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WebmastersRe: Choosing A Reliable And Efficient Web Hosting And Domain Registration platform. by bigbauer(m): 8:21am On Apr 18, 2023
fnep2smooth:
No Nigeria hosting ? grin


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Link to your github profile?
FamilyRe: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by bigbauer(m): 5:28pm On Apr 08, 2023
EmmyDJourno:
Pray oO, the attacks first sons experience no be here
This particular attack is coming from the young man's family. His father and mother to be precise
FamilyRe: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by bigbauer(m):
NeoWanZaeed:
When you are not a father.
You have no idea what it costs.

Go and kill your father because he punished you.

We know your type. Your father abuses you badly. Mentally and physically..

Keyboard warrior
Dude you're wrong, the family, matter of fact, the entire family did that boy great harm. What's the career prospects for pharmacists in Nigeria? How many pharmacist have produced a drug in Nigeria? Yet still, how many pharmaceutical companies are producing even vitamin C in Nigeria? What if that boy is an inventor? Do you know what living below your potential feels like? Can you imagine what living below your capability because your father, the one person who should help you fulfil your destiny is bent on truncating it would feel like?

Why is the man trying to make his son become the scapegoat for his failures? He has seen that others are making more money and living a better life than he is, as a result he decided to relive his life through his son not minding the fact that the son has a different pathway.

booksbo0k you failed as a mother and wife. You should be blamed too, what did you do and or where did you fit in while the future of this young man (I don't want to use the words "your son"wink was being used as an experimental copy?

If I were the guy in question, I would've left you guys immediately after he came home for COVID-19 break. You guys don't deserve him, and he's right, he doesn't belong to that family.


PS: I have children already, so I know what it means to be a father and a son too.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Dear Interviewee, Tell Me About Yourself. by bigbauer(m): 4:31pm On Mar 28, 2023
Ndleabilli:
I'm good with UI design
can you share your GitHub link?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Dear Interviewee, Tell Me About Yourself. by bigbauer(m): 4:04pm On Mar 28, 2023
Ndleabilli:
Hello everyone, I recently relocated to Lagos and I'm actively seeking job opportunities as a HND holder in Metallurgical Engineering with completed NYSC and skills in website design, PHP programming, and graphics design. I am open to any work opportunities and Please contact me.
add python, solidity, UI/UX and data analytics and you would become a highly skilled full-stack developer. And web 3.0 will welcome you with open arms.
PropertiesRe: How Did You Fund Building Of Your First Duplex & How Long Did It Take? by bigbauer(m): 5:38pm On Mar 11, 2023
ZombieSlayer1:
I build web apps that people subscribe to use. Currently have 4 different ones. Mostly focused on marketing, though I have a travel agency too. This is aside my software development agency in US and UK. I also run other smaller businesses too. I run a dog kennel. I breed and sell dogs though I do this one mostly as a hobby. The key is to diversify so money comes from different angles
Do you have specific breeds? I need a male Caucasian Shepherd.
HealthRe: Midlife Crisis: Am I Slowly Becoming Addicted To Alcohol? by bigbauer(m): 4:39pm On Mar 03, 2023
gard9ner:
I never realised that alcohol can be this enjoyable, all my life I’ve always detested ppl that drink, whenever the topic comes up I always remember a certain wealthy man when I was younger, even with all his wealth he would drink himself to stupor every night and vomit, his driver would have to carry him, it was a very bad experience as neighbours to witness those nights especially as a young boy. So I concluded that drinking is unacceptable and I grew up with that ideology, not until recently I’ve started having a rethink.

For sometime now, especially couple of weeks ago leading to last Saturday’s election, I’ve been having a difficult time, I feel like I’m drowning sometimes, maybe it’s midlife’s crisis I don’t know, I don’t know how that feels but what I know is that I was gifted a bottle of expensive vodka last week and I accepted knowing fully well what I was getting into, I knew I was going to step into another phase in my life, I could have sold the drink but no, I kept it.

