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loswhite:
how can a Normal human being be happy to be emotionless? You are happy to be a robot...lol that's crazy. All because of a woman and getting laid...lol. so much energy in the wrong direction

mmadu5:
OK so i met this girl 3 days ago today we went out for a date we got to the place she started saying she's feeling hungry and want to order food I told her to hold on a bit I'm thinking of leaving her here and leave I hate this kind of rubbish . why can't these girls respect their self for once . must you girls order food every time you go out with a guy I need advice on what to do now cos I can't spend 1800 for Food on this girl just like that

ChrisLeeO:
You come off as a smart guy, but really your intellect is disturbingly minute. You really don't know what you want to do with ur life. You post about selling books being an innovative person with an Idealist mind. But your nothing.
Why can't you focus on just one thing to do in ur life. Today you're tally about selling books on enhancing male sexual performance. Tomorrow you're an engineer putting generator and gas together. Next day you're a dating expect and a counselor. Your life must be really pathetic, you have ideas but u don't have a plan in ur life. I understand how u feel bro it can get really depressing. Just focus on one thing that my advice. I'm also gonna just drop this Bruce lee quote here.

If you wanna talk further hit me up

Charleys:
They stole their writing from redpill on Reddit.

Just Google redpill.

LifeStylePlus:
The reason you feel this way is because you are comparing yourself with other guys your age. Everyone has their own timing in life. It may not just be time for you to get into a profiting relationship. If you know the hurts and pains that you are being delivered from, you would rather be grateful. Because others are having girlfriends doesn't mean you should too.
It is not compulsory to have a girlfriend at this stage of your life. Have platonic friends but learn in those relationships. Get busy preparing a foundation for the rest of your life- get to know and understand your purpose in life and start taking steps towards fulfilling them. Spend time developing yourself. These will help you see better the kind of woman that will help you to fulfil purpose and vice versa.
When it is time, you will get that one who you will spend the rest of your life with fulfilled.
Many would wish to be like you but you are wishing to be like them. What an irony.

You can PM to recommend/ give you some good books

Getta:
Almost same here, I had even served 2 years now, the worst is that am the only of both late parents, dem lonely, I have had some girls in the past but it was only one I really liked deeply, I tend to see myself as a nice guy even in the previous relationship because I just don't want to hurt someone, I am not so jovial as some guys who can even insult them girls and still be loved, I gradually stopped trying to get girls after some series of rejection and for closed to 2 years now hustling I have lost all my confidence in flowing with a lady, I can't even surmon courage to approach them and if I do I say contrary, I will soon start considering marriage and I feel like am small and less kind off. You can help me via 08037177066

Lordthruce:
Domestic Or Wild runs girl

SingleGuy9999:
Good day guys, I'm not really too active here, but this is a 2nd account I created for this. I am 22 year old student in my final year. But I've never had a girlfriend, also I have never had sex, but that is not the major problem as I can easily get a hooker and pay. I feel I'm pretty good looking, at least average. This would be a little long, pls try to read through.

My problem is I can't seem to get a girlfriend, I have been rejected by girls like 7 times in a row or more...I don't meet that many girls but I do go out and meet sha and if I like a girl and I feel she's someone I can date I ask her out. If we aren't really vibing I just delete their numbers and forget about them. But I keep getting rejected by all the girls I've asked out, they either see me as a friend and tell me stuff like I'm a good friend or they not ready for a relationship or that they feel I have no feelings for them...like wtf

It's really frustrating so much that it's literally killed every confidence I have to ask girls out. Like the last 3 girls I wanted to ask out I ended up not bothering since I know it'll end same way...planned to ask one out today but I just couldn't stand to get rejected again...cos even tho I think what I'm getting might be green light I'm not sure about girls anymore...in fact now I'm no longer sure if the girls I think liked me before ever did (I wasn't interested in them so I didn't ask them out). Even the one who made me lose all hope was after spending so much time with a girl, I was asking her out for 4 months, I never tot I'd ever ask a girl out that long but I was blinded by love...and we spent so much time together, my friends kept wondering if we were dating but she never said yes even tho she said she liked me too but kept giving excuses...and I pretty much abandoned chasing other girls in for that while...but I still got a no at the end with story changed to she tot she liked me but was just trying to as she could see I was in love with her and didn't wanna break my heart...

That killed my confidence, and I'm not blaming her or anyone...now since then I've only asked 2 girls out, and I still got rejected...

I spend time with the girls, we hang out, flirt, chat etc but they would never date me... I've gotten so lonely as I want to date someone I truly care about and I have even questioned if it's possible for 2 people to fall in love with each other out of the billions of people on earth.

I've heard from someone that I play with girls too much so they won't take me seriously, another was that I'm nice (I don't think I'm that "nice guy" cos I won't go extra mile for any girl just cos I like her, but I'm understanding and I think I tend to make excuses for people when they disappoint). And I'm tired of girls seeing me as a friend, or being taken for granted. In fact my best female friend is one who I asked out before.

When I see people dating I wonder if they from another planet, I can't figure out what's wrong...is it that I have no luck with girls? I have gone online, read books etc. They all keep saying same thing...they talk about confidence but I had that...tho right now I just fake it cos all my confidence is gone with numerous rejections. Then I read about working on yourself, I have done that, I may not be anywhere near the freshest guy but at least I'm sure I'm okay. They talk about creating tension and stuff by making contact and I do that, I hold them around the waist etc....

