Nostring: oga! ofcause abroad na just normal place with normal ppl,na inferiority complex dey make ppl dey ghost dia family and frnds most times...
and naso den dey do for your family no mean naso den dey do for every family ,alsoYour uncles no dey reply ur messages no mean make u sef reach dey ghost frnds or ppl u dey cool with bfr u travel ,dey see ursef as demi god dey find hungry ones u go turn to errand boys cos of 50$ ,at most 100$ u go dash Dem once in a while
You right... I know many guys that hav blacklisted dia dudes all because they travelled out
One of my best friend ever those years.. left without telling me... till today he has not reach out to me... I even chatted him... and he ignored me straightup... he left over 15 years now... we all become less previllegde for him face...
He did that for real... but the truth is I, Dawson will never do that to any of my pals...
Till today I still connect with my friends in nigeria I even contributed to the carnival in my estate in naija this December...
So I really don't care if they wanna feel like king... one thing I know is that dem no dey catch late comer for abroad...
Nostring: na only ur point 1 makes sense.. odas na yenyenyen.. so cos u dey abroad make den dey worship u.. dey need to impress u or become your errand boy first bfr u go dey communicate lol nonsense
Alright, no vex bro... Abroad is not Heaven for your sake... and I pray Almighty God will take you there to see its just normal place with normal people...
Let me tell you something... before I left Nigeria... I have an Uncle in EU... same surname Uncle oh...
If you see our conversation... you will laugh
He only send "Happy Christmas " and I reply Happy Christmas Uncle".. that's our chat for a whole year... and we have been doing this for over 15 years since this Uncle hav been away...
I have other Uncle.... those one... if you like send message wey Obama help you compose... they will open and read it... and they will never reply
I have another Uncle abroad... this one... he comes home very well before I japa too.. if this Uncle meet you for won hotel... u no normal normal u suppose embrace ham... he go comot face for u... and his bouncer we trow u away from getting close to him...
Now tell me... you think OP is the only one that has seen things in his life?
We all have stories to tell bro... he doesn't need to be errand boy to get his bro attention... he can always block his no or stop trying to gain his bro attention
I'm not here to brag because I'm in America... but I'm just telling you the reality...
If the OP cant handle his bro neglecting attitudes... den let him stop talking to him...
Thereisstillhop: My elder bro has been in the US for over 11 years now he just got his green card. I'm doing okay over here I don't ask him for anything financially ,but the matter is that he only come home unexpectedly. Tho he is talking to other of my elder brothers. Another thing is we never had any misunderstanding. When he comes he will spend do everything but once he leaves all the communication is gone . What could be the challenge. Basically he doing very great over there
Based in the States and I will give you likely reasons
1 His a busy man : is doing great? Doesn't mean he's got to relax in a bar or his sitting room and will be waiting for money to fly from no where into his bank... No work, No pay
2 You really not the Guy : he values you as his bro... but he doesn't see much from you... I hav a cousin in naija, we talk like basically everyday... I talk to him not because I hav the time... but his very productive.. everything I needed to get done at home... dis dude takes care of it smoothly
3 You need to engage him : if he doesn't talk to you... then call him.. talk to him.. show how important you can be for him..
4 You need to lookaway : if his not giving you the vibe.. . Hustle up and do more great things for yourself... increase your income and he will definitely hear about your promotion amd even see the evidence... nobody will tell him before he connects with u
adefitim: There’s this Deeper Life Girl I like and have been trying to woo her but anytime and I go A she will go B, she portrays herself to be holier than me...... My friends advices me to let her go that there’s no way both of us can date if I am not a Deeper Life member.
Help comrade
Ishilove
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Sean
OAM4J
You need to let her be... do not force or manipulate her heart... the deeper life member have a rules they follow which is....
date when ready to marry and sex after marriage...
Pls don't let her commit any sin because you want her... there are thousands of single lady ready to pleasure you anyway
gloryhomemaker: Ewa Agoyin is a delicious beans and stew recipe, where the beans is cooked tender enough that it melts in your mouth. The stew is so delicious and can be eaten with bread, boiled yam, boiled potatoes, fried plantain, etc.
This video gives an easy to follow steps on how to make the tastiest Ewa Agoyin stew recipe.
Ingredients:
Dried bell peppers (Tatashe) Dried peppers (Ata Dindin) Palm oil Onions Ginger Crayfish Seasoning Cubes Salt to taste
STEPS: Select the beans of stone, dirt and chaff. Soak in cold water for up to 2 hours. Soaking the beans helps it decrease flatulence, bloating, drains out any insecticide used in preservation, cook faster. Cook the beans till soft and add salt to taste before mashing it. Soak dried peppers and tatashe in hot water for up to 20 minutes. Wash and blend the peppers with crayfish, ginger and onions. In a dry pot add in palm oil, bleach it and add chopped onions, fry till the onions turn golden in colour. Add in the blended ingredients and fry till very dry without burning it. Add in seasoning and salt and fry a little more. Serve and enjoy your Ewa Agoyin. I eat mine with bread, what do you eat yours with?
Wow, this is awesome... I really miss this food...
Our best Nairaland Chef Award goes to "gloryhomemaker"
I had a painful tooth I had to remove after several months...
It's was smooth but hectic After they ejected the Novocaine into my gum.. the doctor begin the process of removal... they actually detected in the the examination that the tooth was partial dead because of some decade trauma...
While pully out... he got broken halfway...
Now they had to get some plier and tooth debris picker to remove everything.. some tooth pieces was stuck in my gum... they had to force them out...
The pain was heavy but I had to manage... Finally they got it all out after some hours... my mouth was sour and heavy...
Took some prescribed drugs and I was fine few days later....