Like I said already, it’s been rough with me lately, the current cash crunch in the country isn’t helping, the last strew came when last Saturday’s election was announced by 4am, I was awake watching, it struck me like a bolt of lighting, I felt speechless physically but this deep hurt like my soul was groaning. Fast forward to date, I’ve consumed a couple of bottles like bloody mary, VSOP and other spirits which I mix in chilled soft drinks. I so much enjoy this new habit, I can never drink to stupor, I just lock up myself in my lounge, play some music and sip away or lock myself in my car at night and sip with music, I stop when I start feeling a bit sleepy, I just sleep quietly and peacefully. My wife just smells the stuff on me but hasn’t said anything, as I still talk reasonably and even engage her with more humor in those hours, I’ve also noticed that the house is stress-free, no arguments or hard conversations when I consume too.

Here’s my problem guys, deep inside me I know I’m doing something wrong, which is why I’m posting this anyway, even though I feel peaceful when I consume. I wasn’t raised this way, my father was never an alcohol person. I feel something is wrong and somehow I feel like I’m drowning and need help (laughs). I don’t know if this will get worse overtime or if I might be tempted to do more than this in future. I know I can never do drugs, smoke etc but this highness things is eating me, I just finished the last bottle of Strumbras spirit now which I shared with a visitor, I now think it’s even more pleasurable sharing a drink with someone. I’ve ran out of bottles now and I’m considering restocking but I’m led by the spirit to post this, I don’t want preaching, I just want to read other ppl’s comment and experience and how they navigated this phase of life (midlife crisis), preferably elders in the house if any, if you’re 40 and below and have no useful contribution pls don’t comment. I need this to get to FP. Thanks.
watch this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YtnQq6byng4
ComputersRe: My Pc Is Displaying This, How Do I Solve It (with Picture) by bigbauer(m): 12:42pm On Feb 26, 2023
Greyworld:
I'm sorry I mentioned on a different thread with same issue. I didn't see this before.

This is what I got
Your Hard Disk Drive is disconnected, pull it out and push it in again. (remember to shut down first)
PetsRe: Caucasian Shepherd Dog Owner's Thread by bigbauer(m): 10:15am On Feb 23, 2023
Walekennel:
09023199287
DM me
Thanks
PetsRe: Caucasian Shepherd Dog Owner's Thread by bigbauer(m): 8:49pm On Feb 22, 2023
I am in need of a 3-4 months pure breed (big bone) male black fur Caucasian Shepherd
PetsRe: Caucasian Shepherd Dog Owner's Thread by bigbauer(m): 8:47pm On Feb 22, 2023
Walekennel:
Champion and maxi
My boys
Age?
PhonesRe: This Starlink Is Expensive To Maintain by bigbauer(m): 1:02pm On Feb 16, 2023
HitRun:
The reason for the cap is to ensure it remains a residential plan. No matter how many devices or how heavy you use it, one house can never exceed the 1TB threshold in a month.
As a matter of principle, I tend to avoid blanket statements (generalisations). You don't know what each household usage could be. There are homes with Ip cameras, smart doorbells, smart homes, tv, refrigerators etc. Personally we use about 600gb monthly at home, that's because we are being very frugal with data.

I was expecting and hoping that Starlinks would be uncapped, I must say that it's disappointing.
PetsRe: Adult Caucasian For Sale. 120k by bigbauer(m): 12:42am On Feb 08, 2023
lateefGRDT:
male 6 weeks
Pure breed
Too young, I have a 7months old female already. I need a 4-5months old black male.
PetsRe: Adult Caucasian For Sale. 120k by bigbauer(m): 8:25pm On Feb 05, 2023
windvane:
I have 1,2 years 400k
That's an adult already, anything above 4months isn't safe for me. An ideal age would be 7-12weeks but I don't want to go through the stress of nursing a puppy at that age again. It has to be a black 3-4months old male pure breed Caucasian Shepherd puppy
PetsRe: Adult Caucasian For Sale. 120k by bigbauer(m): 2:55pm On Feb 04, 2023
lateefGRDT:
Healthy Caucasian puppies for sale
Age and sex?

I need a 3-4 months solid (big bone) Caucasian Shepherd male. I preferably black. Must be pure breed.
PetsRe: Caucasian Shepherd Dog Owner's Thread by bigbauer(m): 2:41pm On Feb 04, 2023
What happened to this thread?
LiteratureRe: Adventures With Theresa 18+ by bigbauer(m): 2:16pm On Feb 03, 2023
Wow, this is a great story! I really enjoyed reading it. I hope you can post more updates frequently.
I love the last update
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EducationRe: “Our Client Wanted To Say Pupsy"– Lawyer Writes To Federal Polytechnic Nekede by bigbauer(m): 8:33pm On Feb 01, 2023
Peritome:
Not true.. On the keyboard, if you've mastered the keys, P & S are nowhere close.

