculinity...
Bashiru... You be man I guess... No dey follow oyinbo proper gate this yamayama... Brainwashing talk... They want all men to begin tie wrapper... For centuries men have claimed that they are more rational than women and women are too emotional and excuse themselves by citing mental problems. Now I'm giving you raw facts. The statistics from police departments worldwide simply prove that men are murderous and have very poor conflict resolution skills. |
Romance › What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 9:09am On Feb 12, 2019*. Modified: 12:35pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
It's best explained with examples:  - Two security guards have an argument over N50, one brings out a plank and hits the other one dead. - Two business men or politicians have a disagreement, one sends the other one assassins. - A man approaches a girl, she rejects the advances, the girl is killed or seriously injured. - A man has a particular political affiliation, he organizes a mass shooting killing many. - Alek Miniassian of Toronto could not find a girlfriend. To express his dissatisfaction he rented a white van, went to a busy section of Toronto and murders over 10 ppl and injured another 10 with the van. - Reckless driving. - In 1989 a Montreal Canada man went to a classroom in Montreal Canada separated the young men from young women and murdered over 10 women by gun shut just because he was against feminism. - el Rufai threatens ppl that "interfere" will go back in body bags- that's toxic masculinity. - I could go on and on. Toxic masculinity affects us all. It's time to strip men of their "Leadership" partriachal privilege since thet are nonsense at it snd are actually murderers and make them accountable. |
Romance › Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by BigBashiru: 9:03am On Feb 12, 2019 |
ubunja: what is toxic masculinity again? - Two security guards have an argument over N50, one brings out a plank and hits the other one dead. - Two business men or politicians have a disagreement, one sends the other one assassins. - A man approaches a girl, she rejects the advances, the girl is killed or seriously injured. - A man loses his job in the US or has a particular political affiliation, he organizes a mass shooting killing many. - Alek Miniassian of Toronto could not find a girlfriend. To express his dissatisfaction he rented a white van, went to a busy section of Toronto and murders over 10 ppl and injured another 10 with the van. - I could go on and on. Toxic masculinity affects us all. |
Romance › Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by BigBashiru: 10:24pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
Alpha male also breeds toxic masculinity. When two men are trying to prove to the other one who is alpha theybkill themselves and the girl is laughing at dem. Mumu men. |
Politics › If You Won't Let A 76 Or 72 Year Old Run Ur Company Operations - Vote Sowore by BigBashiru(op): 9:59pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Suspension Of Nigerian Top Judge Breaches Human Rights - UN by BigBashiru: 3:36pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
Olawalesmarter: These people are very desperate to influence Our Election, UN have now officially Join Wailers Association, Buhari we will and nothing go happen Will you hand over your company for a 76 or 72 year old to run? Answer is no. So hand it to capable Sowore in his 40s. |
Politics › Re: Amosun Ordered Removal Of Dapo Abiodun's Posters (PIC) by BigBashiru: 3:31pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
magoo10: Apc is heavily divided with internal crises in all the 36 states. Confusion fall on them Sai atikuobi Sai Bobo (Sowore) |
Politics › Re: SERAP Responds To Fashola's 'no Corrupt' Electricity Contractor by BigBashiru: 1:23pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
hisexcellency34: SERAP should shut up. All these activists are corrupt You prove the curse d status of blacks.... here is an organization trying to give u light you are asking them to shut up.... same way they said Sowore should start from his lga. I feel for blacks sha. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Begs Nigerians To Reelect Him Ahead Of 2019 Election by BigBashiru: 12:47pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
His judicial coup failed and now he is trying a mind coup on Nigerians..... |
Politics › Re: Buhari Begs Nigerians To Reelect Him Ahead Of 2019 Election by BigBashiru: 12:45pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
MISTAICEY02288: Lmao...
So you can beg for votes again abi? After all the atrocities and evil happenings under your watch You have been rejected already... Where's the 1Naira to 1 dollar promise you made in 2015? Where's the 40 Naira per litre pump price you promised? What about the Boko Haram insurgency you promised to crush? Haven't they gained more power under your regime? How about Fulani Herdsmen? Was it not under your administration those miscreants wrecked havocs? What about the 24/7 electricity supply you promised? How much did you meet a bag of rice, basket of tomatoes and other consumables when you came in and how much are they sold for now?
