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OladimejiRufai:
Well, I have an advice for you my boy @OP

From this moment, stop looking for true love

I'm not implying that you cannot find it but stop looking for it.

Rather start looking for a lady who is psychologically wired to always do the right thing and has a very advanced understanding of life.

See, in most cases, love is transient.

Sometimes, people fall in love because they fell into a moment where they perceived something that touched their heart from the other person. And then moments later, they find out that the feelings are lost.

sometimes, people fall in love because there's constant communication or commitment between both persons and they are just lost in the fun of it and think they are in love. If something happens that distracts one of them from achieving the constant communication or commitment to the other person, they find that they lose the love gradually.

sometimes, people's love for another person is usually connected to some features of that person that fascinates them or blows them away.

"oh, the guy is funny." "the girl is intelligent" "the guy is charming" "the girl is georgous" e.t.c and they continue to fall in love so far these qualities are present. But what happens when they lose those qualities or those qualities gradually fade away? that's how the love will also be lost or will gradually fade away.

So in most cases, love is transient. This is proven by the many broken relationships where you hear from both sides that they have fallen out of love.

So if a person were to enter a marriage because of love, he or she is likely to be no more interested in the marriage eventually and may crave attention or love elsewhere and may want to break up the marriage.

That's the reason why I said you should look for someone with a larger and better understanding of life and who is psychologically wired to do the right thing.

this is because when it gets to the stage in a marriage where both spouses have fallen out of love, for people who do not fulfil the said criteria (no understanding of life or being wired to do the right thing), they would want to break up or would start seeking love elsewhere and they many end up cheating etc.

But for someone who fulfils that criteria;

- someone who understands that this life is not a bed of roses and it is not everything you want that you get;

- someone who understands that the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to love rather it is to show care, support each other, become responsible, help each other achieve desired goals and for mankind to multiply (procreation);

- someone who understands that there is time for everything and there are some certain pleasures that should not be sought at all stages of life or the pleasures should be limited at some point in time (imagine a 45 year old woman complaining that her husband doesn't take her out for shopping or so like he used to when she was still 25 when she should be more concerned about caring for the kids that she didn't have then but have now and focus on making them successful in life)

- someone who understands that this life itself is a place of trials and there'll always be sour times or times when you would have to forgo your heart desires for the right thing to be done;

- someone who understands that the pleasures of the hereafter are far greater than those of this life and is more concerned about that and because of that, he or she gives up some pleasures in this world just for the right thing to be done.

- someone who has values, who understands cheating is bad, who understands that it is an evil thing to extort or deceive a partner for personal gains, who knows how to control anger and doesn't expect perfection from the other partner, who understands that for a marriage to work, both sides must be committed to it, who understands that deceiving a partner and extorting him should not be the measure by which you "make it in life", and who is psychologically wired to follow all those values;

So for someone who has a better understanding of life and is wired to do the right thing, such are the people who stay in a marriage when there's no more "love" or when they have fallen out of love and continue to try everything to make it work till the end.

So this is what you should be looking for, for "true love" Is scarce.

If eventually you are able to find true love in a partner that fulfils the above criteria, then consider it a plus, consider it a blessing and thank God for it.

My piece!

Quadratic Gbam!

felibrain:
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When you say "a full featured e-commerce site" what and what does it entail? And are you giving a custom coded solutions, or you'll be rolling out some cheap if not free templates?

What's the support structure like, will your full featured e-commerce site have a chat bot?
Auto responder? Inventory and order tracking for both client and Admin?

Please educate me, what's your definition of "a full featured e-commerce site"?

Taeewo:
Bro always advise people to learn how to test the efficacy of any product like this before selling with huge profit .

No be profit matters cus she has gotten her money tru the ads but cant confirm if it will work or not.

I already saw this R to R products (They have different types of skin product) and i imported just 3 to test it with the SCAR am having,this the third week am using it and the scar never comot..If the thing no remove my scar,i will never sell it to someone.

I bought the stretch mark cream too n gave some who is having it for a test.

It's clearly stated on the product that a treatment course takes 3packs. Used in the morning and evening continuously.

Just like you wouldn't miss your conventional medication and may need to take a certain dosage to get the required results.

By the way, I also ordered for same product, about 50pieces. And I got mine a bit expensive because I didn't completely heed to OP's instructions.

If you think the product isn't working good for you. Check the reviews on Amazon.com.

If you think gideon286 will teach you ALL you need to know about mini importation, well, your case is different, it just like expecting a school anywhere on Earth will teach you all you need to know about your chosen course of study.