Anyways, she's got a smart lawyer.
Auto correct never do you strong thing before. "Pupsy" no dey gkeyboard. Mine auto corrected to "push". It would've been "pussy" if I type the word frequently.

Nevertheless, the girl has become an answer to the lawyer's prayer.
HealthRe: My Son Has Chickenpox. What Must Have Caused It? by bigbauer(m): 6:33pm On Jan 31, 2023
360command:
You can't use those antibiotics you mentioned above to cure a virus infection like chickenpox. How can you use a drug for bacteria to cure virus.. why do people like you give false information.
My apologies, sorry for spreading false information. I was only sharing what has worked for us. From experience, Chicken pox has no cure, like I said it runs its full course, but ampicillin helps reduce the effects. Do have a nice day.
HealthRe: My Son Has Chickenpox. What Must Have Caused It? by bigbauer(m): 4:51pm On Jan 30, 2023
MaryAye:
I recently noticed my boy complaining of itching on his back. When I checked I noticed is boil. I quickly googled it and found out is chickenpox.

I took him to a chemist and it was diagnosed as one. Please house what must have caused it?

Picture attached.

Viewer discretion nlfpmod
I would strongly suggest that everyone in your household should take Ampicilin or Amoxil. The best you can do for the child is get some pain relievers and also something to stop itching. ChickenPox runs its full circle, with severe itching being the last part of that circle, once the itching sets in, know that it has almost run full circle. It's a communicable disease, so ensure you all take antibiotics and vitamin C.

Try not to open the the blisters else it may scar for life.
EducationRe: I Finally Signed Out At 42 by bigbauer(m): 10:11am On Jan 27, 2023
Toktee:
Born and raised by parents that sees education as total waste of time.
From primary to secondary school no one was there for me but God.
I dropped out of secondary school six times because of money.
I also dropped out of college of education once, but later graduate.

If an orphan like me can do it, you can do it.
Never give up on your dreams.
Congratulations sir, I am super proud of you. Cheers!!
RomanceRe: Why Do Female Always Do This? by bigbauer(m): 10:09am On Jan 27, 2023
Samantha123:
If you really miss those days then there's a solution, migrate to the Middle East with your entire family, problem solved.
You've proffered a rather interesting solution. Nevertheless, I reserve my comment, but as I said, I have very serious concerns for my grandchildren's generation. This generation is gone already, 6 out of 10 19-35 years old ladies are into one form of prostitution or another. "Runs" has become a "glorified" means of "hustling", and soft to explicit porn has become "content" for reality shows.

The young men are not left out, they've become ritualists and fraudsters so they can "oppress" and "Pepper" them, others are into it as a result of parental pressure; "I want to make Mama proud". Our clergymen have become con artists who milk their members dry through all ways and means. Bribery and corruption have taken root across all strata of our society. Everybody wants to make it big and at the speed of light. Process and procedure be damned, we want it and we want it now. "If you no get money hide your face" is the anthem, as a result, "your face show and your shoes shine" has become the desire of many.

Let me reserve my comment, but I am really concerned about my grandchildren's generation.
RomanceRe: Why Do Female Always Do This? by bigbauer(m): 8:04pm On Jan 26, 2023
Samantha123:
That's because they know that there are perverted guys who are willing to give them money to just see them naked.

At the end of the day, you guys lose your money while their bank accounts get fatter and fatter.

Can you now tell me who's fooling who here? grin grin grin

Most of you guys are perverts to a point that you're even willing to pay half of your salaries just to see a woman naked.
I doubt if this is still applicable today. We are inundated with the sight of naked ladies everywhere. Who needs to pay to see a naked lady when about 75% of them are naked already?

I miss the days when we would imagine what a ladies' breast and nether regions look like, today, it's in the public glare, and absolutely nothing is left to the imagination. "Cleavage," "Yoga pants" and camel toe has become the norm.

