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\unforrtunately the issue hs been diverted into the normalcy or abnormalcy of male libido and as usual the man is the one who is cursed to have an abnormal s.ex drive

Everyone else says their husband has "normal" s.ex drive yet i believe affairs or one nigt stands abound around AND WE ALL KNOW IT.

In this instance the woman may have lower than average libido and expects useful recommendations from the family section
Advice shd be given with open mind and not projecting what people do to manage this in their own homes

A child thinks his fathers farm is the biggest

[size=28pt]Lack of s,ex drive in women (lack of libido)[/size]


Lack of sex drive (lack of libido) is common in women, but quite rare in men.
The American Medical Association has estimated that several million US women suffer from what doctors there call 'female s.exual arousal disorder' (FSAD).
However, currently there seems to be an FSAD bandwagon, driven by doctors who think that nearly half the female population (43 per cent) lack s.ex drive. Such a high number really doesn't seem likely.
In the UK, family planning clinics and Relate (or Relationships Scotland) clinics see quite large numbers of women who complain of low libido. Our estimate is that at any one time, several hundred thousand women in Britain are troubled by lack of s.ex drive.
Many of these women have no problems with having orgasms. Rather, they have no real desire to have s.ex and their minds are not turned on by the prospect of love-making.


Read more: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/lackingsexdrive.htm
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u dey ok so...


wetinn go happn to ur twins....

hope u r working first cos otherwise na hunger u dey play with

byvan: Hopefully the wh*re mongers will be patronising their daughters in the nearest future,Its just the circle of life.May God bless them with 10 daughters each to keep them delightfully entertained.

Good to see your judgemental streak is back on NL

Damon03: I like how passionate u are....

Thanks brah..
Thanks for the correction ella_b

He couldnot ...

Brotherly love

Eliijah

this butt curvature looks unreal and disproportionate

kish beke are you taking silicone injections

ganagagi: Pls advise me my father said i should divorce one of my belove wife,what is d islamic rulling on this isue. because i seriusly love her and my insisted that i should divorce her

u wanted to divorce her now she is leaving and u r spazzin here...

mupppet

rokiatu: When it comes to dissing Elena I swear am with you. Stefan can do better. Am here after all.

nice one

Troublesome wife your cousin no send you

She stab your wife

How your wife take enter d mix
You sef remove rat from cheese na

Reduce interactions since violence don enter am

rokiatu: Sorry mannh trust me I just got a bit upset when you were talking about elena been too young for love. Because that is how people used to say the same thing about me lol so I took it a bit personal. And everyone here knows am a huge stelena fan so lol but sorry once again.


On a more serious note, you have got to be kidding me about that age thing, I know so many 25 yrs old in love and they are dumb as fu...ck knows nothing about love and immature. Age has nothing to do with love.

It's ok.. I guessed in my mind something ticked you off hence I did not go off yet

Actually not that I don't believe in young love.. I do in some instances

My cousin met his now wife when they were in high school so that sound just right. young love works at times

However my issue with them is that for someone who is in the world of despicable creatures and wnats to protect hert loved ones; she is too soft

I respected steffan takin a lil blood for his strenth, bonnie prepared to sacrifice herself, isobel immolating himself and even damon getting a wolf bite to protect this same gal

BUT ELENA JUST THINKS EVRYTHING WILL SORT ITSELF OUT

Her cry at the waterfall really was pathethic considering she says she wants to have kids etc bb and you are dating a vampire

Rant over..

You get?

rokiatu: Seriously stop talking because you.

@roki
Did you read what you wrote
Stop talkin about vampire diaries or about the puppy love

Did you actually refer to me and abuse me
Not cool....not cool and really unexpected from you

I've heard a lot about you the crazy impulsive brother in love with his brother's girl friend

This kalus is a bad guy o
SoRry o Jules you be d backup plan
(though I never liked you )

Daman na backup yeh

kulyie: ha this one that many married women around me and even in nairaland are complaining that their husbands are killing them with s3x,shey when i marry like this my own husband no go break my small waist wey i still dey swing about use do shakara.lol nawa o

@ doctors in the house please is there any drug that men can use or can be put in their food to make their libido reduce to that of the wifes own? Please i need answer o so that potential mr kulyie will not kill me with s3x

tsk tsk...im sure there are drugs but not advisable as it is a new area and effects are still being studied

