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tical: My 28 yrs old Male cousin is on the verge of marrying a 34 year old lady (who is older than him wit 6 yrs & 6months).. The lady looks like she is 25 years Old ..She is very respectful and totally submissive..she has neva exchanged words with my cousin or had neva disrespected my cousin...she practically honored him wit her life through out their 2 and half yrs old relationship even when my cousin was broke.

She was submissive to him b4 she started working about a year ago when my cousin was jobless and she is even more submissive today that she is even richer.

Note: SHE LOST HER VIRGINITY TO MY COUSIN 2YRS AGO AT THE AGE OF 32 AND SHE IS STILL FAITHFUL TILL DATE..DO THINK MY COUSIN SHOULD DUMP HER DUE TO HIS PARENTs PRESSURE?

so she is everything he wants in a woman n the gap is just 6 years and he is still dillydallying
Aya won lode mehnnnnn

hmmm... peaceful older lady vs trouble younger shrew I know what I will do
Wife and Pregnate her sharperly

@jidegirl12
Argument sha....
So one wedding means asians and blacks are one big family?

Read more below and because you know a lot does not means other people dont know jack

Africans staying in and around India's commercial capital, Mumbai (Bombay), complain of indiscriminate racism and constant police harassment, reports the BBC's Zubair Ahmed.

Nigerian Sambo Davis is married to an Indian woman and lives in Mumbai.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-india-21826366

Is this the last taboo?
By Tanya Datta
Producer, The Last Taboo


Mixed-race relationships are growing rapidly in the UK - but remain extremely low between black and Asian people, despite a shared history of struggle against racism.
"Basically there was a racial hierarchy. The first choice for marriage is someone in your own community, then after that, white is the next best thing. And after white, any other race in the world but black."

In a small flat in east London, Rena, a 27-year-old Briton of Indian descent, recalls the stark marital guidance she received from her father when she was younger.

It was advice that she chose to ignore, however, because, sitting and smiling alongside her is her fiancé, Tony, 30-year-old black Londoner of Ghanaian origin.

The warning from Rena's father reveals the depth of hostility and intolerance that can often confront Asian and black relationships from within their own communities.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/magazine/5071026.stm

Popup Blocker: Then you don't know Uju.
Anytime something Yoruba pops up, she says the same thing
I've learned to ignore this section of NL because its full of frustrated married women forced to marry their last options
If no be public laundry day, na tribal frustration

It's okay to hate a tribe because of their traditional physical symbol of respect? Lol okay

adefash: I dated older ladies twice.d problem with the two of them was that they were both in a hurry to marry me.the more they pampered me the more irritated i became.eventually we broke up. One of them was begging me to marry her even when she knew i was married. Another thing is that they tend to pretend being happy with everything u do just because they dont want to lose u even when they are not really happy with what u are doing.

badoo

nyere84: I want TWELVE.

I pray he agrees oooo.

Honey, pls can we have 12 children??

CAPITAL NO

jidegirl12: Abere overemphasis caricatures , don't get me started, again

madam jide... wetin happen again

I dey on a ketro level



how bodi

fellis: @bold,
Anyway after my last comment Tgirl requested that her thread should not be derailed any further so I am going to do the respectable thing and stop the arguments.

finally.................. phew!

naijababe: The Indians this side of the planet must be fake ones.

How and what poeple choose to raise their kids on isn't the problem, what grates is people stating the superiority of their choice.

Indians that will kill their children if they dare marry a black.. forget thier language.. never!

Good one.. please will like to know more on how to combat this growing menace

Peterwins: Businesses (entrepreneurs) that receive/accept substantial amount via online payment without verifying/authenticating their customers id (especially new/unknown customers) should be wary from the above example and review their online payment policies with an "indemnity clause" ASAP with the help of a good lawyer. Identity theft is for real in Nigeria.

Online bank fraud is a global phenomenon and will continue to grow in Nigeria as a result of:
1. Customer Fraud - Account holder carries out a transaction and feigns ignorance.
2. Customer Negligence.
3. Customer Carelessness.
4. Customer ignorance - Most bank customers are just getting used to online banking.
5. Hackers.
6. Bank Fraud - Carried out by unscrupulous employees of the bank.
7. Management Fraud - illegal deductions of customers (account holders) funds with "tacit approval" from the bank's management for several unethical reasons. Ask Tony of UBA, Jim of Zenith, Akingbola of Intercontinental, Aig of Access and the others.
8. Social Media - Makes the jobs of 5 (hackers) above easier but can also remedy the problem when people share preventive measures on the internet. I will try and proffer some solutions.
9. Poor Internet Security - Some banks do not have a robust internet security on their online platforms.
10.Poor regulation - the CBN is yet to get a full grasp of what global financial integration means.