I have serious concerns for my grandchildren's generation.
RomanceRe: Why Do Female Always Do This? by bigbauer(m): 3:46pm On Jan 26, 2023
Mercisharelove:
Women and our showing of body parts, why do we always showcase of sensitive body parts.

For me I am different and I will always remain so.
You should've blurred out the armpit mbok, what level of untidiness is this?

BTW, nice dp, I love the headphone.
RomanceRe: Is It Bad To Have Sex With Just One Man In Your Entire Life? by bigbauer(m): 11:23pm On Jan 19, 2023
[quote author=Eliza101 post=120198545][/quote]Best of luck ma'am.
RomanceRe: Is It Bad To Have Sex With Just One Man In Your Entire Life? by bigbauer(m): 11:41am On Jan 19, 2023
Which states get unity for Nigeria like this? Abeg I for like know. Firstly, your grammar gave you away, secondly you're either a male looking for another male to defraud, or you're a jobless female in need of clients to expand your corporate prostitution business..

Whatever be the case, I would strongly suggest that you get yourself a legitimate high income skill. You could improve on your grammar and become an author, you seem to have flare for fiction.

Best of luck.




Eliza101:
Hello everybody , I am a 26 year old female who is from the United states, I have also thought about something that's been bothering me lately , so as you can guess by the title, I am a virgin and I have been feeling Hot lately, which I believe I am ready for sex. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship, I just want to have at least four different boyfriends and have someone/people to be romantic with someone to share intimacy with and to have sex ( just have fun with).

But then again, another side of me is saying , I should wait until marriage before losing my virginity. But even though it is seen as a good thing since purity is valued, a part of me is saying why would a woman wait until marriage before having sex or only have sex with just one man in her entire life. I just think that's boring, at least sleep with two men and even if I wait until marriage before having sex , what if , my future husband ends up divorcing me, what if we separate. what if he ends up running away..... Moreover ,because I'm a virgin, I just feel like I'm missing out, I think I should enjoy my youth/young age , because of course when I get older ( age 40 or over) I will not be or as sexually attractive anymore. At this age of mine, quite a lot of me have told me I'm beautiful, which is something I should take advantage of since beauty fades.

More importantly , I feel as though if a woman sleeps with as many men as she can , I look at that as an accomplishment, like she is very beautiful and attractive. Life should be enjoyed, right? , and I think sex is one of those things, of course I will not sleep with hundreds of different men, but at least 10 and have sex at least twice a month and if I really enjoy it maybe like 1-3 times a week.

I know sex for a man is different , compared to a woman, because men can have sex with a woman without feeling emotionally attached to her, and men have a much higher sex drive than women. As well as this, if I do lose my virginity through pre-marital sex , I think I'm going to be clingy to this specific man generally speaking , I will be too attached to the person. Which is something , I won't like, but I won't be able to help it...and if the man stops speaking to me all of sudden or ignores my text messages , I think that's going to hurt me , which would be strange because even though I will sleep with another man , I feel like I'm going to be so attached to this person because he lost my virginity.

What do you all think , do you think I should just lose my virginity already and have fun or wait until marriage, and to all the men out there what do you make of virgins? and what if you were to find a woman you loved and she told you she wasn't a virgin (didn't have any pre-marital sex) and then you got married and then as soon as you slept with her , you found out she was a virgin ( because you know, blood came out of her...) , what would you make of such a person, the fact she told you she wasn't a virgin, but indeed is. Would you dislike her for lying.

We only live once , so why would a woman just have sex with just one man in her entire life, I know when I get married , I wouldn't want to sleep with other men but my husband, so the fact I am not married, still single , why not be in a open relationship and have sex?, and to tell you the truth, I know three men who have told me they would have sex with me, because I am beautiful and attractive, but the thing is these people think I am not a virgin... Of course I have to use contraceptive and he has to use a condom , so I don't get pregnant.....etc

I want to have sex , but at the same time , I'm so nervous, I am aware there are women out there who have lost their virginity as young as 16, and I don't know why , but compared to them (those teenage non-virgin females) I feel immature, I'm ashamed of myself, I feel ugly even though I have been told I'm beautiful and I think being in an open relationship will make me feel beautiful and sexy, I think it's special when a woman is desired by men especially if it by a lot of men, and to have several men tell me they would have sex with me , is such a compliment, it makes me feel happy inside.

