₦airaland Forum

meobizy:
So because your friends mock you for not being in a relationship you want to get into one? Will you try the same if they mock you for not attempting suicide?

With females I don’t stress myself. I’ve learned over the years that being single is better for men’s mental health and financial wellbeing. If you want to go ahead I’ll suggest you make yourself a more interesting individual. You can’t entertain a female if you are not full of stories and enthusiasm. Think of the most interesting male you know and try to replicate his ways. When you’re sure of nailing his level of excitement arousal you can then approach as many females as you want.

I warn you: men of all shapes and sizes still get rejected. I have approached women who rejected me for being confident. Prepare to face rejection left and right. Men good with women most times catch only 60% of their picks. The average man catches about 20% from repeated efforts.

engrchykae:
last month I started paying my mum salary.
she too believe in me.
even when I no longer believe in myself,the woman still believe in me.
her faith in me forced me to succeed.
na so I come marry,my wife come dey yarn me say make I bone my old woman,as in make I no dey send am money.
I refused,she left me and say make I marry my mother.
laugh no gree me.
the only woman that can't divorce you is mum.
I said to hell with any woman who wants to make my mum cry.

Jaykolo10:
People like you are one of the bigger problems we have in this country... Y'all are ready to just bash those outside...the drug lord wasn't even a Nigerian..... So many Nigerians are out there doing good... But na the bad una want always dey see

Escabado:
A meet a Girl recently , the first day we meet I spent 10k on eatry and give her money as she was going.
Trying to be Nice to her o and I kept spending money . After some time she came to my place , I wanted to touch her she ask me to stop and ask if is sex I want from her . My brothers if not sex why was I spending money on her . Some Girls can really be silly. Girls let me put it straight to you and any man that spends money on you wants sex . If you cant give him sex then dont collect his money.

The funny thing is that ever since she asked me that question , I continue been nice to her and keep spending money on her close to 74k i can remember .Later she now say i can have sex with her but I told her I can never have sex with her again. I told if is sex I want . I have the money to pay 10 women to have sex with them in a day . As the case may be I have warned her never to near my house again and it's over between us

Goodlyhrt:
Is it just me.. I don't feel the vibes again like all those fake lives people live behind the mick makes me sick nowadays.

Dudeweedlmao:
If you're not talking from experience then shut up.

marvelous000:
Sincerely speaking, the discrepancy between foreign women and naija women, is so unequivocally overt that i never thought anyone will put it to question. especially in this naija where women give green light, and a man makes move, and she end up treating her dog better than him in bide to form hard to get. I'm not even talking when she is indifferent.

southniyikaye:
my advice,dig your grave before u embark on the journey

southniyikaye:
my advice,dig your grave before u embark on the journey

northvietnam:
It’s true , he is just managing unlike those people that bought a defender of 80m and still cook Draw soup

northvietnam:
It’s true , he is just managing unlike those people that bought a defender of 80m and still cook Draw soup

Hamachi:
A Lady with makeup And a Guy with dyed trousers. Who runs faster when it is about to Rain

Hamachi:
A Lady with makeup And a Guy with dyed trousers. Who runs faster when it is about to Rain

BiggerbossAmani:
I met this Lady and ask for a relationship she rejected my proposal because of problem unknown to me. Now just yesterday I chat her and said goodnight....she replied with sweetheart and kiss emoji.

Should I take this as a sign she's ready or I should maintain my cool.

Oluromantic:
It seems and you're advising. You're confused and unexposed. You offer advice when you're sure of what's going on.

Does being extremely social and mixing with bad boys cancel the risk involved in it? Socializing with womanizers does not cancel the news of accidental pregnancy after you just got visa. Ive had a lot of girls and having seen it all, I still advise that nothing compares to a bright career. Fuccking women up and down is secondary fun. It should not deplete your primary glory. For a 24 year old boy with such a plan, what I said is best for him.

vibbb:
It's ur choice to choose bro; either to be rich or not.
The ball is in ur court.

vibbb:
Ok, u have said it all in ur post = when ur wealth, rich and successful, they will be over you, I mean the beautiful and the finest of all girls in the world.