Funds (bank accounts) exposed to online banking are sitting ducks.

coogar: how did this beautiful thread degenerate into another tribal war?

it was a matter of time hence i asked is the issue about curtseying or about the fact the mum did not see her
You focused on the latter which is the issue yet the tribalist swill swoop in as expected so dont be surprised to see hidden posts soon

Mr Aboki: [size=13pt]How was your childhood Dayo?! Did your daddy ever tell you he loved you? Did your mum ever hug you?! What happened in your life to make you so bitter towards the Igbos? The Igbos dont even hate you or your people like this.

I think you need Jesus in your life.

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You are being two faced yourself
You say you dont like the pontification of the Yorubas.. that is your opinion
leave it at that then u now make gifs yabbing the practice of prostrating then you now call jisos

muppet


we know the ibo tribalists, luckily they are married to their own tribe.. so good for them
If i dont like one thing about a tribe, it does not mean the whole tribe is bad

BraideBraide: Good news!!! Through fervent prayers, my Almighty God and my overflowing tears....I now have a new project supervisor..Thank God

Good for you!

Please keep all details of conversations on this guy and be ready to open a blog and out him to protect other harmless ladies from s.exual predators
You can do this once you graduate
If they know there is no protection, our daughters will be safe

Bastards

ooseven: I know you always develop heart attack when you realize yours is not the last word on this thread. Madam 'na me holy pass'.

Thanks and wish you all you wish me

ciao!

Since the topic has been derailed to another battle of the sexes topic

Do we start counting scores?

Are the nay sayers saying that the tradition of courtseying (associated with SW nigeria)is local and outmoded or that the poster's intepratation of the tradition is the issue

The question then is what made the engris mode of greeting superior

One Hazard of miracle babies

Ish

fellis: Of course the iq test has its own critics and flaws, everything that was created by humans has flaws.
And yes, Iq testing only measures one type of intelligence out of the different types of intelligence. It measures the logical or mathmathical type of intelligence and this is a very great type of intelligence to possess. It enables us to perceive relationships and connections and to use abstract sequential thinking, inductive and deductive reasoning.
It measures a very important type of intelligence and it isn't useless or dodgy.

You should not have quoted it to prove women are smarter than man or even granted the coogar the debate on who is smarter

Smartness is not a function of gender but knowlege and exposure mainly

You guys have derailed the topic which was simple

would a man marry an older woman

Not holding brief for coogar but his point was simple, whether he marries a 20 or 1000 year old woman; he will always BE THE MAN IN THE RELATIONSHIP

Back to topic

Hmm....

jp philips: I could rem, when we were in school, the lecturers target a particular kinda gals not everyone, there are diff. gals on campus, the question you should be, what made her vulnerable??

some gals like doing Aristo for Alaba men but wont accept the patronage of lecturers, i dey laugh!!

Yes I agree the ladies may have questionable xter but it is their call and should not be under duress

That is still s.exual harassment in my book

naijababe: You have to forgive Defoe, hin be proper Eastender now

It's funny
We generally speak english clearly and at timely yet this caucasoid-obsessed people believe that the uneducated variant of english - cockney shows you are learned

Listen to Richard Quest, Sean Connery, Gary Lineker speask and you will hear correct engris

Make una dey shame una accent there

Colo mentality

ddippset: if you are a virgin then don't do it, do what you have to do but don't give in but if you have been campus weekend pvssy then give it to him and get your A.

Bros can't believe you are serious with this advice

Even if she is a prostitute in the real sense, she should have the right to use her body as she deems fit rather than under duress
That is akin to r.ape

Not cool

LOL ... Jamie C

You know the funniest thing though
What ome lazy azz fakers call cockney is actaully cockney which is looked down upon

I wonder how I hear Lewis Hamilton audibly while Jermain defoe speaks crappy engris

Nuff said

Colo mentality

naijababe: ^ Honestly, you need to hear Jamie Carragher No one on this God given planet can convince me that guy speaks English.

