Literature › Re: "Desire" By John Mfon by bigbauer(m): 1:40pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
Noblejohn32: Oga I'm trying my best but the fact is there is no motivation from the readers and i find it reluctant to update. and i don't understand what you meant in ibibio Oga, what kind of motivation are you looking for? Trust me, if you're waiting for others to motivate you to do something, it means the thing isn't worth doing. If it's worth doing, you'll do it with all of you. If you don't believe in yourself, why should I believe in you? Your updates are so inconsistent both in length and timing. Maybe you should just close the thread, since you're neither motivated nor inspired. |
Literature › Re: Out Of The Blue by bigbauer(m): 9:39pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Pls asides Okadabooks how else do I pay for the book? I need it |
Business › Re: How To Ship Goods From 1688 To Nigeria,sell Online Without Physically Seeing It by bigbauer(m): 11:50am On Dec 11, 2019 |
@gideon286, what has this thr ad turned to? #tugrow the complains about you is getting out of hand, and your recent attitude of attacking your clients is beneath a serious businessman. #puskin #naijacutee #dominique #FOD the spamming in this thread is too much, please help sanitize the thread. |
Literature › Re: My Adventure As A Corper In Plateau State Jos by bigbauer(m): 8:10am On Dec 11, 2019 |
Mykeldayo, hmm, I never knew I was a cool headed guy  . Guess I’ll ask my wife and kids about your assertion. Thanks bro, I like how you’ve decid d to add substance to the story, a huge relief from the ‘Bang wam’ the story was becoming. 1 Like |
Literature › Re: Amazing November by bigbauer(m): 9:45am On Dec 09, 2019 |
God bless you richly. This is worth reading, full of deep and meaningful lessons. I’m not surprised, it’s evident that you’re enjoying your relationship with the Holy Spirit. |
Literature › Re: My Adventure As A Corper In Plateau State Jos by bigbauer(m): 1:42pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
Wow, thanks for the updates. It's getting a bit better than the bang wham that had 'almost' characterized the story. |
Literature › Re: "Desire" By John Mfon by bigbauer(m): 12:15pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
Update oo |
Literature › Re: "Ocean Of Secrets" A Story By Millieademi by bigbauer(m): 4:14pm On Dec 07, 2019 |
Milieademi wow. Wish I wasn't the one saying this, but you've disappointed me, I wasn't expecting this from you. I mean back to back updates no excuses, no delays? You got me floored. Hmm, this is the way to treat naysayers, you allow your success do the talking. Thanks. And hope this isn't one of those moments you just do some good, next thing you've relapsed to excuses and mediocrity?  1 Like |
Business › Re: How To Buy In 1688.com Chinese Store To Nigeria Yourself Without Agents Help by bigbauer(m): 11:36am On Dec 04, 2019 |
arimahoseloka: Am still waiting for my goods (battery product) to land at EMCA Lagos office. Can you help me out? In what way do you need my help? |
Literature › Re: "Desire" By John Mfon by bigbauer(m): 3:20pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
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Literature › Re: Rebirth by bigbauer(m): 3:19pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
tracyberry: Gimme a minute A minute has turned to hours. Tracyberry we're waiting o |
Literature › Re: Rebirth by bigbauer(m): 10:47am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Wow, I never knew you still remembered this thread. Thanks |
Literature › Re: "Desire" By John Mfon by bigbauer(m): 5:34pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Thanks, I couldn't help but observe you rushed it. Don't allow the clamour for updates make you post just anything. Whatever that's worth doing is worth doing well. |
Literature › Re: "Desire" By John Mfon by bigbauer(m): 5:01pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Noblejohn32: Chapter 9 loading........... Waiting, patience not one of my strengths when it has to do with ready. |
Literature › Re: "Ocean Of Secrets" A Story By Millieademi by bigbauer(m): 6:20pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
millieademi: Hi guys.
Wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow!!!!!!!!
:O
I can't believe this. Over a hundred thousand views. I'm blushing and crying. Thanks guys. You're the bomb.
I really wish I could give you the update I planned. Honestly, I don't know who sent me message. I started using Google Docs yesterday and now I can't retrieve my document and I can't copy the file.
I'm sorry for being a sorry excuse for an OP. By tomorrow hopefully I'd update.