Buhari there's nothing that can save you from the defeat awaiting you come Saturday by God's grace.
May affliction never rise the 2nd time! Buhari will win if christians don't go out to vote. If you pray but don't vote buhari will win. God is a God of excellence and hard work. Want buhari defeated? Go and vote. Pls note voting is also the affairs of men and God can't rig election miraculously for you (he may but only if it's His sovereign will). You have to go and vote in normal circumstances. |
Politics › Re: FG Begins Expansion, Rehabilitation Works On Lagos-badagry Expressway by BigBashiru: 1:06am On Feb 11, 2019 |
They are always beginning but never completing. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Begs Nigerians To Reelect Him Ahead Of 2019 Election by BigBashiru: 12:52am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Dino98: When I see people on here supporting buhari, I feel ashamed.
You would think that a country with so many intelligent people would not want to be ruled by someone with only WAEC RESULT. Look at other great countries...their leaders attended elite institutes but only in Nigeria can someone who has only fake waec, was in the military and raises cow can be wanted so passionately to rule over the nation.
I'm in no way saying vote Atiku, but Buhari?? Really?? Like, there are millions who want Buhari?? Its just so sad. Buhari is who u want?? In this 21st century?? With all the level of exposure we've gotten?? People can still say they want a man with only WAEC result to lead them?? What da hell?? Like really?? Buhari?? I'm just weak....Buhari o  Because they are bewitched by witchcraft to be voting apc. That's why they use brooms in their rallies. Tinubu said in the recent rally it's a broom revolution. While others are talking of digital revolution he is talking "broom revolution".... they also erected two very large broom structures in abuja before elections which means they are trusting it to beam energy to bewitch the ppl. APC is occultic. It's wen ppl are bewitched that they start shouting sai baba to a waec holder... and a bewitched person doesn't even know they are betwitched they will deny it.. |
Politics › Re: Nairaland 2019 Presidential Election Poll: Voting Thread by BigBashiru: 12:18am On Feb 11, 2019*. Modified: 12:47am On Feb 11, 2019 |
pchukwudi: For starters, the US is not a socialist state. And yes, Government cannot solve your problems sustainably. You need to wake up and take full responsibility for your life.
Neither health insurance (including the universal cover in places like the UK) nor 'basic social security" benefits (as you called it) is free. The rich folks and the middle class pay for these things. And most of those who learn to depend on social welfare for their survival don't get any better at the long run. Instead, they get weaker and worse off both socially and economically.
Nothing gets your ass off the social welfare trap like taking absolute personal responsibility for the outcomes of your life as an individual.
Any society that tilts towards socialism by any standard (with it's usual excessive taxation and regulatory bureaucracy) faces imminent decline in gross productivity and social/economic sustainability.
By the way, having a common sense and very efficient social intervention programs FOR THOSE WHO REALLY NEED IT (like the very old, sick and jobless folks amongst us) - as done in the US - is not the same as running a fundamentally socialist and unrealistic government like Sowore is proposing to do.
So, don't you think it's time to forget all the bull dung that you've been probably fed by your unproductive, lazy-ass, and unhappy teachers?
Please, go and check out the ancient and modern history of Venezuela for a clue. Then stop complaining of looting. They loot since Nigerians like yourself reject welfare so they buy private jets with the money. Take responsibility for your roads and hospitals. You are responsible for your medical care and security. Just hope herdmen don't get you. It's your responsibility to protect urself! And hope you don't get shot by boko haram.. NB: there are several socialist states in the US. Also please note there's a difference between responsible government and socialist state. You are mistaking the later for the former. States like uk that aren't too rich pay for basic social security thru taxes. Oil rich states like Saudi fund social security including govt sponsored schooling thru oil revenues. Also stay back in Nigeria and stop planning to travel abroad that's if you are not already there. I don't want to degenerate to insults so il just stop here and will no longer respond further. |
Politics › Re: Sowore's Social Security Explained - Responsible Govt Or Socialist State? by BigBashiru(op): 12:16am On Feb 11, 2019 |
That's what Africa Action Congress can do for Nigerians! |