Ywep the the Liverpudlian account... same with Steven Gerrard
But dem be white man na,,,

Have you heard Fergie speak or Bill Clinton's drawl

Colo Mentality....

naijababe: There is nothing more laughable than ignorant condescension. How can you pronounce a word without accent? Do you even know the meaning of accent? The English word 'ABOUT' is pronounced 'aboot' by a vast majority of Scots, I guess that makes them terrible 'native' speakers



You are trying too hard to sound intelligent, a persons's language and accent is part of their identity, feel free to educate me further when you are ready to make a point as opposed to this gobbledeygook you are harping on here.

I can see that the Dutch example is lost on you, how about another one, huh?!. A German would pronounce 'the' as 'Ze', should he get his knickers in a twist just because he cannot say 'The' like the English would. You are yet to tell me exactly what is wrong with speaking with an accent.



PIGEON ko DOVE ni . It is written 'PIDGIN' and every language has a version of it, ever heard of cockney english?! It is a form of 'PIDGIN' spoken widely in Eastern parts of London. If you've never heard it before half the things said would be lost on you, but that is 'vernacular English' now, so it is okay, right?



English is the official language in England, Scotland and Wales yet I hear them use all manner wrong pronunciations, you should try watching Eastenders or Coronation Street sometime

You can accommodate pronunciation which completely changes the meaning of a word but not one that you can still infer what the speaker intends ? You really should stop trolling, I know you can't help it.

You killed it.
But the ze as The would never make sense to her as an accent since it is coming from abroad and an Aryan or Caucasian
So it is good..

I don't know how people can turn themselves into self-professed authorities on a language which is a prostituted one and is a far cry from the one spoken by the Anglo-Saxons

To the extent that people are now ashamed of accents na wa o

Even the people of GB have accents
The geordiesn the maggies, the highlanders yet you are not more british than them

Americans get their own accent yet you are not more american than them

Except you tell me the southern drawl is not an accent again

canadians pronounce 'about' as aboat
Are they not speaking engris again

Choose your own and be content with it
If it's your lot to teach your children english so that by ten they have a vocab of 5 million words considering for everyday convo you only need about 10000 words or less sef in your active vocab for it

If you believe that they can learn the important aspects of english and combine it with one or two native languages go for it

But nigeria is a country where we are ashamed to speak our language

I've met dutch and germans abnd they are comfortable with their lanaguage and english too

It does not diminish them

Colo mentality a la fela

playah P: You see, the op said her lecturer WANTS to have sex with her.
First of all, the project supervisor has not committed any crime.

From the information I can gather from the post, the lecturer is not trying to force himself on you or make you do it agains your consent right

Okay... Let's forget the fact he's a lecturer and she's a student... Is there anythiung wrong in an adult seeking for intimate pleasures with another adult....

As long as he is not trying to bully you to his bed, I suggest you just give him a straight forward answer.... "I'm not ready for that yet"

But before any man will approach a woman for sex, there has to be a "meeting point"..... I believe you have been his little bird.... Passing all his exams and you guys have been close to each other for a while...... I might be wrong but if dat is d case, wat d Bleep did u expect

you seeming started well but still crapped in the end
There is EVERYTHING WRONG with a supervisor/superior propositioning a subordinate
If you like your student, let her finish her courses with you then go for her

Its about ethics and being above board

This particular instance is of one using his authority or positionto harass the lady

jhydebaba: I feel like slapping u right now. After sleeping with all male lecturers in ur school, u have the guts to come to an online forum to spew shyte.

Pls save ur advice for ur daughters

i tire oo... that is the kind of grads that we are getting
Suggesting she stetle with money or do the thing..

diamondcrownltd: all u know is to use ur phones to ping,twit,post pictures on fb and listen to dbanj,u don,t know that u can use ur phones to record discussions u can use as evidence and make sure u always call his full names and titles when discussing or buy a face cap with video camera

choi,.. u wicked oo
But if this is true and the girl cant think of anything to solve this age old problem,, then some girls aint so smart

fellis: xxxxxxx

you quoted a dodgy research, did you actually read the article
Except below:

The practical implications of Flynn's data remain unclear, especially because many education experts have criticized IQ tests for only measuring the ability to give the textbook correct answer to a question and ignoring more creative types of thinking.