Chemical castration


read more here

Google Search - S.ex Drive Reduction
http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/29299-drugs-to-reduce-sex-drive/

This stefan elena puppy love is so sickening

17 yas old and she thinks she knows what lurf is

Then she cries like a puppy at the water falls
YUICK'KKKKKK



Now I'm startin to like damon again

This kalus guy is so white
Good looking guy though.. Joseph martin

Hope he makes it in hollywood

Now tyler came for his mum
All is set

S2 episode 20

This kalus guy is so white
Good looking guy though.. Joseph martin

Hope he makes it in hollywood

The warlocks daughter is pretty

Klaus a hybrid?

[quote author=maxwello.yg]each and his own ke? Before u dy yarn say she dey tired make d guy free am, now na each to his own? I think you are confused and have 2 mouths[/quote]

greatgod2012: @op, if this story is true, then, its a small issue, i cant advise you to continously deny your hubby of s*x on the basis of tiredness, for how long will that continue neither can i ask you to kill/work up yourself, but, this is your marriage and men's libido is usually higher than that of women, so, knowing this, you will have to devise a means of balancing things up here, thank God both of you are in the same proffession, so, its easier, just change the timing, lobatan, it doesnt have to be continously in the night, do it in the dawn/morning, when you both are still fresh and agile for it, i tell you, from experience, you will enjoy it.

And for those who asked if s*x is a food to men............ hhhhhhhmmmmm, yes, it is, for those who do not know, for example, abuse a man for not been rich, he will say..........na God will do it, but call a man an impotent and see how he reacts madly with you. Men's libido are usually greater/higher than women's. Its God's handiwork. Sincerely, for men who are faithful to their wives, lets give them "gbosas", it requires a lot of self-determination and self control for them, because, naturally, a woman can hardly satisfy a man s*xually, but for the reason that they want to keep to their marriage vows, they controls themselves and close their eyes against all other ladies and are satisfied with only their wives, such men deserve to be treated with all respect and love, and for this singular reason, i dont deny and will never deny my hubby(unless its unavoidably necessary).
No matter how tired a man is, believe me, there is always a reserved energy for s*x for them, thats how God did it, and not much can we do about it.
Also, s*x is one of the essential pillars that hold marriages together, a marriage in which one party continuosly denies the other party of s*x is no longer a marriage, its become "manage" or worststill, neighbours, and no matter how people try to settle the dispute among them, unless the erring party changes, the problem continues, if one party is deprived of s*x.
Btw, s*x has been proved to be a remedy for tiredness.
May God help us all.

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desirel: biologically sex has the opposite efect over women; it's make us feel relax and energize, because of the hormons realease (serotonine, dopamine and oxytocine). i understand "the feeling tired", but once you started the effect is great over the body and mind. so at the end is about wanting or not; it's a choise.

hmm.....

rokiatu: We are here talking about season 4, you are still behind town Klaus is in Alaric body they are not the same person.

just found out

and there's a white witch too ..... lol

bonnie on super 100 witch juice

ps am tired of elena goodie goodie
she has no power nor information yet she's always trying to protect people who can protect themselves n her

jpcomrade: Must a child carry his/her father's semblance,why our women will always insist that their children take after their fathers even when it is obvious that the reverse is the case. I was telling a mother sometime that her son carries her semblace but she swiftly rebuffed it by saying no 'his father'until when a neutral man had to intervene in my favour. This is not the first time this would be happening and it has left me to the big question that MUST A CHILD TAKE AFTER HIS/HER FATHER and why not mother and why would they always want to impose the former even when latter is the case, any undertone to this?

The woman is married to a traditional family
Me I've seen male kids sef that are splits of the mum
Na genetics

carmelion: Lol,Well no be so.Its just that,once I leave my bed in the morning,I hardly have a quiet time to draft and post my own comments here .Happy weekend

Nice
I dey night school

Alarick ? Klaus

Well done carmi you no dey sleep

Voodoo zodiac ish

Unfollows promptly

@CFCfan

That 15 dey vex persin sha
Funny ones are
Nos 5 and 12

MMotimo:

Who told you there is a high rate of graduate housewives in Naija? I don't think your stats are accurate at all. Majority of Naija wives have an income so where are you getting that from?