Guys, help me out , what do you think is the right thing for me to do. I don't want to die as a virgin. I want opinions from both male and females .
BusinessRe: Cooking Gas Price Increases By 61% by bigbauer(m): 5:40pm On Oct 27, 2022
Advision:
Nlng is probably the largest player in the market and they are probably selling at a common wholesale price same way your pepsi and fanta is sold. So, every wholesaler can get at same price but since the cost of running a business is higher in the south than north, southern retailers build a larger margin into their selling price, making it more expensive in the south
This is the most plausible comment/explanation about this issue.
EducationRe: I Need A Co-founder That Can Bring A Great Ideas by bigbauer(m): 8:23pm On Oct 14, 2022
obawaya:
i want to start up a fintech company. Something rare and different yet would likely be in high demand - doesn’t matter if it’s a commercial idea, crypto or banking. If you got that special idea kindly hmu and if good i will pay for it or we partner together to make it a reality. Thank you
This is a pretty great idea, one question though; what's your budget for capex and opex? I am asking because I have access to very good devs, and I may know one or two people in the crytpo space.
RomanceRe: . by bigbauer(m): 4:15pm On Oct 05, 2022
Maysdevices:
Imagine a woman with the same thought processes as you? Double your net worth, double your joy. Less money spent on airheads. Two heads are always better than one.
This is golden, you've just echoed something that I've been telling people for years. People need to understand that a person's thought process is one of the biggest assets/liabilities that person has.
RomanceRe: See The Mail I Just Received Today From Pakistan Woman. I Can't Trust Her by bigbauer(m): 4:39pm On Sep 30, 2022
ahmedsaniadamu:
should I reply her or not I don't want to fall in scammers hand.

Assalam Alaikum, It's my pleasure to meet you, I like being open to you, I'm a woman who sees life, I've been in social life for many years, not really what is important in our lives, regardless of one's age, color, religion or success; Care, love, sincerity, loyalty, reliability and expression.

The most important thing in this life, the most beautiful thing God has ever created for me, is never seen, I just felt in my heart, I worked hard all my life, I have to think of something better, to enjoy my life and possibly have a family, maybe move to other places You should start investing, Anyway, I want to tell you a little bit, My name is Zenab Rahman Abdul, I am from Pakistan, I was born in Muzaffarabad Pakistan and I left Pakistan at the age of 12 Years, I am a Senior Account officer / banker at Al Rayan Bank of England Plc, I lost my only 4-year-old daughter.

I got married but my ex-husband married another woman who caused our divorce, but that was no problem, because he accused me of being busy working as a banker, I didn't have time for him, but he refused. To understand that I was pursuing a purpose, I told him that I will resign soon and that we would have enough time for each other, but he was impatient, but between us, I'm happy because I have everything I need, That's why I'm thinking of moving into your country to invest and maybe managing a little company myself. I have.

Serving God is my greatest priority in life, because I believe that nothing exists without God's permission, which makes me believe in the joy of a friendship that gives me the opportunity to know me. So how do you connect with life? How's your country? When I was young, I did not have the opportunity to be out of England after leaving my country from Pakistan; I hope that knowing you will one day create a way for me to be there by the grace of Allah.

It's a bit about myself, and I hope you'll tell me about you, what you really do and your position at work, your marital status, Happy to read from your country of origin. Your nation, everything you need to know about. Please, I'm definitely here for friendship, and I'm more than time.
Please, I would like to see any of your new pictures.

Thank you,
I would like to hear from you soon.
Yours  
Zenab Rahman Abdul.
Nigerian grammar littered all over the write-up.
SportsRe: Ime Udoka Faces Suspension Over Consensual intimate relationship With Team Staff by bigbauer(m): 7:50am On Sep 23, 2022
Chizzyjforce:
Udoka is full Igbo name though. The guy dropped the Akwa Ibom name and continued with Igbo name even unto his child/children.

We can see it's not only Africa that shy away from office tangolo.
Can you share the research that proved "Udoka" is an Igbo name? Or could it be that Etinan is now Igbo?
LiteratureRe: The Mexican by bigbauer(m): 10:38pm On Sep 12, 2022

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