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I think chemistry is an animal attraction between two people that is purely physical. The connection appeals to the five senses: The way someone looks, smells, tastes, the feel of his or her body, the sound of that person's voice. The reaction to one's chemical match is often excused or explained as overwhelming and uncontrollable. It’s the "throw-down factor."

When it comes to compatibility in romantic relationships the issue goes much deeper than liking the same kinds of music or sharing ideas about politics and religion. The very nature of a relationship is intrinsically symbiotic. Men need to understand what women want and women need to understand what men want in order to create a happy union.

There are often times deep seeded reasons for our choice in a mate and whether it is conscious or sub-conscious, learned behavior, genetic or biological by design, men and women have consistently, fought the same battle in the war of the sexes; men seek youth and beauty and women seek security. This appears to be the best recipe for compatibility.

Women are often times looking for a man who will be a dependable partner and provider. While attraction is important, women are less likely to seek out the lusty lothario for a long term relationship. Security and reliability are the characteristics that draw women for the long haul. Men are looking for youth and beauty. Whether these characteristics give subliminal clues to her ability to bear children or if men simply desire visually stimulating mates in order to be compelled to provide and protect, we may never know.

Although the debate rages on as to whether we are biologically predisposed to this kind of behavior and, there are indeed exceptions to every generality, the majority of relationships fall into this kind of template. By fulfilling the primordial needs of your partner she can be “a little bit country” and you can be “a little bit rock-and-roll” and still have a highly compatible relationship.

justwise:
Thank ur God that u have somebody who even mention natural love. u better treat her well and don't let her go else u will know what un=natural love is when u get dumped

yes oooooooooooo

all u av is fear n it's eating u up!

may u waka,

hackney:
Thunder fire the poster!!!!
That's how they are killing children in calabar accusing them of being witches when a bag of garri goes bad.
Some of these so called preachers went into church out of wickedness; they are there so they can say to others" im going to heaven and you are not"
better go and study and get a good job; God will judge you by the type of person you really are and not how long you preached.

Some preachers are actuall agents of Satan; spreading fear and keeping people in poverty.
Christianity in africa is one of the most dangerous tools used today to control congregations while pastors mess other peoples' wives
My advise to people is to read the bible and privately seek God's face and his grace.

ya right,

after all they bought their mandates,

one day,

may souls 2 be lost rest in peace in advance!

na dem sabi,

d subject should be who's worse?

chidichris:
goat, he has forgotten that his father is nolonger the president.

lmao

not a big fan of mikel anyway,

paulo maldini, ikechukwu uche, zinedine zidane, cafu

d big spending wont solve madrid's problems anyway

wtf is obj?

if na gf, i'll settle scores wit my dad 1st cos family is important!

ikamefa:
hehehe which kind fish abeg? Tilapia or kote?

no, catfish n titus!

sit her down n talk 2 her,

i'll never start d violence but dont think a woman can get away after slappin me, it just cant happen

SeanT21:
Stale NEWS!!

yes

[quote author=peelovee link=topic=283056.msg4016861#msg4016861 date=1244794671][/quote]emotional blackmail,

life oh life, dont risk dis cos i dont think bringing an ss 2 life(when it can be prevented) is worth it, eat it like a bullet n move on

i dont think ur r/s can work cos d chicken has come home 2 roost n even if u go ahead, i dont see both families gettin along, dont start what u cant finish,

But, what if every body, including the parents and freiends and neighbours pleads for you to go back to him/her, and already you have decided not go continue with that relationship. does it mean you are wicked or heartless.
abeg i need advise.[quote][/quote]infidelity is d biggest threat 2 all r/s 2day, u can never change a cheat n u dont know how long it'''s been on b4 d bubble burst, though u av a point but u r d one who'll be hurt if things go wrong cos dis pple cant feel ur pain, so u can re-evaluate(like why did he/she cheat?, av u been committed, is d r/s goin d way u want it e.t.c) d r/s. remember a cheat has nothing 2 fear after being caught once(most of em now feel they can get away with it), av been there b4; just few actually turn a new leaf, so taking such person back is a risk which u decide whether 2 take or not, it's up 2 u 2 decide if it's worth it n u av 2 forgive pls be on guard cos "once bitten twice shy", but if u cant 4get it then simply move on,

dats d only way 2 be experienced,