So far I even read that I shouldn't blame myself or stop trying to figure out what went wrong when I face rejections, that's what I'm doing now...but nothing seems to be changing. I rarely spend time with girls again, except some good friends, and instead I've been focusing more on my hobbies cos I now see it as a waste of time when it only ends in rejection. I think of going out with a girl but I just rather sit at home or spend more time with my guys or even spend the money on them cos I'm fed up. The thought even crossed my mind to give up on girls since it never seems to work...I'm not used to multiple failure as even in other stuff I don't fail as much, but I just can't seem to get it to work with girls. Everything seems fine at first and going smoothly but it all ends with rejection.
I don't wanna give up on girls and I know there's nothing left of my confidence when it comes to girls, tho I fake it...and I will never result to insulting girls just cos of my rejection.

Pls I need real advice on what to do, I have exhausted all my options, and today I resolved to never ask any girl out till I'm 99% sure she'll say yes, but is that even possible? I know every guy gets rejected but it's not easy when u get rejected several times in a row by girls you have serious feelings for.

Should I just cut my losses and give up on girls? For months I spent time on other things and never really cared about any girl any longer but now that feeling is back with this new girl but I can't even ask her out cos I can't say for sure what her reply would be... maybe a no as I usually get...

Pls don't insult me or call me names I just need advice that would help

crafteck:
Get money, Nufin else matters

Pvssy:
Na the under 25 dey do all this one

If na the evening newspapers, just say "Hi" and they already asking you when you plan to finally settle down.

Pvssy:
Na the under 25 dey do all this one

If na the evening newspapers, just say "Hi" and they already asking you when you plan to finally settle down.

Larryndelaw:
Idris musical career is gone. Now he wants cheap popularity. Why is Davido, wizzy and the rest not there. Idris is hungry
Even Dele momodu that is ranting on the internet is not there. Make una go find work

SocialFinance:
Old age affecting this obj concubine already. Dementia

When Russia disperse and arrested about 60 protesters last week, it's ok since it's not Nigeria.

With the current security challenges, lazy yoots should be allowed to protest and when it turns bad they will still turn back to blame the government.

Where's Fani Kayode, Reno, Galadima and their children.

Dino is online sharing adorable photo of his children yet some idi0ts who may have no food to eat when they put their neck

lilwetdick:
and why didnt you go and stay for the protest

you are part of the problem)

i am not a supporter of any sowore.

all the young men are forming alpha-male on nairaland so they got no time to show their alphamale in real life.

banio:
A wise man wants told me " corruption is better than war ". Nigerians are scared, Sowore is OYO.





OYO means On Your Own

NwaAmaikpe:




I pity the jobless ones who will follow in this protest.
You'd inhale tear gas in vain, while the conveners will get parastal appointments like Hadiza Bala Usman.

Say no to being used as a pawn by sellout moles.

Do not participate in the protest instead sit at home, go to work, visit a boyfriend, go to the cinema, watch porn in the office or just pray in church.
I support whatever decision the DSS, Police and other paramilitary takes on dumb protesters.

Think again.

Is it a coincidence that Sowore wants a revolution just after the ministerial list was released and he didn't make the cut?
Have you asked yourself why Yele Sowore of all people refused to file an election petition despite the flawed 2019 Presidential elections.

Have you wondered why this same person who congratulated Buhari after the elections saying it was a deserved free win then all of a sudden wants to protest again his government?

Abeg, our mumu don do.
Sowore you can and will never fool NwaAmaikpe.
You can't tell the world that Buhari was credibly elected by the people and still incite the same people to revolt against his government.
That is pure two-faced hypocrisy.

I will never endorse a Nigerian revolution spearheaded by an insincere New Yorker.

Maj196:
As far as I can remember. NONE

Maj196:
As far as I can remember. NONE

Maj196:
Have got good looks(No bragging) and I can relate with what the OP is saying truth be told it's quite easier to get girls but my friend money is still the real deal

HealingHeart:
You have already lost the argument. You are giving young men false hope. You call yourself bigpriik(big dick?!) but you don't know why you have the monopoly over women as you say.

HealingHeart:
What! Plenty of wealthy men with high status are detested by their wives, some are even not happy in their marriage.



I can ask so many questions of this because it is based on pure anecdotes. Also your username, of course, tells a lot about you, enough to confirm my argument.



pick up artists have been exposed. Their game only seem to work if the woman is already physically attracted tfo you or she is just another bimbo.

HealingHeart:
What about Money?

Every man should make money. But look, money can only buy materials, fame, admiration, respect, success, better health, and sex. NOT love or a woman's heart.

With good looks, your money is a bonus for women that are physically attracted to you. But without good looks, your money is what attract women. They are only financially attracted to you. You are just an ATM, your wife is basically like your personal prostitute, who also have babies with you.

Advise to young men

Your looks is the dealbreaker with women. The sooner you accept this, the better for you. You can not really do anything about it. With gym work out or exercise, you might be able to improve your lean muscle mass & accentuate any of your good facial features, but there is not really much the gym can do to help.

GloriaSabipeepz:
Say No To Any Revolution If U Value Ur Life