Love you guys. Today is that tomorrow you promised. 1 Like |
Literature › Re: Amazing November by bigbauer(m): 11:29am On Dec 01, 2019 |
Wow, this is deep. Like deep 1 Like |
Literature › Re: "Desire" By John Mfon by bigbauer(m): 6:17am On Dec 01, 2019 |
oluwatymylehyn, Babsopey, BlissfulJeff, Atayis, rdvubiGoldenprinz, Tife101, wizsolzy, ikombe, Sammyfreshsmooth, Shakyroh320, Missmossy. holufunmie, harunablezin, damis28crown, marvwhite, olatex25, evajael, aminzy, damis28crown, eniqurl, princessadeola, jane1234f, musampa73, herosakin777, chizzymaris, alamiendagash, yungtemy, dtobs, wizsolzy, ikombe, azeequeen, lilyjoe567, nikz, heemah, queenitee, zika1, holuwanoisy111, angelinastto, hormobolanle, yewandequeen, damibiz, dannybomb, xolocious and TheblessedMAN, don't miss this. 1 Like |
Literature › Re: "Ocean Of Secrets" A Story By Millieademi by bigbauer(m): 8:28pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Ochyglowsglows: Mimi, you're doing an exceptionally amazing work with this piece. I really do applaud you because I know what it means to write. I have about 5 stories in my head, that I have been so lazy to put to paper. So I appreciate writer's a lot. Ignore the sarcasms, don't let it get to you. I'd be glad if I can get your contact. ☺ Cheers. Aunty, please leave the stories in your head. We have more than an abundant supply of uncompleted stories here already. Writing is not by force. If you lack the discipline to complete your stories, spare us the trauma 1 Like |
Literature › Re: "Desire" By John Mfon by bigbauer(m): 10:45am On Nov 29, 2019 |
WILLYBABS, abefe99, olujuwonj, stardomberry, sirblero, Shakyroh320, Babsopey, toboski1, Missmossy, OMO1234567, Daniluv2k4, fattprince, Hargbo, xtanlee, sirfolarin, nikkybeez, PopoolaTaiwo, saxwizard, livingimage, Prinxxdave, OLAFIMIX, oluwatymylehyn, MzDarocha, Sainttops, wizzybro10, Tife101, jwlawn, OlufemiWhit, Ridwan1821, dexzzy, LeMubs, SPDAZZY, tosyne2much, holufunmie, Vickiey192, Qasaforlife, Toyibtaw, spixytinxy, pcicero, oluangelkay, Iamfelicia, Just30, lillyana, Nmaglit, BEAMBOR13, tonye72, gentlebeeholar, mofy1, Precial419, Hundreddegrees, swanky47
Come and see!! Invite others |
Literature › Re: "Ocean Of Secrets" A Story By Millieademi by bigbauer(m): 10:29am On Nov 29, 2019 |
millieademi: Ok. I don't know if this is a crass joke or it's meant to be offensive. Sarcasm and jokes are usually lost on me. I will keep calm as per civility.
Dude, I am holiday. I am not in school anymore where there is practically uninterrupted power supply. We've not had light here for going to a week. And I charge my phone at night to use for my research work. Besides, I have things at home I am doing that take up my time. And sometimes there is no inspiration. What exactly do you want me to do?
Last week, I said I was feeling under the weather and not so strong. So please be considerate..
I sincerely apologise if I misunderstood your comment. Like I said earlier, sarcasm is usually lost on me. Wish I can say I understand your plight, guess I do. Anyway, here goes: As an average Nairalander, we see a story we like we follow, and when we follow, all what we want is regular consistent updates. Trust me, we're not concerned with or about your personal drama and situations. You don't like it that way, don't write interesting stories. And as for the power issue, MTN has a solution, or you try other channels. Summary is, this story is making sense, I want regular updates. Well done 1 Like |
Literature › Re: "Ocean Of Secrets" A Story By Millieademi by bigbauer(m): 3:32pm On Nov 28, 2019 |
Tenimade: When should we be expecting the next page/chapter November 2049, and the story will be completed by March 3049. I wish you eternity |
Literature › Re: KINGS 2(battleground) by bigbauer(m): 3:30pm On Nov 28, 2019 |
Thanks silver1996, hibernating till 2020, to check for updates and then 2021 to complete the story. This really is a story for the gods coz I believe it's only the gods that'll live long enough to finish this ancestral narration. |
Literature › Re: "Desire" By John Mfon by bigbauer(m): 2:44pm On Nov 28, 2019 |
PrudySara, Kikiwendy, crislyn, Do4luv14, Noblejohn32, Queenitee, khriztarl, skubido, Asemark, Ann2012, Treasure17 y'all need to see this. 2 Likes |
Business › Re: How To Buy In 1688.com Chinese Store To Nigeria Yourself Without Agents Help by bigbauer(m): 11:22pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Aleora: how did you go about it,are they the one that made the purchase?I want to try them but with all this negative review on Christi and nbc am scared .. Use EMCA logistics. And get peace of mind. They procure and ship. |
Business › Re: How To Buy In 1688.com Chinese Store To Nigeria Yourself Without Agents Help by bigbauer(m): 11:21pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
itzzkhaliii: May be at the right place pls how much will it cost for this battery to be delivered to me at Lagos including payment,shipping and delivery. https:// m.1688.com/offer/594212717293.html?sk=consign&&spm=a26g8.7664810.0.0 you can remove the space 6,703+ just assume 8-10k with shipping for the two. Two is minimum or quantity from the link you gave |
Literature › Re: "Desire" By John Mfon by bigbauer(m): 11:02pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Well-done, let's see how the updates go, I'll send invites. But let's see first. |
Literature › Re: The Hole In The Wall by bigbauer(m): 10:47pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Hmm, so finally we have souloho19 the resurrection! Wish I can be happy for real, unfortunately, the just thinking "who knows which year he'll post another update" keeps tearing my heart. Good update anyways 1 Like |
Education › Re: I Need Help With NOUN by bigbauer(m): 4:48pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Ftc |
Literature › Re: "Desire" By John Mfon by bigbauer(m): 3:00pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Noblejohn32: Please, i need comments Ghost readers identify! Ah beg Oga, update your thread, leave comments. I know it's natural, you want to see your thread alive. You want to see comments especially to be praised and also criticised. Unfortunately, you're putting the cart before the horse. Your updates are inconsistent to say the least, and scanty. Do your part and you'll be surprised at the followers and comments the story will get. Nice story by the way. Just don't spoil with with inconsistent updates. |
Business › Re: How To Ship Goods From 1688 To Nigeria,sell Online Without Physically Seeing It by bigbauer(m): 2:55pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
felibrain: First, we don't do inferior work - that's a general rule for us.