Here's a tip:

Discuss your concerns with her before saying "I do". Marry someone whose word you can take to the bank, spend time on courtship and I pray that you not jam a deceiver who will renege on your agreements or cause you trouble. Which one be "fret"

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Chaulay1: Over flogged issue.

I'm forced to agree with this

There are so many threads on this housewife v careerwife issue

Everyone should do what works for them and bear the consequences of their (in)actions.

Ish

Chill out a lil
Happy weekend

FOOTBALL - SEX RELATED.....

1. Going to your bf/gf without being invited = OFFSIDE

2. A girl who does men on top = TOP GOAL SCORER

3. Dating a girl today and having sex on the same day = FREE-KICK

4. Condom = GOAL-KEEPER

5. Condom breaks = PENALTY

6. A gal who talks bad about her ex after sex = SIDE TALK

7. Abortion = RED CARD

8. A girl with lots of energy = CAPTAIN

9. Having sex without a condom = OWN-GOAL

10. Taking a lot of time without cuming = MAN OF THE MATCH.

11.Banging 3 girls in a day= HATTRICK.

12. Trying to lure a lady to bed and she gets your plan = Diving in d 18yard box.

13. Having many Dicks & banging all = MVP(Most valuable Player)

14. Having sex with your ex = Friendly Match

15. 8 years of sex without getting a child = Arsenal

16. After 2 rounds ,u request for more =Extra time.

17. Taking it gently when having sex = Fairplay

18. Bitting her nipples/his Dick= Luis Suarez

19.Two legs on shoulder =Throwing.

20. Asking her 'how do want it' =taking instructions from d sideline.

21. A lady using pills after sex & later still got pregnant = defensive error

22.Girl being pregnant= Goal.....

Abegi o...i take god beg una,,
make una no sp.unk this thread o

dayokanu: Defintely I understand you, Temporary situations are understandable and acceptable e.g Reading for an exams, The health isnt too good, She needs to be in school etc

Those ones are working at something that would benefit them and their family in the future cant be liabilities they are Assets or better still "Work in Progress" Like an asset under construction

But the ones who just sit at home, No job, no trade, no plans waiting for husband

Any situation can change so saying stuff like Pray to God for blah bla blah doesnt cut it. The sweet and generous husband can change tomorrow and change the password to the account, he might lose his job, He might die So what happens to you

The irony of this issue is that the illiterate women are not even doing this they are in Alade, balogun, Katangwa market from dusk to dawn

Its the educated I have a 2-1 I want a masters women that are now content with 10yrs of sitting at home waiting for Husband before she buys toothpaste

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damiso:
I get what you mean and believe me i share that mindset.I believe you should never depend 100% financially on another human being as an adult.When i was in university i used to sell just cos my parents used to give me the necessities and i wanted nice stuff without carrying aristo.I used to sell for my mum and my profits would go on clothes.During holidays or strikes i would use my mum and dad contacts for coporate gifts or hampers and use my proceeds for stuff.That is just me as an individual thinking that if i want extra,i need to work for it.

Some people dont want extra.They are ok with the basics.And some people can afford the basics on just one income.Me that i like extra is it not hypocritical to then start judging someone who can survive on basic cos me i prefer to work to get extra?My mindset has changed alot since becoming a mother but if i am being honest,one of my main motivations in the past for making money was so i could buy nice expensive things.When i was newly married cos my husband had been living as a bachelor for a while and i relocated to join him,he paid most of the bills.Na wetin i dey use my money do,shoes,bags,jewellery,£180 hair etc.In short i was just buying rubbish.And i would argue that i need my own money lai lai you cant tell me not to work.How is that more honourable than one who is not working probably to dedicate time to her kids? (i don change now though i still like to splurge once in a while speaking of which i need to go hide something in my wardrobe before Oga finds it,am supposed to be broke )

All am just saying is i refuse to judge someone else who stays home and does not bring in an income cos i might not know the full story.(that said if you agree to stay home on a reduced income pls dont whine if you cant buy brazilian hair,adults should be able to face up to consequences of their actions or inactions).

I like these POVs