So y bordering urself ? If ur are lonely y not go to the nearest bar run some bottles of Heineken with pepper soup and feel alryt.

Having a girl friend is not an achievement, by the d way u don't know the peace u are enjoying now just wait and have a girlfriend then u will understand that sometimes it's cool to be once self.

chenzen:
wow!!!

Oluromantic:
Lemme share a true life experience with you. It happened to a deeper life church member who paid d dowry of a lady 5years older than him since deeper life members would rather marry older people or other tribes than go out of their church to get a spouse. They were yet to do their white wedding when he left for overseas. He got there and started lamenting to his family members so seriously that he chose not to come home again. You know why? He was coming across so many single young Nigerian ladies who just finished their medical and nursing degrees as well as masters and phd. He regretted he had married an older and fatter OND holder back home just before he left. He went there for masters. Out of fear that he may not come home since he had overstayed the time he promised, his mother in-law admitted later that she was the one that used juju to bring him back cus they thought he wasn't going to come back and his wife here is getting more aged. He was deployed back and now struggling to make ends meet.

Though you need the experience. In fact you can actually date girls without telling them your plans of career or to go abroad. It's d lie you arrange in thier brain that they'll believe but it takes a lot of experiences to do that and you're just 24 and inexperienced..you won't be able to handle it yet especially the emotional manipulation which they're all good in doing. You shouldn't experience any emotional problems at this stage that you need to stay focused cus they have no good to offer to say the truth. Nigerian girls only think of the goodies to obtain in a relationship and nothing to give or any sacrifices to make, including the so called churchy types. The sincere ones will even run away from you cus they'll say you will forget them once you go...it's always about them them them throughout life even in marriage... they have nothing good for you. If you hide your prosperity plans and prospects from them, that's when you'll see their real attitude, if they know ur plans to go abroad, they'll pretend, get pregnant for you, complicate ur tender heart and use juju to shatter your dreams.

As for the loneliness, get call girls or go to brothels to keep body and soul together at least for now (now you know one of the reasons why prostitutes are necessary in d society) To be frank with you, according to my relatives there and many other people that go abroad often, there are many Nigerian single ladies with great academic achievements in their early and late 20s, even 30s. My elder bro who was a banker here married a doctor when he got there. They just had thier first child and my parents flew there to congratulate him. I'm hopeful to go soon too. So stay focused and whatever you need to learn from women, you'll learn it from women with the right mentality over there.

11thGoldTREE:
I was surfing early this morning with my VPN which gave me unrestricted access to some Arabian countries....
Women are beautiful creatures but Arabian women are angels and goddess

chenzen:
1960's u only see black and white televisions with only 2 near clear terrestial signals.



2019 u get to see high definition flat screen televisions with multiple digital crystal clear signals.




Point: The current generation of men is an upgrade of what was in the 1960's.

Rilwayne001:
The summary is that, at a point in life, we all tend to look back at some time and think what kind of a mindset was i carrying about then. You remember those times and you laugh out loud so much that people around you will look at you like, what's wrong with this one? Lol

The thing is, as we grow, we learn more about the rudiments of life and how to paddle your way through it. Experience teaches you much more about life than what you read online. Sometimes if you haven't experience all these that teachers of dating and romance are teaching you, you'll never get it.

lincsnuel:
Maybe there's something special about you. Or maybe she's in love.

If she's sincere, then she's a good gal and her type is rare. There is no cause for alarm.

But if she always rejects guys in your presence, or she always tells you about guys she rejected, then you might wanna think twice cos it might be some form of manipulation to make you see her as loyal. In worst case scenarios, she may be collecting d!ck from another awesome guy.

Best of luck bro.

lincsnuel:
Maybe there's something special about you. Or maybe she's in love.

If she's sincere, then she's a good gal and her type is rare. There is no cause for alarm.

But if she always rejects guys in your presence, or she always tells you about guys she rejected, then you might wanna think twice cos it might be some form of manipulation to make you see her as loyal. In worst case scenarios, she may be collecting d!ck from another awesome guy.

Best of luck bro.

pcguru1:
It just means you are not a sensible person it's not that deep