There's a word called "Personal development" you should look it up. Lastly, there's this phrase millennials use I believe it goes "Google is your friend"

Sarelene:
Lol... Funny

Are your data plans genuine? And what's the guarantee?

HOSTCOM:
I will advise the admin here not to ban me again o cos what I'm about to ditch o

Look for C24/7 and use. That's all I used. Then maintain hygiene.

**Don't mind my composition jare**

Power!
Grabee!

Good more earnings

yesloaded:
Contact us on WhatsApp 08137750741

who has used Yesloades before? Are they reliable??

@gideon286 how do I pay for the paid classes/ coaching?? I need it urgently

DadaStephen1:
It won't fly
It's a copied job.

I thought I was the only one that saw it till I posted a reply and saw your comment. Both designs are nice but not unique.

The second design is fine. However, the challenge still remains that both designs are not unique to me. The first design can be mistaken for Ram's logo from a distance, the second design looks like foton logo. They should create something very unique, think Access Bank's logo. Something in a class of its own. Just saying.

To some degree it looks a bit like Ram's logo. It's nice though.

Carmit:
The problem is have you seen any one with 'AfriOne' smartphones??

I heard about this company about a year ago and till now I haven't seen the phone

It's sad cos I don't want this to die like some other companies have

nPower gave their Tablet Devices. Surprisingly, the devices are sleek and durable.

dfrost:
Guy easy on him. People are passing through depression. He's already frustrated with the situation of things. Let's not compound issues for him.

Let love lead. Shalom.

Aiit, love leading, and the rod of correction is closely following behind. ���

Yemmy94:
How can the prority of a department in the university is to reduce student.
What is there gain?
Does this make them the best department?
Why will they allow lot of student to be admitted into the department and next thing they want to do is reduce them again.
This department is a big mess and something need to be done about this.
Even the 400 level student are already having an extra year while the ones that had an extra year before is having another one again�
This is painful and tragic�
Please better advice the 100level student to change department because most of them can't survive it.
Lot of them are starting with 2 point and there are low chances dey will survive.


CSC IS A BIG MESS
I PUT IT ON THIS FUCKING DEPARTMENT!!!!!

Oag, this your grammar, hmmm. I wonder who lectured you on use of English. More so, how did you pass from JSS1 to UTME? With the likes of you in a department, why won't the department load shed? Dead weight is a thing.

gideon286:
A newbie doesn't actually need all these HTML and CSS bla bla bla to develop a good single product sales page website. Everything is now drag and drop. Even the email marketing automation.

True but not exactly the best option. Drag and drop doesn't give enough back end control.

However, when properly executed, it's an acceptable way to start especially when running on a shoe string budget.

felibrain:
Nothing really so bad about the page. Just that it looks very basic and white like something designed by a new HTML student.

Again, what's the "view content" at the top for? The time there is totally unnecessary as it does not even count down on mobile, just static and boring. The Canvas menu button makes a mess of your work as it doesn't trigger properly on mobile because you failed to use some Javascript commands there. I suggest you remove it.

What's the phone number for? People won't copy that. You said CLICK HERE TO ORDER and then you lead them to another page with a phone number to WhatsApp? No one has time for all that stress.

You should have an order form right there on the first page. And if you want them to WhatsApp then the CLICK HERE TO ORDER must be a hyperlink that triggers the WhatsApp app on their phone. So when people click on the link it should just open WhatsApp. People don't have time to copy phone numbers, save to their phone and start searching WhatsApp. Make it easy for them.

Also, if you are going to add a phone number for calls, be sure to add a "tel" attribute to the number, so that tapping on the number will immediately trigger a phone call.

Thanks for the detailed analysis/tutorial. He failed to take a whole lot of things into consideration while developing the site. I guess it's a template poorly customized. Worst is the page isn't "dynamic". Appears bad on mobile and can be said to be scary. He needs to go back to basic HTML and CSS training.

emperorblog21:
critisim is allowed bro.
lemme know what u observe

Go do your homework. Make you're websites 'smart'. 95% of the visitors will be visiting via a mobile device. Your site should be viewable irrespective of the device used.

felibrain:
That's one mistake many people make. Your PC can make you feel you've done a great job but your phone will always tell if you are still a learner or a pro. The sad truth being that 80% of people who will visit the page or website will do so on their phone. And if they don't find your site to be user friendly they will quickly close it.

They think web design begins and ends with a free WordPress theme.

emperorblog21:
Landing page i created for one member here.


www.billamostores.com

Have you seen what your sweet landing page looks like on mobile?

OlufemiWhit:
bro 07038613533 hit me up on whatsapp

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