EBMedia: IgbereTV reports that a man known as Mr. Ossy from Aguleri in Anambra State Nigeria committed suicide by hanging himself on a Mango tree after sponsoring one Miss Melisa Nnaji from Enugu State to the University level at Institute of Management Technology (IMT) with the promise of getting married to her after graduation......I will say this for the last time: guys should stop financing their girlfriends or lovers to tertiary institutions. You can send your siblings to school. These girls are not worth it.
Regrettably, the man couldn't stand the shock when he received an invitation of the girl's marriage coming up 18th of March 2020 through one of his best friend called Nnadozie, Which led him to commit suicide.
iphi: My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.
I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.
I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.
....shoot your shot, but if she declines, don't persist....
ireneidiva: How a mother will feel when her son washes his own underwear? Your own mindset is the worst. I wonder where you were raised. I'm out of this thread.
eclectic90: SMH. These are the kind of husbands that wives refer to as useless when they don't have money. Your type will never marry an intelligent woman. And of the woman come by mistake get sense inside the marriage, wahala will burst out because she'd begin to see she doesn't need you for anything once she can provide her needs. Men, learn and don't transfer this weak mentality to your male children. The women are getting more empowered now and are standing up for themselves. The narrative in the nearest future would be men who can keep their wife and not women who can keep their husbands. The men being the breadwinner of the family that made them feel like gods is beginning to phase out. Empower yourself outside of having money so you'd be more relevant to your family.
JONNYSPUTE: How Do I Make My 4years Old Son Understand Or S He Still Too Young
Happy Sunday my fellow Nairalanders. Sure we all are cool?
Sorry to bother you all but I have been worried since what transpired between myself and my son who will be 4yrs by June this year.
I was not able to go to church today due to the fact that I just came back from travel very late yesterday night.
So I was asleep when my wife and my two sons left for service. I woke up around some minutes after 12 noon and decided to wash some of the undies I wore during my journey.
As I was doing that, my wife and kids came back and my son rushed straight to my room shouting daddy daddy, when I answered from the bathroom and he came in and saw me washing, the question he asked me has been making me uncomfortable.
He said "Daddy, why are you washing? Are you a girl? Before he could finish that my wife walked in and said to him, Don't worry, very soon you will start washing your clothes by yourself but what got me more worried was his reply. He told my wife that he won't wash his cloths that it's girls that are supposed to be washing.
Honestly, I'm worried, will he out grow this mentality?
I need a wide coverage, please.
.....your son just told you the cardinal truth. His mother supposed to help you out. My question to the mother is how will she feel when her son washes his underwear while his wife or girl watches? How? You definitely have a man in your baby, and a weakling in the father....
correctkidabc: Nigerian Man Who Died After Sleeping With A Prostitute Is A Lawyer And A Knight
The decesed is lawyer and a night in Church, meanwhile the video was released by detectives who were present in the video so that the public will see and hear what happened. The man has been identified as Barr Eric Igbedion Agboegbulem
Dominiondominio: I’m a 26 years old woman married to a 37 years old man. We have been married for almost 3 years.
We don’t have kids yet and 6 months ago I ended up in hospital with sepsis. The doctors originally thought it was caused by a kidney infection but later found that it was caused by Pelvic Inflammatory disease.
They repeatedly asked about my sexual history but I have only slept with one person in the past 3 years - my husband. I ended up having to have emergency surgery as the infection would not respond to the IV antibiotics they were giving me. I was in hospital for 10 days and have potential long- term damage which will affect my ability to have children.
I recently found out that my husband has cheated on me a number of times throughout our marriage and that the Pelvic inflammation was caused by untreated Gonorrhoea.
When I was discharged from hospital, he admitted that he has been cheating on me with a single mother of 4 (unprotected sex ) And he got the gonorrhea! How irresponsible! I am completely devastated and don't want to believe that the love of my life could be so callous. I very nearly died and if it were not for the brilliant doctors who quickly recognised my symptoms.
Of course the woman my husband got the gonorrhea from denied everything and I bet she won’t go get treated and will continue to spread this nasty and dangerous disease! She is done with having kids so why would she care, right?
Well, I do want to have kids and I won’t let my fertility and health taken away! the emotional damage caused by the infidelity itself is horrible. I feel angry, dirty, and ugly. All I want to do is cry all day. I can’t talk to anyone about it because I feel so ashamed. The person I trust the most is my mother but i don't want to break her heart. I know that to her my happiness matters the most and I think she would be angry at me the rest of her life if I told her that I still love my husband.
My husband feels remorseful and said he would never cheat on me again. He said he would choose me over any lifestyle and that he would give up everything for me. I have a very hard time trusting him again and I still don't know what I want from this whole thing. I just can't understand why my husband would have sex with a disgusting, nasty woman and betray me on so many levels. My pride got hurt so badly. I feel so ugly and worthless. My libido is absolutely gone. I feel empty inside. Then all the sudden I feel horrible, horrible anger and I want to break everything in sight. On some nights I can't sleep and sometimes I want to sleep all day. Most days I'm not even hungry and I have to force myself to eat something.
I feel like I will never be happy again. I used to be a happy, confident, bubbly person, now my zest for life is gone. Is this normal? Will these feelings ever go away?
Made4naijalove: When money enter love, love becomes so sweet. In contrary to earlier report that Davido has some issues with his fiance Chioma, they were seen enjoying their life, partying hard to debunk the earlier rumour.
Now to crown it all, To show the world how Davido really loves his girlfriend Chioma, he bought a diamond Patek Philippe watch worth of 6million naira for Chioma as early Valentine gift.