Regarding your question, I have mentioned the features earlier in a comment on this thread but as a recap, here's the basics:
-Online payment system -PoD option for your customers -Email notification system for both you and your customers -Inventory management system -Live chat integration (if you want it) -Coupon codes and discount system -Blog integration -Mobile friendly interface -Easy site management (we will teach you how to run the site and do stuffs like uploading your products). -And more.
Thank you. Aiit boss. |
Literature › Re: KINGS 2(battleground) by bigbauer(m): 10:39pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
This story is becoming an ancient of days, even stories that have become ancestors in the literature section are calling this story their ancestral ancestor 1 Like |
Romance › Re: How Do We Test True Love? by bigbauer(m): 9:44am On Nov 23, 2019 |
OladimejiRufai: Well, I have an advice for you my boy @OP
From this moment, stop looking for true love
I'm not implying that you cannot find it but stop looking for it.
Rather start looking for a lady who is psychologically wired to always do the right thing and has a very advanced understanding of life.
See, in most cases, love is transient.
Sometimes, people fall in love because they fell into a moment where they perceived something that touched their heart from the other person. And then moments later, they find out that the feelings are lost.
sometimes, people fall in love because there's constant communication or commitment between both persons and they are just lost in the fun of it and think they are in love. If something happens that distracts one of them from achieving the constant communication or commitment to the other person, they find that they lose the love gradually.
sometimes, people's love for another person is usually connected to some features of that person that fascinates them or blows them away.
"oh, the guy is funny." "the girl is intelligent" "the guy is charming" "the girl is georgous" e.t.c and they continue to fall in love so far these qualities are present. But what happens when they lose those qualities or those qualities gradually fade away? that's how the love will also be lost or will gradually fade away.
So in most cases, love is transient. This is proven by the many broken relationships where you hear from both sides that they have fallen out of love.
So if a person were to enter a marriage because of love, he or she is likely to be no more interested in the marriage eventually and may crave attention or love elsewhere and may want to break up the marriage.
That's the reason why I said you should look for someone with a larger and better understanding of life and who is psychologically wired to do the right thing.
this is because when it gets to the stage in a marriage where both spouses have fallen out of love, for people who do not fulfil the said criteria (no understanding of life or being wired to do the right thing), they would want to break up or would start seeking love elsewhere and they many end up cheating etc.
But for someone who fulfils that criteria;
- someone who understands that this life is not a bed of roses and it is not everything you want that you get;
- someone who understands that the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to love rather it is to show care, support each other, become responsible, help each other achieve desired goals and for mankind to multiply (procreation);
- someone who understands that there is time for everything and there are some certain pleasures that should not be sought at all stages of life or the pleasures should be limited at some point in time (imagine a 45 year old woman complaining that her husband doesn't take her out for shopping or so like he used to when she was still 25 when she should be more concerned about caring for the kids that she didn't have then but have now and focus on making them successful in life)
- someone who understands that this life itself is a place of trials and there'll always be sour times or times when you would have to forgo your heart desires for the right thing to be done;
- someone who understands that the pleasures of the hereafter are far greater than those of this life and is more concerned about that and because of that, he or she gives up some pleasures in this world just for the right thing to be done.
- someone who has values, who understands cheating is bad, who understands that it is an evil thing to extort or deceive a partner for personal gains, who knows how to control anger and doesn't expect perfection from the other partner, who understands that for a marriage to work, both sides must be committed to it, who understands that deceiving a partner and extorting him should not be the measure by which you "make it in life", and who is psychologically wired to follow all those values;
So for someone who has a better understanding of life and is wired to do the right thing, such are the people who stay in a marriage when there's no more "love" or when they have fallen out of love and continue to try everything to make it work till the end.
So this is what you should be looking for, for "true love" Is scarce.
If eventually you are able to find true love in a partner that fulfils the above criteria, then consider it a plus, consider it a blessing and thank God for it.
My piece! Quadratic Gbam! |