.....Davido is really an empty vessel. Some folks talk about their wealth, some don't. Where is the car he bought for Chioma? Fake loving. Vanity upon vanity.
lalasticlala: Davido has rubbished rumours that he would not be getting married to Chioma, The Chef Chi because of the Peruzzi unconfirmed rumours.
Davido who is in Dubai with Chioma to attend his elder brother, Adewale Adeleke and Kani's white wedding, shared a photo of him grabbing Chioma’s boobs at the wedding event.
socialmediaman: Atiku Abubakar, former presidential candidate on the platform of the PDP in the last presidential election, posted a couple of tweets in reaction to the travel ban against Nigeria, expressing sadness and stating reasons why he believed the US should reconsider its decision against Nigeria
In the middle of the night today, I tried to look for duvet to cover up my son on bed. I decided to check my wife wardrobe.
I saw a pack of mycoten in the wardrobe. She already slept this time. So I had to chill till this morning to ask her questions.
So, this morning when I asked her, she said it was her mum that gave her bla bla bla.. I saw a piece of paper prescribing that cream for her in that same bag I found the cream.
I googled the uses of mycoten and I found out it was nothing serious because it is use for yeast infection and vagina odour. My wife dont have vagina odour and I understand yeast infection can be gotten from toilet or could be infection of body skin that spread or so.
I actually know she lied about her mummy giving her. But what baffles me is that I got a whatsapp message from her when she was coming from my son school..
She wrote that I nag a lot. That I should give her space. That u think she can't cope without me. She said she will look for work to take care of our son.She said we have been together for six years and I don't even trust her a bit. She said I think she can't leave without her. She didn't even address the issue of allegation of infidelity I threw against her(i deliberately did that #.I replied her I can't give her space in my own house and if she is fed up, she can pack her bags and go to her parent house. I told her if my son is infected or if I am infected , I am going to kill her and hand over myself to police. Immediately she blocked me on whatsapp and I did same. After an hour, she unblocked me.
Could she have been sleeping around her? Or are there any other uses of mycoten I don't know?
In my mind though, the cream I find is not really something to worry about but the message I got and her reaction is what I don't understand.
....my girl has the cream, I didn't even think of infidelity. I just laughed it off...
landmark86: I stayed in one room and palor self contain apartment but shared the same compound with my landlord. I work with a bank while my landlord is a site Engineer. Last year a cousin of mine that just concluded is POP decided to stay with me. Hoping to get a good job in the same town I was all because he studied the same course I studied. My landlord's wife is a full house wife. Though she's still young let say in her earlier 30's. And must time my landlord can be away for like 2-3wks at times due to the nature of his job/work. To cut the story short, this afternoon around 2pm my boss releases me and three of colleagues to go home and rest cos we have a trip assignment to embark on tomorrow. Getting home I met my brother with my landlord's wife pant down on the bed.
Since that afternoon my cousin have been begging me, likewise my landlord's wife not to expose them.
Am just too confuse right now. Are mine to send my cousin packing? Or to report the wife to the husband? Or probably I should park my things out of the house because I no me and that woman can never be in good terms again.
You advise is needed.
....you should learn to keep secret. Remember whatever happens in Vegas must stay in Vegas, not in Nairaland.....
KingSBB: Nollywood actress Temitope Osoba who is pretty prominent in the indigeneous part of Nollywood, Yoruba, revealed she once had sex in the car and on the beach.
During an exclusive interview with Broadway Tv, The actress revealed the weirdest place she as ever had sex is in the car on the beach.
agemmy113: Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.
But to my surprise she is taking it up. Pls what should I do?
Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look. She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.
I will keep this brief and short.. Ignore any typographical error, please.
I have this boyfriend, we've been dating for years now. The thing is, he doesn't last long during sex, he's a 2 minutes man, as you people call it. There was a time, we had sex, less than 1 minute, yes, I mean less than a minute, just 3 or 4 thrusts and he released. He was shocked, sad and disappointed, I was shocked too. I was even the one cheering him up, not to be sad, that everything will be okay, that's not his fault, he just wore his cloth and left.
This is someone I want to marry, we will soon do our introduction and wedding, and I don't want our sex life to be boring, we are not enjoying s*x at all, and I don't want to cheat on him... We love each other so much.
Please, anybody that has experienced this before, or know how to stop it should advice me on what to do, its not making me happy neither is my boyfriend happy too
Your advice will be appreciated.. Thank You.
...be happy he is not a 40 secs guy. He needs to take herbal medicine, and stop taking sugary stuff....
please I need your advice. I am 31 years and my fiancee is 29 years and we have been dating for the past four years.
She discovered that she's pregnant on new year's eve. We discussed the issue throughout the new year and we agreed to keep the pregnancy that she's going to write her nursing Council exam later. I told her that she should give me some time so that I can go and discuss with my parents and organize introduction then do the engagement in a little way but she said her mom won't be happy with her that she needs to do big wedding because she's the first child of her mom.
She later told me that she's going to inform her parents before taking any step. To my surprise she called me this evening that she is going to terminate the pregnancy because her family has been raining insults on her since she got home.
She said her grandma is even coming to the city with her so that she can terminate the baby. But I told her that I didn't support it that I can't terminate pregnancy, I told her that she can write the council exam after delivery but she insisted.
Sir-Ma should I support this their action?
.....when a lady decides to have abortion, you should know it's high time to let her go kill the innocent baby or else you will never know peace. I am talking from experience.